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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally

Hello Pretty Lady, 

“Your talent determines what you can do. Your motivation determines how much you’re willing to do. Attitude determines how well you do it.” —

“Do what you love, and you’ll never work a day!”

I am lucky to be doing what I love, and I have you, pretty ladies, to thank for that! Thank you for being here and supporting my small business. Whether with a like♥️ on social media, a comment, a DM, shopping a link, watching my stories, or reading a blog post, each helps me do what I love and share with you. I appreciate you.

Living stylishly and looking good at any age is a passion of mine. I love helping you to do the same! With the Holidays approaching, I thought I’d get a jump start and start sharing Holiday looks with you. Just in case you needed a little Holiday outfit inspiration for the upcoming party season,

Today, I am sharing Jude Connally, a newer brand to me. Let me tell you, I am in love with the quality, fit, and darling styles. I even have a 15% off code to share with you. Use JDARCY to save 15% off your purchase.

“At Jude Connally, they believe in making women feel good and look great. Their clothes are designed to fit and flatter every body type, with vibrant colors and prints that express your personality. Jude Connally is more than a clothing brand; it’s a lifestyle.”

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally

Here are my picks for the perfect three little black dresses for you to look fabulous this party season.

Party season, the Holidays, cocktail parties, winter weddings, the theater, or even a cruise. These three little black dresses will have you looking and feeling great.

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally
Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally

Ella Dress

#1. Ella dress stretch velvet with rhinestone details – I am in a small, head over heels for this short-sleeved- tee- shirt-inspired dress! With an easy fit, the Ella dress in velvet will be your new go-to this season. Featuring chic studded detailing on the front. Whether dressed up or down, it flawlessly combines timeless charm with modern chic.

Paired with a classic black pump, mine are Sam Edelmann, a simple and affordable clutch by Quilted Koala. You could do black for a classic and simple look or choose metallic silver for a fun, festive pop. Save 20% with code DARCY20. The jewelry is kept simple, as the rhinestones on the dress are enough sparkle—one simple rhinestone bracelet and a great simple rhinestone drop earring or even a large stud. Mine are vintage drop earrings. 

Hair Tip: When you’re styling an outfit versus just wearing it, you consider what hairstyle works with the dress and flatters you and your outfit. Here, the updo works and allows the dress to shine. Sometimes, when a dress is busy, wearing hair down adds to the busyness 

Shop the look: DRESS| Shoes| Clutch| Earring SImilar| Studd Option| Bracelet 

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally
Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally
Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally

Franca Dress

#2. Franca Dress– Jude Ponte with feather-trimmed sleeves fits tts in and makes a statement this season with our stunning new shift dress, Franca! Featuring 3/4 sleeves with eye-catching feathered cuffs and a classic crew neckline, this chic dress combines timeless elegance with a playful twist. A must-have for your wardrobe!

Finishing this look off with a pop of color, fushia tweed shoes by Madison Masion and a velvet tulip bag by Cecelia New York

Hairstyle tip: With the simple neckline of this dress, you really can wear your hair in several ways: down and full, straight and sleek, half up, or even in a low side knot or pony. It does depend if you add an earring you want to show off as well; with this dress, you could wear a statement earring and pull your hair away from your face. (I will be doing just that as soon as I find the fushia statement earring I WANT) 

Shop the look: Dress| Shoes| Bag

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally

Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally
Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally
Party Season Style
Three little black dresses: by Jude Connally

Maureen Dress

#3. Maureen Dress—Jude Ponte has a Halter neck and Bow detail

Step into the spotlight with our new super chic dress, Maureen! Featuring an elegant high neckline with an adjustable bow tie for added sophistication. This stunning style is a must-have for all your holiday parties, offering a perfect blend of modern elegance and festive charm! It fits true to size, and I am the size small.

I finished off the look with a pair of rock-studded Valentino pumps, which make a small statement but don’t overpower the bow detail of the dress. I took the gold stud from the shoes as inspiration for the jewelry and wore black and gold bold jewelry from Julie Vos. This perfectly finishes off the outfit.

Tip: Another important detail when styling a halter-style dress is to let the halter, and in this case, the bow detail, be the star. Wear your hair back off your shoulders, either in a chic ponytail, bun, or top knot. 

Shop the look: Dress| Shoes| Clutch| Earrings| Bracelets HERE HERE| Ring

Save 15% off with code JDARCY

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Have a beautiful day, Pretty ladies, and remember your smile is your BEST accessory.

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D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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It’s no secret I love to cook and entertain. Chee It’s no secret I love to cook and entertain. 
Cheese is an ingredient I use in several of my recipes, @cachevalleycheese  a local Utah company making cheese from the highest quality dairy is one of our family’s go to cheese brands.

Having a wide selection of delicious cheese flavors and they come in a verity from large blocks, small blocks, pre sliced, and grated depending on your preference and cooking needs. Delivering wholesome goodness in every bite.

I am excited to try a few recipes this Spring and Summer from their 

Free Spring Recipe E-Book 2026

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Cache Valley Creamery
showcasing a palette of possibilities for fresh, seasonal dishes that are easy, impressive, and perfect for spring brunches, gatherings, and Mother’s Day.

Use Link below to grab your Free E-Book⬇️
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Did you know Cache Valley Creamery is a family ran business? 

What’s your favorite cheese?🧀 
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#CacheValleyCreamery | #AD #CheeseLoversUnite | #SpringRecipes | #SpringEntertaining | EasyRecipes | UtahEats
—-Styling Quince—- The perfect summer dress… Thi —-Styling Quince—-

The perfect summer dress…

This linen strapless maxi dress with pockets by @onequince is perfect for summer.

-Looks great on most body types
-Can be dressed up or worn casual 
-Comes in black or white
- Has pockets 

Styling tips:

Can be worn with this Quince linen blazer, Styled with a Quince leather bag, designer platform slide sandals and jewelry for a Coastal dinner cruise or drinks with friends.

Styled  with a sweater over shoulders and a sandal perfect for lunch with the girls, or day date.

Styled with a denim jacket and a low profile sneaker and a cross body bag, for a great travel outfit or perfect casual weekend look.

I love it travels well and is so comfortable.

Shop my outfit and use code INFG-26DARCYVANDENBERG10 
For 10% off first purchase 

#onequince #linendresses  #over50fashion
Headed on a trip? Pack with ease… 8 pieces by @tr Headed on a trip?

Pack with ease…
8 pieces by @tribalfashionofficial 

I  used to Create 
6 Outfits for a perfect
Summer Capsule

Mix and Match
To Create endless looks
All Summer long

Comment “Shop” for links
I have an Exclusive 20% off code
For you to use🛍️
DARCYT20.

#mytribalfashion #gifted #affiliate
MAIL DAY 📦 Monday Mail days are the worst….. Tru MAIL DAY 📦 Monday

Mail days are the worst…..

Truth is…it’s really stressful shopping and trying out products so you don’t have too 😉

This weeks Happy Mail⬇️

-From Amazon Finds
-New product launch Oneskin
-Spring arrivals from  Gibsonlook 
-A Gadget
-Shoes by Donald Pliner
-Midlife Supplement

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#mailday #hardjob utahinfluencer sarcastichumor
Come shop with me… Anthropologie’s 30% off Spring Come shop with me…

Anthropologie’s 30% off Spring Sale
An extra 50% off sale. 

Welcome to Anthro Santa Barbara🌴🌸

Come see my picks “I’d love for Mother’s Day “ on sale and would make perfect Gift ideas!

From Farm Rio dresses, to beautiful dishes and new Capri blue candle that are always a favorite. 
To Latest release from Pilcro including the new fragrance and MY Spring clothing picks…

Spring shoes you’ll want to add to your wardrobe and the cutest clutch and spring Bag.

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Asian Style Brussel Sprout Skewers 🌱 My Brussel S Asian Style Brussel Sprout Skewers 🌱

My Brussel Sprout Recipe
Non- Brussel Sprout lovers Will LOVE🫶🏻

Sunday’s “In the Kitchen with D’Arcy” Recipe -Asian-Style Brussel Sprout Skewers🌱

Easy to make, a great appetizer, and a perfect side dish for Sunday dinner or BBQ season✔️

⚠️Save to refer to later

Recipe:
1 bag Brussels sprouts 
1/2 cup Hoisin sauce
1 tablespoon Balsamic glaze 
2 tablespoon Soy sauce 
2 Tablespoons crushed garlic
Sesame oil (for drizzle and pan)

Drizzle Sesame oil for pan & a small drizzle on top of sprouts 

1/4 cup Crushed peanuts (reserve to sprinkle on top) or sesame seeds

Cut ends off sprouts, add to pan with water and bring to boil, let boil about 10 minutes until soften, drain
Let cool. Then place on skewers 
Pre heat oven to 400

Make the sauce

Mix all above ingredients together 
And brush over sprouts, turn and brush all sides.  Sprinkle with crushed peanuts or sesame seeds Place in oven, cook until crispy 

#brusselsprouts #brusselsprout #recipeoftheweek
California girls trip Life is different over 50… California girls trip 

Life is different over 50….

See how it hits differently, but sliding through my 20 moments in California 

Slide 7 is a blessing

Slide 20 is important

Thank you for sharing in the moments🤍
Gina @gee_run 
Suzanne @crazyblondelifeblog 
Cathy @themiddlepageblog 
Janet @janetgunngratefulgardenia 
Lisa @lisabreckenridge 

A little recap:
Time  driving through the dessert…Walks on the beach.. Lunch at Brophy’s in Santa Barbara’s, shopping on state Street. Drive through the Hills 90210
Beverly Hills - event at Madison Masion- Wally’s for a glass & fries before, dinner at Spago, Ventura keys-Photo shoots, brunch at the cutest Coffee house-antiquing- Chilling & catching up at my Girlfriends darling beach house…Coastal drives and ice cream in the harbor…Much needed girls time…priceless🤍🌊☀️🍷🌴☕️🫶🏻

#styleover50 #lifeover50 #californiatrip
Let’s talk about the health benefits of Margaritas Let’s talk about the health benefits of Margaritas 🍋‍🟩🪇

Lime -Vitamin C 
Salt -electrolytes 
Tequila-Stress Relief

Woh loves a good Margarita?

Cheers to the weekend Pretty ladies🍋‍🟩🍹

#margaritatime #healthbenifits #cocktailtime #itsfiveoclocksomehwere
—BANDOLIER — Made for your phone, Designed for you —BANDOLIER —
Made for your phone, Designed for your life.

While on Vacation in California, I took my New Bandolier Ceci pink Floral tote and perfect for travel phone accessories. 

Holds everything you need for work, while compact and chic. Making work to shopping and lunch with a girlfriend  easy and on the go.

The Bandolier Ceci Pink collection  would also make for great Mother’s Day gift’s for the  mom on the go, the working mom and the mom who loves to travel. 

🌸@Bandolierstyle  is so much more than just a phone case (it holds your phone, wallet) with the ease of a chic cross body chain.

🌸Book Tote Bag has space for everything- Sunglasses or readers, phone-inside key hook with room for a organizer and computer or IPad 

#AD
#bandolier #phonecase #mothersday
Coastal Grandmother Style over 50🌊 I don’t know Coastal Grandmother Style over 50🌊

 I don’t know about you… but I’ll never get tired of - Classic Coastal Style …or being sun kissed☀️

No matter what you call it.. Living like Nancy, Coastal Grandmother, East Coast Summer, Nautical Style…. 

It’s  always pretty, fresh, a little romantic, easy, breezy and perfect at any age🌊🤍

This Dress would be cute for Mother’s Day, Bridal or baby shower,  and garden party…. Of course vacation🌊
 
What’s your Beach, coastal style? 

Are you Headed out of office soon?

🛍️Comment “SHOP” for links and discount code✔️ below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ 
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Thanks to my good friend Gina  @gee_run  for taking my photos for the last 5 days 😉🫶🏻

#coastalgrandmother #eastcoastsummer #outofoffice #styleover50
Let’s Be Friends…. Love Chic Outfits inspirations Let’s Be Friends….

Love Chic Outfits inspirations?

Love to Feel inspired and cheered on?

Mix’s Luxury and affordable Fashion?

Builds your wardrobe with “classic pieces” and throws in a seasonal trend or two that you love and works for your body?

Loves Fashion & Styling tips?

Loves your family?

Traveling and spending time with your hubby?

Home styling inspiration, Yummy & easy recipes, Entertaining and cooking for your family… While enjoying “grandma hobbies” like Gardening, DIY’s, and bookclub. 

Living like Nancy Meyers
Dressing Like Ralph Lauren 
Cooking like Ina Garten 
Gardening like Martha…..

🫶🏻We really should be friends🫶🏻
Follow along on this Journey with me🤍

🛍️ shopping event @madisonmaison  with girlfriends in Beverly Hills💛🌴

Comment “Shop” for Outfit details 🛍️
below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK 
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#utahinfluencer #styleover50 #lifestylegoals
Walking into a new week… and New mindset ✔️ The p Walking into a new week… and New mindset ✔️

The perfect butter yellow knit set with tied back. Comfortable light weight and great from spring & summer. 
The set is under $49 

Wear it on your next trip as it’s great for vacation wear too.

Gold hoop earring lisi lurch

Woven bag designer linking similar

Amazon find large gold studded wide strap sandals  under $30 so cute

* note I am wear a nude free people lace bralette that you can’t even see😜
 

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#butteryellow #affordablefashion #twopiecesets
-Over 50 Style Edition- 8 Tops that go with White -Over 50 Style Edition-

8 Tops that go with White Jeans … You’ll wear all Spring and Summer✔️

Flattering styles for every figure, pretty colors from Blue, pinks, white yellow rust, and green✔️ 

A  little something for everyone and Perfect with White jeans🤍🤍🤍

Which one is your favorite?

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Fashion over 50/ white Jean style/ affordable tops/ style you’ll love 

#amazonfind #afforɗablefashion #whitejeansoutfit #fashionover50
You Made requests for a Nordstrom Rack Try-on Haul You Made requests for a Nordstrom Rack
Try-on Haul….

Spring Social season is Upon us✔️
Here’s a few things you were looking for:
-Bridal & Baby Shower Dresses
-Farmers Market & End of School year Luncheons/awards
-Garden Party, Polo, Brunch
-Graduations
-Business Lunch
-Wardrobe Builders 
-Weekend Style

I found a few ✔️and a fail❎ 
That I think you’ll love…

⚠️Stay tuned for more of these Spring Social Season Requests… Coming from Anthropologie, Banana Republic, Quince, NYDJ, Chicos, Tuckernuck and a couple Amazon finds✔️

✔️Make sure to check out my Liketoknowit 
Darcymvandenberg 
For daily content and finds 

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#nordstromrack #fashionfinds #over50fashion #tryonhaul
“Confidence is the best accessory, but perfect nai “Confidence is the best accessory, but perfect nails are a close second.”

Do you love a good Mani & Pedi?  I sure do and @nailed.boutique are relaxing, high quality service with amazing product meant to last.I love my nails look great for over 4 weeks… 

A Friendly staff, yummy drinks and a fun little boutique with unusual items for your wardrobe or pick up a fun gift 🎁 

Nailed is more than your regular nail salon, book a blow-out , a mini facial  or a full set of nails….

Treat yourself & Book your next appointment ✔️

“Nailing your look starts at your fingertips.”

On another note how cute are those Tomatoes 🍅 overalls? Seriously, on my list for this summer🍅🥫🍅🥫

#selfcaretip #over50women #nailed #saltlake
Let me tell you why you’ll love these jeans over 5 Let me tell you why you’ll love these jeans over 50….

➡️SLIDE photos for my 9 reasons you’ll love these white jeans

Styling White Jeans and Navy
The perfect Spring Color combo ✔️

White jeans are by @oliverloganla , made in California 

- Plaid Top with oversized Peter Pan collar and puff 3/4 sleeve
  is an affordable find, I did love so much I got in two colors (pink & Blue) fits tts so affordable 

New Linen blazer style
With ruched sleeves, perfect for spring and summer fits tts in a med 💙save 10% off with code DARCY10 

Ballerina denim flats with cap toe

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#whitejeans #olivelondon  #tallgirl #denimdenimdenim #styleover50
I am 54, What I’ll be wearing on repeat this Sprin I am 54, What I’ll be wearing on repeat this Spring and Summer✔️ 

@c202.official does it again with

The perfect wool tops that every Wardrobe needs. Look and feel lux at affordable pricing✔️

Classic, buttery soft, great stretch,  comes in several colors, and available in a crew neck tee shirt and tank top style. 

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⚠️10% OFF discount code:SWEATER10C (Valid to 4/19)

#c202official #wooltop #afforɗablefashion
4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation 4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation that will make packing a breeze✔️

From Brunch to poolside, sightseeing to Dinner I’ve got you covered… along with easy packing ✈️🚗🚕🧳

As a 54 year old who loves a good matching set for travel, as it truly does make packing a breeze… You’ll love the quality,fit and style of these 4 sets…

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#midlifestyle #travelpacking #matchingsets #amazonfashionfinds
Just Call me Martha With a Hack… Biscuits and Ber Just Call me Martha With a Hack…

Biscuits and Berries recipe is what “is this “Sunday’s in the Kitchen with D’Arcy”

I had heard good things about @magnoliatable  Buttermilk Biscuits,
And I’ve been wanting to try them. 

I thought that would be a good quick hack to serve them for a Sunday breakfast treat.

I brushed them with 🧈French Butter and French flaky Salt… (makes all the difference) you could eat them just like that…

I served them with Homemade Whipping cream and my Strawberry sauce along with Fresh Berries🍓🫐🌱

So so good… this would be a great brunch side dish or dessert as well.

These biscuits would make a great mini breakfast sandwich- egg cheese and bacon✔️
Or my Family’s  favorite-Biscuit’s and Gravy 

❤️save to reference later

“So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” – 1 Corinthians 10:31

I hope you have a day full of Gods Blessings and good food

What are you having for Sunday dinner?

We making. Grilled Filet mignon, scalloped potatoes, Asparagus and Baby carrots, homemade Baked Bruschetta bread, and a couple appetizers… 

Plus we’re all looking forward to our Baby Fix💙💙💙💙

Happy Sunday pretty ladies💋 D’Arcy

#biscuts #homecookedfood #sundayrecipe
Romanticize your Life & Relationship ☕️ From a Wi Romanticize your Life & Relationship ☕️

From a Wife of over 30 years, a boy mom, a new coco and someone who loves to entertain & make you feel special, and welcome in our home ….

Let’s normalize morning ☕️Coffee dates at home……

Make your morning Special in the quietness of your own home.

Create a cozy table, with your favorite warm drink, fresh juice, yummy treat and fresh fruit. 

This can be inside or outside, in your garden or on the deck.

Set the tone with your favorite coffee morning playlist, and Take the time to catch up, enjoy each other’s company and relax . 

A little effort & a whole lot of love☕️❤️

Romanticize your life & relationship…

Small gestures make a BIG impact and really do change how you feel and care for each other….

#coffeedate #homestyle #romatizeyourlife #homesandgarden
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