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By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Need Help with Aging Parents? A Place for Mom

Need Help with Aging Parents? A Place for Mom

 

Need Help with Aging Parents? A Place for Mom

Hello Pretty Ladies, 

Today I am chatting with you about A Place for Mom. One of the things about midlife we don’t talk about often is becoming caregivers for our parents, which can be hard to navigate. 

Many of you know we lost my stepdad in January. He was the only grandfather my boys knew on my side and had been with my mom for 22 years. They live in Las Vegas, with no family living close by. I live in Utah, and my siblings live in California. This meant our mom was alone, with no family or husband. We had to act quickly to help my mom relocate, deal with family affairs, her health issues, and the emotions of the loss. I found out about A Place for Mom a couple of months after, having to navigate this part of midlife that nobody talks about enough. I thought this info needed to be shared as it could help someone else dealing with this in the upcoming months. 

 

Need Help with Aging Parents? A Place for Mom
Need Help with Aging Parents? A Place for Mom

Navigating Care

When my stepdad passed away, I suddenly found myself navigating care decisions for my mom, and I had nowhere to start. I now had to make fast decisions about what to do. I will not only take care of my dad’s last days and business affairs but also relocate my mom to Tuah to be closer to family. Although my mom can live and function on her own and she still has specific home needs as well as medical care. 

I wish I had known about A Place for Mom back then. They make the process so much easier by helping families find senior living or home care options that fit their needs. All at no cost to families. It’s an incredible service and resource for caregivers, especially during those overwhelming moments when every decision feels heavy. 

Living in different states

Even if family members live in different states, A Place for Mom’s advisors offer expert guidance to help families navigate the process from wherever they are. Which takes so much off your plate so you can concentrate on your loved one more. Learn more at aplaceformom.com.

About A Place for Mom

A Place for Mom has helped 2M+ families. They can help yours, too, with over 400+ local advisors who are trusted experts. They have 20+ years of experience helping families. In addition to their expert advisors, they also have so many resources for caregivers on their website to help navigate the process.

Visit aplaceformom.com to learn more.

Need Help with Aging Parents? A Place for Mom

 

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 Helping a parent from another state? I’ve been there. When my stepdad passed, I had to navigate care and relocation for my mom—fast.



26 Comments

Comments

  1. Cindy Hannam says

    September 22, 2025 at 10:42 am

    This is MUCH needed information for those of us caring for aging parents! Thank you so much for sharing!!! It sounds like such a wonderful place for them. xoxo, Cindy

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 23, 2025 at 11:58 pm

      Thank you CIndy! I appricate you stopping by! I think its important to share.

      Reply
  2. Kvea says

    September 22, 2025 at 10:43 am

    This is great information for people with aging parents.

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 23, 2025 at 11:59 pm

      Thank you, I think its important too.

      Reply
  3. Michelle Kubick says

    September 22, 2025 at 10:52 am

    Thank you for this information! This will be very helpful for in the future when I’ll br looking to help my own mother.

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 23, 2025 at 11:59 pm

      I thought it was important to share and would be helpful.

      Reply
  4. SUZANNE SMITH says

    September 22, 2025 at 11:15 am

    DDarcy there is nothing like the peace of mind you have when you know that your parents or parents are in a place where they will be well taken care of! It’s priceless and I’m so glad that you’re talking about this on your blog!

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 24, 2025 at 12:00 am

      Thank you for your kind comment and stopping by

      Reply
  5. Jennifer Burns says

    September 22, 2025 at 11:17 am

    This is such good info, Darcy! thank you for sharing. This sounds like a wonderful place with experienced caregivers. I am going to refer them to a couple friends that are looking for their aging parents. Thank you!

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 24, 2025 at 12:02 am

      I am so glad you’re going to share this info. I knew it would be helpful to so many in this same situation. Thanks friend

      Reply
  6. Lisa Richardson says

    September 22, 2025 at 11:28 am

    This is such great info for all of us in the sandwich generation. This is why we were so happy when my parents dice decided to move to be closet to us.
    XO
    Lisa

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 24, 2025 at 12:03 am

      It is important, and I am glad they’re close to you as well:) It makes it so much easier. I am greatful my mom is now close too!

      Reply
  7. Annie says

    September 22, 2025 at 12:18 pm

    This is such a great resource and place for parents! thanks or all the great information

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 24, 2025 at 12:03 am

      Thank you Annie, it really is a great resource.

      Reply
  8. Marisa says

    September 22, 2025 at 12:55 pm

    I am so happy you found such a wonderful place for your sweet mom that is so close to family. Most definitely some peace of mind ❤️

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 23, 2025 at 11:57 pm

      Thank you so much for stopping by and taking the time to read my blog. I am so happy she is close too.

      Reply
  9. Selena Laslovich says

    September 22, 2025 at 1:10 pm

    This information is so helpful. It can be a stressful time figuring out the best way to ensure their healthcare needs are being met.
    Love how much you care!
    xoxo
    selena

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 23, 2025 at 11:56 pm

      Thank you For stopping by and taking the time to comment. I agree with you. OX

      Reply
  10. Cammi Allen says

    September 22, 2025 at 1:40 pm

    II’m so glad that this type of service exists! I sure love your sweet Mom, Darcy. What a blessing you have been to her!

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 23, 2025 at 11:56 pm

      I am so happy it does too. Thank you sweet friend! She loves you too.

      Reply
  11. Marie says

    September 22, 2025 at 2:57 pm

    Thank you for sharing this important and informative post. What A wonderful service!

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 23, 2025 at 11:55 pm

      I am happy to share, I found it after moving my mom and thought this is something my firends need to know about. Thank for stoping by friend.

      Reply
  12. Jules Aron says

    September 22, 2025 at 3:17 pm

    Love this, Darcy Thanks for sharing!!

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 23, 2025 at 11:53 pm

      Thank you for stopping by and reading

      Reply
  13. Dawn Parsons says

    September 22, 2025 at 4:18 pm

    I love this! We all need to have resources like this . Thank you so much for sharing!

    Reply
    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      September 23, 2025 at 11:53 pm

      It really is so important

      Reply

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Come see my picks “I’d love for Mother’s Day “ on sale and would make perfect Gift ideas!

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Recipe:
1 bag Brussels sprouts 
1/2 cup Hoisin sauce
1 tablespoon Balsamic glaze 
2 tablespoon Soy sauce 
2 Tablespoons crushed garlic
Sesame oil (for drizzle and pan)

Drizzle Sesame oil for pan & a small drizzle on top of sprouts 

1/4 cup Crushed peanuts (reserve to sprinkle on top) or sesame seeds

Cut ends off sprouts, add to pan with water and bring to boil, let boil about 10 minutes until soften, drain
Let cool. Then place on skewers 
Pre heat oven to 400

Make the sauce

Mix all above ingredients together 
And brush over sprouts, turn and brush all sides.  Sprinkle with crushed peanuts or sesame seeds Place in oven, cook until crispy 

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California girls trip Life is different over 50… California girls trip 

Life is different over 50….

See how it hits differently, but sliding through my 20 moments in California 

Slide 7 is a blessing

Slide 20 is important

Thank you for sharing in the moments🤍
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A little recap:
Time  driving through the dessert…Walks on the beach.. Lunch at Brophy’s in Santa Barbara’s, shopping on state Street. Drive through the Hills 90210
Beverly Hills - event at Madison Masion- Wally’s for a glass & fries before, dinner at Spago, Ventura keys-Photo shoots, brunch at the cutest Coffee house-antiquing- Chilling & catching up at my Girlfriends darling beach house…Coastal drives and ice cream in the harbor…Much needed girls time…priceless🤍🌊☀️🍷🌴☕️🫶🏻

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Salt -electrolytes 
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Cheers to the weekend Pretty ladies🍋‍🟩🍹

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While on Vacation in California, I took my New Bandolier Ceci pink Floral tote and perfect for travel phone accessories. 

Holds everything you need for work, while compact and chic. Making work to shopping and lunch with a girlfriend  easy and on the go.

The Bandolier Ceci Pink collection  would also make for great Mother’s Day gift’s for the  mom on the go, the working mom and the mom who loves to travel. 

🌸@Bandolierstyle  is so much more than just a phone case (it holds your phone, wallet) with the ease of a chic cross body chain.

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