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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Ways to Entertain and Dress Festive for 4th of July

 

 

Friday Bar cart styling summer Nautical, Watermelon moscow mules

Friday Bar cart styling summer Nautical, Watermelon moscow mules

Bar cart day bbq , bar cart styling , bbq fun,

Can you believe the 4th of July is a little over a week away! Seriously Summer just flies by, and I love to soak up every minute of it. This year the 4th is going to look a little different for all of us. Many of the activities we all love and enjoy May be canceled,  For instance, parades, festivals, firework displays, and breakfast in the parks. however, this doesn’t mean we can’t celebrate American and this great Country in a little different way. (Did you know Utah is the number 1 most patriotic state?) Family BBQs, Backyard pool parties, or a lake day, little sidewalk fireworks, or even a small neighborhood firework display (if allowed in your city). Family and friends are what makes a Holiday special, So put on that American the great playlist, Plan the grocery shopping list and pull out all the stops on your Home decorating.

Our front porch welcomes & celebrates America, and I hope it gets you excited for what’s beyond the front door.  I wanted to share with you a red, white, and blue nautical Bar cart perfect for serving drinks, a festive snack table to keep guests happy and tummies full before dinner, and our Stars and stripe dining table perfect for entertaining a small crowd. I hope they will inspire you to entertain this 4th of July and maybe make some new traditions.

   Tip for creating an eclectic and festive tablescape for entertaining is to gather up all the items you have in the colors theme you are using, here, of course, is red, white, and blue. Don’t worry about the patterns. A mix is part of the fun. Place all our items in your workstation, take inventory and see what your missing (plates or glasses, etc.) This act will allow for easier shopping. Another tip would be to collect items that can quickly work for other occasions (think solid colors, patterns not necessarily the Holiday pattern.)

   Try to think of other Holidays or events you could use items to decorate with. Say the Red polka dot bowl. The item could be used for Christmas, Valentine’s day, 4th of July, and even a Birthday.  Layering is also another tip, layering tablecloths, placemats, ribbon, chargers, etc. Layering adds texture, for instance, if I removed the mesh ribbon from the center of the table below, The centerpiece of the table would look flat and not as interesting. Layering creates texture. Play with the items you’ve collected and remember to group in odd numbers, use dishes as risers to give your display height dimensions, and use some unexpected things. Using denim pockets from old jeans for the silverware holders is unexpected and useful.

My inspiration was all things red, white, and blue, days of Summer from the past. Coke and cherries remind me of hot summer days and add a little nostalgia to the tablescape. I created easy shopping for you below. Some of the items I have used are vintage and some I have been collecting for years. I did find a lot of similar items or pieces that could easily be substituted. Mixing things collected, vintage and new gives it that fun pop.  For more Idea’s and products Shop my Amazon shops HERE

Now that we have the entertaining covered, let’s talk dressing festively. You could use the same concept I used for entertaining/ creating a tablescape, Collect all the Red white and blue clothing items and accessories, and create your outfits from the pieces you collected from your closet. You’d be surprised how many festive outfits you could put together from what you already own. Below you will find I created five 4th of July outfits from pieces I have owned for years. White Jeans HERE a Summer staple and my RED Tory Burch Miller sandals HERE are pieces I wear all supper long. Pair them with a Gingham top below and festive jewelry for that perfect Summer night outfit/BBQ. I added an easy shopping bar below to help you find a piece or two that works for all of the Summer season and perfect for the 4th of July. Shop the outfit HERE

4th of July outfit

4th of July perfection says the dress below, unfortunately, it sold out. Still, I listed some adorable alternatives below.  The straw bag is perfect for the Summer season, and I added this cute designer dupe bow pin to make it perfect for the 4th of July. Shop the look HERE or shop the post below 

4th of July outfit

Easy peezy outfit that says 4th of July without having a flag or saying 4th of July. Pulling red white and blue pieces out of your wardrobe that you wear all summer and pairing them together creates a Holiday look without actually purchasing a 4th of July item. Stripes are one of my favorite things, and I love you can mix a bold stripe and small stripe. Shop the look HERE or shop the page below

4th of July outfit

Chic and festive pulling basics out to create a Holiday look everyone can wear. Navy blazer, classic white button-up shirt, distressed jeans and could also be worn with Bermuda shorts add festive accessories, and you’re ready to celebrate.  Show the look HERE or Shop the page below

4th of July outfit

4th of July outfit

The easiest dress to wear and style multiple ways for Summer. Here we’re shooting for 4th of July and celebrating America, so I paired this polka dot maxi dress with a denim jacket, a sun hat, and a patriotic star bandana. Easy and festive. You could also swap out the denim jacket and wear a striped sweater over your shoulders. Swap out the sun hat for a festive headband. Shop the look HERE or Shop the page below

4th of July Summer outfits

Welcome to our Home. Remember, your entryway tells the story of what your guest should expect when they enter your home. Make it as festive as your tablescape. I’ve been collecting items since owning my Home decor store “Pages of tyme” back in California starting almost 24 years ago. Some of these pillows are a treasure from those days. The lady that hand made them from some of the prettiest fabrics. This flag and rose pillow are hand embroidered. Remember to collect things that bring you joy. They’ll always work in your home when you love them.

4th of July entertaining

4th of July entertaining

4th of July entertaining

4th of July entertaining

4th of July entertaining

I hope your Holiday week brings you joy and your ability to make fun memories, although they may look different this year.  Happy fourth of July! OX,D’Arcy

 

I have three blogger girlfriends that are sharing 4th of July inspiration over on their blogs! Please go check out their post: 

Rosemary= Distinctly southern style

            Gwen= Gwen Lives Well

             Heidi=www.simplyoursociety.com

Michele = Sooo Boca

You might enjoy these older post:

Easy Pot luck dish

Friday Bar cart

Christmas Holiday Tablescape

 

This post may contain affiliate links. All opinions are my own. I only promote brands that I genuinely love and believe. Thank you for your support! 

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Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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-Cozy cardigan 
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I do have goals, but mine aren’t a yearly driven task, I’ve even done the word for the year, several times.
I write down what I would like to accomplish, and even new habits I’d like to try and achieve but what I’ve found in my life that really works, and I’ve found helps me achieve more, feel at peace and yet driven at the same time is…

-Asking my  Lord and savior to define my priorities.
-My Time, My work balance, my relationships etc.

-Ask Him to show me where to focus my energies, what & where to let go, and where I am pursuing a goal for the wrong motive.

I’ve found It’s better to have a few goals that honor God than a bunch of them driven by selfish ambition.🙏🏻

I am more at peace, my direction is clearer, life balance is best and my priorities are clearer, which naturally makes work, life and love easier🙏🏻

Trust in his path & goals for you, as it will always work out with you achieving 🙏🏻

💙⬇️Tell me in the comments what is something you’re praying for or wanting to achieve this year?

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Come make a 🎣fisherman pole pretzel treat with me… Come make a 🎣fisherman pole pretzel treat with me….

Perfect for a Baby Shower or Birthday party.🎣

You’ll need:
-Pretzel rods 
-Chocolate chips (flavor you like) I used milk and white chocolate 
-A cube of butter 1/2 in each chocolate to melt and stir for the dipping.
-String of your choice I choose white
- Buoys I purchased a bulk box of assorted sizes
-2 Clear  Glass Vases (I choose a simple mid size glass) for rods to stand out of
- 2 bags of pebble rocks (washed)  for cave
- 2 Wooded fish or if you can find plastic 

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Fishing/camping wrapping paper by @allwrappedup_giftwrap 

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Elevated Winter Outfit What I wore on a New year Elevated 
Winter Outfit

What I wore on a New years Eve DAY date with my hubby,.

We headed to Midway  a cute little Swiss town outside of deer valley.

For Lunch and a little shopping..
Walking around in this cute teen getting the fresh air and sunshine we needed.

Outfit details:

Off the shoulder sweater  a Bo from Nordstrom. This does sell out and restocks. Ilinked outer similar Off the shoulder sweaters too!❤️ tts in a small

Wax coated  wide leg pants

Faux Fur coat Amazon find and so affordable at a great price 

Dolce vita western booties 

Tennis necklace &
Anthropologie initial necklace 

Earring under $12

Bracelets by pearls by Sheri not linkable available on line

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—Happy New Year— Come set our table for New Years —Happy New Year—

Come set our table for New Years with me🍾✨

Gold and Silver with Pearl details sets the tone for this Beautiful Table.

Featuring scalloped dinner plates by @maisonmadison designed in New York and Handmade in Portugal.

Layered with gold chargers, Vintage china, Pearl handled silverware. This is an elegant place setting.

An assortment of hand picked White fresh flowers,  I arranged in 3 low arrangements paired with Sparkling disco balls are perfect for New Years. 

Pom Pom detailed napkins add a touch of whimsy, while pearl napkin rings add to the elegance. 

A clock strikes midnight and champagne details evokes the feel of New Years. 

Gold Sparkling bow champagne flutes add a touch of femininity…. Perfect for New Years… or maybe a wedding shower.

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Happy New Years🍾 Toasting to a Beautiful year ful Happy New Years🍾

Toasting to a Beautiful year full of Gods Blessings!

For you to Remeber even when things can be hard, Or not going they way you hoped, Gods plan and timing are always right❤️

No year is ever perfect, but they’re so many blessings in the small stuff. 

-Joy in the everyday moments…
-Love in the people you surround yourself with❤️
—Calm in the storm, depending on your mindset.
-A wonderful life, is up to YOU and your choices, You create your happiness. 
-We all have HARD things, your character, outcome, and emotions, are how you handle them.
-You can’t create the life or goals  you want, by doing the same things.
-Fill your circle with people who want you to succeed and who will pray for you in the God and bad times.
-It’s ok to have YOU time! Actually it’s important.
-It’s ok to say NO!

-Fill your Cup, with the thing that bring you joy peace, health and even wealth…. All in moderation ❤️

Praying for a 2026 you will feel Gods hand in❤️🙏🏻✨

🥂 cheers pretty Ladies & Thank you for being here and apart of my tribe 💋 D’Arcy

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Over 50 Style —Everyday Outfit— Or Travel… but el Over 50 Style

—Everyday Outfit—
Or Travel… but elevated and Chic✔️

What I am wearing, living in a small mountain town, this Winter✔️

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Things I Used in 2025 That Changed my Health & Wel Things I Used in 2025
That Changed my Health & Wellbeing 

As a Midlife 54 year old
Wife & Mom, who’s 
had a full hysterectomy 

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Over 50, health and wellbeing after having a complete hysterectomy and getting through menopause without hormones. 

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Do you have a… Christmas Bucket List? Make sure t Do you have a…
Christmas Bucket List?

Make sure to add this to your Holiday list, when visiting Salt Lake City, Utah in December to New Years🎄✨🍾

This is one of our Family’s favorite Holiday traditions.

Family time @thegrandamerica 
The life size Gingerbread house, the Holiday window stroll, the Garden lights and dinner and cocktails at Laurel❤️

You won’t want to miss their amazing toy store, and coffee cafe✔️

🚨Save to reference later

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I am still in sparkle mode over here✨✨ We’re on R I am still in sparkle mode over here✨✨

We’re on Round 3 of Holiday entertaining with 2 more days to go✨🍾 and we’re loving every minute with family and friends.

Which means I have even more days to dress up…. Here’s to Sparkle and shine season..✨🍾❤️💋

Holiday Outfit
Sparkle and fur✨

This is a great outfit for any winter glam social event or date night ✨🍾

NYE and Valentine’s Day… even better such great sales✔️

Switch out the sweater for a solid color or seasonal word (I have a champagne glass sweater🍾

I would wear this skirt for New Year’s Eve, a winter wedding And valentines Day.  On major SALE and my code stacks!

Sequins maxi skirt with front slit. Side zip tts I am in small 
Save 10% off with code DARCY10

Green fur hip length jacket 
On major sale

Plaid pearl collar 

Believe sweater but easily 
Switch out and wear any festive or solid color sweater 

Red satin kitten heel with rhinestone ❤️

Green stone drop earrings Anthropologie 

Green Dean Davidson gold ring and a Julie voz ring 

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