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By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Stay Current In Fashion: What I Won’t Be Doing in 2024 Part 1

Stay Current In Fashion: What I Won’t Be Doing in 2024 Part 1

Hello Pretty Ladies, 

Happy Friday, and I hope your weekend is off to a great start. Today, I am sharing… 3 things I’m not doing to “BE CURRENT” as a midlifer….PART 1

I wanted to bring to you things you can still do in fashion and look current at any age without having to change your whole wardrobe just by making some little tweaks and not feeling like you have to jump on board with what you are seeing currently on trend or suggested on how you clean out your wardrobe. 

I have started a series called “What I won’t be doing in 2024,” In which I share baby steps in how you can accomplish a wardrobe that will have you looking chic and feeling good at any age without breaking the bank and having to start from scratch as well as helping you find your style while building a classic wardrobe that will fit your body type.

Each week, I will be sharing “What I won’t be doing” “along with the “Why” and “TiPS” what you can use as suggestions to help you make decisions in your wardrobe, which I think can be helpful for you to follow, clean out and purchase smarter. 

Stay Current In Fashion: What I Won’t Be Doing in 2024 Part 1

Today, I am sharing… 3 things I’mI’mt doing to “BE”CURRENT” a” a midlifer….PART 1

#1. I’m not throwing away ALL my skinny jeans!!!

 ⚠️You’ve seen midlife stylists throw them in the trash!!!! WHAT! ( yes, trends come and go, and some styles of jeans are more on trend in specific years… But…)

Stay Current In Fashion: What I Won’t Be Doing in 2024 Part 1

Stay Current In Fashion: What I Won’t Be Doing in 2024 Part 1
Stay Current In Fashion: What I Won’t Be Doing in 2024 Part 1

Here’s WHY: I won’t be throwing all of mine away or telling clients, too…

– Skinny jeans are genuinely the only jeans that work well with tall boots (which will be showing up big in 2024)

– Every figure is different and has different styles that flatter you.

-YOU know what you like and what YOU feel good in.

-You can Make Skinny Jeans “CURRENT” just by how you style them! (More on that later)

—They look great with Tunics and oversized sweaters. This gives the outfit balance 

-They work on my body.  My legs are one of my assets, and I try to teach my followers and clients to wear what works on your body! Accentuate your best parts.

 

How I made this look CURRENT:

If you looked through the several photos😉♥️ You’ll see I wore the same BASE = Spanx Skinny jeans & a great Amazon find =Tunic sweater.

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See how…mixing what you love with wardrobe builders and trending pieces keeps you looking “Current” without” having to replace everything in your closet. 

✨Outfit 1-

A trendy, cute Cropped trench coat 🖤 Trending bag & tall Boots with a hat.

Shop This Look Below: (tap on photos)

 

Stay Current In Fashion: What I Won’t Be Doing in 2024 Part 1

Stay Current In Fashion: What I Won’t Be Doing in 2024 Part 1
Stay Current In Fashion: What I Won’t Be Doing in 2024 Part 1
Stay Current In Fashion: What I Won’t Be Doing in 2024 Part 1

✨Outfit 2-

A trending “Metallic” quilted vest & Trending metallic bag worn with Sparkly rhinestone boots.

Shop This Look Below: (tap on photos)

 

#2. Wearing Things that don’t work on my (you’re) body! 

Here’s Why everyone’s  figure is different; we don’t have to wear EVERY trend to be “CURRENT” (more later)

-Dressing for your body type will not only help you to feel and look better, but it will also show OFF the little trends you decide to wear better! (More on picking Trends that work on your body type later)

– Being “CURRENT” can be as easy as picking a trending fabric and choosing it in a style that works for you—choosing a trending color and adding that to your accessories. It truly is in the little details, not your whole wardrobe. 

 

#3. Not Caring what people think!

Here’s Why Fashion is an expression of yourself, NOT your AGE!

– When you wear what you genuinely feel good in, you’ll project and wear it with confidence 💕

Follow along with me for more wardrobe tips:

⚠️Follow along with me in 2024 to learn how to dress for your body type, build a classic wardrobe with staple pieces & small trends that will work for you & your body, as well as how to add them into your style without breaking the bank. Sharing more on what to save on and what to splurge on..

-Tips on how to “SHOP” your closet” giving more outfit inspiration and how to create the look with things you already own. 

-Help YOU (Get rid of what doesn’t work) 

I am here to:

“Help women Live life stylishly and look good at any age!”

 

Thank you for stopping by.

💕Remember, Wearing a smile is your most important accessory!

Have a beautiful rest of the week, and thank you for stopping by and reading.

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Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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I’ve always been an old soul… 🖼️I started collect I’ve always been an old soul…

🖼️I started collecting antiques when I was 16… I didn’t want a car, I fell in love with an Antique dresser and mirror and asked for that as my Birthday present.

🪏I started gardening and baking along side my mom, probably in a high chair❤️

🍎Which lead to winning my elementary schools pie baking contest when I was in the 2nd grade..🍏Apple pie) with applies from our yard.

📚In the 3rd grade I won a hot air balloon ride for 📚reading the most books in elementary school that year.

🎨In the 5th grade I started a handmade card club at school to drop off a senior centers 

🍽️my love of entertaining, started in elementary school, For fun I would plan dinners(my mom and I would shop for them & I would cook for my family as well as set the tables pretty, have ready when my family came home. 

I had a mom who taught and shared her love of hospitality, creativity and “grandma hobbies” way before I could fall in love with Martha Stewart as a young teenager in the 80’s..

Not only did I want 17 magazine & vogue, I wanted Martha steward living, better homes and garden, Ina Gardens cook books, and anything made by Ralph Lauren .

I got my real first job at 15 (so I could buy (RL) at the cutest home decor and interiors shop, owned by the most creative and talented lady (Susie), who gave me my love of wallpaper, and playing with pretty things… I was doing her window displays at both her shops by 16… 

🌸So, I guess you could say … yes, I Skipped the midlife crisis, and  I’ve been doing “Grandma Hobbies”  my whole life!

Now… if I could just get someone to teach me Mahjong … I Really need a reason to buy these tortoiseshell scallop tile holders, pretty tiles and set a gorgeous table😉🤣

Fun fact -I grew geraniums in clay pots in my bedroom in high school… 
- I’ve had weekly fresh flowers in my home since I was 19 , even if i had to go pick wild flowers.  I’ve just lifts your mood, brings cheer to a space and makes me happy.

Tell me something you enjoy doing?

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Over 50- Utah living- lover of my family
I find the hidden gems, so you don’t have to. 9 I find the hidden gems, so you don’t have to. 

9 Affordable 
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I tell me “Besties’s about”…

-Tea Strainer you’ll give as gifts
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-Cutest drying rack
-Honey/Syrup dispenser 
-dish soap/handsoap/candle holder 
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Midlife awakening…. So many good things happen wh Midlife awakening….

So many good things happen when you get older…..❤️❤️❤️

-You’re wiser!
-You  don’t care what people think
-You dress for yourself not others
-You love time at home
- You’ll drop everything for your grandbabies 

Best thing…YOU DON’T have to put up with anything you don’t like!❤️❤️❤️

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Name one thing you love in midlife…

🍂A little affordable Western outfit
- Suede dress you’d think was Anthro and yet is so affordable and flattering
- The best under $70 tall western boots 
-turquoise necklace ring & bracelets 
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I am 54 Styling not your basic white button up & S I am 54
Styling not your basic white button up & Snakeskin jeans

One Base Outfit 3 looks …

Slide ➡️to see 3 outfit inspos … all the details of these NOT so Basic basics and fun accessories, perfect for Fall transition outfits …

You’ll wear these pieces on repeat all season long.

-No Iron White button up with Bow sleeve details
-Metallic snake skin Girlfriend dark denim jeans 
-light weight boxy knit sweater with 3/4 sleeves perfect to wear alone or layered. (I love who it shows off the bow sleeve details on the button up) 
-metallic gold quilted loafers
-metallic gold belt
-Metallic custome made leather bucket bag 
-Gold Horse necklace 
-Gold earrings 

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Whether your looking for a little 🍂 Fall refresh 🍁 Some items for you Holiday entertaining, or crave a home like Ralph Lauren or Nancy Meyers?

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-Wide leg print pattern pants, shades of navy and green, pull on elastic waist.  NOW $44.50
Normally $89
I am wearing the small

-The double perfect blazer in a knit and has a cute striped lineing. Soft and so comfortable:) it’s so good I own it in 12 colors 
This is the green and I am wearing a med 

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White tank top:) made in California and a classic wardrobe builder 

Velvet Mary Jane’s with little bow under $50 comes in other colors and fit tts 

Scarf used to tie in ponytail or you could use on your bag
Leather tote bag, perfect to hold business or school items.

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Color combo navy and green/ midlife fashion/ scarf detail/
Happy Sunday pretty ladies🍂 May your day be full o Happy Sunday pretty ladies🍂
May your day be full of Blessings and love…

Affordable two piece set- perfect for now and lay in the fall🍂

How cute is the ruffle peplum tank top with ruffle trim detail and wide leg pant with pockets.
Fits tts and some ###in a couple colors & print

Cute to wear now and layer for fall🍁🍂

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Melanoma Cancer Journey Part 8 — 8 month Update— Melanoma Cancer Journey 
Part 8

— 8 month Update—

 4 month after my First laser treatment.

➡️Slide through the video clips and photos for ALL the updates➡️

I was diagnosed in December, Surgery in January and my first laser in February. Then 1 ever 6 weeks since.

I’ve been sharing this Journey in hopes to help encourage you to make a skin check up appointment. 

🚨Melanoma Cancer is deadly and very different from Skin Cancer.

‼️Melanoma cancer is deadly,  early detection is key, before it can spread to lymph nodes, organs blood. 

⚠️If you’re NEW HERE or just seeing this post, I have shard 7 other parts with all the info and my Journey to date in Feed and stories saved to highlights with more info.

🤍Thank you for all the kind messages, comments and prayers! I appreciate you being apart of my tribe.

⚠️Thank you and NOW make your Skin Appointment!

#skincancerawareness
What I’ve learned in midlife… Slide ⬅️ for a few t What I’ve learned in midlife…
Slide ⬅️ for a few things I’ve learned …

#3 is so important to remember and -#5 I do because it also brings me joy❤️

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-Poppy and white striped button up… one of my favorite button ups I have in 3 colors.

🚨Linen wide leg light weight trousers, so good you’ll love them and comes in 4 colors this is the light blue -NOW $79 in 
5 colors 

-Nude  strappy sandal 
Kitten heel

-Metallic gold accessories 

-Gold thin belt. Old loft linked similar 

-Gold metallic bag with bamboo handle an affordable finds 

-Julie Vos hoop earrings ring and bracelets

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🍂A little Fall transition outfit This weeks flowe 🍂A little Fall transition outfit

This weeks flower arrangements for our home🌻🌻🌻and affordable FASHION FINDS✔️

“Sunflowers end up facing the sun, but they go through a lot of dirt to find their way there.”—

A great reminder that life is a journey 🌻 and even though we all have things to go through, it can still end up beautiful🌻🌻🌻

May you continue to grow beauty in your life, find the joys, enjoy the little things and love what ever season of life your in🌻💛

These darling ruffled bottom chambray denim pants $38 and white button up, paired with leopard cowboy boots, make for a fun Summer to fall outfit. 

Perfect for 70 degree days, throw on a cardigan 
For chilly mornings and evenings. 

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Sunilowers /ruffle pants/ fall transition/ sunflower field
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Pre Fall Basics & Home finds lam telling my BEST Friend to Buy •

-Denim ruffle collar tapestry jackett

-Resin Chain necklace
Shades of Brown paisley scarf

-Leather collar sweater
Under $30 boots (with my code)

-The stylist trick tool You’ll use on repeat

-The laundry soap that smells
Divine, •
Your house will too
As well as you Laundry! luse on my linens:
And my linen closet smells
So good!
I give as gifts

-Resin Bracelets sets
Chic and so on trend

-Acrylic set of 3 earring stands

-Brown suede designer inspired
Tote bag and bag charms

-Acrylic belt organizers

-Fringe sleeve sweater And Gold Bracelet sets

-Kitchen gadgetsl couldn’t live
Without!
Ground meat chopper
Avocado keeper • Watermelon knife

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Part 2 Summer Time favorite Moment’s… A little Sa Part 2 
Summer Time favorite Moment’s…
A little Saturday Series, I am doing to finish out Summer…

We officially have 3 more weeks left of Summer☀️🪴🪏🌻

I thought it would be Fun to share some moments that make my “favorites”❤️

🚨Come Back Next Saturday to see what made my list….

Today’s “Summer Moment”
Exploring the state we live in..
Ben and I have always loved embracing where we live, by getting out and exploring..
Doing stay-cations, pretty drives, enjoying the great outdoors and exploring fun little towns and the charming small business that fill them.

We love a good day date and Midway, located outside of Deer Valley, is a charming 🇨🇭Swiss town, that we’ve enjoyed bring our family to for years. 

It’s evolved over the years, (know for hosting “Swiss Days” 🇨🇭 the first weekend in September), is full of darling small business, from Cute gift & home decor shops, farm stores, several delicious restaurants, a charming book store, and something our family loves several farm to table shopping and eating establishments. 

If you love to support ranches, farmers and small local business, this is a must visit town. 
⛰️Surrounded by stunning mountains, green pastures and gorgeous ranches. 

Here’s a few of our favorites:⬇️
@havenhaus_co 
@ballerinafarmstore 
@thedaintypearco 
@folkloremidway 
@midway_mercantile 
@hebervalleycheese 

The @zermattutah is our favorite Charming  Swiss 🇨🇭Hotel to stay at, and our boys always loved they’re pool in the winter😉

Tell me, what’s something you do in the summer to make “moment’s”?

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I am 54 Here’s 8 Affordable,Natural And Clean- Ord I am 54
Here’s 8 Affordable,Natural And Clean- Ordinary Products I use To look and feel great✔️

I replaced a lot of my Beauty Regimen with these Unexpected affordable products,
You might already have in your pantry or medicine cabinet. 

My skin and skins texture has never looked better✔️✔️✔️

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Do you use any of these CLEAN beauty options?

Clean beauty/ Ordinary household items/ simple is better/ non- toxic beauty/ simple beauty
Did someone say Sale… “you don’t want to miss?” Did someone say Sale…
 “you don’t want to miss?”

The SPANX SALE🚨
$49 Air essentials pieces 
And 25% off the entire site

This is a sale you don’t want to miss…

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Pre-Fall Porch REDO ….. —PotteyBarn or Walmart— Pre-Fall Porch REDO …..

—PotteyBarn or Walmart—

Come with me as I redo my porch from Summer ☀️🪴to a little pre-Fall🍂

Using Great Basics.. that makes it easy to layer in Fall in a couple of weeks✔️

I love these Weather safe woven baskets, that makes it easy to change out your plants and flowers per the season.

Using boxwoods now and will switch to mums in a couple weeks.

Striped rug to layer in black and white is a great  base now and will look great for fall 🍂 layers with a large welcome mat. 

Boxwood wreath with black and white striped bow and a welcome sign above.

Adding layers of iron lanterns… I’ll add  fall bows later. 

Clean-Classic and a perfect transition look before the fall season. 

Come back next month to see how I transform our porch to FALL🍂

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Porch redo| Walmart and pottery barn finds/ black and white stripe/ classic porch/ utah influencer
Butter yellow is having a moment…it’s like sunshin Butter yellow is having a moment…it’s like sunshine with a little whipped cream☀️ I am here for it✔️

Share 6 of my favorite ☀️Sunshine quotes that will brighten your day, paired with a little Dolly “walking on sunshine” because she was a ☀️ray of light to the world… and it shows everyone loved her, and the tributes from every walk of life has proven it to be true.

#4 you need to reread…#5 is so good ☀️
Which is your favorite?

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Butter yellow/ linen| shorts and vest| over40 style| utah influencer
Better get to living & giving… life’s to short✔️ Better get to living & giving… life’s to short✔️

Living and Giving with little bit of forgiving… That’s How Dolly Lived❤️

Really SHE live Bigger and Gave even more… Heaven got one heck of a talented, loving and giving soul today!

what she did for children, along with her book/ reading program is truly amazing.

She has one heck of a legacy …Her BIG Heart, her Big Voice, Her Big honesty, Big Smile and BIG hair … and of course we could name a few more bigs…😉❤️

We should all try to be a little more like Dolly❤️🙏🥲

What’s your favorite Dolly Parton Song?
I have so many 9to5, “islands in the stream “ to name a couple❤️

Another on gone to soon❤️

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Dolly Parton | live like Dolly| living and giving| lost a good one
6 quotes to start your WEEK for positivity and hap 6 quotes to start your WEEK for positivity and happiness✔️

3 is 💯true and 6 is one to reread✔️

How cute is this Shirt dress? 
Side through some cute shots of this darling dress you’ll want in your wardrobe, while grabbing a little positivity and happiness for your New week✔️✔️✔️

This dress is so flattering, easy to style and a dress you can wear now and I to fall with a layer and boots☀️🍂

These beautiful nude heels are comfortable and so flattering to your leg. 
This is a a shoe you’ll wear on reaper for years.

I have a discount code to share with you on the dress.

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Shirt dress style| positive quotes| over 50 style | classic styling | flattering heels| flattering dress| utah influencer
Summer Time favorite Moment’s… A little Saturday S Summer Time favorite Moment’s…
A little Saturday Series, I am doing to finish out Summer…
we officially have 4 more weeks left of Summer☀️🪴🪏🌻

I thought it would be Fun to share some moments that make my “favorites”

Come Back Next Saturday to see what made my list….

Today’s “summer Moment’s”.. is hitting the  Local Farmers Market weekly…Supporting Small and Local…
@mcfarlandfamilyfarms 

Pick up Fresh flowers, In season fruits and Veggies that I am not growing in our Yard, Grab a few made from scratch items, like breads, jams & Honey. Pick up  dairy products and have a bit from the Taco truck…

Look up the nearest local Farmers market to you… make an outfit out of it…
Trust me it will be a “Favorite Summer” moment for you too… that you’ll make it a weekly moment like we do🌻🪏🪴☀️

Tell me, what’s something you do in the summer to make “moment’s”?

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Join me as I share a few seeding tips on Hollyhocks and the difference between Heirloom seeds and other seeds.

Stay tell the end ..about why my Hollyhocks are special , 
plus the variety 
I have From Thomas Jefferson’s Monticello Home 

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