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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Tuesday’s Tip day= 4 Instant Tanner’s to try… Yes or No

Self Tanner’s= Mousse, spray and powder! What results did I get?

photo before spray tan

Before

mac sundressing spray bronzant

mac sundressing spray bronzant

mac sundressing spray bronzant Photo of using it

After

Mac Sun dressing Spray Bronzant I love this product! Just look at the before and after photo’s! If you want a deep dark tan this is your product! It comes out like a mousse and you rub it on where you want color. You can see where it is going and does NOT streak! Make sure to wash hands after!  When I purchased this I did not know it was a limited edition product and is now sold out, but don’t worry you can buy the same product (I linked it for you) but for legs! It’s the same product and you can use everywhere! The only down fall is it doesn’t last after a shower!  You need to reapply the next day!  Bonus:SMELLS NICE!  TIP: I found if I let dry it did not come off on my clothes.

air brush Fake bake

Fake Bake Air brush, shown in photo I used on my legs in both of these photos and this product is awesome! Give a great natural looking tan and goes on easy. You can also layer like I did to get a darker tan shown in photo with can.  This one I do in shower after I am all dried off and I need my hubby to spray my back side. It spray’s evenly and you can see where it goes. Doesn’t streak or turn orange, smells weird but doesn’t keep it’s scent. Let dry before getting dressed and it does NOT COME OFF ON YOUR CLOTHES!  

using fake bake tanner

body glow by Estee Lauder

Here we have the Estee Lauder Body glow, sheer Bronzing Mousse! I do not care for this one! It’s kind of gritty and a little too Orange… It does give a glow & smells nice but comes of on your clothes! I would not purchase again! I have had mine along time  ( because I’ve never really loved it!) Estee Lauder started making a new product Here that I might need to try! Note the glow of my hands…that’s what it did to my legs! Leg photo hard to see the color!

using the body glow by Estee Lauder

instant bronzing shimmer powder

Instant bronzing shimmer powder Victoria secrets! Ok… guy’s this one I have had soooo long that VS no longer makes! ( I found 4 on ebay and linked it above!)  It lasts forever and I have been using it every Spring & summer since I bought it! Seriously Years and seems like it’s always full!  I love the glow it gives, note the simmer on my legs! Really easy to apply and you can see right where your putting it! great to highlight legs, shoulders, and collar bones! I will be sad when it’s all gone 1 day! 

Tip: Before using self tanning product do a good body scrub to exfoliate off all the dry skin. You’ll get a better tan with no streaks!

Tip: Gradual Tanning lotions… My favorite is the Jergans natural glow….Doesn’t smell bad and really does give you a look of color after 3 day’s of use. Make sure to rub in really well around ankles and knees. Wash hands after applying!

So excited about warmer weather and showing off our tan’s! OX, D’Arcy

Let me know if you have a favorite tanning product below! I would love to try it!

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Mother’s Day Gift Guide

Judy B swim wear

massage table

capri blue candles volcano

apple watch

fit bit

Athleta stripes Chaturang Capri

Judy b Swim wear

Dry bar

Minky blanket

designskin phone cases

Mother’s Day is Fast approaching! Here are some of my favorite things and some things I would love to have that make for great gift’s any Mom would love!

  1. Judy B swim wear = I love the quality, the fit and that this company is woman owned and made in the USA.  I adore the long sleeve one piece (Jet) for paddle boarding and water sports! Perfect gift for mom’s that love Summer & water!
  2. Massage= A 1 hour massage is just what a busy mom needs! Relaxing and time just for herself. If she has a favorite spa get her a gift certificate there. If she doesn’t have a favorite spa, google ones in your area and look up there ratings. My Favorite is New image.
  3. Candle= My personal favorite is Capri Blue, volcano scent! the scent is to die for and smells up your whole home. great price point $29.99-36.99 and burns for 80 hours!
  4. I Watch by Apple= I have been trying to decide if I want the Apple watch or to get a new fit bit! I have been trying hard to stay on top of my work outs and calorie intake! starts at $269 Would make a great gift for a work out mama! I like the rose gold! Mother’s day sale happening with link!
  5. Fit bit= Decisions Decisions…Starts at $129.95 (having a big Sale in the link provided)
  6. Athleta work out pants= Stripe Chaturang capri work out pant $64 What mom that works out doesn’t want new work out gear?  
  7. Tassel clutch= Tassel’s are all the rage and resort looking bags are a huge hit this Summer! This cutie is affordable and so fun $22.99 I have had my on a few and they’ve been over $150 ouch!
  8. Lipstick= I don’t know a lady that doesn’t love a fabulous lipstick! This one is pure luxury from its beautiful case and smooth buttery glide your mom will enjoy the splurge! $37 note color shown is Rouge Volupte shine #44  NOTE: Free engraving on this site!   How fun to give mom a lip stick that is engraved with a special saying or her monogram!
  9. Pinata Tassel earrings= one of the biggest trend this year! statement earrings and tassel’s $36
  10. Blow out= Give your mom a Blow out from her favorite hair dresser or Blow our bar! My personal Fav is Dry Bar! We don’t have one in Utah but I still ask for gift certificates to them because when I am in a town that has one, I run there!
  11. Minky Couture Blanket= This isn’t just any blanket! This is the BEST blanket and softest blanket you’ll ever own! Once you’ve had a Minky you’ll never want another blanket to touch your skin! Every member of my family has one! (yes…the boy’s too!) I love the monster size or adult $85-125  I have a 45% off code for you BESSTYET45….So hurry and go grab one!
  12. Designskin leather phone cases= I am in love with the quality and function of these great cell phone case! make a great gift $29-62 I have a 30% off code for you to use until 5/14/17 use code= DARCY030

How did you like my Top 12 pick’s for Mother’s day? Let me know by leaving a comment below! OX, D’Arcy

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Don’t be discouraged by closed doors!

 

Mikarose stripe jersey dress, vogue Sunglasses, red door outfit

Mikarose stripe jersey dress, vogue Sunglasses, red door outfit

Mikarose stripe jersey dress, vogue Sunglasses, red door outfit

Lila Dress  , shoe converse, sun glasses Nordstrom Sold out

Don’t be discouraged by closed doors!  

Today I am sharing with you some of my belief’s and little “pep talk’s” I give myself when a door closes or discouragement set in.

We all have goal’s and dreams and some times things just don’t go as we planned. Getting discouraged is really easy!  I have had many doors close on me in my life that I just wanted to Prior OPEN!!! As I have gotten older I have learned to trust God. YES FAITH!  “dare to BELIEVE” and the Right doors OPEN… The doors God has in store for you! Sometimes it’s not in our timing but in his!  When I learned to trust God and Pray, Pray a lot! I noticed I didn’t get discouraged or disappointed when a door closed or even SLAMMED into my face! I realized something better was coming. (Now don’t stop trying and working towards those goal it’s not going to just get handed to you!) I believe a closed door is God’s way of protecting you from taking the wrong path…A bigger and better door will OPEN!

Walt Disney was turned down by 300 banks before he got a loan to build Disneyland! Now…I don’t know if Walt believed in God but I do know he had FAITH in himself  and determination to Build his dream! He did not give up! He had many doors close but finally the one he needed OPENED!

God has BIG plans for you trust him to guide you through the right doors. Remember God puts people in your life or in your path to help you! It’s ok not to do everything yourself. Draw strength from each other. “When we come together in faith, Great things happen!” I have to tell this to myself all the time!  I am a control freak and want things done correct or My way….So I end up doing it ALL by myself to be assured it’s DONE and done correct!  Draw strength from each other it’s ok to let go sometimes!

When we come together in faith, great things happen! 

Sometimes the reminder of reaching your Highest Potential is Put God first and allow the people he puts in your path to help you to OPEN more doors! 

Trust in yourself, BELIEVE in yourself, work hard, follow your dreams and let God be your guide…Your doors will OPEN! 

Become who God created you to be….

May you have many doors OPEN! OX,  D’Arcy

 

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Tuesday’s Tip: Gym Motivation

Tuesday's Tip: Gym Motivation

Tuesday's Tip: Gym Motivation

 

Tuesday's Tip: Gym Motivation

Tuesday's Tip: Gym Motivation

Tuesday's Tip: Gym Motivation

Tuesday's Tip: Gym Motivation Quote

Tuesday’s tip is a couple of  way’s I stay Motivated to go to the gym!

1= I lay out my Gym clothes the night before… I know that sounds crazy but it really does help me. Plus you save time in the morning when your tired and hurrying to get the kids off to school!

2=I go right after I drop my son off at school! Then my day doesn’t get away from me. If I wait…Other things become more important!

3= Starting my day off right… with a workout just feels better! Even on mornings I just don’t feel like it…once I am done I was glad I did it!

4=Summer is coming!!!   Well maybe we do live in UTAH!

5=Knowing I am burning 500/600 calories….FOOD I love food!

6= Cute workout clothes help to keep me motivated…”Treat yourself to a new outfit when you reach a goal?”

7=I feel much better when I work out! I remind myself of this because it’s easy to skip a workout then you skip 2 or 3 then all of a sudden you’ve stopped for a month or two!

8= Being over 40…It’s true your body changes and staying active really does help gravity and health.

I could list a few more but I think you get the point I need a lot of Motivation to get to the gym! I would rather lay in bed with a cup of tea and scroll through instagram! OXOXOX, D’Arcy

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Knowing your body type…and Dressing for it!

Knowing your body type...Shirt dress & Bauble bar Jewelry

Knowing your body type...Shirt dress & Bauble bar Jewelry

Knowing your body type...Shirt dress & Bauble bar Jewelry

Knowing your body type...Shirt dress & Bauble bar Jewelry

Denim Shirt dress sold out, similar here , wedge here, jewelry Bauble bar sold out this would work  here & here,  clutch with Tassel BCBG sold out, similar here or here

 

 

Hello Beautiful’s! 

Today I am chatting about knowing your body and what works on it!  All of our bodies have a strengths and weakness. For instance My strength is my long legs and my weakness is I am square, no waist and I hold any extra weight in my middle area. I am a Ruler= Straight up & down! With this type of a build I am going to play up my legs and draw attention away from my middle. This is why Shirt dresses work great for me (above) It flatters my figure. While Shirt/shift dresses work on Almost every figure, Its shorter style and no waist line make’s it’s my go to in a dress choice.  I don’t wear Dresses that draw attention to the waist, have a  belt at the waist or the Popular wrap dresses because it isn’t flattering on me.  Now for a person that has a little waist It’s a perfect.  (some would say wearing a belted dress gives my square shape a shape!!! It does not…it just make me look square) This is one of the reasons to know what works on YOUR body! You need to feel comfortable and confident!

When you know what works on your body it makes shopping easier and you know what styles you can eliminate.  Now this doesn’t mean you have to purchase the same styles time after time! It just means you have a better sense of the styles you are looking for. Boy does this help in the try on rooms!! 🙂

I have found with my body type I look better in pencil skirts verses A line skirts because A line skirts draw attention to waist and have flowy fabric around the leg area, where a pencil skirt draws attention to my legs and is structured for a more tailored look that suits my shape. 

Knowing what works helps you to look and feel your best everyday! Why try to wear something just because it’s in Fashion if it doesn’t look good on your body, you won’t feel Fabulous!  Dressing for your body type will change how you look and purchase clothes!  Most of all, You will Always feel great!  For more about dressing for YOUR body TYPE, I found a great article for you over at Who Whore What .

If you have any questions or want some tips from me on what I think would look great on you.  Please leave a comment below and I will have you send me some photo’s of you via email, and I’ll be happy to send YOU your personal styling tips:)

Thank you for reading Dear D’Arcy, OX D’Arcy

 

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Spring is in Bloom

flower print dress

flower print dress

flower print dress

 

flower print dress

flower print dress

 

 

Spring tulips

Daffodils photo of flowers

spring flowers

Hello Beautiful’s,  I hope you had a wonderful Easter and are enjoying the Spring blooms popping up. I love this time of year when flowers are are springing up, the trees have beautiful blooms and the smell of fresh cut grass fills the air.  I wanted to share with you the floral dress I wore for Easter that was under $40.00! A cute shirt dress with pockets and a puffy sleeve. I got so many compliments at church and it’s perfect for Spring! I paired it with my favorite wedge’s  and a cute statement earring . 

Do you love floral’s as much as I do?  I would love to know if you love wearing floral’s in the Spring!

Here’s a peek at the Spring blooms popping up around our neck of the woods…

I hope you have a lovely week & great weather. OX, D’Arcy

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Tuesday’s Tip: Mac Make up… FREEBIE

mac make up, Louis Vuitton, crown

mac make up, Louis Vuitton, crown

mac make up, Louis Vuitton

mac lipstick

Happy Tuesday Beautiful’s!

Today’s tip day and I am sharing with you a little secret NOT every MAC make up lover knows….. 

Did you know you can return 6 empty make up containers…. Any 6 containers, Empty to a MAC counter and they’ll Give you a FREE lipstick of your choice?    Awesome Right?  I love this about MAC, and it keeps me coming back to buy their products!

 Some of my Favorite items are there Mineralize Skinfinsh (medium) , Prep & Prime B&B (Broad Spectrum), Sheertone Blush (Blushbaby) I love their brushes too!

Lipsticks and lip gloss colors I own and wear on a regular basis =       LIPSTICKS =Mehr, Lustre, Twig, Blankety, Creamsheen                       SLIMSHINE = Assertive                                                                                 GLOSS = Cultured, Please Me, Boy bait, Power supply

Did you know this little TIP?  What’s your favorite Mac product I would love to try it?

Have a Beautiful Day! OX, D’Arcy

 

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Subscription Box Craze!

Monthly Subscription boxes: March deliveries…

Ipsy= A $10 a month subscription box with Make up/cosmetic sample’s and a cute little Bag…. Check it out Here …. I loved this month’s bag and loved everything in it! Normally I like 1 or 2 things and most of the bags I save for little gifts, along with the samples I don’t want. This Months Bag will make it into my purse or use as a little clutch. This box is more Make up driven normally! check it out Here & GET A FREE MAC LIP Stick .Ipsy Coupon – Free MAC Lipstick Sampler With Your First Month of Ipsy!

BirchBox= $10 a month Cosmetic and make up sample box…This Box gives you more samples and no bag, but honestly they give you popular items I was wanting to try and more skin & hair driven! I personal like getting more Skin and Hair sample’s verses make-up. Check it out here.. BirchBox 

Rocksbox $25 a month, this is a BARROW for as long as you want monthly Jewelry box… So basically they send 3 pieces off your WISH list and you wear until your tired of them or if YOU must have forever you purchase them…You send back in a prepaid envelope and then they send you another set!  This Box is great if you get bored with your jewelry, want to try out the latest trends or simply don’t buy a lot of jewelry. You can try out without being committed! I have really enjoyed getting this monthly box…and you can FREEZE it, if your needing a break.  Try it here For FREE for 1 month   www.rocksbox.com  referral Code darcybff18 I think you’ll really love it!

Honest co. This was a Free not FREE trial kit for $5.95 shipping to try there product…Then you get auto signed up for a Honest essential bundle for $35.95 a month that comes with 5 FULL sized products. Unless you cancelled in 7 days from time received….The products were travel sized and smelled good, it’s great there’s no harmful chemicals …But really nothing Wowed me..I cancelled! can check it out here Honest.com

BootayBag=$12 a month for two pairs of pretty lace panties. You pick what kind cheeky or thong or mix, your size (and true size) They surprise you with the style and colors! I love pretty panties and I am picky about comfort and fabric! I have loved every pair, great value $5 a pair if you think $1 each for shipping and I love they give $1 to Melanoma foundation if you post a picture.  Check it out Here Bootay Bag

chic Style box Monthly Subscription www.chicstylebox.com

Chic StyleBox= $21.99 a month for $30-45 worth of fashion accessories & Beauty & lifestyle treats…This box changes with the season and it’s a fun surprise to see what the theme is. You can keep items you like or give as gifts. I love having Items on hand I can make a great gift up for a quick (oh…It’s your Birthday let’s go to lunch!) I think this box is a great value, shipping is included! check it out Here Chic Stylebox 

 Boxes I get but not on a Monthly basis are as follows:

Hello Fresh…Meals to prepare shipped right to your door! I get the Family 3 meals every other month or so and is super yummy, healthy and easy to prepare (My boys can do it) Try it Here for 50% off your first month Hello Fresh

Grove Collaborative…This is a Great natural Home cleaning supply company has wonderful products I love and healthy to use for our home! I love the smells! I get this every couple of months just as I am running out of cleaning supplies! Easy 1 less thing I have to remember at the store!!  check it out Here Grove

Just Fab….This is a monthly shoe club $39.99 but you can skip whenever you want, so I get maybe 2 times a year! check it out here Just Fab right Now there having 20% 0ff first month!

Fabletics…. A monthly workout outfit from $49-69 for 2-3 pieces in a fun selection just for you! You can also skip any month, so I get about 3-4 outfits  a year! Great Quality and fit! Check out here Fabletics

Fun fit Fab...This is a 4 Times a year seasonal Box  for $49.99 each and you get $200 worth of product! It is full size product and and assortment of Hot products, Trendy gifts, a touch of fashion or life style really fun surprise box! Check it out here FUNFITFAB get 10% off right Now and its shipping this month!

I guess you could Call me A subscription box Junkie! I love Happy mail, I love to try new things, it’s easy shopping and I alway’s have a gift on hand! It’s a great way to see what’s NEW and what’s on trend without always having to research or head to a ton of stores. Most Subscription boxes are a great value for what your getting. What I really love is Most All of these business where started as a small business and built up! Most have a great cause behind them or wonderful charity! I love supporting companies that give back or are a small Family business. If you haven’t tried a monthly Subscription or a Home delivery you really should it’s quite delightful! OX, D’Arcy

 I am in NO way sponsored by any of these companies and these are my personal opinions! 

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Spring Trend’s ( series 5) Pendant necklaces & Oversized Bag’s

Happy Saturday Pretty ladies!

I am Happy to share with you the last of my Spring Trend series!  (15 Top Spring Trend’s)  So today I bring you Pendant necklace’s and Oversize Bag’s….

I Love these two trends!

Pendant Necklaces are great because they elongate your neck and can be worn at any age. I love all the looks you can find in this style of necklace. From simple and plain to layers with tassel’s, crystal,s rocks and charms! You have a ton of options and it really dresses up a plain tee or tank. I have shown just a few of my favorite’s and in different price points for your budget. (Also worn through the pictures in my prior series.)

The Oversize Bag perfect for travel and even work! I love a large bag to tote ALL my work gear in… Ipad, organizer, wallet, make-up bag, notepad, lunch and….having a bag I can keep a little clutch in (to use when running in a shop or errand is handy) I feel like an oversize bag keeps my car organized as well! It’s my catch ALL!   This is another reason it’s great for Travel you can use for all of the above plus add magazines a small blanket scarf etc.  Oversize bag’s can get heavy so if using for a fashion statement or outfit accessory keep your content to a minimum! Here I showed some of my favorite’s for work, Travel and even the beach again in all price points for every budget. 

I hope you had a chance to read All of my Series on This Springs top 15 trends! If not Here is 1st  Here 2nd  Here 3rd  here is 4th 

Have a Beautiful weekend! OX D’Arcy

 

  • Prada Galleria medium textured-leather tote
    $2,250 NET-A-PORTER.COM
    PRADA PURSES
  • Mahon Fichero Dusty Rose Tote Bag
    $2,387 RUNWAY2STREET.COM
    LAPTOP TOTE
  • Style & Co Palm Tree Straw Beach Bag Tote,
    $36 MACYS.COM
    WHITE HANDBAGS
  • Black & White Wide Stripe Deluxe Oversize Beach Tote Bag
    $27 LUXURYDIVAS.COM
    BEACH TOTE BAGS
  • Vera Bradley Straw Beach Wristlet
    $48 VERABRADLEY.COM
    VERA BRADLEY PURSES»
     
  • Women's Love's Affect Elle Semiprecious Stone Tassel Necklace
    $68 NORDSTROM.COM
    LONG NECKLACES»
     
  • Travel tassel long necklace
    $46 POPMAP.COM
    TASSEL NECKLACE»
     
  • Stone Heart Necklace, Tiger Eye necklace Moonstone cats eye necklace long pendant necklace leather copper boho jewelry black brown neutral
    $15 ETSY.COM
    STONE NECKLACES»
     
  • Kenneth Jay Lane Bead Tassel Necklace
    $115 VERYEXCLUSIVE.CO.UK
    LONG NECKLACES
     
  • Amber Necklace, Long Necklace, Yellow Honey Orange pendant necklace, Adjustable Chain, Brass Chain, Pendant Necklace, Fashion Jewelry
    $25 ETSY.COM
    NECKLACES
  • White Agate Long Pendant Necklace (28 ct. t.w.) in Silver-Plated Rose Gold-Flash
    $22 MACYS.COM
    PENDANT NECKLACE»
     
  • Crystal Pendant Necklace
    $9.90 YESSTYLE.COM
    CRYSTAL NECKLACE
  • Panacea Long Beaded Tasseled Wrap Necklace
    $42 LASTCALL.COM
    LONG NECKLACES
     
  • Tocca Jewelry Raw Amethyst Point Pendant Gold Necklace
    $33 CARNETDEMODE.COM
    AMETHYST NECKLACE
  • GUESS Woven Chain Choker with Long Y Necklace Tassel (Silver/Denim Blue) Necklace
    $28 ZAPPOS.COM
    TASSEL NECKLACE
  • Pre-owned Chanel CC Beach Tote & Towel
    $1,795 THEREALREAL.COM
    CHANEL
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  • Mark & Graham Sunburst Beach Tote, White
    $49 MARKANDGRAHAM.COM
    MARK & GRAHAM
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  • Indah long Necklace coin tassel necklace
    BOHEMIANDIESEL.COM
    Long Necklace with tassels
     

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Spring Transition pieces

This Thursday I thought I would share some of my Favorite pieces that Transition into Spring well! I love the pretty color’s, and the romantic look this pallet has. Spring is tricky in Utah…You bounce from Winter to Summer in the Same week, so it’s nice to have pieces that look lighter then Winter colors but can be layered up or worn alone. Most of these items can easily be used in the Summer as well.

Today it snowed! Last week was beautiful and in the high 60’s which get’s ALL of our hopes up for Summer!  With pretty layer’s like these you can dress in Summer colors but be warm for a day’s like today! 

I hope you enjoyed my quick little post! Check back tomorrow for My Spring Ski Trip backing, OX D’Arcy

 

$58 ABERCROMBIE.COM ABERCROMBIE & FITCH CARDIGANS

$58 ABERCROMBIE.COM ABERCROMBIE & FITCH CARDIGANS

$34 YESSTYLE.COM CARDIGANS

$59 CHICWISH.COM CHICWISH SWEATERS

$60 NORDSTROM.COM TOPSHOP BLOUSES

$125 NORDSTROM.COM CUPCAKES AND CASHMERE JACKETS»

$25 HOLLISTERCO.COM HOLLISTER CO. JEANS

$248 DONALDJPLINER.COM DONALD J PLINER ANKLE BOOTIES

$118 HEELS.COM STEVE MADDEN ANKLE BOOTIES 

 $85 ZAPPOS.COMATHENA ALEXANDER SANDALS 

$25 ZULILY.COMBAMBOO SHOES

$39 ACCESSORIZE.COMACCESSORIZE CLUTCHES

$300 LANECRAWFORD.COMMIGNONNE GAVIGAN EARRINGS 

$70 DOMINO.COM BING BANG RINGS

 $12 AVENUE.COMAVENUE SUNGLASSES

$16 THEHUT.COM OPI NAIL POLISH

MARIECLAIRE.CO.UK INSTYLE.COM

 CABIONLINE.COM

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D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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Day 4 Itinerary 
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Driving to Palm Springs, Ca. 
4 hours from Mesa, Az

—Walked the grounds 🌴🌺🌊
To stretch and move our body after drive. So beautiful and perfect weather.
(We left early in Am to enjoy a full day PS

-Headed for a full day at the Pool 🌴☀️

-Got ready and headed to one of our favorite “locals favorite”  Mexican restaurants @m  so yummy and of course I had to have a margarita 🪇🌶️

(I realized I forgot to get a photo of what I wore to dinner and to the street fair)  I am a horrible influencer 😉😂
I wore a strapless linen sundress and slide sandals✔️

-Palm Springs  downtown stree fair, takes up the whole historic down town, with handmade crafts, food trucks, locally grown items, music, art, clothing and entertainment . We’ve been going for years and  it’s a fun evening.
(Parking can be tough, uber or go early )

Ben searches out his favorite Gelato guy, every year.. he says he makes the BEST coffee gelato 🍦🍨

🌴Have you been to Palm Springs?
What one of your favorite things?

This weekend they are celebrating 100 years of Marilyn Monroe…. 

☀️🌸What I wore o  today and everything to date is linked on my Liketoknowit 

#palmspringslife #palmspringsstyle #roadtripping #couplegoals❤️ #midlifestyle
—Margarita Time— Ward off evil😂😂😂 Love that Salt —Margarita Time—

Ward off evil😂😂😂

Love that Salted rim🍸🌶️🍋‍🟩🌵🪇🌴

Do you love a good margarita? Are you a on the rocks  or blended girl ?

Fruity or Spicy girl?
Top shelf tequila or doesn’t matter?

Salted-Sugar or Taheen rim?

I am a top shelf, spicy margarita on the rocks with Salt girl… and I like jalapeño and blackberry’s as a garnish 🌶️🍋‍🟩

#spicymargarita #midlifestyle #mexicanfoodlover #cocktaillovers
Day 3 Road Tripping Itinerary 🚗🌵🌴☀️🏜️ Our Last d Day 3 Road Tripping  Itinerary 🚗🌵🌴☀️🏜️

Our Last day and evening in Mesa,Az before heading to Palm Springs, Ca.

We started out with grabbing a coffee & a little walk, then heading to the pool. Our goal this trip was relaxing in the sun ☀️ poolside☀️🌴While enjoying a little late afternoon early evening easy entertaining and good food…

Late afternoon we headed out to the golf course & then later to go on a garden walk and check out a couple local nurseries, before heading to dinner . 

I love to see what grows in that area and learn a little. Plus it’s always beautiful 🌵🌺🌸🌵Did you know a good size catus is $2,000-5,000 and a decent size Palm tree starts at $7,500 to $15,000 and that was the sale prices.

We had a yummy Italian dinner at @pizzicatausa over looks  the painted mountain golf course. 

 Then we went on an evening stroll at the golf course found a bench by the pond and had a cocktail to watch the sun set🌅🌵🍷
Perfect way to end the day ✔️

If you’re looking for an easy & Relaxing  day, this is a perfect itinerary 

Tomorrow morning we’re Off to Palm Springs, Ca. A 4 hour drive from Mesa.Az. 🌴🌺🚗☀️

Do you like a road trip to be leisurely or to pack in a tone of things to do?

#roadtripvibes #midlifejourney #couplevacation #couplegoals❤️
Travel Style over 50 Day 2 Road Trip Mesa, Az ~A Travel Style over 50

Day 2 Road Trip
Mesa, Az

~A much need Relaxing Day at the pool
🌵⛱️☀️🌊
~Then off For a late Lunch, Early Dinner
Found a historic Mexican Restaurant (ok, but not Fabulous) The architecture and grounds were cool🇲🇽🌮🪇🍸

~ Headed to Mesa’s Historic Main st for a little shopping, Mural & Architecture spotting, Local brewery, cool vintage shops, music, book stores, and a fun candy store. 

Stay tuned for another Day “3 “in Mesa…
Then off to Palm Springs,Ca.

Have you been to Mesa, Az? What’s one of the things you did or recommend?

#arizonaadventures #roadtripvibes #styleover50 #midlifestyle #couplevacation
Travel Style over 50 🚗Road Trip Day 1 Itinerary🗻🌲 Travel Style over 50

🚗Road Trip Day 1 Itinerary🗻🌲🏔️🌵🏜️

Hubby and I are on a 7 day Road Trip 3 states 4 states from mountains to desserts… chasing sun and pool time …

Follow along… for our shenanigans, stops and daily itinerary ➡️ Slide for 
Day one… 10 hour drive… with stops along the way for a total 14 hour scenic day.

Beautiful drive- Fun stops, sights and yummy early dinner in historic downtown, Flagstaff. 

Outfit comment “shop” comfortable and chic! Perfect for travel✔️

Do you like a road trip and look for scenic and fun places to stop eat and shop along the way?

#roadtripready #summervacay #couplegeteaway #over50women
Pattern play: over 50 Let’s style Gingham- Cow pr Pattern play: over 50

Let’s style Gingham- Cow print and a little horse shoes✔️✔️✔️

Affordable pieces you can have a little fun with✔️✔️✔️

Fashion over 40 doesn’t have to be boring or predictable! Play and have fun!

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—Memorial Day— 🇺🇸Freedom didn’t come Free, may we —Memorial Day—

🇺🇸Freedom didn’t come Free, may we remember those who paid the ultimate price🤍🙏🏻

Thank you to all 
That are serving this country and to those who have paid the ultimate sacrifices for our freedoms 🤍🙏🏻

Sharing 19 Red❤️ White🤍 and blue💙 outfit inspirations you could wear ALL SUMMER Long🤍🍒💙
🇺🇸American Summer🇺🇸

Patriotic colors don’t have to be just for Memorial Day, 4th of July and Patriotic Days. 

You can mix and match and wear for all of Summer Social Season🍒

BBQ’s, Picnics, fairs, farmers Markets, coffee & lunch dates, art festivals, beach board walks, dinner dates, parades, and concerts ✔️

See my Patriotic Outfit inspiration board with all the shopping details & sales ❤️

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—American Summer— ———Loading——— ❤️🇺🇸💙 The Kick of —American Summer—
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The Kick off to Summer
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New SPANX air essentials… If you know me, then yo New SPANX air essentials…

If you know me, then you know I LOVe Air essential pieces by SPANX’s.
Buttery soft fabric NObODY can compare… others try but it’s just not the same…
- pieces perfect for travel, easy to wear for lounging and running errands but chic enough to dress up a bit…

The New Button up and pull on shorts, come in 5 colors and although sold separately they make a great set. 

Wear with sandals or sneakers 

I took this Tan set and accessorized it to feel a little more Patriotic for Memorial Day without screaming red white and blue.💙❤️🇺🇸

I’ve got this packed for our Road trip 

Watch to the end to see how I style it up

Save 15% off with my code on Spanx non sale items code: Deardarcyxspanx 

Spanx is having a 30%  off select items SALE 

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—Ralph Lauren — Inspired Summer If American coas —Ralph Lauren —
Inspired Summer 

If American coastal summer vibes is your vibe… let’s be friends

Mixing a few saves and splurges to create this look…. 

Can you believe these Tuckernuck vibe gingham ruffled hem pants are under $29

Ralph Lauren flag sweater

Denim chambray short sleeve button up

Miller red sandals - Straw tote- Straw hat
Gold hoops - Shell  necklace

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#ralphlaurensummer #americansummer #flagsweater #gingham
I am 54 and this is how I am styling Bermuda short I am 54 and this is how I am styling Bermuda shorts for Spring and Summer !

2 Basics but not basic looking….
Take your Short game up a notch with these couple easy tricks ✔️

Do you like wearing shorts or dresses in the summer? Tell me below ⬇️

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Calling…. All “Coastal Grandmothers” The White la Calling….

All “Coastal Grandmothers”
The White lace dress you’ll wear ALL Summer  LONG🌊🐚🦞🌸

I am a 54 year old boy mom and COCO, who loves all things Nancy Meyers, Ralph Lauren, Ina Garten and Martha Stewart …

 Whether you love an American Summers🇺🇸, East coast Summers, Visiting Napa or Traveling Europe… You’ll love this White lace Dress with balloon sleeves, pockets and tied waste.

Perfect dressed  casual or dressed up. 

No matter your age… Coastal Grandmother is a “vibe”  is it yours?

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Creating 3 Outfits with Trending shoes for Spring Creating 3 Outfits with Trending shoes for Spring and. Summer 🌱

—-Easy Spirit—-
Is know for comfort and Cushioned shoes that you can wear all day for work or play..

Meet the NEW Girls that also Have Style and are trending this Season.

~ Rosario- is a Small flower detail in Raffia with a block heel, amazing cushion and comes in 3 on trend colors for Spring. Featured her is what I call Pastachio green (light green)

~ Hetty is a slingback pointed toe Dress pump with kitten heel and a horse bit detail in brown trim and raffia.

~VANA Slip on Raffia Slide with horsebit & Leather detail… 

3 pairs of shoes that will work with all of your Spring & Summer outfits from work to play✔️✔️✔️

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#easyspirit #trendingshoes #midlifestyle
-6 Looks you’ll Wear All Summer- Is an American S -6 Looks you’ll Wear All Summer-

Is an American Summer 🇺🇸❤️Calling you?

6 outfits just in time for Memorial Day 🇺🇸Inspo you’ll wear all Summer.

Wardrobe Basics, you can mix and match, Neutrals you can add a POP of color too and Red White and blue that give you a “classic” Ralph Lauren vibe that feels like an Old American Summer🇺🇸❤️

Make sure to slide ➡️ through all 8 photos for Tips, inspiration and styling you might not of though about🇺🇸❤️

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Melanoma Cancer Journey —Part 6— —2nd Laser surge Melanoma Cancer Journey
—Part 6—

—2nd Laser surgery &  Update—

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To view process

 6 weeks  after my First laser treatment round 2 co2  deep core laser treatment.

I was diagnosed in December, Surgery in January and my first laser in February.

I’ve been sharing this Journey in hopes to help encourage you to make a skin check up appointment. 

Melanoma Cancer is deadly and very different from Skin Cancer.

Melanoma cancer is deadly,  early detection is key, before it can spread to lymph nodes, organs, &  blood. 

If your new here or just seeing this post, I have 5 other parts with all the info and my Journey to date in Feed and stores saved to highlights with more info.

Thank you for all the kind messages, comments and prayers! I appreciate you being apart of my tribe.

Thank you and NOW make your Skin Appointment! 

May is Skin cancer awareness month and it’s so important to get your skin checked!

I am happy to answer any questions in Dm

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🚨Come back next week to view the update and see what the laser did 

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The perfect Thing to do with the girls👠 Brunch an The perfect Thing to do with the girls👠

Brunch and then head to see Devil wears Prada 👠🍿🎬

A few mimosas might have been drank🍾🥂😉

What I wore:
-Gold button detail scuba blazer
-Pleated skorts 
-A fun high heel graphic tee by @madisonmaison 
-Rock stud pumps and clutch
-Bold Gold Jewelry

More details over on my LTk or message me.

I have to say.. Mother’s Day weekend was great… started the day out with Cammi @cammishappyplace to shop Vintage market days and end the night with Mexican food at one of our favorite places.

Saturday- off with the girls for brunch and a movie… ended the night at the garden shop (yes in 👠 heels) 

Sunday- Church and then Brunch with the family and then evening in the garden with my hubby🛍️🥂👠🍽️🎬🪏🪴🏡

 Couldn’t ask for a better way to spend it✔️

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4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation 4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation that will make packing a breeze✔️

From Brunch to poolside, sightseeing to Dinner I’ve got you covered… along with easy packing ✈️🚗🚕🧳

As a 54 year old who loves a good matching set for travel, as it truly does make packing a breeze… You’ll love the quality,fit and style of these 4 sets…

Which one is your favorite 1-2-3-4?

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My Amazon Finds 9 Entertaining items I can’t thr My Amazon Finds 

9 Entertaining items I can’t throw a
party without

That make Entertaining Easy

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⚠️Slide. #10 is a MUST HAVE
And Slide #2 is a savior 

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#homeparties #homeentertaining #midlifestyle
—instant dopamine, every time— NEW SHOES Cecelia —instant dopamine, every time—

NEW SHOES

Cecelia New York New “Rally” linen square block low heel, studded sandal 
& gold flower clutch 

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My greatest joy is being their MOM 🤍🤍🤍 My greates My greatest joy is being their MOM 🤍🤍🤍

My greatest accomplishment is the family we’ve built.🤍

Not only the children I birthed, whom I am so very proud of and thank God every day for,
 but to the home we opened up to others and the family that came from friends and children we’ve been so blessed to have apart of our lives.

Family is something you build not just something you’re given. It truly brings me so much joy to have a full home, to feed others, open our hearts and be a safe space. 

I am grateful everyday for those in our life’s and apart of our “FAMILY” it makes my mama heart happy🤍🤍🤍

Thankful to the two that made me a CoCo @hampton.v_  @kaylee.thompson24 🤍 The love & joy he brings is something nobody could have prepared me for🤍

I know Mother’s Day can be hard for some, with their mamas no longer with them or with having a hard time becoming one on their own🙏🏻🤍 my heart goes out to you! You’ll be in my prayers🙏🏻

🌸Happy Mother’s Day pretty ladies and my your day be full of everything you need it to be🤍🤍🤍

A few of my favorite quotes ⬇️⬇️⬇️

“Motherhood: Because privacy is over-rated”. —Russ Ediger

“Thank God for a praying mother”. —Bobbie Burrow

“Faith is the foundation of a strong, loving family and Mama is the cornerstone”. —Renee Daniels

“Moms just know… How to help. How to heal. How to listen. How to love.”

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