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By D'Arcy Vandenberg


10 Products I Use on My Midlife Shoulder Length Hair Do

10 Products I Use on My Midlife Shoulder Length Hair Do

Hello Pretty Ladies, 

I hope you had a great weekend. Mine was full of work. I tried to finish everything to enjoy our son’s wedding week and schedule all my work to post automatically. We’re excited about this union and to have our family be a part of it together. This week on Instagram and the blog, I am sharing Wedding inspo from the Mother of the groom & bride, dresses, make-up, hair inspo, bridal jewelry, shoes, etc. Yesterday, I shared the Bridal shower I hosted for my future daughter-in-law. You can read and view in HERE. 

I was having had an impromptu hair tutorial for last week’s live (view here). I happened to be doing the live in our bathroom to share some of my latest beauty happy mail, which made it easy to share what products I use and how I style my hair. Having had several questions when I started live, I just went with it and shared all the details. This prompted today’s blog post, “10 Products I Use on My Midlife Shoulder Length Hair”. I explained how I care for my hormonally damaged midlife hair and how I styled my straight hair to hold a curl.

Want to know what supplements and products I take that have made a huge difference in my skin, hair, and weight in midlife? This blog post covers it all. 

10 Products I Use on My Midlife Shoulder Length Hair Do

10 Products I Use on My Midlife Shoulder Length Hair Do

Colleen Rothschild Shampoo & Conditioner

Quench & Shine Restorative Shampoo

Quench & Shine Restorative Shampoo is an ultra-hydrating, color-safe shampoo infused with Moringa Oil and Shea Butter to lock in moisture and add lustrous shine without weighing hair down.

Biotin and Niacinamide deliver essential nourishment, leaving hair feeling restored, healthy, and strong. It is designed for everyday use and is perfect for all hair types. It is free of Parabens and Sulfates.

Replenish & Shine Daily Conditioner

REPLENISH & SHINE DAILY CONDITIONER is enriched with Baobab and Ivy Extracts to help protect and repair, transforming dull, brittle strands into robust and healthy hair. Starting at application, a complex blend of nourishing plant oils, including Poppy and Sacha Inchi Oil, offers instant slip and a daily hydration infusion. The lightweight formula never feels heavy or weighed down.

Save 20% off on all Colleen Rothchild Products with code DARCY20

SEVEN Kente Bond Spray

Last step of a 3-part hair repair system. Locks in luster reduce blow-dry time and ensure ongoing hair health.

I use this product after I’ve washed and conditioned my hair, right before I brush it out. 

 

SEVEN haircare – Kente BOND Serum

A serum with Vit E & Blueberry Extract- Restorative Serum for Damaged Hair – Smooth & Seal Split Ends – Sulfate Free & Paraben Free – 3.2 oz.

A restorative elixir that smooths and seals damaged cuticles, resulting in softer, shinier, and healthier-looking hair.
Heat Protection: I apply heat protection to wet hair from mid-length to ends, brushing out before blow drying for a transformative finish. 

Colleen Rothschild Protect & Perfect Styling Cream

Colleen Rothschild Protect & Perfect Styling Cream—PROTECT & PERFECT STYLING CREAM is a lightweight, leave-in treatment that uses a blend of Shea and Cupuaçu Butter to help defend against heat and humidity, smoothing hair while maintaining body and movement. Argan and Moringa Oil help impart shine and tame flyaways without weighing hair down. It is perfect before air and blow-drying.

Save 20% off on all Colleen Rothchild Products with code DARCY20

Dry Bar Triple Sec

Dry Bar Triple Sec– A three-in-one formula that texturizes, amplifies, and refreshes hair, providing instant texture, volume, and body. I use this product before curling my hair at the roots and ends. ( I don’t use it on my layers) only at the root.

Detox Original Scent Dry Shampoo

Dry Bar Dry Shampoo– This formula leaves hair with extra volume and a matte finish. Microfine rice powders absorb excess oils and odors. As they absorb, they become translucent to naturally blend with all hair colors and expand to provide lift in the roots. Golden root extract increases moisture to prevent dryness and breakage. It features the brand’s Original fragrance with jasmine, sandalwood, and Madagascar vanilla notes.

Kenra Volume Hair Spray 

Kenra Volume Spray 25 -provides the maximum volume and hold possible. It leaves hair looking natural and shiny while imparting the strength and volume necessary to make any style last all day.

Bombay Hair Curling Wand

Bombay Hair Curling Wand Set 5 in 1 Curling Wand, Professional Curling Iron Tourmaline Kit & Salon Beauty Tools Interchangeable – Heat Resistant Glove & Temperature Control. I use the 32mm clamp barrel. 

Hair Clips

Styling Hair Clips—This hair Clip Set includes 10 Premium Alligator Hair Styling Clips and no-cease hair Accessories for Women. These handheld crocodile clips are perfect for straightening, styling, blow drying, coloring, cutting, bathing, or even working out. Their springs adjust automatically to hold any hair, regardless of amount, thickness, or type. They are perfect hair clips for styling and hair clips for women.

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Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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What be is wear the Month of LOVE ❤️ 💋🩷🎀

February, is a month I celebrate love all moth! 
 It’s a month that’s full of Birthdays, Valentine’s Day and our Anniversary 💋🍾❤️🎀🩷

Do it’s a perfect time to wear hearts & bows and 
With My love of Pink 🩷 &Red❤️

It’s fun to pull out all things Valentine and celebrate LOVE ALL month…

The perfect way to shake your Winter blues and cheer up with happy colors and 🩷❤️🎀💋
LOVE

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3 Outfits by @coofandyofficial Great Quality Men’s 3 Outfits by @coofandyofficial Great Quality Men’s fashion designer in England at affordable Amazon prices✔️

Which looks your favorite⬇️

Hudson- Dressed sharp — Brown/olive-green plaid pattern jacket and olive vest, white shirt, dark tie, black dress pants, and  dress shoes. 

Ben- rocking a laid-back vibe perfect for travel-with a grey ribbed cardigan over a black shirt, grey sweatpants or joggers, black cap, dark sunglasses, and sneakers — very relaxed/cool-dad energy • 

Hampton- Chill Streetwear look-Super casual in a grey sweatshirt (V-neck style), grey sweatpants/joggers, black beanie, and dark sneakers.

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-Perfect with tee shirts too
-Come in several colors
-Pretty Scallop & Lace details 
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-Great stretch 
-No dig wide Shoulder straps for support
-Comes with an extender 

❤️💋Your going to love & they make great gift (come in a nice box)

GreatValentine’s Day Gift 💝 She’ll love and wear💋🎀

💋Now $17.99 -22.99 for a limited time Deal 
 

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—Over 50 Style— Two Outfits✔️ Wardrobe builders —Over 50 Style—

Two Outfits✔️

Wardrobe builders you’ll wear on repeat, be able to style multiple ways and wear NOW and into Spring by @lyssenewyork 

Slide➡️ To view each outfit, details and tips on every photo✔️

These are classic pieces, that fit great and have a little extra something✔️

Have you tried anything from Lysse’? If not, you really will adore the quality and the fit!

Most all of their pants have a hidden tummy control panel & and do comfy✔️

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#lyssenewyork #wardrobebasics #wardrobemusthave #midlifeinfluencers
What to Wear…. When you don’t know what to wear✔️✔ What to Wear…. When you don’t know what to wear✔️✔️✔️

Everyone has these 3 items in their closet….
✔️Turtleneck
✔️Jeans
✔️Boots

And it always works and looks good… but let’s take it to the next level…..

The “3rd” piece….is key to creating an outfit that makes a statement…

Sharing 4 Amazon Finds that change the look completely…and give you 4 looks you’ll love and wear on repeat!!!

-Classic plaid
-Leopard Fur
-Suede “members only” jacket
-Denim & Pearl

What’s your Favorite?

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#midlifestyle #amazonfind #whattowearnow #over50fashion
How cool girls over 50 pattern mix and layer✔️ Pe How cool girls over 50 pattern mix and layer✔️

Perfect for Valentine’s Day 
❤️💋 When you want to be festive but not a 💋❤️ lover✔️

I’d wear this to grab a coffee, have lunch with a friend, help at school or a cute everyday style.

I think you’ll love the Mix of price points & I have a discount code on the jeans✔️

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#midlifestyle #ladyinred💋
—Vlog— Surgery Day How I prepared the morning of —Vlog—
Surgery Day

How I prepared the morning of surgery to remove my 
Melanoma Cancer on my face…

A few things that helped me for the 4-6 hour surgery day.

-Started day with Warm lemon water 
-Prayers, Devotion and journaling. (This helps start your day off right and with strength and peace)🙏🏻
- My Doctor suggested having high protein (I made A high protein Smootie with High antioxidants & Vic C for healing

- Washed hair & styled as I wasn’t sure when I would get to take a shower & wash hair,due to Stitches & bandages on face.

- Essentials, ear buds to listen to a podcast or audio book, my lap top in case I wanted to watch a movie, ice water, a protein bar, lip gloss, a charger and a hair tie❤️

- Comfortable Clothing 

If you want more details on my Melanoma Journey 💪🏻I have two LIVES🎥 in feed SHARING the details the day before, on what to look for, what the difference is between skin cancer and melanoma, what mine looked like and  What procedure the surgeon is doing , as what we did prior to prep, and answering questions-labeled Part one in feed and I am wearing a denim top.
&
-The day after surgery- sharing how it went, results, how I felt, a peek at how far the stitches went, what care is, and next steps as well as answering a ton of questions I received in DMs.  That one you’ll see the bandage on my face😉

I am being very real and authentic with you in sharing this journey, to help spread awareness on the importance of having your skin checked by a dermatologist.🧑‍⚕️👩‍⚕️

While also showing how smoothing so small can take a lot of work to be removed, while also showing…. It will be ok, and you may feel scared and think you’ll never look the same, but you can be brave, trust the process and we’ll heal and look normal again:) It just takes time😉❤️💋💪🏻🙏🏻

Update: Today is 7 days after surgery and I had my stitches taken out yesterday! 
Now the real healing begins. 
I finally had a decent nights sleep, my face is swollen, I don’t look like Frankenstein anymore😉 and although the scar goes from my under eyelashes to my jaw, it looks better then I thought it would. It’s pretty flat and the Dr, who stitched me up did an amazing job. ❤️#melanoma
Over 50 Style… At any age YOU can re-write your s Over 50 Style…

At any age YOU can re-write your story…

Winter outfit inspiration✔️
Color combo Wine & Camel

3 things you can never go wrong with adding to your wardrobe at any age, and the pieces work for any style, depending on how you style them…

-Long Coat
-Turtleneck 
-Trousers

*Handmade Clutch by @coastalclutchny 

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#midlifejourney #knowyourstrengths #styleover50
❄️🏂🎿🏅The Winter Olympic’s Are coming❄️🇺🇸⛷️ @jcre ❄️🏂🎿🏅The Winter Olympic’s
Are coming❄️🇺🇸⛷️ 

@jcrew hosted a fun POP-Uo shop at @goldenerhirschauberge 

To preview and shop their Winter Olympic alpine ski & Snowboard collection

A festive shopping experience with a live DJ, fire pit seating and serving fondue, with @deervalleyresort serving as the perfect backdrop. 

This collection isn’t available in stores but you can comment “SHOP” and I’ll send you a link to the collection and what I purchased for myself and for my hubbies birthday✔️

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#jcrewstyle #winterolympics #midlifestyle #parkcity #utahblogger
Forever your girl…. Sharing Style over 50✔️ Ward Forever your girl…. Sharing 
Style over 50✔️

Wardrobe basics you’ll wear on repeat with a little nautical vibe.

Perfect for Spring Break, yet perfect to mix and match to wear year round.

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#over50fashion  #midlifestyle #jjillstyle #springstyles
Post Cancer surgery update …. Cancer - Melanoma Post Cancer surgery  update ….

Cancer - Melanoma part 2 

Questions answered on Melanoma/difference from Skin Cancer/ surgery/care/questions from my DMs etc.

Part 1 LIVE is in feed 2nd over from this post (in Denim top with a bow)

Thank you for all your prayers, DMs and love! 
I really appreciate and love this community ❤️❤️❤️

#skincancerawareness #melanoma #midlifewellness #healthjourney
Want to change the world? Start with yourself…. Want to change the world? Start with yourself…. 

I love the lyrics of this song❤️🙏🏻❤️ and it’s really hit home with me ❤️🙏🏻

Many of you know I had MOHS surgery yesterday, and I’ve been sharing my Melanoma Cancer Journey with all of you in hopes to bring more awareness around how important it is to get your skin checked✔️

With the overwhelming amount if Dm questions, well wishes, prayers  and responses to me going live and requests to share the full processes & response to my poll today in stories❤️

I’ll be going LIVE at 4:00 pm Mnt time Today…. ⚠️ 

To answer some of the questions, give you an update on surgery and tell you how I am feeling❤️🙏🏻

Thank you to all of you, who have prayed for me, prayed for my surgical team and my healing, sent sweet messages and have had me in your thoughts!

I truly appreciate your support and this community❤️ 

Now… let’s talk about something fun…. How cute are these New pieces by Spanx…

I’ll be sharing a few ways to style this blazer and tousers this week✔️✔️✔️

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#cancerawarness #melanoma #cancerjourney #midlifewellness #spanxstyle
—Live— Part 1 of my Melanoma Journey… —Live—

Part 1 of my Melanoma Journey…
Not how I thought I’d be WALKing into 2026… Melan Not how I thought I’d be WALKing into 2026…

Melanoma center stage on my face….

I will definitely be stepping into MY POWER.. (as this song suggests) and testing my strength ✔️🙏🏻

As I share this Journey with you, in hopes to spread awareness on this deadly & aggressive form of Cancer.
Melanoma is different from skin Cancer, I’ll be sharing more about that as well. 

I’ll be sharing:
-What to look for
-The procedures and steps
-The treatments & time frames
-My journey in the process

🙏🏻I have my full trust in God and know, I am in his hands🙏🏻💙 I’ve already seen blessings 

⚠️LIVE  Monday on a LIVE at 6:00 pm Mnt 
Sharing⬇️
- How by Chance and a God blessing, I caught it…
- What stage I am & the differences 
- What procedures I’ve had done already 
-How I am preparing for surgery on Tuesday 27th
-How I am doing emotionally 

🙏🏻 If you’re a prayer warrior, I would love for you to keep me in your prayers. 

💙 If you haven’t had a skin check 📈 Make an appointment 

❤️🌸Thank you for being here, your support means the world to me and please know, I will be continuing to share my regular content, as sharing, styling & creating brings me joy.

I just might be a little scary looking at times😉😂 Because you know I like being real with you…❤️🌸🙏🏻

If this is something you’ve gone through or know someone that has:) please share below and join in the conversation on Monday!

#melanoma #melanomaawareness #skincancerawareness #midlifewellness
5 Days of Family Fun … Wrapped up in 20 Photos✔️ 5 Days of Family Fun …
Wrapped up in 20 Photos✔️

I can’t tell you how fun the last 5 days have been full of family, adventures, building memories and reminiscing of past. 

Although we do try to get together often, this was one of those rare times, we actually had more time, more intention and something Nana, really needed more then ever❤️ 

No rushing, no drama just togetherness and enjoying each other …

Along with some fun Utah activities and places. It truly was a great time together ❤️

I’ve been sharing a lot in stories 🎥

Planing a trip to Utah?
Here’s a few places and things we did, that everyone enjoyed.

@thegrandamerica (the cocktail lounge is where we surprised nana) beautiful hotel, great cocktails & live piano & harp music- gorgeous lights and the Laurel restaurant is so good.

@proskijor  Horse & Ski Event in Heber (2 day event) 2 dates and locations on calendar for Utah 

Midway -a cute little Swiss town next to Heber, with great restaurants and little shops. @ballerinafarmstore  is located here and a must stop.

Park City & Deer Valley- Great Ski town full of everything you’d expect and more. @jcrew had a Olympic Clothing collab pop-up (I had to check out) 

With a large group & perfect for Car  enthusiasts Billy Blanko Mexican restaurant can accommodate you and it’s a very fun vibe part of @billwhiterestaurants 

@themercantile_on25th  is a great brunch & The girls loved the iced lattes 

@snowbasinresort is our local ski resort (my families fav) Stunning lodges with good food to hang out in , if your not a skier and amazing terrain if you are🎿🚠

I’ll be sharing more details and a few more fun things later this week……Wait tell you see what the highlight of everyone’s Trip was….I bet you can’t guess💙💙

It’s something EVERYONE loves and can’t get enough of 💙

#familyfirst❤️ #familyvacay #utahtrip #wintervacation
Never underestimate the power of joy & the healing Never underestimate the power of joy & the healing family can bring❤️🙏🏻

When 6 Grandchildren & their spouses along with parents traced from 3 states to surprise their Nana….

Not only did they get the reaction they hoped for…. They gave her what she needed❤️❤️

It’s been one year since we lost Papa and this surprise lifter her sprints more than they could have hoped for. 

5 days of family bonding, sightseeing in Utah with love and a lot of laughter! 

I highly recommend a family surprise visit to help lift a family members spirit.

There wasn’t a dry eye 🥹in the lounge at the @thegrandamerica 
One of the waiters came up and said “I knew something special was going to happen… Was the sweetest thing to watch🥹❤️”
He even thank all of us❤️❤️❤️

(I think he wanted to hug Nana too😉😂)

The joy of family, family heals, lifting your spirits

#familyfirst❤️ #nanatime #grandkids #grandkid
As A over 50 Year old —Winter Outfits— I’ve worn As A over 50 Year old

—Winter Outfits—
I’ve worn Recently

15 Outfit Inspo
-Casual & Cozy
-Apres Ski
-Work Wear
-Elevated Casual
-Datenight
-Coffee Date 

Which outfits your Favorite ?

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#winteroutfitideas #winterstyles #midlifeinfluencers
❄️January❄️ Winter Wear SALE perfect for over 50 ❄️January❄️
Winter Wear  SALE perfect 
for over 50 Style…

Come with me and see what I found you’ll love this Winter…and years to come ✔️

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#wintercoats #nordstromsale #midlifestyle
A flash back to 2016 …. The changes and the simil A flash back to 2016 ….

The changes and the similarities from 10 Years ago!

Sharing 20 photos… looking back at Instagram trends, fashion, what photos caught people’s attention, what I shared back then and some pinch me moments! 

Still having pinch me moments as a midlifer, in a career that didn’t even exist until 2010 and really didn’t start picking up steam until 2015/16

Isn’t that crazy… and think of all the new careers still to come….

#instagram2016 #tenyearsago #midlifeblogger #instagramjourney
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