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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Why I Love Dry Bar Blowouts

Dry Bar NYC

Dry Bar NYC

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My Sister and I after Our First Blow out & Style In NYC at the Parker Meridien Dry Bar (no Make up😬)

My personal Dry Bar products.... I have been using for 2 yearsā¤ļø

My personal Dry Bar products…. I have been using for 2 yearsā¤ļø

Dry Bar Las Vegas

Dry Bar Las Vegas

The New Bag and just launched Dry bar Book!

The New Bag and just launched Dry bar Book!

Oh My… Have you been to a dry Bar? If you haven’t it’s a must do when your in a town that has oneā¤ļø

What is a dry Bar you ask? It’s a “Happy Place ” for woman, to Have Great hair at a affordable price in a fun and Chic Salon with Fabulous smelling products and serves a yummy drink! Ā This is just a place for a Wash, blow out that gives you body and shine , finishing it off with great Styling! Ā No other services are preformed here which means no yucky smells and is spotless from hair and dust from nails! It’s a pure delight!

Let’s talk Hair… My Hair I am a natural blond with Silky straight thin hair but I have a decent amount for hair for it being fine….. My mom has been a hairdresser for over 40 years and has never felt hair like mine…. Yes it’s tricky hair! Ā (a huge reason I haven’t changed my hair since elementary school) Really… This is the first Year without bangs!!! We did try a perm once my senior year in High school… I want BIG 90’s hair and well let’s just say the perm didn’t take… When I washed my hair 2 days later it when back to stick straight!!! No Big hair for this girl… But Boy I tried with Hot rollers , sponge rollers, teasing and tons of Aqua Net! Ā  Ā My mom always cut my hair dry and I never got a hair wash in the Shampoo bowl…. Because it would be a nightmare of tangles!!!! I am very tender headed as well !

Years later I moved to Utah.. I found Nume Curling wands…. A curling Iron that actually curls my hair and stays for a whole day!! (more on Numa wands in Next week’s post) Mom wasn’t close anymore but we see each other almost every other month, which she’ll give me a trim and about once a year gives me some highlights (I didn’t need until my late 30’s and moving to Utah…the California Sun worked in my favor) Ā So I realized I need to find someone I could trust My hair too that wouldn’t kill me or ruin my delicate hair! My cute nail girl Sheridan was just finishing hair school and works at an Aveda salon. We talked about my hair at several nail appointments and I decided she listened to my concerns and really thought she could do a good job with my hair:). So Yes my First Hair appointment was in MY 40’s….. Ā I booked for some highlights, a cut and a blow out….. I loved it and she helped me to Trust someone besides my mama with my hair! Ā  I needed to give you this little background to help you understand why Blowouts are Special to Me….

The Dry Bar experience ….. My First time was with My Sister Tiana (who has fab Hair, thick, curly and is not tender headed . She’s a natural brunette and can do anything to her hair) We were in NYC for Fashion Week and it was a Bucket list to go to a dry Bar…. I bought a Dry Bar blow dryer a couple years ago and some of their product and I was in LOVEā¤ļø Ā I started looking into what is this Dry Bar…A place that Just Blows out your Hair swears they give you body to all types of hair and Style that last a couple of Days??? (I am lucky if mine last the day!). So this was something I was intrigued by. Is this true could they give me a style that last even for 2 days… Not kill my head or rip out my hair from tangling it into a mess…. Why yes .. YES they could!!!!

Dry Bar NYC, We arrived to be treated with a mimosa and met our cute Stylist… Who asked us what we wanted…the Straight, Manhattan, Cosmo, Mai Tai, dirty Martini, southern comfort, Etc I opted for The Southern Comfort Big Hair , lots of Volume with curlsā¤ļøā¤ļø Ā It was Ā such a great experience and our hair lasted 3 days..(mine stayed curled 2 but still had body) We went again While in New York!! It was such a treat not to have to worry about hair on our Trip!

On My Birthday Ā we were in Las Vegas, The Dry bar Opened here in July so of course it was a must do with my mom…..when we arrived Home from our Trip The New Book & bag was on my doorstep (Can’t wait to read it ALL) I’ll keep you posted😘

This has become a favorite & something I will experience when I am in any City that has a Dry Bar ( I keep asking for them to put one at Farmington station in Utah) Ā so please do yourself a favor and make an appointment for a blow out at The Dry Bar….. www.thedrybarcom. For cities near you….. Can’t get to one…. Order their products on their website Ā or online at Nordstrom.com Ā The smell of their Products are amazing and have changed my hair! Ā Dry Bar loverā¤ļø

Hope your hair has great style this week😘 D’Arcy



D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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Style over 50 Outfit of the day … Wardrobe basics Style over 50
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Wardrobe basics but a little elevatedāœ”ļø 

Cute elevated casual, Thanksgiving/Holiday outfit inspo.🦃 or holiday shopping
Even running errands in style

🚨sale ā¬‡ļø
No iron blouse with tie bow sleeve detail 

🚨 sale ā¬‡ļø
Statement Jean-bling side detail jeans 
So soft and comfortable I had plenty of room which gave them a littler baggie look/feel

Affordable find puffer vest- so good you’d never know it was an affordable option.. under $40

Veronica beard inspired by tennis shoes for $27

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And…just like ThATšŸŽšŸŽ„ It’s the holiday season! Thr And…just like ThATšŸŽšŸŽ„
It’s the holiday season!

Three Outfits from the NEW AVARA Holiday launch…

You can mix and match these pieces all seasonšŸŽ„šŸŽā¤ļø

You’ll be seeing me restyle  these all season longā¤ļø
From  casual to festive dress these piece up or down, wear the plaid top with jeans, the sweater with trousers, the sequins with a white button up and tennis shoes… you get the drift…

The pieces are going fast and you’ll be sad, you missed them, or one, šŸ˜‰ if you don’t grab it nowā¤ļøšŸŽ„šŸŽ

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Have a great evening pretty ladies🌸
ā€œPerfect for the Holidays: Mozzarella Pesto Rolls ā€œPerfect for the Holidays: Mozzarella Pesto Rolls by @cachevalleycreamery #AD

This recipe comes straight from the Free Cache Valley Creamery Holiday E-Cookbook!

These easy and delicious Mozzarella Pesto Rolls were a hit at our family get-together last week and are perfect for upcoming holiday gatherings. Made with simple ingredients, including Cache Valley Creamery cheese, and served with homemade or store-bought pesto and marinara sauces for dipping.

You can find the full recipe in the Free Holiday E-Cookbook. If you’re entertaining or headed to a party this holiday season, you’ll find plenty of quick and easy recipes that are sure to become family favorites!

And don’t forget, when you download the Free Holiday E-Cookbook from @cachevalleycreamery, you’ll also be entered into the Holiday Gift Basket Giveaway, closing November 11!ā€

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Great Gift Idea for the Tea/Honey loveršŸŽ This no Great Gift Idea for the Tea/Honey loveršŸŽ

This no mess, beautiful glass honey or syrup dispenser. 

Easy pump, no drip dispenser, with glass holding base, pretty enough to set on your counter.

Great and affordable giftšŸŽ

The glass syrup dispensers are great for your Tea/coffee/soda lovers (comes with several label flavors)
Great way to remove plastics out of your kitchen

-pretty glass cups for tea/ coffee /hot coco come with gold silverware 

Honey dispenser 
I am giving a few of these with a bottle of local Utah honey šŸÆ 

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A little Sunday inspiration… 8 quotes I’ve found A little Sunday inspiration…

8 quotes I’ve found really HIT 
In midlifeā¤ļø

āž”ļø slide through my 8 photos to read…I know a few of them or maybe all will resonate with you tooāœ”ļø

Have a beautiful & blessed Sunday pretty ladies šŸ™šŸŒø

Styling suede over 50. 
This darling knot front detail suede dress and cropped wide leg suede pants, I think you’ll love as much as I do ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø

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Melanoma Facial Cancer Journey On this journey… Melanoma Facial 
Cancer Journey 

On this journey… I have really researched and have found the importance of clean Beauty, Clean living and what we put into our bodies, is more important NOW than ever.

Here’s what I would Purchase from the Sephora Sale and also give as giftsšŸŽ 

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🚨 This is also your reminder to Make a skin check appointment.🚨🚨🚨

🧼🧽🧓 The song that’s always in my Head ā€œClean -upā€ ā€œClean-upā€ everybody do your share…

I am trying to share how important it is to ā€œClean-Upā€ your beauty, your home and what you put into & on your body. 

Let me know if you have any questions in the comments belowā¬‡ļø

Have a beautiful Friday Pretty ladiesšŸ…¾ļøāŒ D’Arcy
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ā€œCranberry Cheddar Caramel Dip Recipe with @cachev ā€œCranberry Cheddar Caramel Dip Recipe with @cachevalleycreamery #AD

The holidays are almost here, and Cache Valley Creamery launched their Free Holiday E-Cookbook today, featuring several recipes perfect for holiday entertaining and gatherings.

Today, I’m making an easy Cranberry Cheddar Caramel Dip served with apples, pretzels, and shortbread. It’s perfect as an appetizer or dessert for your holiday party!

You can find the full recipe in the Free Holiday E-Cookbook, and when you sign up, you’ll automatically be entered into the Holiday Gift Basket Giveaway!

The gift basket includes:

Wine and cheese board

1 year of free cheese

Sustainable cheese wrap

Cheese knives and tools

Cheese grater

Cache Valley Creamery socks

Cache Valley Creamery apron

This giveaway is not sponsored, endorsed, administered by, or associated with Instagram, Facebook, or Meta.

For terms and conditions, see official rules.ā€

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HOME TIP, JUST in TIME for Holiday Hosting…. ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ HOME TIP, JUST in TIME for Holiday Hosting….
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Easy way to clean your silver in 3 minutes….

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I find the hidden gems, so you don’t have to. šŸŽGif I find the hidden gems, so you don’t have to. šŸŽGift Idea Edit

9 Affordable 
 ā€œVintage Inspiredā€ Home finds
I tell me ā€œBesties’s aboutā€ā€¦

-Tea Strainer you’ll give as gifts
-Magnetic Brass measuring spoons
-Cutest drying rack
-Honey/Syrup dispenser 
-dish soap/handsoap/candle holder 
-Table lamps
-French sea salt
-Beautiful safe pans
-Mirror we all need over 40

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I’ve got 2 sets of šŸ’Æ cotton pj’s and two plush cozy robes your going to love ā¤ļø 
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My Birthday Month was a good month for Outfit’s yo My Birthday Month was a good month for Outfit’s you lovedāœ”ļø

I am Now 55 and these are the Top 18 outfit you lovedā¤ļø, that I sharedāœ”ļøāœ”ļøāœ”ļø

-Slide āž”ļø Through All 18 to see some of the things that made you like the outfit…

-What some of the outfits had on common
-Trends your loving
-What colors I shared you picked as favorites 
-Classic pieces you always love

I loved all of these ā€œfitsā€ but #3 was fun- #2 I got stopped several times to tell be I looked ā€œ chicā€#6 I could believe the sale … 16 is comfy and cute

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Strong Women Rise… Strong Women Win… She’s HER own Strong Women Rise… Strong Women Win… She’s HER own Force from within….

I love thatā¤ļø 

I feel so many Women, don’t give themselves enough credit…

As Moms, Wives, business owners, hard workers and the ā€œdoersā€
They’re doing it all and carrying the weight …most of the time with a smile, and hiding a worry, a weakness or guilt!

Remember you are STRONG.. you are a force … and it’s ok to not to give a dam what others think… 

And sometimes… it’s ok not to Give a  dam ā€œwhat’s for dinner!ā€šŸ˜‰šŸ„°
Or that the laundry didn’t get done, or that your Christmas Tree isn’t up after Halloween…

Sometimes the ā€œgive a damā€ can turn back on tomorrow šŸ˜‰ā¤ļø

Happy November pretty ladies, remember as we head into a ā€œmomsā€ busiest season… it’s important to take care of yourself, breathe and know when to turn on/off your ā€œgive a dam switchā€ šŸ˜‰ā¤ļøšŸ„°

On another note… How cute is this outfit for thanksgiving? šŸ¦ƒšŸ‚ 
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Funny … not funny.. working moms… busiest time of the year
Thanksgiving Outfit IdeašŸ‚šŸ¦ƒ PROOF Good Basics can Thanksgiving Outfit IdeašŸ‚šŸ¦ƒ

PROOF Good Basics can easily be ā€œElevatedā€ with a Blazer for a ā€œChic Polished Lookā€ 

Add some great accessories, which always ā€œfinish off the lookā€ āœ”ļøāœ”ļøāœ”ļø

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You can never go wrong with jeans and a blazerāœ”ļø

Tell me something you’re looking for… to help you this holiday seasonā¬‡ļø

-Thanksgiving outfits 
-Holiday outfits
-decorating inspo
-Recipes
-cocktail recipes
-Gift ideas (for who)
Custom-made luxury. Pre washed for Purity. @three Custom-made luxury.
Pre washed for Purity.

@threegirlscurtains  specializing in custom pre-washed curtains because they care deeply about the craftsmanship and sustainability & pieces that are ready to hang.

Not only are their curtains luxurious and beautiful they’re also clean, safe and gentle for your home and family.

I’ve partnered with Three Girls Curtains and couldn’t be more excited to finally share the Zaria double French pleat in green stripe with you. Their attention to detail and craftsmanship finished off our master bedroom remodel ā€œlike Jewlery for an outfitā€ The curtains are to your walls. 

It’s all in the details…
November šŸ‚šŸonly means… We’re getting ready…. Some November šŸ‚šŸonly means…
We’re getting ready….

Some changes are coming….

@kingofchristmas Tree has arrivedāœ”ļø and I’ve started decking the halls ….the Holidays will be hear before you know it…

Seriously, if November goes as fast as October did Christmas will be here in 3 daysšŸ¤¦šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

Are you in the market for a new Christmas tree this year?
Kinds of Christmas makes the most beautiful Trees, wreaths and garlands for all your holiday greenery needs! 

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Yes, we’re adding yet another Tree this year:) stay tunedā€¦šŸŽ„

When do you Start decorating?
I actually started my tree decorating clients tomorrow…

If you live in Utah and want your Tree-porch- A Tablescape or House decorated for the Holidays:) send me DmšŸŽ„šŸŽ„šŸŽ„šŸŽ„

Don’t worry, I am not skipping ThanksgivingšŸ‚šŸ¦ƒ I have a lot of fun content to share with you- outfits-recipes- Decor-tablescapes ….
šŸ‚Happy Halloween šŸŽƒ šŸ‚ Come on a Fall walk with Lit šŸ‚Happy Halloween šŸŽƒ šŸ‚

Come on a Fall walk with Little Man & Coco … and see what we seešŸ‚ 
šŸŽ„Watch tell the end to see what ā€œCoachā€ did for him…

This little guy loves trees, and is at peace outside, he’d be out here all day, everyday…

He loves walks to look at trees, loves to swing in the hammock to look at the trees, he loves to touch the leaves and explore šŸ‚

It’s the sweetest thing to watch, 
And I enjoy every moment and don’t rush any of themšŸ‚šŸ‚ I am happy to look at leaves for hoursšŸ‚

Being a grandma has changed me in the most beautiful way.
I don’t rush through moments anymore.
I don’t stress the little things like I used to.
Because now I know how fast it all goes. šŸ„°ā¤ļø

Incase your new here… I go by ā€œCOCO ā€œand my hubby is ā€œCoachā€
They say you shouldn’t… Who’s ā€œThey anyway’s?ā€ 🚨A They say you shouldn’t…
Who’s ā€œThey anyway’s?ā€

🚨Attention Fashion Police🚨
Age is just a number!!!

You can wear Leather pants over 50….

Hello, I am D’Arcy and I am 55 and I don’t let a number dictate my styleāœ”ļø

Ladies, don’t let a number stop you from wearing what you love, or what makes you feel good!!

🚨3 things you should DO…

-Wear what makes you feel good 
-Wear what flatters your figure 
- Wear what make YOU feel confident 

3 Things you DON’t want to do

- Care about others opinions 
- Dress your age 
-Wear things that DON’T fit well, and are uncomfortable or don’t flatter your figure.

🌸Pretty Ladies, when you look good, you feel good and you do goodāœ”ļøāœ”ļøāœ”ļø

That’s a mood lifter right there!

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Thursday night Lives are Back… Missed tonight’s?… Thursday night Lives are Back…

Missed tonight’s?… well it’s right here to view, so grab a glass of your favorite… and tune inā¤ļøšŸ˜‰

You asked for them.. and I answered YES..
This week I decided to share Happy Mail..

Things I’ve purchased, brands I am working with, pr packages, gift ideas, and more.

Each week will be different, a great way to connect with you, have a chat, share things, create a recipe, maybe a decorating tip or two, special guests, and sometimes maybe just a chat.

I’ll be doing these Thursday’s at 4 or 6pm Mnt. 
(I’ll tell you the night before) 

Thank you for tuning in and encouraging me to start them up again. ā¤ļøšŸ˜‰šŸ„°

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I appreciate your support and you shopping my links as this is a small way, to support my small business, and I can do what I love and share with you.. at No cost to you! 
Thank you šŸ…¾ļøāŒ, D’Arcy

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Dm me and I’ll send you them, or follow me on Liketoknowit or shopmy links are in my bio/linketree

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šŸ–¤Let’s talk about two great basics everyone needs…

A great fitting and quality white tee and affordable under $50 great fitting, quality jeans.

Classic tee made in the USA such great quality, and fit. 

These fun under $50 jeans that are super soft and great quality and fit tts 

Loafers by on major sale 

Style and layer so many ways. 
Buy changing out shoes and adding a 3rd pieces

Tell me do you have a favorite tee? Are you looking for affordable jeans?
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