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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Midlife, Hormones, and How I deal with it!

 Midlife, Hormones, and How I deal with it!

Please note I am not a Doctor. This is my personal plan and Journey. See your physician before adding any supplements to your diet.

Midlife, Hormones, and How I deal with it!

This is 49, Looking and feeling good over 40!  Shop my look HERE

Bioidentical Hormones

  1. Testosterone  2 Troches
  2. Progesterone- Rx 150 mg.

Supplements: My Dr. Subscribed These are medical grade Supplements

  1. Dim once a day to helps with conversion to Estrogen.(CDGEstroDIM)
  2. Vitamin D
  3. Vitamin B12 injection 1 week
  4. Multivitamin/energy
  5. Vitamin C (integrative)
  6. Nu Adapt (stress Reduction ) helps with cortisol level

Supplements I take on my Own:

-Goli Apple Cider Vinegar

-Biotin

-Celltrient protect cellular support

-Vitamin E (if I am going to be in a lot of suns)

-Magnesium (which you need to absorb the Vitamin D)

-Collagen daily in my coffee (I love this one) 

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The Joys of Midlife! I started noticing a change about 42. Not ever having a weight gain issue, I was slowly gaining about 5 LBS a year. ( no matter what I did, I couldn’t lose it) My energy wasn’t what it used to be, I wasn’t sleeping as well as I used too and my skin was so dry. ( I did not have hot flashes, and I still had a regular period)

I would ask my OBGYN to check my thyroid and hormones. (Which she said was fine) That I was experiencing the joys of aging. At 44, I wouldn’t say I liked that answer, I had gained 15-17 LBS that I couldn’t lose, and I knew my body… something was up.

I researched and heard about Bioidentical Hormone therapy replacement Doctors. They do a more extensive blood panel and really look at all of the hormone levels. More info HERE

Tip: When looking for Hormone Replacement Therapy, Doctors make sure they are Bio-Identical specialists and, most importantly, they do the Saliva test and the blood work. The saliva test also checks your cortisol level. ( how and when your body handles stress) More HERE  High Cortisol can lead to Stubborn Belly Fat! Cortisol can help control blood sugar levels, regulate metabolism, help reduce inflammation, and assist with memory formulation. It has a controlling effect on salt and water balance and helps control blood pressure.

The following simple tips may help to moderate cortisol levels:
  1. Lowering stress. People trying to lower their cortisol levels should aim to reduce stress. …
  2. Eating a good diet. …
  3. Sleeping well. …
  4. Trying relaxation techniques. …
  5. Taking up a hobby. …
  6. Learning to unwind. …
  7. Laughing and having fun. …
  8. Exercising.

Turning a long story short… As a result, I took the replacement therapy My Doctor prescribed for me at that time. Therefore within 3 months, my skin looked amazing, my energy was back, I was sleeping normally, and BEST of all, 12lbs came off without trying. 🎉

I did Whole30 that November and lost 16 more pounds and keep it off as a result.

Fast forward to covid…  Hormone replacement scripts ran out, no bloodwork, and my Doctor moved. Lots of Family Cooking and a 49th Birthday… Therefore All the weight is back, and so are the Symptoms above.

As a result, I researched new Doctors and found Dr. Kat At Renewal. Her practice is in Salt Lake City, and I love her. Dr. Kat is who Prescribed the above plan.  I’ve been retaking Hormone replacement for the last 20 days or so. Remember, Hormones take 30-90 days to start seeing results. I will give you an update in the future.

Follow my daily Journey on Instagram stories as I share my diet, How the hormones are working, and what I do for exercise. Instagram HERE 

Some of my Favorite items for fitness HERE

For a Quick Update: on Diet and exercise 

In addition to Hormones, I started Whole30 4 days ago, and I have been walking 5-8 miles a day for 7 weeks. However, I’ll keep you posted on my journey on Instagram and do an updated blog post in the future. In conclusion, I hope I helped shed some light on Midlife, Hormones, and How I deal with them!  

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12 Comments

Comments

  1. Darlene says

    July 16, 2021 at 3:46 pm

    Hormones.., hot flashes, weight gain, mood swings, night swears, etc. is no picnic!
    You are absolutely correct in finding help! It just seem like forever to get through it!
    Family is apart of this too and should be educated along with you this is no joke your
    Body is going through major changes. unfortunately fatigue and mood changes effect everyone around you. Family that is aware of what your going through sure helps and having Boys will someday help when there faced with a wife heading the same direction
    As Mom.
    It’s a new season in life,

    I hit menopause when I had the scrapbook store thus, we named the store
    “Seasons in tyme ( stole the spelling “tyme” from the name of hubby’s business!

    Prayers for a smooth journey .

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      July 16, 2021 at 3:54 pm

      Hello, Darlene, Thank you for taking the time to read and respond.
      Isn’t it crazy how we all have a different journey as well.
      It’s so important to get help.
      I am lucky that I haven’t had hot flashes (I actually am always cold) and thank goodness no mood swings yet.
      My Scrapbooking store was Named Pages of Tyme… using the Y from my name instead of I. Fun

      Reply
  2. Lisa Richardson says

    July 17, 2021 at 5:40 am

    UGH…Aging is no joke and definitely not for the weak or faint of heart. You’ve gotten some great advice and offered some too. thanks for sharing! XOXO

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      July 26, 2021 at 3:44 pm

      It really isn’t! This has really worked for me and hopefully, it can help someone!

      Reply
  3. Michelle Averitt says

    July 18, 2021 at 5:48 pm

    Such great info about HRT! Thanks for sharing your journey!

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      July 26, 2021 at 3:40 pm

      I am so happy to share! Its a rough journey on your own

      Reply
  4. Cammi says

    July 19, 2021 at 11:08 pm

    We are taking almost identical supplements! And how lucky are you to be getting the vitamin B injections!!!!

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      July 26, 2021 at 3:39 pm

      Oh, the joy of aging! I really notice when I need an injection! Thank you OX

      Reply
  5. Cindy Farley Hannam says

    July 29, 2021 at 8:31 pm

    D’Arcy, YES to everything here! The supplements are just so very important at this stage of life! Love your tips to help with cortisol too!

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      July 29, 2021 at 8:43 pm

      Thank you for stopping by! I am so glad you like and agree.

      Reply
  6. Yvonne says

    July 31, 2021 at 7:09 am

    InterEsted in the injections for vit B
    Is it better than the B pills? Must try ! Where?💗great blog!

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      August 2, 2021 at 6:24 pm

      Vit B12 injections go into your bloodstream and pills don’t. I get them from Dr. Kat’s list on my blog. She’ll do it in the office and also send you home with several if you don’t mind doing it yourself. (I don’t mind doing so I buy a month or two worth. I can tell the difference when I haven’t had a shot. I highly recommend it! She compounds them. She’ll add a diet helper too.

      Reply

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🖼️I started collecting antiques when I was 16… I didn’t want a car, I fell in love with an Antique dresser and mirror and asked for that as my Birthday present.

🪏I started gardening and baking along side my mom, probably in a high chair❤️

🍎Which lead to winning my elementary schools pie baking contest when I was in the 2nd grade..🍏Apple pie) with applies from our yard.

📚In the 3rd grade I won a hot air balloon ride for 📚reading the most books in elementary school that year.

🎨In the 5th grade I started a handmade card club at school to drop off a senior centers 

🍽️my love of entertaining, started in elementary school, For fun I would plan dinners(my mom and I would shop for them & I would cook for my family as well as set the tables pretty, have ready when my family came home. 

I had a mom who taught and shared her love of hospitality, creativity and “grandma hobbies” way before I could fall in love with Martha Stewart as a young teenager in the 80’s..

Not only did I want 17 magazine & vogue, I wanted Martha steward living, better homes and garden, Ina Gardens cook books, and anything made by Ralph Lauren .

I got my real first job at 15 (so I could buy (RL) at the cutest home decor and interiors shop, owned by the most creative and talented lady (Susie), who gave me my love of wallpaper, and playing with pretty things… I was doing her window displays at both her shops by 16… 

🌸So, I guess you could say … yes, I Skipped the midlife crisis, and  I’ve been doing “Grandma Hobbies”  my whole life!

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Fun fact -I grew geraniums in clay pots in my bedroom in high school… 
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-You’re wiser!
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-You dress for yourself not others
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-light weight boxy knit sweater with 3/4 sleeves perfect to wear alone or layered. (I love who it shows off the bow sleeve details on the button up) 
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Melanoma Cancer Journey Part 8 — 8 month Update— Melanoma Cancer Journey 
Part 8

— 8 month Update—

 4 month after my First laser treatment.

➡️Slide through the video clips and photos for ALL the updates➡️

I was diagnosed in December, Surgery in January and my first laser in February. Then 1 ever 6 weeks since.

I’ve been sharing this Journey in hopes to help encourage you to make a skin check up appointment. 

🚨Melanoma Cancer is deadly and very different from Skin Cancer.

‼️Melanoma cancer is deadly,  early detection is key, before it can spread to lymph nodes, organs blood. 

⚠️If you’re NEW HERE or just seeing this post, I have shard 7 other parts with all the info and my Journey to date in Feed and stories saved to highlights with more info.

🤍Thank you for all the kind messages, comments and prayers! I appreciate you being apart of my tribe.

⚠️Thank you and NOW make your Skin Appointment!

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