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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Get to Know Me!

Welcome to My Blog, Dear D’Arcy. This is a little “Get to know me if you will.”

It’s lovely to meet you! At Dear DArcy, I focus on Midlife Fashion and lifestyle and mix affordable with High-end. My mission is to help women look and feel great at any age while sharing positivity and a smile.

I am sharing my love of travel, cooking & entertaining, lifestyle tips, and advice. 

Are you over 40 looking for style inspiration with a classic and chic vibe and a touch of current trends to look and feel great at any age? Welcome to my Tribe,” Pretty Lady.” 

Get to know me

Lifestyle & Fashion Blogger over 50

My Goal is to help women look and feel good at any age and, at the same time, share positivity and a smile. 

As a former Boutique owner of “Chic Style” and personal Stylist, I found my customers wanted to know more about my personal life, fashion tips, personal style, health & beauty tricks. At that time, I was over 40, but now I am over 50 (people never guess my age)! I was getting daily questions about what I do for my skincare, Midlife, Hormones & weight issues, and recipes. How do I style something & “dress for my body?” How do I make something, or how do I stay organized as a mom and business owner, “do I have a blank to borrow?”….(I collect stuff) I promise I am not a hoarder. I’m always happy to share my experience or any knowledge I might have. 

Background in Interior Design

I have a decorating background (interior designer by trade) and have been the former owner of Pages of Tyme in California for 10 years. Being crafty and entertaining was a big part of my life. I can throw a party at any moment and share part of my life on the shop’s boutiques blog.  Realizing I love helping and sharing tips with others, like Dear Abby! So this is where the idea of “Dear D’Arcy” was born! It is my place to share my style, tips, and tricks for caring for myself, living my life, getting things done, decorating, staying organized, and inspiring others to “Look good at any Age!”

Get to know me

I’m hoping I can share things that work for me to help you in some small way. Wanting you to feel like you can ask me anything,  your girlfriend you can trust, and I will try to help you. From recipes to fashion, I’ve got you covered.

You can be a working mom who is chic, stylish, classic, and even trendy at any age!

Little pleasures in life are essential, and I can’t wait to start sharing mine with you, D’Arcy.

Get to know me

A Little Q&A

Answers to questions that will help you get to know me better!

  • Where were you born? California (The beach is my inner peace)
  • When did you know your career would be in fashion or interior design? At about age 2, playing with Barbies… I loved creating outfits and building her House from scratch out of boxes.
  • What would you call your style? I dress for how I feel that day! I would say I am more classic and a little trendy. I love gorgeous layers and a great pair of jeans. Accessories finish an outfit; shoes make the outfit! I love mixing affordable with labels (my mom called me Lucy, the label lover).

Just a few more:

  • What is your favorite color?  Pale pink, I also love cream & gold!
  • What is your favorite color in your Home? I am obsessed with black and white, and I am in love with black and white stripes! These two colors make changing for the seasons so easy. Add a pop of color for that season, and it works.
  • Use single words to describe yourself. She is organized, hard-working, creative, outspoken, spiritual, loving, personable, honest, talkative, stylish!
  • Favorite Bible Verse: Philippians 4:13 all things!
  • My mom and my sister are the two female cheerleaders in my life. I adore them and am lucky to have them in my life. Both are very creative: My mom is a hairdresser, and my sister is a Hollywood make-up artist.

 

Wedding Photos

Children? Yes, I am a mom of two boys. Our oldest works with my husband in our family business, Vandenberg Construction, and the youngest works in the window business. Our oldest married his dream girl on August 24, 2024, in a glass chapel in the forest. Talk about a magical wedding!

Get to know me

Are you married? Yes, I have been married to my dream guy and my biggest supporter for 30 years. In February!

What does your hubby do? He owned ski shops in California for 25 years and a construction business building homes. Ben is a talented contractor who has been building and remodeling homes for over 40 years. We’ve done many flips over the years as a team; I design the homes, and he builds them. When we moved to Utah almost 19 years ago, He helped me with our clothing boutiques and started Vandenberg construction. In the winter, you’ll find him on the slopes. He’s also my photographer!

A Few Favorites:

What are a few of your favorite things?   I love iced tea, entertaining, my porch, my family, cooking for my family, gardening, manicures I am obsessed with cute nails, bread ( I try not to eat it), Mexican food, creating cocktails, glitter, spray paint, decorating our home, traveling, and lake days. I would love to have a family compound!

Get to know me

I hope you liked getting to know me a little more.

What makes your blog different? Seeing fashion and beauty through the eyes of a “50-something” is a big difference. In my life experiences, I have been a business owner in 3 different creative fields (home decor and interiors, scrapbooking, and clothing boutiques). I show that you can change your career at any age. I love sharing things that work with my readers.

What are a few of your career achievements? Winning Kut from the Kloth’s National window display contest, South Ogden business association storefront display winner, guest fashion editor of Celestial Magazine, as well as being a stylist for six issues of Celestial Magazine, Two years with a monthly Fox 13 (The Place), fashion segments, organizing fashion shows for charity events, decorator chair for the Junior league Ogden Spring gala 2 years, a published scrapbook artist. To name a few of my favorites. Currently, I do a fashion segment on ABC’s Good Things Utah.

Get to know me

Thank you for being here, and remember, the best thing you can wear is a smile!

“Helping women look good and feel good at any age.”

OX, D’Arcy

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally
Party Season Style
Affordable and Easy Coastal Tablescape
Entertaining & Decorating
Easy Berry Lemon Tart Recipe
Recipes

Healthy Midlife Tips
Shoe Lover
The Best of The Best Cyber Week Sales 2023
Beauty Tips

Christmas Pj's for the Whole Family by Soma
Family
Styling Clients & Segment Host
6 Summer Pieces From Brindle Boutique
Sharing Travel

Services That Keep Me Pretty & Healthy:

  • Hair: Kayla Cissna at Shandalier Salon & Spa 385-626-1505
  • Wax: Jenna @ Empire wax =801-896-7007 Save 50% off with Code: DARCY50
  • Nailed Boutique = 801-532-6245
  • Eyelashes: Sharlee at Lashed 801-475-7000
  • Botox: Dr. Hillary 

*Some of my services are sponsored 

Follow me over on LIKETOKNOWIT HERE for easy shopping.

 

 

 

A Few Blog posts you might find Helpful

Midlife supplements I take HERE

Hysterectomy in Midlife HERE

One of My most Pinned Blog Posts- Building a Pizza Bar Here

 

 

 

 

D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
oxox D'Arcy

For size reference: I am 5'9 1/2
Wear a size 6 and med Top

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Things I am bring into 2026 - -Love & Laughter - Things I am bring into 2026

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-Love & Laughter - old friends that mean so much
-Flower arrangements Everywhere
-Making Everyday moment special
-Cooking Farm to Table Food
-Creating beautiful tables
- More Travel & toes in sand
-Gardening 
-Deck Dates
-Enjoying the little moments 
-Family Time weekly
-Over Dressing
-Self Care dates
-Home- sharing more home projects
Sanitas Beauty Event @nailed.boutique last night Sanitas Beauty Event @nailed.boutique  last night was a Top notch event🎉

With Demos & Hands on Education ✔️
We learned so much about skincare, how and when to use and the ingredients that makes @sanitas_skincare so good.

Guest Received mini Red light Therapy Sessions, personal Consultations, mini facials and of course Yummy refreshments.

The attendees also received a product gift bag & a blow out gift certificate to use later.

Nailed Boutique is a full service Salon offering nails, pedicures, hair, facials, skincare and a darling boutique. 

Book your next Selfcare day or girlfriend’s party at Nailed… you won’t be disappointed.
Trending…. This Winter Fur Coats… Really, Living Trending….
This Winter Fur Coats…

Really, Living in a 4 season state like Utah … in a small ski town, Fur or faux fur is always trending for Winter❄️❄️

Who doesn’t love a little glam to cheer up your Winter blues?

I sure do and I love the cozy feel of this year’s affordable styles… really anything does, from vintage, cropped, mid length, to full length, prints & Colors, as well as in all the accessories fur is HOT🔥Hot🔥 HOT 🔥

Her are 6 Fur coats I think you’ll ❤️ LOVE❤️ 
➡️Slide to view all the styles & outfit combos➡️

Which of the 6 coats is your favorite? 

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#winterfur #wintercoat #affordablefashions #utahliving
Quick Meal Hack After the Hustle & Bussle of the Quick Meal Hack

After the Hustle & Bussle of the Holidays & Perfect for a cozy Stay at Home New Years, Stress Free Meal.

@idahoanfoods -Real Potatoes 

A Hack to Help you create a fast and delicious meal in minutes.

A go to budget friendly quick & delicious side dish.
Instant mash potato make a great topping for your shepherds pie.

Stock your pantry now for easy stress free winter side dishes.

#idahoanfoods #ad #homecookedmeals #quickmeal
I Like Warm Coffee on a Cold day☕️ How about you? I Like Warm Coffee on a Cold day☕️
How about you?

Style Over 50
20 Amazon Outerwear 

Pieces you’ll Love 
& wear on repeat 
this Winter…

From Winter warm layers to perfect 3rd pieces layers great for workwear and everyday✔️

-Quilted Jacket
-Sherpa Leather Trimmed jacket
-Light Weight Puffer Coat
-Trench Coat
-Corduroy Shacket
-Pullover Fleece 3/4 zip Jacket
-Light Weight Zip/Button Coat
-Suede Members only Style Jacket
-Plaid Peacoat Style Cape
-Fleece Zip up
-Leopard Faux Fur Coat
-Corduroy Collar Barn Coat
-Studded Detail Denim Jacket
-High Neck Trench Coat
-Light Weight Puffer Coat
-Fleece Zip Up Vest
-High Neck Trench Coat
-Cropped Pea Coat
-Cropped Pea Coat
-Mid Length Ladies Coat

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#amazonfind #wintercoat #afforɗablefashion
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Hosted at NAILED!

JANUARY 12TH AT 7PM
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An Evening with Darcy: 
Expert Tips for Ageless Skin 
-Every attending guests recelves a gitt card tor a FREE blowout, plus enjoy facial demos, 20% off all Sanitas
products, giveaways and small bites.

🎉Giveaways:🎉
-$150 Method Pilates giftcard
-$50 Blacksmith Icecream
-$100 Nailed Gift card
Ultimate hotstone pedi (valued at $88)
-Oribe gift set (valued at $81)
-Volo hair wraps
-Volo head wrap
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#beautyevent #nailed #midlifewomen #utahblogger
—7 Beauty Gadgets — I used in 2025 & will in 202 —7 Beauty Gadgets —

I  used in 2025 & will in 2026

I am telling my Girlfriends to buy🛍️

Over 50 
Wife, Mom, Coco
And Content Creator 

-T3  Hair Dryer/Roller/Styler
I use this & love this tool weekly

-Towel warmer
A Warm Towel & Robe is seriously, self care you want❤️

-Lip mask- Helps you sleep💋Who know this would help you sleep?

-Red light Therapy Mask
Several settings & color light therapy settings too

-Mini Fan- Perfect for layering your skincare 
or (cooling off in a hot flash)

-Dermaplaning Tool-
Smooth skin, beauty products absorb into skin & removes peach fuzz

-Tortoise Shell Toothbrushes
Not only are they pretty and make a great gift, They clean great without being to abrasive, yet not to soft 🪥🦷

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Two Winter Staples Your closet needs over 50 -A C Two Winter Staples
Your closet needs over 50

-A Classic Trench Coat (affordable and great quality)

-Great Fitting trousers

✔️Styling Tips: 
Save and splurge 
Outfit of the day, what brings this look together⬇️

A great way to  mix low & high pieces to create a chic & classic  outfit you’ll wear on repeat ✔️

Affordable trench coat, great quality lined and fits tts

Splurge, yet it’s now on sale Ralph Lauren sweater crew neck, with horse embroidery in gold

Brown trousers my NYDJ high quality and now on sale, fit tts and hit below ankle bone

Affordable- Gingham check  button up top with ruffle detail collar and sleeve , great quality light weight yet great worn alone or layered. 

Affordable- handmade horse bit necklace 

Affordable- grosgrain kitten heel with little bow detail under $40 fit tts

Splurge- tote 

Splurge- gold hoop earrings and two bracelets by Julie voz 

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#over50fashion #wardrobestaples #winteroutfitideas #trenchcoats
-Amazon find- Cozy cardigan Outfit staples you’ll -Amazon find-
Cozy cardigan 
Outfit staples you’ll wear on repeat

4 colors 4 ways to wear ….

-Cozy cardigan 
Comes is several colors, open front, longer back / one size fits all and comes in several colors.

I styled for 
-Work wear 
-Heading to Pilates or yoga
-Elevated Casual
-Over Pj’s  or lounge wear

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#amazonfind #amazonfashionfinds #midlifestyle #waystowear
Come shop & try-on New arrivals at Anthropologie Come shop & try-on  New arrivals at 
Anthropologie with me✔️

If you love 🎀❤️🎀❤️ and a few 

favorite things I love for this season, yet perfect statement pieces that make wardrobe builders you’ll wear on repeat ❤️🖤

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#anthropologie #coatseason #valentines_day #midlife
The sweater Dress YOU will want in every color✔️ The sweater Dress YOU will want in every color✔️

Ribbed, crew neck sweater dress, stretchy, comfortable and comes in several colors.
I am style Khaki, black, and the navy.

So many ways to wear…

I am share 3 ways to wear this cute and affordable dress✔️

-Date night look
-Sport Chic/Travel
-Perfect for Workwear or Church

➡️Slide to view all the styling
Which look is your favorite?

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Are you a New Year’s Goal setter? Or Do you have a Are you a New Year’s Goal setter? Or Do you have a word? Maybe you just wing it??

I do have goals, but mine aren’t a yearly driven task, I’ve even done the word for the year, several times.
I write down what I would like to accomplish, and even new habits I’d like to try and achieve but what I’ve found in my life that really works, and I’ve found helps me achieve more, feel at peace and yet driven at the same time is…

-Asking my  Lord and savior to define my priorities.
-My Time, My work balance, my relationships etc.

-Ask Him to show me where to focus my energies, what & where to let go, and where I am pursuing a goal for the wrong motive.

I’ve found It’s better to have a few goals that honor God than a bunch of them driven by selfish ambition.🙏🏻

I am more at peace, my direction is clearer, life balance is best and my priorities are clearer, which naturally makes work, life and love easier🙏🏻

Trust in his path & goals for you, as it will always work out with you achieving 🙏🏻

💙⬇️Tell me in the comments what is something you’re praying for or wanting to achieve this year?

#walkbyfaithnotbysight #godsgotthis #newyearsresolutions #midlifejourney
Come make a 🎣fisherman pole pretzel treat with me… Come make a 🎣fisherman pole pretzel treat with me….

Perfect for a Baby Shower or Birthday party.🎣

You’ll need:
-Pretzel rods 
-Chocolate chips (flavor you like) I used milk and white chocolate 
-A cube of butter 1/2 in each chocolate to melt and stir for the dipping.
-String of your choice I choose white
- Buoys I purchased a bulk box of assorted sizes
-2 Clear  Glass Vases (I choose a simple mid size glass) for rods to stand out of
- 2 bags of pebble rocks (washed)  for cave
- 2 Wooded fish or if you can find plastic 

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Fishing/camping wrapping paper by @allwrappedup_giftwrap 

We can’t wait to meet our little Fisherman 🎣 

Follow for more Entertaining and Recipe Ideas 

#fishermans #babyshowerprops #pretzelrods
Elevated Winter Outfit What I wore on a New year Elevated 
Winter Outfit

What I wore on a New years Eve DAY date with my hubby,.

We headed to Midway  a cute little Swiss town outside of deer valley.

For Lunch and a little shopping..
Walking around in this cute teen getting the fresh air and sunshine we needed.

Outfit details:

Off the shoulder sweater  a Bo from Nordstrom. This does sell out and restocks. Ilinked outer similar Off the shoulder sweaters too!❤️ tts in a small

Wax coated  wide leg pants

Faux Fur coat Amazon find and so affordable at a great price 

Dolce vita western booties 

Tennis necklace &
Anthropologie initial necklace 

Earring under $12

Bracelets by pearls by Sheri not linkable available on line

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#winteroutfitideas #over50style #utahinfluencer
—Happy New Year— Come set our table for New Years —Happy New Year—

Come set our table for New Years with me🍾✨

Gold and Silver with Pearl details sets the tone for this Beautiful Table.

Featuring scalloped dinner plates by @maisonmadison designed in New York and Handmade in Portugal.

Layered with gold chargers, Vintage china, Pearl handled silverware. This is an elegant place setting.

An assortment of hand picked White fresh flowers,  I arranged in 3 low arrangements paired with Sparkling disco balls are perfect for New Years. 

Pom Pom detailed napkins add a touch of whimsy, while pearl napkin rings add to the elegance. 

A clock strikes midnight and champagne details evokes the feel of New Years. 

Gold Sparkling bow champagne flutes add a touch of femininity…. Perfect for New Years… or maybe a wedding shower.

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#newyearsdinner #newyearsparty #hostingtips #midlifeinfluencers
Happy New Years🍾 Toasting to a Beautiful year ful Happy New Years🍾

Toasting to a Beautiful year full of Gods Blessings!

For you to Remeber even when things can be hard, Or not going they way you hoped, Gods plan and timing are always right❤️

No year is ever perfect, but they’re so many blessings in the small stuff. 

-Joy in the everyday moments…
-Love in the people you surround yourself with❤️
—Calm in the storm, depending on your mindset.
-A wonderful life, is up to YOU and your choices, You create your happiness. 
-We all have HARD things, your character, outcome, and emotions, are how you handle them.
-You can’t create the life or goals  you want, by doing the same things.
-Fill your circle with people who want you to succeed and who will pray for you in the God and bad times.
-It’s ok to have YOU time! Actually it’s important.
-It’s ok to say NO!

-Fill your Cup, with the thing that bring you joy peace, health and even wealth…. All in moderation ❤️

Praying for a 2026 you will feel Gods hand in❤️🙏🏻✨

🥂 cheers pretty Ladies & Thank you for being here and apart of my tribe 💋 D’Arcy

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Over 50 Style —Everyday Outfit— Or Travel… but el Over 50 Style

—Everyday Outfit—
Or Travel… but elevated and Chic✔️

What I am wearing, living in a small mountain town, this Winter✔️

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#over50fashion #afforɗablefashion  #everdaywear
Things I Used in 2025 That Changed my Health & Wel Things I Used in 2025
That Changed my Health & Wellbeing 

As a Midlife 54 year old
Wife & Mom, who’s 
had a full hysterectomy 

Comment “shop” for links and full product details…

Over 50, health and wellbeing after having a complete hysterectomy and getting through menopause without hormones. 

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#over50andfabulous #hysterectomy #midlifewellness
Do you have a… Christmas Bucket List? Make sure t Do you have a…
Christmas Bucket List?

Make sure to add this to your Holiday list, when visiting Salt Lake City, Utah in December to New Years🎄✨🍾

This is one of our Family’s favorite Holiday traditions.

Family time @thegrandamerica 
The life size Gingerbread house, the Holiday window stroll, the Garden lights and dinner and cocktails at Laurel❤️

You won’t want to miss their amazing toy store, and coffee cafe✔️

🚨Save to reference later

#grandamericahotel #utahinfluencer #visitutah #holidayplans
I am still in sparkle mode over here✨✨ We’re on R I am still in sparkle mode over here✨✨

We’re on Round 3 of Holiday entertaining with 2 more days to go✨🍾 and we’re loving every minute with family and friends.

Which means I have even more days to dress up…. Here’s to Sparkle and shine season..✨🍾❤️💋

Holiday Outfit
Sparkle and fur✨

This is a great outfit for any winter glam social event or date night ✨🍾

NYE and Valentine’s Day… even better such great sales✔️

Switch out the sweater for a solid color or seasonal word (I have a champagne glass sweater🍾

I would wear this skirt for New Year’s Eve, a winter wedding And valentines Day.  On major SALE and my code stacks!

Sequins maxi skirt with front slit. Side zip tts I am in small 
Save 10% off with code DARCY10

Green fur hip length jacket 
On major sale

Plaid pearl collar 

Believe sweater but easily 
Switch out and wear any festive or solid color sweater 

Red satin kitten heel with rhinestone ❤️

Green stone drop earrings Anthropologie 

Green Dean Davidson gold ring and a Julie voz ring 

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#tistheseasontosparkle #sequinlover #holidayoutfits #sequinskirt
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