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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Get to Know Me!

Welcome to My Blog, Dear D’Arcy. This is a little “Get to know me if you will.”

It’s lovely to meet you! At Dear DArcy, I focus on Midlife Fashion and lifestyle and mix affordable with High-end. My mission is to help women look and feel great at any age while sharing positivity and a smile.

I am sharing my love of travel, cooking & entertaining, lifestyle tips, and advice. 

Are you over 40 looking for style inspiration with a classic and chic vibe and a touch of current trends to look and feel great at any age? Welcome to my Tribe,” Pretty Lady.” 

Get to know me

Lifestyle & Fashion Blogger over 50

My Goal is to help women look and feel good at any age and, at the same time, share positivity and a smile. 

As a former Boutique owner of “Chic Style” and personal Stylist, I found my customers wanted to know more about my personal life, fashion tips, personal style, health & beauty tricks. At that time, I was over 40, but now I am over 50 (people never guess my age)! I was getting daily questions about what I do for my skincare, Midlife, Hormones & weight issues, and recipes. How do I style something & “dress for my body?” How do I make something, or how do I stay organized as a mom and business owner, “do I have a blank to borrow?”….(I collect stuff) I promise I am not a hoarder. I’m always happy to share my experience or any knowledge I might have. 

Background in Interior Design

I have a decorating background (interior designer by trade) and have been the former owner of Pages of Tyme in California for 10 years. Being crafty and entertaining was a big part of my life. I can throw a party at any moment and share part of my life on the shop’s boutiques blog.  Realizing I love helping and sharing tips with others, like Dear Abby! So this is where the idea of “Dear D’Arcy” was born! It is my place to share my style, tips, and tricks for caring for myself, living my life, getting things done, decorating, staying organized, and inspiring others to “Look good at any Age!”

Get to know me

I’m hoping I can share things that work for me to help you in some small way. Wanting you to feel like you can ask me anything,  your girlfriend you can trust, and I will try to help you. From recipes to fashion, I’ve got you covered.

You can be a working mom who is chic, stylish, classic, and even trendy at any age!

Little pleasures in life are essential, and I can’t wait to start sharing mine with you, D’Arcy.

Get to know me

A Little Q&A

Answers to questions that will help you get to know me better!

  • Where were you born? California (The beach is my inner peace)
  • When did you know your career would be in fashion or interior design? At about age 2, playing with Barbies… I loved creating outfits and building her House from scratch out of boxes.
  • What would you call your style? I dress for how I feel that day! I would say I am more classic and a little trendy. I love gorgeous layers and a great pair of jeans. Accessories finish an outfit; shoes make the outfit! I love mixing affordable with labels (my mom called me Lucy, the label lover).

Just a few more:

  • What is your favorite color?  Pale pink, I also love cream & gold!
  • What is your favorite color in your Home? I am obsessed with black and white, and I am in love with black and white stripes! These two colors make changing for the seasons so easy. Add a pop of color for that season, and it works.
  • Use single words to describe yourself. She is organized, hard-working, creative, outspoken, spiritual, loving, personable, honest, talkative, stylish!
  • Favorite Bible Verse: Philippians 4:13 all things!
  • My mom and my sister are the two female cheerleaders in my life. I adore them and am lucky to have them in my life. Both are very creative: My mom is a hairdresser, and my sister is a Hollywood make-up artist.

 

Wedding Photos

Children? Yes, I am a mom of two boys. Our oldest works with my husband in our family business, Vandenberg Construction, and the youngest works in the window business. Our oldest married his dream girl on August 24, 2024, in a glass chapel in the forest. Talk about a magical wedding!

Get to know me

Are you married? Yes, I have been married to my dream guy and my biggest supporter for 30 years. In February!

What does your hubby do? He owned ski shops in California for 25 years and a construction business building homes. Ben is a talented contractor who has been building and remodeling homes for over 40 years. We’ve done many flips over the years as a team; I design the homes, and he builds them. When we moved to Utah almost 19 years ago, He helped me with our clothing boutiques and started Vandenberg construction. In the winter, you’ll find him on the slopes. He’s also my photographer!

A Few Favorites:

What are a few of your favorite things?   I love iced tea, entertaining, my porch, my family, cooking for my family, gardening, manicures I am obsessed with cute nails, bread ( I try not to eat it), Mexican food, creating cocktails, glitter, spray paint, decorating our home, traveling, and lake days. I would love to have a family compound!

Get to know me

I hope you liked getting to know me a little more.

What makes your blog different? Seeing fashion and beauty through the eyes of a “50-something” is a big difference. In my life experiences, I have been a business owner in 3 different creative fields (home decor and interiors, scrapbooking, and clothing boutiques). I show that you can change your career at any age. I love sharing things that work with my readers.

What are a few of your career achievements? Winning Kut from the Kloth’s National window display contest, South Ogden business association storefront display winner, guest fashion editor of Celestial Magazine, as well as being a stylist for six issues of Celestial Magazine, Two years with a monthly Fox 13 (The Place), fashion segments, organizing fashion shows for charity events, decorator chair for the Junior league Ogden Spring gala 2 years, a published scrapbook artist. To name a few of my favorites. Currently, I do a fashion segment on ABC’s Good Things Utah.

Get to know me

Thank you for being here, and remember, the best thing you can wear is a smile!

“Helping women look good and feel good at any age.”

OX, D’Arcy

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally
Party Season Style
Affordable and Easy Coastal Tablescape
Entertaining & Decorating
Easy Berry Lemon Tart Recipe
Recipes

Healthy Midlife Tips
Shoe Lover
The Best of The Best Cyber Week Sales 2023
Beauty Tips

Christmas Pj's for the Whole Family by Soma
Family
Styling Clients & Segment Host
6 Summer Pieces From Brindle Boutique
Sharing Travel

Services That Keep Me Pretty & Healthy:

  • Hair: Kayla Cissna at Shandalier Salon & Spa 385-626-1505
  • Wax: Jenna @ Empire wax =801-896-7007 Save 50% off with Code: DARCY50
  • Nailed Boutique = 801-532-6245
  • Eyelashes: Sharlee at Lashed 801-475-7000
  • Botox: Dr. Hillary 

*Some of my services are sponsored 

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A Few Blog posts you might find Helpful

Midlife supplements I take HERE

Hysterectomy in Midlife HERE

One of My most Pinned Blog Posts- Building a Pizza Bar Here

 

 

 

 

D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
oxox D'Arcy

For size reference: I am 5'9 1/2
Wear a size 6 and med Top

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—-Carrot Cake Cookie Recipe— HACK I created the b —-Carrot Cake Cookie Recipe—
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I created the best & easy to make treat your family will love…

🥕Boxed cake mix
For the easiest Carrot Cake Cookie’s Topped with Cream Cheese frosting …

You’ll need:
1 box carrot cake mix
16oz jar of apple sauce
1 1/2 cups of flour (you want it to be able to stand in cookie scoop)  high altitude needs a touch more.
1tablespoon cinnamon 
1cup of shedders and chopped carrots
1/2 cup or cup of walnuts depending on how many nuts you like

Stir in ingredients cake mix apple sauce, mix, add in cinnamon, add flour stir, fold in carrots stir, fold in nuts 
(I like to reserve a small amount of carrots and nuts for top of cookie frosting . Bake at 350 for 12-15 min depending on oven

Cream cheese Frosting :
1 softened block cream cheese
1 softened cub of butter
1 tablespoon spoon of Vanilla 
1 teaspoon cinnamon sugar
1 cup powdered sugar 

Full recipe details up on my blog. 

#carrotcakecookies #cookierecipe
Melanoma Cancer Journey Part 5 —2 month Update— Melanoma Cancer Journey 
Part 5

—2 month Update—

 1 month after my First laser treatment.

➡️Slide through the video clips and photos for ALL the updates➡️

I was diagnosed in December, Surgery in January and my first laser in February.

I’ve been sharing this Journey in hopes to help encourage you to make a skin check up appointment. 

Melanoma Cancer is deadly and very different from Skin Cancer.

Melanoma cancer is deadly,  early detection is key, before it can spread to lymph nodes, organs blood. 

If your new here or just seeing this post, I have 4 other parts with all the info and my Journey to date in Feed and stores saved to highlights with more info.

Thank you for all the kind messages, comments and prayers! I appreciate you being apart of my tribe.

Thank you and NOW make your Skin Appointment!

#skincancerawareness #skincancer #melanoma
🌿Simple Way’s I add Spring into our home. 🌿🌷Slide 🌿Simple Way’s I add Spring into our home.

🌿🌷Slide to view 12 photos that I hope to inspire you to add a little Spring to your home🌷🌿

🌿Tell me something your going to try and add to your home this Spring below⬇️ 

🌼If this is your vibe❤️ Like comment and follow for more

Easy Spring touches-spring in your home- ways to add spring
- bring the outside in
Cocktail and Chat With Suzanne and D’Arcy @crazyb Cocktail and Chat 
With Suzanne and D’Arcy
@crazyblondelifeblog @darcyvandenberg

Join use for a little catch up, in the kitchen and sharing a few recipes, along with stories.

Check out Suzanne’s Asparagus recipe  on her blog… as Well as casserole recipes

D’Arcy has a carrot cake and a yummy casserole recipe on hers.
 
Blogs are linked in our bios and stories.

We get together and have a fun chat… Different topic every month. Sometime we talk recipes & food, fashion or home decor and sometimes Midlife issues or simply ask questions.

We love for you to join in the conversation…. Grab a coffee☕️ or cocktail 🍹and join us for a chat✔️

#cocktailchat #midlife
Spring is here🌷🌿🌸 Let’s grab a coffee and Stroll Spring is here🌷🌿🌸

Let’s grab a coffee and Stroll the Gardens @parkcitygardens 

The Perfect Spring fix & coffee date.

Pick up a few plants for your home or garden, gives you the feel of Spring & boosts your spirits 🌸🌿🌷

🌸🌷What’s your favorite Spring Flower?
☕️Tell me your coffee order below ⬇️ 

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Spring Style over 50 Cool girls buy the Shoes & B Spring Style over 50

Cool girls buy the Shoes & Bags….
They truly finish off every outfit✔️

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#springinspo #styleover50 #coolgirls #midlife
This little spit fire is 23🤍 I can’t believe how f This little spit fire is 23🤍
I can’t believe how fast time has flown by 🤍

It’s been so fun watching him grow from a  little pistol into this young man🤍and amazing New daddy. 

His determination, and strong will, made him a great athlete, while his tender heart  and sensitivity & caring has made him kind to others. He’s loyal, has a strong work ethic and a joy for adventure. 

He’s our boy that would want to save every kitten and brought us home our beloved Binx and Little Miss…

The pickiest eater ever, until about the age of 12, and  He wouldn’t try a burger until age 13! (Thank goodness that’s all changed) 😉

So many memories , yet doesn’t seem like it could already be 23 years! 
Proud of the man and watching him become a daddy has been one of our biggest joys🤍🤍

Happy 23rd 🎂🎉Hampton Steel we couldn’t love you more🤍🤍🤍

#ourson #boymom 🎂 #loveyoumore❤️ #firesign #marchbirthday
If this is your Vibe…. Then follow for more! I lo If this is your Vibe….
Then follow for more!

I love to romanticize everyday life… with beautiful Tablescapes, arranging flowers for our homes weekly arrangements (Friday ‘s sink full) Easy Entertaining ideas, Sharing Recipes & a few short cuts and tips along the way. 

Gardening, Reading, Antiquing and thrifting are my “Grandma” hobbies! 

 I also share my love of Fashion, my melanoma Cancer & midlife Journey…

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~Dress like Ralph
~Cook like Ina
~Garden like Martha 

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I’m 54 here’s a few outfits from last week, I bet I’m 54 here’s a few outfits from last week, I bet you can create from your closet✔️

🌿With my easy Outfit formulas per look, you can head to your closet with these outfit inspirations and create 8 outfits to get YOU through your week. 

🌿What outfit are you going to re-create?

⚠️Fell in love with a piece in a specific outfit? 

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🌷Easy Appetizer 🌷 Tulip Baguette Bites A perfect 🌷Easy Appetizer 🌷
Tulip Baguette Bites

A perfect Spring time appetizer , you can make for Easter🌷🐰🥕🐣Or Mothers Day🌷

Recipe:
-French Baguette sliced
-Cherry tomatoes 
-Chives
-Basil leaves
-Spreadable Cream cheese or Boursin garlic & fine Herb Gournay cheese (I use @boursincheese) 

Prep: slice bread, cut chives to stems size, cut Basil into small leaves, cut tomatoes in 1/2, cut off tops to square up and cut little lines into the tomato to create the tulip ….

Assemble:
- spread cheese onto bread
- add two chive stems
-add basil leaves
-add 1 yellow 1 red cherry tomatoes 

Arrange on platter and serve.

🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

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SAVE to  reference later. 

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I know I love a good SALE.. —6 Spring Tops— 50% I know I love a good SALE..

—6 Spring Tops—

50% off LOFT Tops… I grabbed a couple of these… Can you guess which ones came home with me?

Which is your favorite ? 1-2-3-4-5-6

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Cheers to the Weekend & Happy Spring🌷🐰🌿🍷 Long Wee Cheers to the Weekend & Happy Spring🌷🐰🌿🍷

Long Week… and lots of creating… here’s a little sneak peek at our Easter Tablescape💙🌿🐇

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Friday Fun…. Oldest Daughter… If you are one, the Friday Fun….

Oldest Daughter…
If you are one, then you know!

What are you in the siblings line up?

#fridayfun #oldestdaughter #midlife
POV: You love Tuckernuck but are Boujee on a budge POV: You love Tuckernuck but are Boujee on a budget, and you find MY account…

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That’s how you’re supporting my small business & I appreciate that you help me share what I love, and are apart of my tribe. 🤍🤍🤍

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Last week in 20 Photos… Everything from what I wa Last week in 20 Photos…

Everything from what I was working on at Home,for Easter, outfits I wore, content I am creating, flower arrangements made, Recipes I worked on and some entertaining sneak peeks…

Romanticizing your life and making daily life special is easy and it’s just in the details🎀☕️🤍

If it was linkable, it’s on my Liketoknowit 🤍 Links are in my bio⬆️

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The joys of being a grandparent! Yes, ours is the The joys of being a grandparent! Yes, ours is the cutest😂😂😂

We’re having our first little sleep over tonight ❤️❤️❤️

Wish us luck💋

Grandparent humor…..
Funny reels - family love- love of being a grandparent 

#granparents #parenthumor #familyfirst❤️ call me COCO
Remember to protect your peace…. For those that m Remember to protect your peace….

For those that maybe needed to hear this today 🤍🙏🏻

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” – Proverbs 4:23

 CORINTHIANS 15:33
“Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” – 1 Corinthians 15:33

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18

“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” – Colossians 3:13-14

“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes.” – Psalm 37:7

Bible verses that bring peace!
#bibleversedaily #powerofprayer #protectyourpeace
Friday I’m in LOVE…. Spring outfit inspo … A litt Friday I’m in LOVE….

Spring outfit inspo … A little bit Preppy, A Pop of Pink & Perfect for lunch with a friend!

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