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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Get to Know Me!

Welcome to My Blog, Dear D’Arcy. This is a little “Get to know me if you will.”

It’s lovely to meet you! At Dear DArcy, I focus on Midlife Fashion and lifestyle and mix affordable with High-end. My mission is to help women look and feel great at any age while sharing positivity and a smile.

I am sharing my love of travel, cooking & entertaining, lifestyle tips, and advice. 

Are you over 40 looking for style inspiration with a classic and chic vibe and a touch of current trends to look and feel great at any age? Welcome to my Tribe,” Pretty Lady.” 

Get to know me

Lifestyle & Fashion Blogger over 50

My Goal is to help women look and feel good at any age and, at the same time, share positivity and a smile. 

As a former Boutique owner of “Chic Style” and personal Stylist, I found my customers wanted to know more about my personal life, fashion tips, personal style, health & beauty tricks. At that time, I was over 40, but now I am over 50 (people never guess my age)! I was getting daily questions about what I do for my skincare, Midlife, Hormones & weight issues, and recipes. How do I style something & “dress for my body?” How do I make something, or how do I stay organized as a mom and business owner, “do I have a blank to borrow?”….(I collect stuff) I promise I am not a hoarder. I’m always happy to share my experience or any knowledge I might have. 

Background in Interior Design

I have a decorating background (interior designer by trade) and have been the former owner of Pages of Tyme in California for 10 years. Being crafty and entertaining was a big part of my life. I can throw a party at any moment and share part of my life on the shop’s boutiques blog.  Realizing I love helping and sharing tips with others, like Dear Abby! So this is where the idea of “Dear D’Arcy” was born! It is my place to share my style, tips, and tricks for caring for myself, living my life, getting things done, decorating, staying organized, and inspiring others to “Look good at any Age!”

Get to know me

I’m hoping I can share things that work for me to help you in some small way. Wanting you to feel like you can ask me anything,  your girlfriend you can trust, and I will try to help you. From recipes to fashion, I’ve got you covered.

You can be a working mom who is chic, stylish, classic, and even trendy at any age!

Little pleasures in life are essential, and I can’t wait to start sharing mine with you, D’Arcy.

Get to know me

A Little Q&A

Answers to questions that will help you get to know me better!

  • Where were you born? California (The beach is my inner peace)
  • When did you know your career would be in fashion or interior design? At about age 2, playing with Barbies… I loved creating outfits and building her House from scratch out of boxes.
  • What would you call your style? I dress for how I feel that day! I would say I am more classic and a little trendy. I love gorgeous layers and a great pair of jeans. Accessories finish an outfit; shoes make the outfit! I love mixing affordable with labels (my mom called me Lucy, the label lover).

Just a few more:

  • What is your favorite color?  Pale pink, I also love cream & gold!
  • What is your favorite color in your Home? I am obsessed with black and white, and I am in love with black and white stripes! These two colors make changing for the seasons so easy. Add a pop of color for that season, and it works.
  • Use single words to describe yourself. She is organized, hard-working, creative, outspoken, spiritual, loving, personable, honest, talkative, stylish!
  • Favorite Bible Verse: Philippians 4:13 all things!
  • My mom and my sister are the two female cheerleaders in my life. I adore them and am lucky to have them in my life. Both are very creative: My mom is a hairdresser, and my sister is a Hollywood make-up artist.

 

Wedding Photos

Children? Yes, I am a mom of two boys. Our oldest works with my husband in our family business, Vandenberg Construction, and the youngest works in the window business. Our oldest married his dream girl on August 24, 2024, in a glass chapel in the forest. Talk about a magical wedding!

Get to know me

Are you married? Yes, I have been married to my dream guy and my biggest supporter for 30 years. In February!

What does your hubby do? He owned ski shops in California for 25 years and a construction business building homes. Ben is a talented contractor who has been building and remodeling homes for over 40 years. We’ve done many flips over the years as a team; I design the homes, and he builds them. When we moved to Utah almost 19 years ago, He helped me with our clothing boutiques and started Vandenberg construction. In the winter, you’ll find him on the slopes. He’s also my photographer!

A Few Favorites:

What are a few of your favorite things?   I love iced tea, entertaining, my porch, my family, cooking for my family, gardening, manicures I am obsessed with cute nails, bread ( I try not to eat it), Mexican food, creating cocktails, glitter, spray paint, decorating our home, traveling, and lake days. I would love to have a family compound!

Get to know me

I hope you liked getting to know me a little more.

What makes your blog different? Seeing fashion and beauty through the eyes of a “50-something” is a big difference. In my life experiences, I have been a business owner in 3 different creative fields (home decor and interiors, scrapbooking, and clothing boutiques). I show that you can change your career at any age. I love sharing things that work with my readers.

What are a few of your career achievements? Winning Kut from the Kloth’s National window display contest, South Ogden business association storefront display winner, guest fashion editor of Celestial Magazine, as well as being a stylist for six issues of Celestial Magazine, Two years with a monthly Fox 13 (The Place), fashion segments, organizing fashion shows for charity events, decorator chair for the Junior league Ogden Spring gala 2 years, a published scrapbook artist. To name a few of my favorites. Currently, I do a fashion segment on ABC’s Good Things Utah.

Get to know me

Thank you for being here, and remember, the best thing you can wear is a smile!

“Helping women look good and feel good at any age.”

OX, D’Arcy

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally
Party Season Style
Affordable and Easy Coastal Tablescape
Entertaining & Decorating
Easy Berry Lemon Tart Recipe
Recipes

Healthy Midlife Tips
Shoe Lover
The Best of The Best Cyber Week Sales 2023
Beauty Tips

Christmas Pj's for the Whole Family by Soma
Family
Styling Clients & Segment Host
6 Summer Pieces From Brindle Boutique
Sharing Travel

Services That Keep Me Pretty & Healthy:

  • Hair: Kayla Cissna at Shandalier Salon & Spa 385-626-1505
  • Wax: Jenna @ Empire wax =801-896-7007 Save 50% off with Code: DARCY50
  • Nailed Boutique = 801-532-6245
  • Eyelashes: Sharlee at Lashed 801-475-7000
  • Botox: Dr. Hillary 

*Some of my services are sponsored 

Follow me over on LIKETOKNOWIT HERE for easy shopping.

 

 

 

A Few Blog posts you might find Helpful

Midlife supplements I take HERE

Hysterectomy in Midlife HERE

One of My most Pinned Blog Posts- Building a Pizza Bar Here

 

 

 

 

D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
oxox D'Arcy

For size reference: I am 5'9 1/2
Wear a size 6 and med Top

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Who’s crushing on Butter yellow? It’s great paire Who’s crushing on Butter yellow?

It’s great paired with white and denim but come Fall it looks beautiful with shades  of grey, dark denim, and pretty paired with burgundy too for a fun twist.

This chunky knot cardigan is so good I own it in 5 colors 💛💛💛

Comment “shop” for links ⬇️

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Style over 50 | color combo | sunshine and a change of flowers
Love a good “wear NOW and later.. You know it’s Love a good “wear NOW and later.. 

You know it’s an add to cart!  When you can wear a piece multiple ways or style it for several seasons✔️

This is a dress you can do just that with✔️

Comment “shop” for links and discount code! ⬇️

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Wear now & later | over 50 style/ grwm| utah content creator | dresses you’ll love
The DEAL I seriously couldn’t believe…. Looks like The DEAL I seriously couldn’t believe….
Looks like pottery Barn you won’t believe is Walmart …

Normally $59 NOW $20

If it was PotteryBarn it would be $159

Large pedestal vinyl wicker baskets with plastic lining for plants .. outside or inside 

💡But think of all the other things you could use these for..
-Rolled towels in bathroom or by spa/pool
-pool toys
-Outdoor sports equipment 
- inside blankets, toys, cut storage 
-🎁great gift idea- bridal shower/ new home/ birthday Add a tree or shrub 

Seriously so good I purchased several .. two for my front porch refresh two for my back yard to put ferns in and a couple for gifts etc

💄 the lipstick bslm you’ll love
WA - color

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15 Outfit I Wore ——JULY—— A little outfit recap o 15 Outfit I Wore
——JULY——

A little outfit recap of a few of my favorite looks from July…

A few piece that would be great Fall transition pieces too.

I can’t wait to share with you the new pieces and Outfits I have in store for you in August… So many great wardrobe builders and a few on trend pieces to mix in with your classic pieces❤️
Along with a few Fall pieces working their way in to my wardrobe🍂🍁

Comment “Shop” and I’ll send you over the links to your dm. 
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Have a beautiful Sunday

Midlife style | July fashion| summer style| over 50| utah style| utah content creator|
Facial Melanoma Cancer Journey Part 8 ❤️I’ve fou Facial Melanoma Cancer Journey 
Part 8

❤️I’ve found…when life deals you unexpected hurdles, and things that could potentially knock you down… you’ve gotta, put on those big girl panties and turn it around! 
Stay strong, fall to your knees🙏🏻 And put it in  Gods hands…. Then you can let go and follow the process, and with that comes the strength to look at the good you could do and share, along with finding ways to make everyday special…

⚠️Self-care Saturday-
Mohes facial surgery in January, which left a facial scar from eye to jaw..
Months of healing and 3 facial laser treatments with 3 more to go…

 ✔️Products and tools I’ve been using and would highly recommend to help heal facial scars & take care of skin over 50

🌸A few tips to romanticize everyday life, my daily green drink, which is good for everyday health, but also helps heal you.

The mask I was unexpectedly surprised with… 

Comment “ Shop” and I’ll send you the links and details For the products I use .. link ⬇️

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Comment “Drink” for my daily green drink and morning NAD supplement 

I’ve been sharing my journey since December… and have 7 other parts here in my feed, if you want to look back and see the process and journey…
I also gave a highlight bubble with saved info etc.

⚠️Reminder to Make your skin check appointment ❤️

Melanoma Cancer scar | over 50| healing| Romanticizing your daily life|
Keeping it short and sweet… Life’s to short to fi Keeping it short and sweet…

Life’s to short to fill it with the wrong things❤️ 

Be intentional, protect you peace, and fill it with the right people❤️❤️❤️

Have a beautiful weekend Pretty Ladies❤️

Outfit details are shared over on my Liketoknowit or simply comment outfit or send me a dm

Midlife| thoughts| protecting peace| protecting what’s important | linen dress| linen blazer
I love a good 1 and done✔️ 3 affordable sports d I love a good 1 and done✔️ 

3 affordable sports dress with built in bras and shorts… 1 dress and done…

3 ways to style them✔️✔️✔️

That makes getting dresses easy ✔️

These cute sports dresses are soft, comfortable and fit tts

Easy to wear for your daily walk, playing pickle ball or your favorite sport, or just running some errands. 

I’ve style it 3 ways to show you  how versatile it could be…

#LTKgrwm #LTKOver40 #LTKActive

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One and done| sports dresses | affordable | 3 ways to style/ midlife style | utah influencer | affordable fashion| Cool mom| cool grandma |
Final Days to Grab some amazing deals Nordstrom S Final Days to Grab some amazing deals 
Nordstrom Sale …

Items  in stock and several restocks..
Great time to add a full items to your wall wardrobe and if your like my check off a few Christmas gifts✔️

Comment “Shop” for more details and links✔️
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I have a full blog post up as well with all of my clothing picks and try ones ✔️

💛Best selection is online💛
Add to cart is my love language 

Nordstrom sale| Anniversary sale| utah content creators| Midlife style| fall fashion| sale time| beauty | shoes| accessories Beauty exclusives
Kinda Chic… what to you see as Kinda chic? Slide Kinda Chic…

what to you see as Kinda chic?

Slide through and see what I value as “Kinda Chic” 

The Older I get, the more I realize being “Chic “ really is just being unapologetically yourself. 

Midlife Genx lifestyle family faith fashion lifestyle utah content creator
Getting my steps in…. Come shop Pre- Fall At Ant Getting my steps in…. 

Come shop Pre- Fall At Anthropologie with me🍂🍁

Piece you can wear NOW and for Fall✔️

Even a little peek at Halloween and a few Fall homegoods I picked up…While there in stock✔️

⚠️Wait tell you see the cutest Reversible jacket… about 20 seconds in❤️❤️❤️

Comment “Shop” for links on my cute Picks🛍️
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Pre fall| Fall home | fall fashion | wardrobe builders| my picks | fashion over 50 |
Happy Sunday Pretty ladies! “And my God will meet Happy Sunday Pretty ladies!

“And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 4:19

How cute is this Brand New Release denim dress with gold button detail
Perfect for summer to fall transition 

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link & all the details
below ⬇️

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Do you feel the same way? I am obsessed with lamp Do you feel the same way?

I am obsessed with lamps- Lighting and Candles…

I actually love big lights too as well as sunlight shining through the windows

Lighting and the way we use it,
Creates ambiance, sets a mood and makes a space come alive…

A little peek at how I We use lighting around our home❤️

Tell me about your favorite lamp or place to sit❤️

Lighting| home| lifestyle | midlife style| Home lighting | lamps| humor
Things we stop waiting for after 50… ❤️Read Capti Things we stop waiting for after 50…

❤️Read Caption on Reel❤️

We finally realize time is Valuable, It’s about being intentional with the life you have left❤️

Lifestyle Genx midlife things that make you happy
Come shop Target shoes 🎯 With me… Several cute sh Come shop Target shoes 🎯
With me…

Several cute shoes to wear now and a couple into fall on sale you’re going to love!

Great for vacations too

❤️Love the neutrals 

I linked my outfit too
- My NY hat
- Shades that remain a best seller 
-Spanx cren sweatshirt over shoulders 
Save 15% off with my code Deardarcyxspanx 
-I am wearing the DV tortoiseshell two buckle slide sandals …. Target has a pair identical at 1/2 the price 
- affordable short set 
- Tennis shoes

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I am 54 Here’s 8 Affordable,Natural And Clean- Ord I am 54
Here’s 8 Affordable,Natural And Clean- Ordinary Products I use To look and feel great✔️

I replaced a lot of my Beauty Regimen with these Unexpected affordable products,
You might already have in your pantry or medicine cabinet. 

My skin and skins texture has never looked better✔️✔️✔️

Comment “Shop” for links and more tips on ways to use etc.⬇️⬇️⬇️

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Do you use any of these CLEAN beauty options?

Clean beauty/ Ordinary household items/ simple is better/ non- toxic beauty/ simple beauty

#over50women # cleanbeauty  #nontoxicskincare
I am 54 here are some of my Favorite Things …. St I am 54  here are some of my Favorite Things …. Still in stock 
💛Nordstrom Sale 💛

Tips for 
-Building a wardrobe
Wear now & transition into Fall
- think about items you can mix and match  and wear multiple ways 
- Shopping Online gives you better options for sizing- color options and in-stock items 

Comment “Shop”  and I’ll send you a dm with links and all the details✔️
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Nordstrom sale/ my picks/ style over 50/
7 Tops under $30 That you can wear Now and into FA 7 Tops under $30
That you can wear Now and into FALL

Styled with shorts but perfect with Jeans or trousers too✔️✔️

Great quality, pretty details all fit tts 

-All with a short sleeve perfect if you don’t like to show your arms 

A couple Peplum or baby doll style flatter those with tummy 

Light weight and super soft sweater and crochet detail

- a darling light weight butter yellow and heart short sleeve cardigan wear alone or as a layer 

White shorts- raw hem denim shorts
linen shorts - and trouser shorts 
Are all Spanx - 

⚠️Save 15% with my code Deardarcyxspanx 

Long denim Jorts/bermuda 
button fly raw hem 

Linked shoes- bags and jewelry that I could

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Style over 60- under $30 tops- affordable style- midlife style
The one that made me a mama… Happy Birthday to o The one that made me a mama… 

Happy Birthday to our oldest son🎉
Time flies by so fast… How could our little Huddy buddy be 30?
❤️❤️❤️ 

July 26th 1996 forever changed our life’s for the better and started our family… We’re so blessed God choose us to parent this smart, kind and loving soul. 

We’re so proud of then Man he has become, the husband he is to his beautiful wife, and the Partner & business man he is in our family business. 

He’s a strong leader, a kind and tender heart, with a mind that absorbs everything. We love being around family is everything to him. ❤️
. 
Happy birthday Hudson Alexander🤍  We love you🅾️❌

Boy mom| Oldest son | happy Birthday
Happy Hour Loading …. Perfect way to serve a fun Happy Hour Loading ….

Perfect way to serve a fun Charcuterie meal for your next Girlsnight, couples  date night, game night , family get together or party….

I don’t know about you but charcuterie is my favorite meal🍓🧀🍇🍒🥖🥒🥕🦐🧈🫒🫛🌶️🥭🍎

Happy hour/ charcuterie/ entertaining/ over the top/ girlsnight/ party time/ date night
Let’s make something outdated… ON TREND …. From yo Let’s make something outdated… ON TREND …. From your closet

With ✂️ Scissors ✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️

—Creating NEW from your Closet … is a great way to Use what you have and repurpose it, into Something NEW✔️

Joggers and skinny joggers are Outdated…. Make them current is ease with scissors… You can cut to any length  you want… from Trending Jorts to Bermuda length or even short 5 or 7 inch

✔️Follow for more restyling/creating and shopping your closet! 

Do you have something you have in your closet you need to recreate?

Camo pants| camo Joggers| over 50 style | use what you have| repurpose fashion| shorts jorts
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