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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


My Top Picks for Black Friday, Shop Small Saturday and Cyber Monday

 

Deals you don't want to miss

Hello Beautiful’s,

I Hope your Thanksgiving was wonderful and that your ready for the start of the Holiday season! I wanted to share with you some of my favorite deals, codes and links for some of my favorite shopping sites for Black Friday, Shop Small business Saturday and cyber Monday! These deals are Hot and on valid for a short time so grab them quick! (Some of these companies I make a small commission when you shop my link and others I don’t I just wanted to share the deal! So thank you for your support!)

  1. Kut from the Kloth =Today 30% off with code KUTBF and heres an extra $20.00 to use as well KUTCASH4397 * plus you get a FREE light up lip gloss with $100.00 purchase. I bought a pair of Diana grey cords total $29 yippie! SHOP Here
  2. Victoria Emerson= My favorite wraps on SALE for 1 hour $12.99 Shop happy hour….After that it’s Buy one get one free… Using code PREVIEW I picked up a couple for girlfriend gifts and you should too!  SHOP Here
  3. The Bagtique= VIP 25% off everything code VIPBFW Storewide and no exclusions! The place to shop for fun bags, accessories and fun pen sets. I got this great silver bag perfect for the Holidays. I also grabbed some earrings & pen sets for a couple of gifts. SHOP here
  4. Shopbop= up to 25%off full price items and up to 75% off sale items and 15% off orders of $200 20% off orders of $500 and 25% off orders $800 with Code MORE18. I bought this cute sweater and some great gifts head over for a great collection of clothing, bags, shoes and accessories.  SHOP here
  5. Buxom=25% off the total site code AFFBF18 ! Great gifts and fun stocking stuffers! Really who doesn’t love make up and fun packaging! SHOP here
  6. Nordstrom= They have a SCORE up to 60% off ending Monday! I love Nordstrom and found a ton of great gifts for my boys and hubby plus a couple little things for my up coming trip!  SHOP here
  7. BareMinerals =The Stars Align: 20% Off $100+ Use code: SHINE. Valid 11/19-11/24 at . BLACK FRIDAY EXCLUSIVE: Solar Spectrum 10-piece full-size face collection for only $49. A $183 value. While supplies last. Valid 11/22-11/23 . 1 DAY ONLY PRECIOUS METALS: Cream Metal Eyeshadow trio for only $25. A $51 value. While supplies last. Valid 11/24 CYBER MONDAY EXCLUSIVE: Enjoy 25% off your purchase plus Free Standard Shipping on every order with promo code CYBER2018. Plus Receive a full-size bronzer & highlighter palette ($34 value) with $75 purchase. Valid 11/25-11/26  Full-size BRILLIANT FUTURE Age Defense & Renew Serum ($55 value) is on us when you spend $75. Valid 11/27-11/28  FREE SHIPPING SITEWIDE For a limited time, enjoy Free Standard Shipping with code HOLIDAYSHIP. Valid 11/27-12/16 SHOP here bareMinerals.com. 
  8. Hunter boots= 30% off entire site. Who doesn’t want a cute new pair of boots for Christmas? I do! SHOP Here
  9. Dolce Vita= 30% off entire site Code BLKFRI30. Well because you know how much I love shoes! Go grab your self a pair. SHOP here                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Shop Small Saturday being a former small business owner I know how important this is and I can’t wait to get out and shop some of my favorite small businesses! Here is some of my favorite small businesses and if your not local most of them have a website. These are not sponsored in any way just some great little shop I frequent.  Emie James 30% off your favorite item Home decor & flowers, Simply Eden Soap Free gifts and different levels of shopping soaps and gifts, Rowan Boutique 25% off online purchase clothing boutique, James Ascher Clothing boutique Buy 1 reg priced item Get 2 items @30% off, The Treasure Basket 10% off All Christmas. Please get out and shop Small Tomorrow, these business owners work really hard and love what they do and without brick and mortar shops our communities would not be as strong. They giveback and support community events and charities. Without supporting them they cannot do the things that make the special.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Cyber Monday  Most of the deals above are going through Monday but I’ll check back in with more updates and list some other specials as they pop up! So stay tuned.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             I hope you enjoy some of my Favorite sales grab some great deals and check out some of my favorite Small boutiques! Also I am trying to decide how I want to decorate our home for the Holiday’s so head over to my instastory and Vote…. Red & black or Winter wonderland gold & silver! OX,D’Arcy



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D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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Style over 50 Outfit of the day … Wardrobe basics Style over 50
Outfit of the day …
Wardrobe basics but a little elevated✔️ 

Cute elevated casual, Thanksgiving/Holiday outfit inspo.🦃 or holiday shopping
Even running errands in style

🚨sale ⬇️
No iron blouse with tie bow sleeve detail 

🚨 sale ⬇️
Statement Jean-bling side detail jeans 
So soft and comfortable I had plenty of room which gave them a littler baggie look/feel

Affordable find puffer vest- so good you’d never know it was an affordable option.. under $40

Veronica beard inspired by tennis shoes for $27

Comment “Style” below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK 
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And…just like ThAT🎁🎄 It’s the holiday season! Thr And…just like ThAT🎁🎄
It’s the holiday season!

Three Outfits from the NEW AVARA Holiday launch…

You can mix and match these pieces all season🎄🎁❤️

You’ll be seeing me restyle  these all season long❤️
From  casual to festive dress these piece up or down, wear the plaid top with jeans, the sweater with trousers, the sequins with a white button up and tennis shoes… you get the drift…

The pieces are going fast and you’ll be sad, you missed them, or one, 😉 if you don’t grab it now❤️🎄🎁

Comment “Shop” for  links and size details etc.⬇️

https://liketk.it/6shwf

❤️Make sure yo be following me or you won’t get the link😉

Have a great evening pretty ladies🌸
“Perfect for the Holidays: Mozzarella Pesto Rolls “Perfect for the Holidays: Mozzarella Pesto Rolls by @cachevalleycreamery #AD

This recipe comes straight from the Free Cache Valley Creamery Holiday E-Cookbook!

These easy and delicious Mozzarella Pesto Rolls were a hit at our family get-together last week and are perfect for upcoming holiday gatherings. Made with simple ingredients, including Cache Valley Creamery cheese, and served with homemade or store-bought pesto and marinara sauces for dipping.

You can find the full recipe in the Free Holiday E-Cookbook. If you’re entertaining or headed to a party this holiday season, you’ll find plenty of quick and easy recipes that are sure to become family favorites!

And don’t forget, when you download the Free Holiday E-Cookbook from @cachevalleycreamery, you’ll also be entered into the Holiday Gift Basket Giveaway, closing November 11!”

Comment “recipe” I’ll send it over to you🧀
Great Gift Idea for the Tea/Honey lover🎁 This no Great Gift Idea for the Tea/Honey lover🎁

This no mess, beautiful glass honey or syrup dispenser. 

Easy pump, no drip dispenser, with glass holding base, pretty enough to set on your counter.

Great and affordable gift🎁

The glass syrup dispensers are great for your Tea/coffee/soda lovers (comes with several label flavors)
Great way to remove plastics out of your kitchen

-pretty glass cups for tea/ coffee /hot coco come with gold silverware 

Honey dispenser 
I am giving a few of these with a bottle of local Utah honey 🍯 

Comment “gift” and I’ll send you the link🎁
⬇️

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A little Sunday inspiration… 8 quotes I’ve found A little Sunday inspiration…

8 quotes I’ve found really HIT 
In midlife❤️

➡️ slide through my 8 photos to read…I know a few of them or maybe all will resonate with you too✔️

Have a beautiful & blessed Sunday pretty ladies 🙏🌸

Styling suede over 50. 
This darling knot front detail suede dress and cropped wide leg suede pants, I think you’ll love as much as I do ❤️❤️❤️

Comment “Suede “ if you like my outfits and want the details and links.⬇️

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🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸
Melanoma Facial Cancer Journey On this journey… Melanoma Facial 
Cancer Journey 

On this journey… I have really researched and have found the importance of clean Beauty, Clean living and what we put into our bodies, is more important NOW than ever.

Here’s what I would Purchase from the Sephora Sale and also give as gifts🎁 

Comment “CLEAN” and I will send you the full details and links. ⬇️

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✔️Want to know more about my Journey, and other products I use, you can’t find at Sephora…
Comment “Journey” and I’ll send you my full wrap up.

✔️See highlights for more on my journey and healing as well as monthly posts in feed.

🚨 This is also your reminder to Make a skin check appointment.🚨🚨🚨

🧼🧽🧴 The song that’s always in my Head “Clean -up” “Clean-up” everybody do your share…

I am trying to share how important it is to “Clean-Up” your beauty, your home and what you put into & on your body. 

Let me know if you have any questions in the comments below⬇️

Have a beautiful Friday Pretty ladies🅾️❌ D’Arcy
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Signature scent collection  of 10oz Hand Soaps and Candles  beautifully crafted in reusable glass bottles to complement every sink in your home. 

Thoughtfully formulated and delicately fragranced. 

Plant-based ingredients and natural fragrances made without parabens, phosphates, phthalates, and dyes. Cruelty free

Beautiful and safe for your family.

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Scent-Led Home Care 
Bringing premium to the everyday Ritual

Providing a full line of healthy home care products.
-Laundry Collection
-Home Fragrances
-Hand soaps 

Comment “ HOME” 
To shop the full line 
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“Cranberry Cheddar Caramel Dip Recipe with @cachev “Cranberry Cheddar Caramel Dip Recipe with @cachevalleycreamery #AD

The holidays are almost here, and Cache Valley Creamery launched their Free Holiday E-Cookbook today, featuring several recipes perfect for holiday entertaining and gatherings.

Today, I’m making an easy Cranberry Cheddar Caramel Dip served with apples, pretzels, and shortbread. It’s perfect as an appetizer or dessert for your holiday party!

You can find the full recipe in the Free Holiday E-Cookbook, and when you sign up, you’ll automatically be entered into the Holiday Gift Basket Giveaway!

The gift basket includes:

Wine and cheese board

1 year of free cheese

Sustainable cheese wrap

Cheese knives and tools

Cheese grater

Cache Valley Creamery socks

Cache Valley Creamery apron

This giveaway is not sponsored, endorsed, administered by, or associated with Instagram, Facebook, or Meta.

For terms and conditions, see official rules.”

🧀 Comment “FREE” and I’ll send you the recipe E-book 🧀🧀🧀
HOME TIP, JUST in TIME for Holiday Hosting…. ❤️❤️❤ HOME TIP, JUST in TIME for Holiday Hosting….
❤️❤️❤️
Easy way to clean your silver in 3 minutes….

And then put it to use❤️❤️❤️

❤️Follow for more home & Hosting tips✔️✔️

Want the affordable Product I use??? ⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️

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I find the hidden gems, so you don’t have to. 🎁Gif I find the hidden gems, so you don’t have to. 🎁Gift Idea Edit

9 Affordable 
 “Vintage Inspired” Home finds
I tell me “Besties’s about”…

-Tea Strainer you’ll give as gifts
-Magnetic Brass measuring spoons
-Cutest drying rack
-Honey/Syrup dispenser 
-dish soap/handsoap/candle holder 
-Table lamps
-French sea salt
-Beautiful safe pans
-Mirror we all need over 40

Comment “Shop” for Link
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Attention Pj & Robe Lovers❤️ I’ve got 2 sets of 💯 Attention Pj & Robe Lovers❤️

I’ve got 2 sets of 💯 cotton pj’s and two plush cozy robes your going to love ❤️ 
priced from $42-46

🎁Great Gift Ideas
❤️Several Colors and prints to choose from
❤️ great Quality and fit

Comment “Pjs” and I’ll send you my links and details
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My Birthday Month was a good month for Outfit’s yo My Birthday Month was a good month for Outfit’s you loved✔️

I am Now 55 and these are the Top 18 outfit you loved❤️, that I shared✔️✔️✔️

-Slide ➡️ Through All 18 to see some of the things that made you like the outfit…

-What some of the outfits had on common
-Trends your loving
-What colors I shared you picked as favorites 
-Classic pieces you always love

I loved all of these “fits” but #3 was fun- #2 I got stopped several times to tell be I looked “ chic”#6 I could believe the sale … 16 is comfy and cute

🚨Comment “LIKE” and I’ll send you my links ⬇️
Strong Women Rise… Strong Women Win… She’s HER own Strong Women Rise… Strong Women Win… She’s HER own Force from within….

I love that❤️ 

I feel so many Women, don’t give themselves enough credit…

As Moms, Wives, business owners, hard workers and the “doers”
They’re doing it all and carrying the weight …most of the time with a smile, and hiding a worry, a weakness or guilt!

Remember you are STRONG.. you are a force … and it’s ok to not to give a dam what others think… 

And sometimes… it’s ok not to Give a  dam “what’s for dinner!”😉🥰
Or that the laundry didn’t get done, or that your Christmas Tree isn’t up after Halloween…

Sometimes the “give a dam” can turn back on tomorrow 😉❤️

Happy November pretty ladies, remember as we head into a “moms” busiest season… it’s important to take care of yourself, breathe and know when to turn on/off your “give a dam switch” 😉❤️🥰

On another note… How cute is this outfit for thanksgiving? 🦃🍂 
Comment “Fall” I’ll send you the links ⬇️
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Funny … not funny.. working moms… busiest time of the year
Thanksgiving Outfit Idea🍂🦃 PROOF Good Basics can Thanksgiving Outfit Idea🍂🦃

PROOF Good Basics can easily be “Elevated” with a Blazer for a “Chic Polished Look” 

Add some great accessories, which always “finish off the look” ✔️✔️✔️

Comment “TWO” for  links
⬇️

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You can never go wrong with jeans and a blazer✔️

Tell me something you’re looking for… to help you this holiday season⬇️

-Thanksgiving outfits 
-Holiday outfits
-decorating inspo
-Recipes
-cocktail recipes
-Gift ideas (for who)
Custom-made luxury. Pre washed for Purity. @three Custom-made luxury.
Pre washed for Purity.

@threegirlscurtains  specializing in custom pre-washed curtains because they care deeply about the craftsmanship and sustainability & pieces that are ready to hang.

Not only are their curtains luxurious and beautiful they’re also clean, safe and gentle for your home and family.

I’ve partnered with Three Girls Curtains and couldn’t be more excited to finally share the Zaria double French pleat in green stripe with you. Their attention to detail and craftsmanship finished off our master bedroom remodel “like Jewlery for an outfit” The curtains are to your walls. 

It’s all in the details…
November 🍂🍁only means… We’re getting ready…. Some November 🍂🍁only means…
We’re getting ready….

Some changes are coming….

@kingofchristmas Tree has arrived✔️ and I’ve started decking the halls ….the Holidays will be hear before you know it…

Seriously, if November goes as fast as October did Christmas will be here in 3 days🤦🏼‍♀️

Are you in the market for a new Christmas tree this year?
Kinds of Christmas makes the most beautiful Trees, wreaths and garlands for all your holiday greenery needs! 

Comment “TREE” I’ll send you the links🎄🎄🎄

Yes, we’re adding yet another Tree this year:) stay tuned…🎄

When do you Start decorating?
I actually started my tree decorating clients tomorrow…

If you live in Utah and want your Tree-porch- A Tablescape or House decorated for the Holidays:) send me Dm🎄🎄🎄🎄

Don’t worry, I am not skipping Thanksgiving🍂🦃 I have a lot of fun content to share with you- outfits-recipes- Decor-tablescapes ….
🍂Happy Halloween 🎃 🍂 Come on a Fall walk with Lit 🍂Happy Halloween 🎃 🍂

Come on a Fall walk with Little Man & Coco … and see what we see🍂 
🎥Watch tell the end to see what “Coach” did for him…

This little guy loves trees, and is at peace outside, he’d be out here all day, everyday…

He loves walks to look at trees, loves to swing in the hammock to look at the trees, he loves to touch the leaves and explore 🍂

It’s the sweetest thing to watch, 
And I enjoy every moment and don’t rush any of them🍂🍂 I am happy to look at leaves for hours🍂

Being a grandma has changed me in the most beautiful way.
I don’t rush through moments anymore.
I don’t stress the little things like I used to.
Because now I know how fast it all goes. 🥰❤️

Incase your new here… I go by “COCO “and my hubby is “Coach”
They say you shouldn’t… Who’s “They anyway’s?” 🚨A They say you shouldn’t…
Who’s “They anyway’s?”

🚨Attention Fashion Police🚨
Age is just a number!!!

You can wear Leather pants over 50….

Hello, I am D’Arcy and I am 55 and I don’t let a number dictate my style✔️

Ladies, don’t let a number stop you from wearing what you love, or what makes you feel good!!

🚨3 things you should DO…

-Wear what makes you feel good 
-Wear what flatters your figure 
- Wear what make YOU feel confident 

3 Things you DON’t want to do

- Care about others opinions 
- Dress your age 
-Wear things that DON’T fit well, and are uncomfortable or don’t flatter your figure.

🌸Pretty Ladies, when you look good, you feel good and you do good✔️✔️✔️

That’s a mood lifter right there!

Comment “shop” and I’ll send the links & info to your dm⬇️
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Thursday night Lives are Back… Missed tonight’s?… Thursday night Lives are Back…

Missed tonight’s?… well it’s right here to view, so grab a glass of your favorite… and tune in❤️😉

You asked for them.. and I answered YES..
This week I decided to share Happy Mail..

Things I’ve purchased, brands I am working with, pr packages, gift ideas, and more.

Each week will be different, a great way to connect with you, have a chat, share things, create a recipe, maybe a decorating tip or two, special guests, and sometimes maybe just a chat.

I’ll be doing these Thursday’s at 4 or 6pm Mnt. 
(I’ll tell you the night before) 

Thank you for tuning in and encouraging me to start them up again. ❤️😉🥰

Comment “Mail” and I’ll send you the links ⬇️

https://liketk.it/6rdru

I appreciate your support and you shopping my links as this is a small way, to support my small business, and I can do what I love and share with you.. at No cost to you! 
Thank you 🅾️❌, D’Arcy

Don’t know how to shop my links? 
Dm me and I’ll send you them, or follow me on Liketoknowit or shopmy links are in my bio/linketree

❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️
Comment “Tee” for links⬇️ I’ll send you a dm http Comment “Tee” for links⬇️
I’ll send you a dm

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🖤Let’s talk about two great basics everyone needs…

A great fitting and quality white tee and affordable under $50 great fitting, quality jeans.

Classic tee made in the USA such great quality, and fit. 

These fun under $50 jeans that are super soft and great quality and fit tts 

Loafers by on major sale 

Style and layer so many ways. 
Buy changing out shoes and adding a 3rd pieces

Tell me do you have a favorite tee? Are you looking for affordable jeans?
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