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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Giving back….How YOU can plan a Homeless giving bag night!

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Giving back… Service project-Homeless giving bags. Goal for 2017 was 300 bags! We went over goal 310!

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Setting up the product for a successful assembly night

 

 

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Items included in each of the bags.

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This Years bags …Hope Community health service donated these fabulous back packs

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In years past we use the xxlg zip lock bags (I’ve purchase at Target)

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Community that come together for a good cause

I thought I would share with you one of my favorite nights of the year….. Our Annual Service project for the Homeless “giving bags” I started organizing this event 3 years ago with the idea if a family could make 5 to 10 bags a family “what could a community come together and do?”    “Well it Takes A Village”

Is a true statement!  My first year I set a goal of 100 bags and made a list of items I felt would be helpful to people in need, created a Facebook event with my idea and the list of items and a start date for collecting items and a Assembly date . Letting them know I would provide Refreshments and treated it like a Holiday party!

Here is A sample of what I sent out on a Facebook event for this Year with a goal of 300 bags!

It’s our 3rd annual Homeless Giving bag service project assembling Night… We did 220 bags last year and I would love to do 300 this year!

For those of you that helped, donated and assembled … We deliver a large portion to the streets of salt lake and Ogden & then families take 5/6 bags and Handed out to Homeless in need ALL year! It was a great way to give back and help people in need on the Street!

Donations can be dropped off at my home…. NEED BY NOVEMBER 27th…..Here’s or list of Items were looking for….(Any amount is perfect you don’t have to get all 300 of an item)  Please just comment what your getting and how many so we can keep track of what’s needed❤️      Assembly night will be December 3rd ( A Donation of time is wonderful too for assembly night!)

Xxlg zip bag 300 (Vandenberg’s provide)

Waters. 300  

Granola bars 600

Fruit snacks 600

Cup of noodle 300

Vit c 300

Tooth brushes 300

Tooth paste 300

Beanies 300

Socks 300

Gloves 300

Hand sanitizer 300

Cheese crackers 600

Mints roll 300

Hand warms 300

Comb 300

Soap 300

Any donation’s is wonderful to make this “give back” event wonderful!

As the items start arriving I keep track and keep adjusting our needs on the event page. As we get to the last week of donation deadline I put out a need on a regular Facebook post and other social media….. I feel blessed people always come through. People really do want to help and do care to help a good cause. We’re lucky to live in a great community of wonderful people who want to give back.

We started a family tradition with handing out our giving bags….We have a couple of other families go with us to Salt lake. We enjoy dinner at Cheesecake Factory, See the lights at Temple square and hand out bags with our families at a couple of shelters. It’s always an emotional night 1. there is so many in need you feel heartbroken 2. It really helps you count your blessings 3. It warms your heart to see peoples face when you give them a bag 4. Your children (any age) really love being apart of something so special.  

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Family photo from 2016 viewing the lights in Salt lake city

           You too can start a” Giving bag” service project start small 50 bags and ask your family, friends, neighbors and community members! You’ll be shocked how fast your bag items add up!    

I am happy to answer any question you may have, just leave a comment below. OX, D’Arcy                           



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D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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“You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.”
Song of Solomon 4:7 ESV / 5 

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The lip color everyone is gonna want 💛💛 A pretty The lip color everyone is gonna want 💛💛

A pretty duo in a  exclusive set on SALE pillow top lipstick and plumper gloss 

I grab this brands  exclusive lip sets every year .. this one has never been part of the sale and it makes a great gift too! 

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Midlife beauty| NSALE | lip combo| lip set| pillow talk
🤍Friday Favorites 🤍 20 Slides full of….⬇️ Things 🤍Friday Favorites 🤍

20 Slides full of….⬇️
Things I am ..
Eating-Creating-Wearing 
Using & loving 

Over 50 

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Outfit inspo- lifestyle- clean beauty- Flowers-recipes- garden- bags,  shoes and shorts
I am 54… What I Wore on a long weekend with my hub I am 54… What I Wore on a long weekend with my hubby in Park City⛰️

7 Travel outfits I created 
you’re going to love. 

From dinner & drinks. To walks & morning coffee, long lunches, relaxing pool days, cocktails & garden tours…

Easy and comfortable, travel well.
Creating Stylish & easy to wear outfits with great wardrobe staples.

Mixing classic pieces with a few on trend pieces is a great way to give your travel looks an updated feel.

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Outfits:
1. Fun with fringe skirt set
2. Workout dress built in bra & shorts
3. Catch of day & white jeans
4. Lace trim Tank & Faux leather Bermuda shorts
5. White linen top & Pants
6. Crochet Cover up 
7. Denim jorts & Button up

Midlife travel outfits | midlife style| chic style| style over 50| couple getaway|
Chic Amazon Finds .. For “It Girl” Style You won Chic Amazon Finds ..
For “It Girl” Style 

You won’t believe how affordable these finds are … you really won’t believe how great the quality is….

Great gift ideas too✔️

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Amazon | Amazon finds| chic finds | affordable finds
🚨Sale 🚨 Pottery Barn or Walmart? The prices say W 🚨Sale 🚨
Pottery Barn or Walmart?

The prices say Walmart but the design and quality say Pottery Barn..

The cutest pots & planters for your home and garden🏡🪏🪴🫜🧑‍🌾

I wanted all of them but only 1/2 came home with me… well maybe more than that 😉

Striped pots
Scalloped
Clay, wicker etc

Garden pots

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Midlife| gardening | Plant lover | | Walmart|  high quality affordable prices
I just want to have enough time to do the things I I just want to have enough time to do the things I need to do….

And enough time to do the things I want to do….

Who else???

I swear the older I get the faster time flys by!

Who else feels this way?🌸🥰

Home projects, gardening, cooking style, fashion, travel, vintage lover, antiquing, fashion segments, reader, beauty lover, mom, wife, love your life.

#midlifewoman #midlifeawakening #midlifestyle
Forget hot girl summer, it’s garden granny summer Forget hot girl summer, 
it’s garden granny summer…

Give me the simple life… Gardening, fresh flowers and homegrown tomatoes.. 

Who’s with me?

Granny summer/gardening/fresh tomatoes/ home grown flowers and vegetables /utah living/
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Getting ready for a friends Anniversary Party…

Love the look of Tuckernuck but not the price? This great Amazon find has the look and feel! 
I am so impressed with the quality.. I have it in 3 colors✔️ fits tts in a small 

Accessories always finish off the look and feel…It’s the small details that matter

-Horse bit detail slides Amazon find-look expensive 

Quilted bag by Caroline Hill

- Julie Vos & French Kande Jewlery

FAST Manicure you can do in the car💅🏻

Gift idea- Roses Forever 🤍🌹

Great look for Party season, cocktails and  events
⚠️Perfect wedding guest dress NOT in white.. in the colored versions

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Melanoma Cancer Journey
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—3rd Laser surgery & Update— and STAGES

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 12 weeks  after my First (Scar revision treatment) laser treatment round 3 CO2 doing Excel V Laser treatment.

🚨Scar revision 
C02 2 kinds of laser
Deep core - (first 2 treatments)
Or EXcel V - (3rd treatment)
*Excel V - redness & topical
*Deca- core & topical 

I was diagnosed in December, Surgery in January and my first laser in February.

I’ve been sharing this Journey in hopes to help encourage you to make a skin check up appointment. 

Melanoma Cancer is deadly and very different from Skin Cancer.

Melanoma cancer is deadly,  early detection is key, before it can spread to lymph nodes, organs, &  blood. 

If your new here or just seeing this post, I have 6 other parts with all the info and my Journey to date in Feed and stores saved to highlights with more info.

Thank you for all the kind messages, comments and prayers! I appreciate you being apart of my tribe.

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What I DIDN’T do to prepare for…Midlife🌸💕 I Didn’t What I DIDN’T do to prepare for…Midlife🌸💕
I Didn’t Worry about it…

Really, why worry about aging… instead YOU can prepare for it!

Knowledge is power, and Midlife now is completely different than how our mothers and grandmothers dealt with it. 

We have more information, conversation, products and help on the topic than generations before.

What you can do to Prepare for Menopause/aging….

-Eat well, 

-Exercise 

-Get outside and get real vitamin D 

- Drink lots of water

-Take supplements that will help the processes

- Ask questions

-Go to a Hormonal Doctor

-Share what works for you with Friends💕

- Get more Protein and Fiber

- Get sleep (it’s hard but figure out what works for you)

💕These are just a few things that can help! (I am not a Doctor) just sharing things I have found that really make a difference.

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More up on the Blog⬆️
—What I’ve worn lately— 17 Looks you’ll wear all —What I’ve worn lately—
17 Looks  you’ll wear all Summer 

Several BEST sellers worn on repeat
-sandals-shorts-tops-dresses-bags 

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The Classic Summer outfit
Button up shirt & shorts 
Sweatshirt over shoulder 
Classic miller sandals, straw hat and bag

Styling satin lace shorts of 50

These little bit sexy shorts paired with denim and styled with cane and leather Mary Jane’s and tote

Classic RL polo dress
And on major sale two color ways 

-Ny ballcap also on sale 
-Miller sandals

Striped v neck top 3/4- affordable find

Front pocket shorts 

Colorful light weight sweater 

Affordable sandals 
Vegan tote

RL ruffle collar reworked button up

Wide leg cuff Spanx pants 
I have a code

Affordable gingham dress
Butter soft sweatshirt 

Designer bag and sandals

Denim shirt 
White jeans 
Tortoiseshell Two buckle slides 
Ball cap

Blazer 
Cashmere sweater
White jeans 

I have a code

Lace America button up
Denim shorts 
Red bathing suit 
Red miller sandals 
Ball cap

Sports dress
I have a code

Affordable shorts dress
And sweater 

Slide sandals

Affordable great quality lace dress

Here’s these shorts again (3 times so far)
 Linen peplum  top 
Straw bag and hat
Platform slides

Linen short set 
$5 lobster tank 
Miller sandals again 4 times now
Straw crochet bag w/ charms

Denim puff sleeve top
Linen slight barrel pant
Designer bag
Ankle shoe

Affordable Short set

Again tortoiseshell 2 buckle sandal 
Again butter soft sweatshirt (I have a code)

Comment shop for links and codes 

Affordable Skirt set 
Green slide sandals
Walmart finds that look and feel like Anthro✔️ I Walmart finds that look and feel like Anthro✔️

I even found very similar styles and items at my last Anthro stop❤️❤️❤️

You’re going to love these finds… Guess what  came home with me??

-Beaded sandals 
-Coastal Sweaters 
-Denim ruffle placemats, runner
-Polo Button ups 
-Scented candles 
-Floral Tumbler 
-Rattan placemats
-Beautiful serving bowl
-Denim Dress with embroidered 
-Tableware

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I am all about A Granny Summer… This COCO has bee I am all about A Granny Summer…

This COCO has been gardening what feels like my whole life, my mom loved gardening and her English gardens were beautiful, her tomatoes and herbs always yummy;) she taught me what each flower & veggies types were and how to grow & care for them etc. 

She would teach our boys “how to smell”  not really, but she would walk them around had have them smell each flower and how they smelt differently.. they’re puffing noses were so cute❤️

Gardening has always been apart of my life , every home, it was fun to rebuild and create… Try new things, depending on the land etc. it’s hard work, yet relaxing and so rewarding…. 

Over the years, I taught myself how to seed my flowers and veggies, what I could dry and harvest, how to can, what I liked to bake with, and  what freezes well. 

I would teach our boys, have them help pick apples and berries, take them to garden shops and have them pick favorites and let them plant, they would dig and help pull weeds… 

Gardening isn’t just for Grannies… it’s a hobby or career you can pick up at any age, but I have to say,  I can’t wait to take our NEW Grandson out to the gardens and learn, dig and plant…. He’s only 6 months and we already know he loves nature, and he loves plants.. he’s at peace in nature and loves to touch all the different plants and trees… he  loves the leaves slightly blowing in the breeze…. He’ll just stare, It’s so cute! 

With age, I do enjoy it more, as I enjoy the slower moments and the time gardening takes…

How about you? How do you feel about gardening?🌱🪴🌻🫛🪏🏡🧑‍🌾🫜⛲️

Gardening/ grannie summer/ utah living/ grannie hobby/ Martha Stewart/ outside life / find me in the garden
Coastal Grandmother Style over 50🌊 I don’t know Coastal Grandmother Style over 50🌊

 I don’t know about you… but I’ll never get tired of - Classic Coastal Style …or being sun kissed☀️

No matter what you call it.. Living like Nancy, Coastal Grandmother, East Coast Summer, Nautical Style…. And American Summers are always perfect🐚🇺🇸🌊☀️

It’s  always pretty, fresh, a little romantic, easy, breezy and perfect at any age🌊🤍

This Dress would be cute for Sundays, Brunch, Bridal or baby shower,  and garden party…. Of course vacation🌊
 
What’s your Beach, coastal style? 

Are you Headed out of office soon?

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Thanks to my good friend Gina  @gee_run  for taking my photos 😉🫶🏻

#coastalgrandmother #eastcoastsummer #outofoffice #styleover50
Everybody loves a spritz: Here’s the Perfect one Everybody loves a spritz: 
Here’s the Perfect one to celebrate 250 years America❤️🤍💙🇺🇸🍒🍾

Cheers to America 🥂
Happy 4th of July🇺🇸

Happy 4th of July  Pretty ladies🇺🇸
❤️💙🤍
May God Bless this country and you and your family have a day full of Food, Fun and many blessings .

Thank you to all who have severed this great country 🇺🇸 As our Freedoms arent FREE… they came at a cost 💙🙏🏻

Easy cocktail 1 Astro popsicle and top with Prosecco 🫐🍾 top with a cherry 🍒 

Yum 
Celebrating 250 years/ America land of the free/ champagne spritzer/ Astro pops/
Saturday…I think it was the 4th of July 🇺🇸❤️🤍💙🍒🫐 Saturday…I think it was the 4th of July 🇺🇸❤️🤍💙🍒🫐

Happy 250 America 

Slide ➡️to see more photos of this historic barn and iconic American flag 🇺🇸

Taking you back to the Country mountains, with a scenic stream, and gorgeous views …

A perfect spot for an American flag sweater photo shoot… 
(I like to think Ralph Lauren would pick this spot too😉)

Have you been to Park City, Utah?  Make sure to stop by this beautiful barn🇺🇸

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Park city| | historic barn| | Flag sweater| white jeans| gigantic flag| 4th of July
Would you believe I threw this together in under Would you believe I threw this together in  under 1 hour….
Here’s a peek at our 4th Bbq table- 

… using a mix of paper goods and real Dishes

🚨the paper goods are Available for  delivery TODAY or pick up

A great way to make paper goods look more intentional ❤️🤍💙 by layering with a few Real dishes & using 
Masion jars for drinking glasses is cute for a bbq
With red white paper straws

Silverware is grab and go  as I slid them in mini brown paper bags and tied with string …

Gold charges to hold paper plates and blue and white vintage china dessert plates to hold mini candy or desserts 

Gold lamps rechargeable

French pitchers filled with hydrangeas and flags 

Cherry napkin holders (vintage) linked similar

Tablecloths- layered the ribbon is wipeable (great for outdoors & kids) layered with a vintage Cherry print table cloth from the 30’s and checkered placemats … add interest and texture.

🫐Tip 1:
use what you have- look around and use things in a different way..

🍒Tip 2:
Having Good table setting basics helps you to create easily by mixing and matching 

🫐Tip 3:
Use Food, Candy you have on hand to help create a theme

🍒Tip 4: To create a theme fast and affordable use paper goods and layer with your regular dishes, chargers or serving pieces

💙For more tips and My list of basic Entertaining pieces, linens, stemware, check out my blog

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happy birthday America | Tablescape | red white blue| | 4th Bbq| entertaining tips | utah living| family dinner | 4th of July
American Summer🇺🇸 ❤️💙🤍 How cute are these Amazon American Summer🇺🇸
❤️💙🤍

How cute are these Amazon finds that  feel like Tuvkernuck..

Slide to view these cute outfits you’ll wear all summer long..

Different color options are available ✔️

#LTKgrwm #LTKOver40 #LTKSaleAlert

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Do you have fun plans for tomorrow? 

American summer | Amazon finds| red white blue| utah influencers | over 50 style
Instant Dopamine Every time —-New Shoes—- Donald Instant Dopamine Every time
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Donald Pilner shoes 
Stylish, Comfortable & easy to chase grandkids in….

Talk about chasing grandkids—How cute is this easy and chic outfit…. Perfect for caring for littles

Headed to the Parade or fireworks? What about the Zoo- state fair or breakfast in the Park…You’ll look Chic, be comfortable and ready for anything ✔️✔️✔️

Outfit details 
-Donald Pliner tassel slip on loafer/ mule

-Striped button-up top

-Spanx 360 denim- light weight denim Culotte with front & back pockets and tummy smoothing  panel

🚨 15% discount code in the link

- Staw hat 
-Gold metallic belt 
-neck scarf 
- Caroline Hill Straw bag

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