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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Get to Know Me!

Welcome to My Blog, Dear D’Arcy. This is a little “Get to know me if you will.”

It’s lovely to meet you! At Dear DArcy, I focus on Midlife Fashion and lifestyle and mix affordable with High-end. My mission is to help women look and feel great at any age while sharing positivity and a smile.

I am sharing my love of travel, cooking & entertaining, lifestyle tips, and advice. 

Are you over 40 looking for style inspiration with a classic and chic vibe and a touch of current trends to look and feel great at any age? Welcome to my Tribe,” Pretty Lady.” 

Get to know me

Lifestyle & Fashion Blogger over 50

My Goal is to help women look and feel good at any age and, at the same time, share positivity and a smile. 

As a former Boutique owner of “Chic Style” and personal Stylist, I found my customers wanted to know more about my personal life, fashion tips, personal style, health & beauty tricks. At that time, I was over 40, but now I am over 50 (people never guess my age)! I was getting daily questions about what I do for my skincare, Midlife, Hormones & weight issues, and recipes. How do I style something & “dress for my body?” How do I make something, or how do I stay organized as a mom and business owner, “do I have a blank to borrow?”….(I collect stuff) I promise I am not a hoarder. I’m always happy to share my experience or any knowledge I might have. 

Background in Interior Design

I have a decorating background (interior designer by trade) and have been the former owner of Pages of Tyme in California for 10 years. Being crafty and entertaining was a big part of my life. I can throw a party at any moment and share part of my life on the shop’s boutiques blog.  Realizing I love helping and sharing tips with others, like Dear Abby! So this is where the idea of “Dear D’Arcy” was born! It is my place to share my style, tips, and tricks for caring for myself, living my life, getting things done, decorating, staying organized, and inspiring others to “Look good at any Age!”

Get to know me

I’m hoping I can share things that work for me to help you in some small way. Wanting you to feel like you can ask me anything,  your girlfriend you can trust, and I will try to help you. From recipes to fashion, I’ve got you covered.

You can be a working mom who is chic, stylish, classic, and even trendy at any age!

Little pleasures in life are essential, and I can’t wait to start sharing mine with you, D’Arcy.

Get to know me

A Little Q&A

Answers to questions that will help you get to know me better!

  • Where were you born? California (The beach is my inner peace)
  • When did you know your career would be in fashion or interior design? At about age 2, playing with Barbies… I loved creating outfits and building her House from scratch out of boxes.
  • What would you call your style? I dress for how I feel that day! I would say I am more classic and a little trendy. I love gorgeous layers and a great pair of jeans. Accessories finish an outfit; shoes make the outfit! I love mixing affordable with labels (my mom called me Lucy, the label lover).

Just a few more:

  • What is your favorite color?  Pale pink, I also love cream & gold!
  • What is your favorite color in your Home? I am obsessed with black and white, and I am in love with black and white stripes! These two colors make changing for the seasons so easy. Add a pop of color for that season, and it works.
  • Use single words to describe yourself. She is organized, hard-working, creative, outspoken, spiritual, loving, personable, honest, talkative, stylish!
  • Favorite Bible Verse: Philippians 4:13 all things!
  • My mom and my sister are the two female cheerleaders in my life. I adore them and am lucky to have them in my life. Both are very creative: My mom is a hairdresser, and my sister is a Hollywood make-up artist.

 

Wedding Photos

Children? Yes, I am a mom of two boys. Our oldest works with my husband in our family business, Vandenberg Construction, and the youngest works in the window business. Our oldest married his dream girl on August 24, 2024, in a glass chapel in the forest. Talk about a magical wedding!

Get to know me

Are you married? Yes, I have been married to my dream guy and my biggest supporter for 30 years. In February!

What does your hubby do? He owned ski shops in California for 25 years and a construction business building homes. Ben is a talented contractor who has been building and remodeling homes for over 40 years. We’ve done many flips over the years as a team; I design the homes, and he builds them. When we moved to Utah almost 19 years ago, He helped me with our clothing boutiques and started Vandenberg construction. In the winter, you’ll find him on the slopes. He’s also my photographer!

A Few Favorites:

What are a few of your favorite things?   I love iced tea, entertaining, my porch, my family, cooking for my family, gardening, manicures I am obsessed with cute nails, bread ( I try not to eat it), Mexican food, creating cocktails, glitter, spray paint, decorating our home, traveling, and lake days. I would love to have a family compound!

Get to know me

I hope you liked getting to know me a little more.

What makes your blog different? Seeing fashion and beauty through the eyes of a “50-something” is a big difference. In my life experiences, I have been a business owner in 3 different creative fields (home decor and interiors, scrapbooking, and clothing boutiques). I show that you can change your career at any age. I love sharing things that work with my readers.

What are a few of your career achievements? Winning Kut from the Kloth’s National window display contest, South Ogden business association storefront display winner, guest fashion editor of Celestial Magazine, as well as being a stylist for six issues of Celestial Magazine, Two years with a monthly Fox 13 (The Place), fashion segments, organizing fashion shows for charity events, decorator chair for the Junior league Ogden Spring gala 2 years, a published scrapbook artist. To name a few of my favorites. Currently, I do a fashion segment on ABC’s Good Things Utah.

Get to know me

Thank you for being here, and remember, the best thing you can wear is a smile!

“Helping women look good and feel good at any age.”

OX, D’Arcy

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally
Party Season Style
Affordable and Easy Coastal Tablescape
Entertaining & Decorating
Easy Berry Lemon Tart Recipe
Recipes

Healthy Midlife Tips
Shoe Lover
The Best of The Best Cyber Week Sales 2023
Beauty Tips

Christmas Pj's for the Whole Family by Soma
Family
Styling Clients & Segment Host
6 Summer Pieces From Brindle Boutique
Sharing Travel

Services That Keep Me Pretty & Healthy:

  • Hair: Kayla Cissna at Shandalier Salon & Spa 385-626-1505
  • Wax: Jenna @ Empire wax =801-896-7007 Save 50% off with Code: DARCY50
  • Nailed Boutique = 801-532-6245
  • Eyelashes: Sharlee at Lashed 801-475-7000
  • Botox: Dr. Hillary 

*Some of my services are sponsored 

Follow me over on LIKETOKNOWIT HERE for easy shopping.

 

 

 

A Few Blog posts you might find Helpful

Midlife supplements I take HERE

Hysterectomy in Midlife HERE

One of My most Pinned Blog Posts- Building a Pizza Bar Here

 

 

 

 

D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
oxox D'Arcy

For size reference: I am 5'9 1/2
Wear a size 6 and med Top

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4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation 4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation that will make packing a breeze✔️

From Brunch to poolside, sightseeing to Dinner I’ve got you covered… along with easy packing ✈️🚗🚕🧳

As a 54 year old who loves a good matching set for travel, as it truly does make packing a breeze… You’ll love the quality,fit and style of these 4 sets…

Which one is your favorite 1-2-3-4?

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#midlifestyle #travelpacking #matchingsets amazonfashionfind
My Amazon Finds 9 Entertaining items I can’t thr My Amazon Finds 

9 Entertaining items I can’t throw a
party without

That make Entertaining Easy

Slide ➡️ for Tips and items I have to have

⚠️Slide. #10 is a MUST HAVE
And Slide #2 is a savior 

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#homeparties #homeentertaining #midlifestyle
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& gold flower clutch 

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My greatest joy is being their MOM 🤍🤍🤍 My greates My greatest joy is being their MOM 🤍🤍🤍

My greatest accomplishment is the family we’ve built.🤍

Not only the children I birthed, whom I am so very proud of and thank God every day for,
 but to the home we opened up to others and the family that came from friends and children we’ve been so blessed to have apart of our lives.

Family is something you build not just something you’re given. It truly brings me so much joy to have a full home, to feed others, open our hearts and be a safe space. 

I am grateful everyday for those in our life’s and apart of our “FAMILY” it makes my mama heart happy🤍🤍🤍

Thankful to the two that made me a CoCo @hampton.v_  @kaylee.thompson24 🤍 The love & joy he brings is something nobody could have prepared me for🤍

I know Mother’s Day can be hard for some, with their mamas no longer with them or with having a hard time becoming one on their own🙏🏻🤍 my heart goes out to you! You’ll be in my prayers🙏🏻

🌸Happy Mother’s Day pretty ladies and my your day be full of everything you need it to be🤍🤍🤍

A few of my favorite quotes ⬇️⬇️⬇️

“Motherhood: Because privacy is over-rated”. —Russ Ediger

“Thank God for a praying mother”. —Bobbie Burrow

“Faith is the foundation of a strong, loving family and Mama is the cornerstone”. —Renee Daniels

“Moms just know… How to help. How to heal. How to listen. How to love.”

#mothersdayweekend #boymomclub #fullheartmamas #fullheart #familymemories familybond friendsandfamily happylifestyle
—Mother’s Day Tea— Come with me as I set a Tables —Mother’s Day Tea—

Come with me as I set a Tablescape perfect for tea.
Shades of  pink and yellow 🌸💛
- Vintage pink glass dishes that have been in our family for generations, scrallop details, Touches of gold and silver, layer napkins and rings fit for a queen. Pearl handle silverware and individual tea pots.

~On the Menu~

~ Cucumber Ssndwhiches 
~ Arugula Lemon Salad
~Spinach & Muchroom Quiche 
~ Blueberry Scones -Clotted Cream & Lemon Curd
~ Assorted ShortBread Cookies
~ Lemon & Lavendar Pound Cake

-Drinks-
~ Cucumber & mint water
~ Ice Tea served with lemon & mint
~ Assorted Hot Teas served with Cream & Hobey
~ Finishing with a glass or Prosecco 

🌸 Recipes to come

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What are you doing for Mother’s Day? 
I hope you will be relaxing and treated like the queen you are🌸💛👑

#midlifestyle #tablescapestyling #springtable #mothersdaytea
— Easy Gift Idea— Flowers🌸 your mom really wants… — Easy Gift Idea—

Flowers🌸 your mom really wants…

You can put this gift together in minutes and she’ll enjoy ALL Summer long🪴🪏

You’ll need:
-Clay Pot
- Potting Soil 
-Hydrangea Plant or Her Favorite Flower
-Moss
- Pretty Ribbon

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#diygift #midlifestyle #mothersdayflowers #uniquegiftideas
—Cache Valley Creamery— The FREE Recipe E-Book yo —Cache Valley Creamery—

The FREE Recipe E-Book you’re going to want to download is “The Season of Brunch” from @cachevalleycreamery.

This is the cheese lovers guide to easy recipes perfect for brunch or your next party. 🧀. 

🍽️Hosting a Mother’s Day Brunch? You’ll want to make these Cheesy Hash Brown Waffles you and your family will love.🧇

Download your Free E-Book with the link in my bio⬆️

#cachevalleycreamery #cachevalleycheese #sponsored #springrecipe
—Over 50 Style— Spring Style 17 Outfit Formula’s —Over 50 Style—

Spring Style 17 Outfit Formula’s that work every time ✔️

What I’ve worn lately in Springs schizophrenic weather ☀️🌧️❄️🌩️🌤️

Easy Outfits formals you can use to create everyday - workwear- weekend  outfit inspirations.

⚠️Which look is your favorite or one you want to try 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17?

Shop your closet for “like” items or 
If something caught your eye…
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#over50fashion #springoutfitideas #midlifewomen  #outfitinspo
— Salsa Garden—- Gift Idea for Mother’s Day or you — Salsa Garden—-
Gift Idea for Mother’s Day or your Favorite Gardener 🪏🪴🧑‍🌾

Fun way to celebrate Cinco de Mayo🌮🪇 and Taco Tuesday ….

Planting a salsa garden is easy and cane be done on a balcony or in a large yard…
A fun gift idea..

You’ll Need: 
-Clay pot
-Tomatoe & Marigold plant 
-Seeds for salsa - 
Cilantro, onions ,peppers
-Garden Magazine 
-Garden Tools & Gloves
-Ribbon

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#giftideasformom #gardenlover #salsalover #salsagarden
Mother’s Day Gifts🤍 16 Items I own & love that ma Mother’s Day Gifts🤍

16 Items I own & love that make for great gifts🤍🌸🎁

 Several Affordable gift ideas and a couple splurges she’ll love.

~Great Mother’s Day Gift ideas, as well as A few Graduation and Bridal gift Ideas.

-Beauty
Hand Cream/ clean body lotion & Spf/Red light mask/ Tortoiseshell brush & Toothpaste / hair tool/ clean beauty perfume 

-Home
New Cookbook/ ice maker/ Acrylic Make up holder/ Flower Bust Vase/ Candle/ Towel warmer

-Jewlery
Bracelets

-Fashion
Sunglasses 2 pk / blazer I have a discount code / Denim bow Top under $40

🌸Slide 8 is something I wear on repeat and so lux looking

🌸 The last Slide gets me compliments every time I wear

⚠️Most of these items will arrive on time for Mothers Day

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#mothersdaygiftidea  #favoritethings #over50women  #midlifewomen
—Hosting with Mom— Mother’s Day Tea Perfect Eyel —Hosting with Mom—

Mother’s Day Tea

Perfect Eyelet Dresses for Mother’s Day
In White eyelet & Chambray Denim Eyelet…
Mom and I were spoiled by @lovechicos With a few outfits!
Their dresses never disappoint, perfect at any age the fit, the style and quality.
The perfect way to celebrate mom

What’s your Mother’s Day plans?

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#lovechicos #mothersdayspecial #coastalgrandmother #eyeletdress
Planning or headed to a Mother’s Day Brunch? Wra Planning or headed to a Mother’s Day Brunch? 

Wrapped bottle detail by @beaubottlesco makes your gift feel softer, more polished, and full of care.  It Turns Simple
Into Meaningful 🤍

The best Mother’s Day plans are usually the ones with intention. 

Wrapped bottle Looks Beautiful Without Much effort. 
Paired perfectly with a floral arrangement or a small gift.

Also makes a perfect hostess gift for Spring Social season and a great way to dress up your bar cart or next party  table. 

I have a discount code for you⬇️

Link: beaubottles.com/darcy15

Discount code: DARCY15 to save 15% off your purchase

#beaubottleswraps #prosecco🍾 #mothersdaycelebration #diygift
It’s no secret I love to cook and entertain. Chee It’s no secret I love to cook and entertain. 
Cheese is an ingredient I use in several of my recipes, @cachevalleycheese  a local Utah company making cheese from the highest quality dairy is one of our family’s go to cheese brands.

Having a wide selection of delicious cheese flavors and they come in a verity from large blocks, small blocks, pre sliced, and grated depending on your preference and cooking needs. Delivering wholesome goodness in every bite.

I am excited to try a few recipes this Spring and Summer from their 

Free Spring Recipe E-Book 2026

🧀Presented by:
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showcasing a palette of possibilities for fresh, seasonal dishes that are easy, impressive, and perfect for spring brunches, gatherings, and Mother’s Day.

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Did you know Cache Valley Creamery is a family ran business? 

What’s your favorite cheese?🧀 
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#CacheValleyCreamery | #AD #CheeseLoversUnite | #SpringRecipes | #SpringEntertaining | EasyRecipes | UtahEats
—-Styling Quince—- The perfect summer dress… Thi —-Styling Quince—-

The perfect summer dress…

This linen strapless maxi dress with pockets by @onequince is perfect for summer.

-Looks great on most body types
-Can be dressed up or worn casual 
-Comes in black or white
- Has pockets 

Styling tips:

Can be worn with this Quince linen blazer, Styled with a Quince leather bag, designer platform slide sandals and jewelry for a Coastal dinner cruise or drinks with friends.

Styled  with a sweater over shoulders and a sandal perfect for lunch with the girls, or day date.

Styled with a denim jacket and a low profile sneaker and a cross body bag, for a great travel outfit or perfect casual weekend look.

I love it travels well and is so comfortable.

Shop my outfit and use code INFG-26DARCYVANDENBERG10 
For 10% off first purchase 

#onequince #linendresses  #over50fashion
Headed on a trip? Pack with ease… 8 pieces by @tr Headed on a trip?

Pack with ease…
8 pieces by @tribalfashionofficial 

I  used to Create 
6 Outfits for a perfect
Summer Capsule

Mix and Match
To Create endless looks
All Summer long

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MAIL DAY 📦 Monday Mail days are the worst….. Tru MAIL DAY 📦 Monday

Mail days are the worst…..

Truth is…it’s really stressful shopping and trying out products so you don’t have too 😉

This weeks Happy Mail⬇️

-From Amazon Finds
-New product launch Oneskin
-Spring arrivals from  Gibsonlook 
-A Gadget
-Shoes by Donald Pliner
-Midlife Supplement

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#mailday #hardjob utahinfluencer sarcastichumor
Come shop with me… Anthropologie’s 30% off Spring Come shop with me…

Anthropologie’s 30% off Spring Sale
An extra 50% off sale. 

Welcome to Anthro Santa Barbara🌴🌸

Come see my picks “I’d love for Mother’s Day “ on sale and would make perfect Gift ideas!

From Farm Rio dresses, to beautiful dishes and new Capri blue candle that are always a favorite. 
To Latest release from Pilcro including the new fragrance and MY Spring clothing picks…

Spring shoes you’ll want to add to your wardrobe and the cutest clutch and spring Bag.

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Asian Style Brussel Sprout Skewers 🌱 My Brussel S Asian Style Brussel Sprout Skewers 🌱

My Brussel Sprout Recipe
Non- Brussel Sprout lovers Will LOVE🫶🏻

Sunday’s “In the Kitchen with D’Arcy” Recipe -Asian-Style Brussel Sprout Skewers🌱

Easy to make, a great appetizer, and a perfect side dish for Sunday dinner or BBQ season✔️

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Recipe:
1 bag Brussels sprouts 
1/2 cup Hoisin sauce
1 tablespoon Balsamic glaze 
2 tablespoon Soy sauce 
2 Tablespoons crushed garlic
Sesame oil (for drizzle and pan)

Drizzle Sesame oil for pan & a small drizzle on top of sprouts 

1/4 cup Crushed peanuts (reserve to sprinkle on top) or sesame seeds

Cut ends off sprouts, add to pan with water and bring to boil, let boil about 10 minutes until soften, drain
Let cool. Then place on skewers 
Pre heat oven to 400

Make the sauce

Mix all above ingredients together 
And brush over sprouts, turn and brush all sides.  Sprinkle with crushed peanuts or sesame seeds Place in oven, cook until crispy 

#brusselsprouts #brusselsprout #recipeoftheweek
California girls trip Life is different over 50… California girls trip 

Life is different over 50….

See how it hits differently, but sliding through my 20 moments in California 

Slide 7 is a blessing

Slide 20 is important

Thank you for sharing in the moments🤍
Gina @gee_run 
Suzanne @crazyblondelifeblog 
Cathy @themiddlepageblog 
Janet @janetgunngratefulgardenia 
Lisa @lisabreckenridge 

A little recap:
Time  driving through the dessert…Walks on the beach.. Lunch at Brophy’s in Santa Barbara’s, shopping on state Street. Drive through the Hills 90210
Beverly Hills - event at Madison Masion- Wally’s for a glass & fries before, dinner at Spago, Ventura keys-Photo shoots, brunch at the cutest Coffee house-antiquing- Chilling & catching up at my Girlfriends darling beach house…Coastal drives and ice cream in the harbor…Much needed girls time…priceless🤍🌊☀️🍷🌴☕️🫶🏻

#styleover50 #lifeover50 #californiatrip
Let’s talk about the health benefits of Margaritas Let’s talk about the health benefits of Margaritas 🍋‍🟩🪇

Lime -Vitamin C 
Salt -electrolytes 
Tequila-Stress Relief

Woh loves a good Margarita?

Cheers to the weekend Pretty ladies🍋‍🟩🍹

#margaritatime #healthbenifits #cocktailtime #itsfiveoclocksomehwere
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