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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Let’s talk 40’s….Woman in our 40’s..Ready? It’s getting real!

outfit of the Day

Outfit details: Off the shoulder top on sale here, embroidered Jeans, Sandals sold out similar here, trench coat Similar here, sunglasses here, handbag sold out similar here

Ok, let’s get real…. You know I am 46 and age hasn’t really never mattered to me. My best friend Danielle is 10 days older then I am (yes..I enjoy saying that! hehe) We have enjoyed many of our Birthday’s together…. Sweet 16, our right to vote 18, Our mom’s taking us to gamble at 21 and with each one she was a little terrified of whats was to come. She really didn’t want to turn 25 (no real reason why?) Our 30th birthday I think was her hardest (my mom said that was her hardest too) I never had a thought of our age at any year and would just giggle at her and told her “we never look our age.. it’s all good” Did you have a birthday you dreaded? Then comes then one most people dread 40…Do you know our 40th Birthday she didn’t even flinch or say one comment about turning 40…Could it have been, we finally really get comfortable about who we are at 40?     

I have enjoyed every age, each has it’s plus and minus. I remember my mom saying back when I was a teenager ” I loved being a teenager but you couldn’t pay me to go back!” At that time I thought why? you loved it, it’s such a fun time and carefree…. ( it’s different being a teenager now!)  Now, as I am raising young adults, I get what she was saying. I also had great teenage years and I would not go back either. I have truly embraced every age and all the lessons and joy!  BUT… and there is a BIG BUT…40’s has some of the Biggest changes…some good, some challenging and some funny if you can laugh at yourself!   

After 40, some funny things that happen to you that doesn’t always get talked about. Some things are kind of funny ( like the arm reach out with the menu, that we teased our parents about!)  My eye’s just started having issues this year. After 46 years of 20/20 vision my mom said “D’Arcy Michelle are you wearing readers?” yup, yup I am! Cute ones here🙂 for $6.99

At 40 I noticed I was gaining weight (I was lucky and never really had a weight issue, yes everyone always wants to lose 5-10 lbs in the Summer!) but really never anything more then that. At 40 I really was struggling and my Ob Gyn Dr. said I was fine and all my blood work was fine…but I didn’t feel fine? It wasn’t until I turned 43 that I knew I wasn’t fine and searched out a solution to help me!  It was having my Hormones done by a hormone specialist, let me tell you it was life changing! ( I have talked more about this in prior post Here) our hormones change at different times for each individual but most of us notice a difference in our weight, hair, skin and tiredness starting at 40. Once my hormones were regulated I felt like my old self.  Hormone changes is something more woman need to share with each other and know it’s ok to talk about! It’s 2018 we can share what’s going on with our bodies at any age!  

After 40 our hair thins out, yet we get more on our FACE! What…. Nobody tell’s you you’ll need these…Unless you have a make-up artist sister!     “Please someone, when I can’t see any more.. pluck the hair out of my mole!” This has become a joke with a few of my girlfriends!  

Skin changes not just the tightness of our skin, or the creepiness but the dryness! In the last year my skin is so dry and I can’t seem to get enough moisturizer on my face & neck. (some night’s all slather on Vaseline!)  For other’s it can be the on set of adult acne, REALLY?  Didn’t we already go through that as teenagers? Here is a product my girlfriends with this issue are loving! I found these couple product’s really do help with dryness Here and Here.  Also drinking a ton of water helps and I have been adding this to mine, but you do really have to have a morning and night beauty routine. No more going to bed with out washing your face. I love this product to remove make up!

Our kids are older ( depending on when you had them) Which gives us freedom and our lives back with our hubby’s…. But sadly there is no more Santa clause or egg hunts! This was our first year Santa didn’t come and our first Easter without having an egg hunt. Heartbreaking “No more little’s” Don’t get me wrong as sad as that sounds… I loved those day’s and will cherish the memories…but getting to actually lay on a lounger and drink a cocktail next to my husband by the pool is quite relaxing, not having to be in the water all day and hear “mommy look at me, watch me!” and turn into a wrinkled prune:) We’ll miss those day’s without “Littles” for the brief time before our children start to have children and we get to play with those darling grand babies….it could be a short window of time for some, so take joy in that time you get to have a little time for yourself and your spouse. See 40’s isn’t that bad!

40’s can bring your periods back like when you were a teenager!! Lucky they have a procedure called an ablation. Which makes it so you won’t ever have another period without effecting your hormones. I have had several girlfriends go this route and love it! “Couldn’t do that as a teenager!”

Sleeping changes in our 40’s and a lot of it has to do with our hormones…. Progesterone help’s us sleep and we started losing it in our 30’s…. If you have issues have them check that, before reaching for sleeping aids!  (once my hormones were regulated…I started sleeping like a teenager again!) 

Sex…Yes I said it! Sex can be the best you’ve ever had! See 40’s has some plus’s! I won’t go into detail…but this I am guessing has a big part to do with being comfortable in your own skin…you know who you are at 40….I am sure you can take where I am going with this from here:) wink!

Life over 40….I personally feel you know who you are in your 40’s and you can be in “your own skin” Nobody to impress, your career is on it’s way, your family is established, hopefully your marriage is strong and you’ve established your true friends and support system and if your really lucky your parents are still around and healthy to enjoy them too. Let’s face it as we age they do too. 

  Life will always have up’s and downs, twist and turns but really age is just a number…embrace it & laugh as you go….Just make sure to look Chic at every age:) WINK:) OX, D’Arcy

Are you experiencing something you didn’t know you would or think we should talk about? Comment below let’s help each other out:)

All opinions are my own, I am not a Doctor so please seek advice from a physician. I only promote brands that I truly love and believe in and this may contain affiliate links. Thank you for taking the time to read and for your support.

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Spring Beauty round up & A Fresh floral outfit

Spring outfit, Bright colors & white

Spring outfit, Bright colors & white

Spring outfit, Bright colors & white

Spring jacket similar here, and an affordable one here Summer dress similar here, and a floral one I love Here White wedge sandals similar here and must have bag here and another one I think you would love here!

spring bag

Cult Gaia Bamboo hand bag & old Juicy ring similar one here

Hello Beautiful’s,

Today I want to share with you some of my favorite products and some new favorite’s I have found for Spring. I am having Spring fever with all this rain and grey skies in Utah, I thought I would also share my latest “ready for Spring outfit” a fresh floral look I wore over the weekend and had tons of compliments on my jacket (that is over 20 years old!) It looks new because I really do only wear it a couple times every spring…It just screams SPRING with it’s bright colors and helps cure the blues! The colors make me happy and the large flowers reminds me of the 70’s which takes me back to my childhood! I really think you should buy clothing that speaks to you and if it brings back a memory even better!       Now to my Spring beauty round up….I know you will love these products like I do and I hope if you grab a couple you’ll come back here and comment your thoughts.

 

skin care

The perfect mask to make your skin glow! Bare minerals face mask

Coconut body glow

The product that gives your skin a little shimmer, while giving you moisture your skin needs!          BodyGlow by Kopari Beauty

Coconut body glow

You know I love anything coconut and this product is perfect for a light weight oil that helps give you moisture with out being sticky.  BodyOil By Kopari

beauty products

A Perfect product to help you Contour like a pro….Bare minerals bronzer & highlighter

Summer bronzer

We all need a great bronzer for Summer and this one you can use all over! Buxom Bronzer

Lip plumper

I am a sucker for a good lip gloss & it’s a plus if it has a plumper! I love all the colors and that it’s not sticky! Buxom lip gloss

nude shade eyeshadow pallet

I love a great nude palette, it’s perfect for that “no make up” look Buxom eyeshadow pallet

hair care product

All hair types need a great hair oil to keep our hair in tip top shape, special after the dry WINTER…. kerastase-elixir-ultime-original-oil-huile-sublime-hair-oil

Hair care product

kerastase resistance ciment therimque hair serum

Strengthening leave-in treatment for weak, over-processed and damaged hair.

 

Shopping some of my personal Favorite products perfect for Spring! (really any season) I linked all the products above but I am linking the shopping sites below as well.  So many great products sometimes it’s hard to choose.  Happy Shopping!

Buxom Cosmetics, Kerastase, Kopari, BareMinerals

Hello Beautiful

Musely Collagen & Multivitamin powder

Hello Beautiful by Musely is a collagen & multivitamin powder that you can add to coffee or your water bottle. That is suppose to increase skins firmness by 23%. We start loosing our collagen in our 20’s and because great skin doesn’t just happen with what you slather on top- it comes from within… I plan on using for 40 days and will report back to you. As I post this I noticed their having a SALE $26 instead of $35… Grab a box or 2 

Are you guy’s getting Spring fever or Spring cleaning? I started Spring cleaning over the weekend as well as organizing to get ready to sell our home to down size (I shared some of my organizing in my instagram stories view in highlights) This is the longest we have lived in a house (12 years) in our 25 years together and we decided now is the time to sell and build our dream smaller house (I already started sketching) …. Just in time for Spring cleaning!  Oh…the stuff I have collected over the last 12 years not to mention having owned 3 clothing stores….My props and seasonal items are out of control! So needless to say I have been working like crazy cleaning out, donating, organizing and down scaling (I’ll make sure to do a post on the whole house and every room before I de -personalize it)….I know some of you are saying “didn’t you just build your DREAM kitchen?” Yes..Yes I did and it took me years…and the counter tops go in a few day’s and I will share with you the finished product! It really is beautiful and I will miss not being able to enjoy it….sometimes that’s just the way live goes. Great things are always worth the wait! 

As they say Spring is a fresh start….BOY are we getting them…. exciting things happening…..Our oldest is graduating college, I am starting a new career and we’re selling our home! Good things happen in 3’s:) I did have to keep telling my self this a couple of months ago when bad thing’s happened in 3’s & happing in our life… Every time I turned around something big was breaking…I would remind myself “good things are happening, good things are happening!” Stay positive in the mist of a storm! It’s hard to do a lot of the time, I just kept putting my faith in God and knowing he was putting us on the right path. Boy..Sometimes his timing just takes sooo long:) So as I sit here rambling on, know what ever is happening in your live good or bad there’s always a fresh path or a “Spring” start no matter the season. 

May you have a wonderful Monday and go buy yourself a Spring treat you deserve it! OX, D’Arcy

All opinions are my own. I only promote brands that I truly love and believe in. Thank you for your support. 

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Nail art, Manicures and mugs!

Hello Beautiful’s

Today I thought I would share some of my nail art, manicures and some of my mug collection with you. If you have been following me for awhile on social media you know I love having cute nails and that I have an obsession with white, black and gold mugs. I hope you enjoy this quick little post and get some inspiration for your next manicure. (make sure to pin some idea’s to your Pinterest boards)

I have been collecting my manicure pictures for the last couple years with the idea of bringing you this post. It just so happened that several of my cute mugs I’ve been collecting also made it in. Seriously I can’t pass up cute mugs (my hubby joke’s we don’t need any more mugs! Although he’s the one that is always breaking my favorite ones!! (my Chanel mug…Missing)

My nail art over the years has been a mixture of Acrylic, Gel and nail polish. I have had 2 manicurist since moving to Utah 12 years ago. My First manicurist Sheridan I had for 10 years until she had to go and have babies! (cry) She did acrylic and hand painted the nail art. She is so talented and most of these photo’s is her work. I love how thin and natural she made the acrylic and I could throw any idea at her and she could paint it.  My Manicurist now is Tiffany, she does gel nails and keeps my nails and toes looking clean, polished and natural looking with on trend colors. She really is about color and your natural shape nail and doesn’t do much nail art. Both of their style’s I love and am happy to have been able to have found manicurist that can give me the looks I want while keeping my nails healthy & stylish.  

Do you love having cute nails? Are you a nail art girl or a simple polish look girl? Do you like natural shape, square or pointy and is your style short, long or pointy?  Gel, Dip, Acrylic or polish? I would love for you to comment your nail style! Tell me…comment below:)

Happy Good Friday….Go treat yourself to a manicure or pedicure! Wishing you a wonderful Easter weekend. Ox, D’Arcy

It’s almost Spring break I rounded up a couple of my favorite shops that are having BIG SALE’s so grab yourself some cute items to pack…. Need a cute bathing suit CUPSHE, Darling dresses, bags and shoes SHOPBOP, shorts, skirts and dresses BCBG  and my favorite tee shirts and tee shirt dresses Splendid,  Happy shopping!

mug collection

I thought since I brought up… I show you a quick little peek at some of my mug collection.

 

 

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Microneedling To Transform your skin & Help with Fine Lines!

Microneedling to Transform your skin & Help with Fine Lines!  Shown here my First Micro-needling, no makeup

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1st micro-needling procedure. They suggest a series of 3

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After 1st micro-needling procedure. Pink like sunburn and a little peeling.

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Day after 1st Micro-needling. Pinkness is gone and no peeling. My skin was glowing!

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2nd series micro-needling procedure

3rd series micro-needling procedure before

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3rd series micro-needling procedure after, We went deeper than the 2 times before! My face looked very red and felt like a sunburn. Also, a little peeling.

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3rd in the series micro-needling procedure Day after! Redness is gone, no peeling, and my black dot in my brown spot are gone. Brown spot smaller!

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The Finished series of 3 micro-needling, 1 week later, no filter taken in sunlight. My skin is clearer, my brown spot is smaller, and the black spot went out of the center! My skin is dryer than normal; however, I learned this would disappear in a couple more weeks. I think overall, my skin looks clearer and less blotchy.

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Skin texture after the 3 part series was finished! No filter

I had the opportunity to work with Lashed in South Ogden to experience the new trend in facials Microneedling. They should not be confused with the Vampire facial, which is similar but different because they apply a serum after the procedure with micro-needling. But after the vampire facial, they apply your own blood that has had the plasma spun. And a vampire facial has to be done by a doctor, where micro-needling needs to be done by a certified professional.  I really enjoyed working with Lashed to learn more about the process.

Microneedling is a facial. It is not plastic surgery.  You ask: “Then what is Microneedling? The micro-needling treatment uses a handheld needle pen to create controlled depth micro-injuries to the skin. As a result, This stimulates the skin’s natural repair process to produce collagen and elastin.  Microneedling can transform your skin by increasing collagen, reducing wrinkles, shrinking pore size, decreases acne scars, even skin tone, and improve overall skin texture.

You can treat and improve many conditions with the micro-needling, such as: 

-Mild to moderate acne scarring

-fine lines and wrinkles

-loose & lax skin

-skin tone and texture

-Pore size

-Sun-damaged skin

-Superficial pigmentation

-Hypo-pigmentation

-Surgical scars

-Stretch mark

-Hair loss

Depending on your goals and what problem you’re trying to fix will depend on how many treatments you’ll need.  A single procedure will make a nice change, but a series of 3-6 treatments is ideal for optimal results. And Within 2 weeks, you will start to see a change that will continue for 3 months. Of course, some treatments like hair loss or stretch marks take the 6 treatments and a little while longer to see the results. Still, with minimal downtime, 12-24 hours, your skin will love you! 

“Does it hurt?”  You have a numbing cream applied for about 20 minutes before the procedure, and I have to say I was nervous; however, it really didn’t hurt. Because the machine’s noise sounds like going to the dentist, if that noise bothers you, you might want earplugs, but otherwise, it’s pretty quick and feels like a microdermabrasion facial. (a little sandy) 

“What did I notice”… I noticed my brown spot with a black center faded a little after each process and by the 3rd was noticeably smaller and lighter. However, my skin got even dryer, and lines appeared on my cheeks, which I learned happens to some people and is part of rebuilding collagen.  I was told it would go away, and my skin will be tighter in a couple of months!  My skin glowed for a couple of days after the procedure, which I loved.  As a result, my skin has a clearer complexion, smaller lines around my eyes and lips (I am a straw user).  

“Would I recommend and would I do it again?” I would recommend this procedure to anyone looking to improve skin. And  I will do this procedure again, However not every 6 weeks, but I would do it to replace a professional facial, which I do every couple of months. So, therefore, to maintain, I would do it a couple of times a year, thinking quarterly.

“How many times is recommended for a series?” For example, the first time a series of 3, unless used for hair loss or stretch marks, 4 to 6 is needed. After that, a series is done 5-6 weeks apart from each other.

Recommended Maintenance can be done every 6-9 weeks.  

Price? $150 per session, but you may purchase a 3 pack for $400, so it’s a savings of $50

For more information, check out the Lashed website! 

I hope you enjoyed this information and that you may have glowing skin at any age!

Here are a couple of other posts I thought you might enjoy:

7 Tula Beauty products you’ll love

12 Beauty Items I Used Up This Summer

7 At Home Beauty Hacks

This post was a collaboration with Lashed. All opinions are my own. I only promote brands that I truly love and believe in! Thank you for the support.

Note: I am not a doctor, and this is all my personal opinion.

 

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Top 10 Favorite Beauty & lifestyle products from 2017

weight loss tea

14 day Teatox, a Daytime Detox, and a bedtime cleanse for weight loss.

Skinny Pop sea salt popcorn in its own movie microwave box

Skincare

Md complete Anti aging, Retinol Vitamin C and 3 Day Booster pack

body care

Creek Baby, Coconut body cream

Cyantific skin care line, 3 piece skin care system

Boh Tea, A Gold blend of rich golden Cameron Highlands smooth flavor tea.

Good Virtues co. Hair products, Happy & Heavenly Clarifying shampoo, Helpful & Delightful Clarifying conditioner

Arawak Face powder, Handcrafted & Organic translucent powder

Fancy Feet foot petals

toothpaste

All natural Whitening Toothpaste perfect for everyday use

Hello Beautiful’s!

My Top 10 Favorite Beauty & lifestyle products from 2017.

I thought you would love a round up of some of my favorite products I was lucky to try, review or sample from 2017. I have been lucky to work with a lot of companies and brands that I have loved and some not so much over the last year. Please know I always give my honest review and truly share my thoughts and results. I really enjoyed a ton of products in 2017 and here’s my top 10 Favorite products that I am still using in 2018. 

All of these products really helped my skin, my feet and a little help controlling my weight. With one little self indulgent… Tea, as a tea lover I found a brand that has me trying different teas and I am so enjoying it.

  1.  BooTea = A 14 day Tea cleanse= This cleanse is great for a Holiday detox or a jump start for a new diet. I did this last year after Christmas and it helped get me back on my regular eating habits after the indulgences from the Holiday’s. I will be starting it again this year in the Next week. It’s simple, drink a cup every morning and 1 night tea every other night for 14 day’s. You’ll be less bloated and your cravings from the Holiday’s will be lessened. I know mine sure did….I even lost about 5 lbs. Here’s to a jump start!
  2. SkinnyPop
    “Skinny Pop believes in snacking without compromise. That means using the fewest, cleanest and simplest ingredients possible to bring you the best tasting popcorn. Whole grain popcorn, natural sunflower oil and the perfect amount of salt combine together to give you a delicious snack that you can feel great about eating everyday @ 39 calories per cup”  – That’s the Skinny!  I like the Sea Salt pop corn and it really is a great snack that helps keep me full.  If it’s a little to simple for you, you can sprinkle it with season salt. Seasonings a great alternative to using butter or oil. 
  3. Md Complete 
    • Simple 3-day regimen designed to replicate the benefits of professional peels
    • Helps to even skin tone, reduce the appearance of fine lines & wrinkles, smooth rough texture, and brighten complexion. 
    • If you’ve been following me for a while, then you’ll know I love face masks. I do one every Sunday! It’s important to take care of your skin at every age. As we age our skin needs different products and has different concerns it’s important to find products that work for your skin and it’s ok to try out different products or try a new mask weekly.
    • Retinol Vitamin C Concentrate
      • Unlike other serums this product is pure concentrate — it’s not diluted with water (which is often the first ingredient in other products).
      • Provides dermatologist levels of Retinol, as much as 5-10 times higher than other products.
      • Ideally suited for derma rolling, with naturally derived essential acids, Vitamin E, and Vitamin C.      
      • I have been reading when we age our Skin really needs Vitamin C and to help with winkles Retinol in your skin regimen is very important so a combination of both in 1 bottle made great sense. I have noticed a difference in my skin since I’ve been using, the glow and the texture is improving specially on my neck.  

4. Coconut Body cream .  Creek Baby Coconut Body Crème is 100% Pure Organic Coconut Oil has no smell, which is great for moisturizing and then you can use your favorite fragrance.  Tip: I use the coconut oil in the shower after I dry off and that helps keep me  moisturized in the dry Winter. I do use it year round for soft skin.

5. Cyantific  Skin care line- Each product not only helps to protect the skin from damage, but also hydrates to dramatically minimize the look of fine lines and wrinkles, and leaves skin looking clearer, more radiant, helping to preserve beauty at every age. I used this line All summer and I loved what it did for my skin. I knew my mom would love it too. I gave this to my mom for her birthday in October and she loves it. 

Something I have learned in my years is that its great to find skin care lines that you love and get great results with. Remember to change seasonally, I personally change brands and products with the season. It’s good not to use the same products for years. Step out of your comfort zone and try something new.

6. BOH Tea– It’s no secret I prefer tea over coffee. Having the chance to try a couple variety’s of BOH tea’s made me switch from good old Lipton and Tazo tea to the rich bold flavor of Boh’s cameron gold blend. 

7. Good Virtues– Clarifying Shampoo and Conditioner….I am a big Dry shampoo user and I was told it’s important to find a good Clarifying shampoo. It helps your scalp and hair from using hair products and dry shampoo. I have loved the smell and how it cleans my hair. This product is good to use 1-2 times a week.

8. Arawak Face powder– I have always used translucent powder and this organic powder works perfectly over your favorite foundation or without.  Has a great natural powder blends with almost any skin tone and is a powerful acne treatment. Better than mineral makeup! 

9. Fancy Feet– Give your favorite pair of shoes a comfortable makeover from the inside out. These cushions ease pressure on the ball of your foot and prevent your feet from sliding all over the place. Give your feet a “fancy” they’ll love you!

10. Whitening toothpaste– Whitening Fluoride Toothpaste lightens teeth without peroxide while preventing cavities and plaque formation. This gentle, vanilla mint formula freshens breath and provides a clean, just-brushed feeling that lasts all day. I have tried all kinds of whitening stripes, tablets, toothpastes and trays. All make your teeth super sensitive and cost a fortune. I’ve been using for 6 months now and keeps my teeth white with no sensitivity.  My whole family uses this toothpaste and has lightened my husbands teeth 1 full shade. It’s safe to use pregnant, everyday and for kids.  BUY IT NOW Here $20.00

I hope you enjoyed my recap of my favorite 10 products of 2017! Ox, D’Arcy

This is All my personal thoughts, feelings and personal opinion. 

 

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My Daily Make up Routine Verses My Special Event Make up

A peek into my make up bag! My daily routine takes me about 5 minutes to apply! I am pretty simple on a daily basis…Not that I don’t love make up… I do, I just don’t have a ton of time and I am not really fab at all the New tricks! (I don’t have a lot of Eye space to get creative with eye shadows either!) It might even be I am not very interested… I just have what works for me and I stick with it!   My Basic Routine is as follows foundation, powder,blush, eyeliner, mascara, lip liner and lipstick! Done…

My evening out or party make-up…has a couple more steps…. I add highlighter, and eye shadow to the mix.  I like to do a smoky eye for dress up so I will use a black eye liner verses my Brown (teddy by Mac).

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Tuesday Tip Day: Weekly Beauty Routine

 

 

Do You Have a Weekly Beauty Routine?  I am sure you have a Daily…. But do You have something YOU just do on a weekly basis to look and feel good? I sure do specially being over 40! I think I started this routine in my late 20’s maybe early 30’s! Somethings I learned form my mom and others I picked up on my own! I thought I would share with you some of my favorite tricks to help me look and feel good! Let’s face it when we take care of ourselves we feel good!OX

Body Scrub:  I do a full body scrub once a week (the brand really doesn’t matter) you can even use the homemade version here I just love how it helps keep my skin soft! Remove’s the dead dry skin and helps give your skin a glow.

Coconut Oil: I use this on my skin every day in the shower! But once a week I use this as a hair mask… I grab a hand full or two, warm it up in my hands and rub on my scalp and all over my hair and wrap it up in a top knot or towel. I normally leave on for quite a long time depending on my schedule! Last week I left it on all day as I was doing DIY projects at home!

Face mask: Who wouldn’t love a professional facial every week!! I sure would but time and most people’s budget won’t allow it. So do a mini one at home. Again brand doesn’t matter I use what I have at Home. I am sure I have tried almost every brand over the years and really don’t have a favorite! I have bought full size of some brands and found I like the little trial ones to get different results! One of the reasons I get Birch Box & Ipsy is to try a new face mask (some month you don’t get a mask) I have built up a little collection though! Tip: If you ask at the Make up counter they’ll normally give you one! I never did this ( I don’t like asking for FREE stuff) and I have a Sister in the industry and a couple of good friends that say If your spending a decent amount of money at a counter or even at  Lush or Sephora, They’ll happily give you samples of anything you’d like to try!

I do my mini facial after I have gotten my hair wrapped up in oil! apply mask, follow its instructions, then I wash off , followed by a light cleanser on my Clarisonic, rinse & dry then add a Layer of serum then a layer of  Moisturizer and finally spritz with Evan or lush’s water mist.

(this serum I swear by and use daily, Its change my skin! Here’s a code to get 10% 0ff LOVEMYSKIN)

This was Sunday Mask….A sample of Fresh that was in one of my Monthly boxes!

Vaseline: This is something I do 1 to 2 times a week before bed… After my face is washed I apply a thin layer all over my face and neck! It’s dry in Utah and it really helps keep you skin in good shape! My mom has been doing it since her 20’s…Boy if you’ve seen my mom you’ll be doing it too!!! OX  (I’ll catch my hubby doing it too!)

Olaplex:  This is something I just started doing as a suggestion from my hair dresser! You use it once a week on wet hair leave in 20 mins and rinse! It helps strengthen hair!  I do this before I do my Coconut oil treatment!  My hair is looking healthier and stronger since I started using!  (I have taken biotin and hair/nail supplements for years which work but this helps even more)

I would love to hear some of your Beauty tips? Leave a comment below!  Hope you try some of the things that work for me! Enjoy your Week! OX D’Arcy

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Tip Day Tuesday

Talking Lip scrub Today!

A beauty bag’s Must have, Lip scrub…Elf, InSPArations,
Benefit

Lip color by Chanel #54 Rouge coco shine

Hello pretty ladies! Today I want to share with you the importance of lip scrub. Lip exfoliation makes your lips more moist and retain its moisture longer; helping to prevent cracked lips. Winter weather can play Havoc on your lips and skin. If you’ll scrub your lips regularly, you’ll never have to worry about getting chapped lips. *Apply Moisturizer to lips after a scrub.

  Here are some of the lip scrubs I have been trying out! ( I want you to note this is just my personal opinion!)  

e.l.f= This lip exfoliator goes on like a lipstick, it’s affordable and smells good. It works ok if you have pretty smooth lips! If your lips are flaky or peeling it wouldn’t do the trick.

Benefit= Buffing lip beads/ exfoliant. This goes on like a cream and you buff gently. Doesn’t really have a smell and does wonders for your lips, specially if chapped or flaky! The tube last a long time.

inSPArations= Get lippy-lip scrub is a stick, I purchased in the Vanilla butter cream and smells delish! It works more like a sugar scrub and is ok for daily use. I don’t think it would help cracked lips. Is affordable but goes quick!

Living in Utah it’s super dry and using a lip Scrub has really helped to keep my lips kissable! 

Note : I tried this DIY from pintrest and it work just as good as any store bought!

Hope you Have kissable lips! OX D’Arcy

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D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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Affordable and Safe Gift Idea’s for the Beauty Lov Affordable and Safe Gift Idea’s for the Beauty Lover ❤️🎁

As part of my Melanoma Facial Cancer Journey…. One of the things I’ve learned is the importance of what we put on our skin, and as well as in our bodies and homes.

The average woman applies approximately 12 personal care products each day, which collectively contain about 168 unique harmful & toxic chemical ingredients. 

Finding out the truth about Toxic skin care is one of the main reasons for the rise of skin cancers. As well as Hormone disruption, and a chain of other issues.

Shocking right? This year I have made it a mission to “Clean” up my beauty and make-up drawers, as well as what my family puts in our bodies, our Homes.

Little changes can make a “BIG difference,  one swap out, each time, it’s time to replace an item.

I am here to share with you, the clean choice. 
Follow along as I share more of This/Not that. 

This Holiday Season, I will be sharing several “clean” option Gift ideas 🎁🎁🎁

For everyone on your list, that our family uses and loves. 

Here’s My Picks for Affordable Drug Store Make-up & Beauty Lovers… With a darling Velvet Bags to put it all in🎁 

If you’re in need of a little Glow this Holiday season… here’s a few things for you to try too.

🚨 gift sets are BOGO right now 

Comment “Clean” and I’ll send you all the details and links.⬇️

❤️Please note , I am not a Dr. and there’s a lot of research on this topic, you can easily research it for yourself, I am just sharing what’s working for me and my family.
Melanoma Cancer Journey —Part 9– —5th Laser surge Melanoma Cancer Journey
—Part 9–

—5th Laser surgery yesterday & Update— and STAGES

➡️Slide through  slides ➡️
To view where it started and where I am NOW

 12 weeks  after surgery is when I started my First (Scar revision treatment) laser treatment round 5 CO2 doing Excel V Laser treatment.
I will have 1 every 6 weeks until my scar is gone.. 

🚨Scar revision 
C02 2 kinds of laser
Deep core - (first 2 treatments and my 4th and 5th treatments) this is concentrating on the scare tissue underneath 
Or EXcel V - (3rd treatment) (my 6th & 7th treatment will be this) 
*Excel V - redness & topical
*Deca- core & topical 

I was diagnosed in December, Surgery in January and my first laser in February.

I’ve been sharing this Journey in hopes to help encourage you to make a skin check up appointment. 

Melanoma Cancer is deadly and very different from Skin Cancer.

Melanoma cancer is deadly,  early detection is key, before it can spread to lymph nodes, organs, &  blood. 

If your new here or just seeing this post, I have 8 other parts with all the info and my Journey to date in Feed and stories saved to highlights with more info.

Thank you for all the kind messages, comments and prayers! I appreciate you being apart of my tribe.

Thank you and NOW make your Skin Appointment! 

I am happy to answer any questions in Dm

⚠️ Share with someone you care about✔️

🚨 I have the full Journey in my feed in parts- as well as ways to protect yourself/ sharing what I’ve learned in this process that causes melanoma cancer- clean beauty I’ve been switching too/ cleaning up the products in our home- even down to fabrics- what we put in our bodies etc…
Follow along as I share my journey as well as my regular lifestyle and fashion content. ❤️

Midlife- Wife,  Boy Mom,  and COCO 🙏 Philippians 4:13
“ I can go all things through Christ who gives me strength “🙏

#skincancerawareness #melanoma
3 Things…. Did you think I was gonna tell you her 3 Things….

Did you think I was gonna tell you here???

Pretty lady, you gotta scroll through my photos😂😂

 To learn🤎🤎🤎

Comment “never” and I’ll send you my outfit details ✔️

Western Ralph Lauren and a Canadian tuxedo is always a good idea🤎🍂🦃

This could be your Thanksgiving outfit inspo if you like an elevated casual look for 🦃 day✔️✔️✔️
Style over 50 Outfit of the day … Wardrobe basics Style over 50
Outfit of the day …
Wardrobe basics but a little elevated✔️ 

Cute elevated casual, Thanksgiving/Holiday outfit inspo.🦃 or holiday shopping
Even running errands in style

🚨sale ⬇️
No iron blouse with tie bow sleeve detail 

🚨 sale ⬇️
Statement Jean-bling side detail jeans 
So soft and comfortable I had plenty of room which gave them a littler baggie look/feel

Affordable find puffer vest- so good you’d never know it was an affordable option.. under $40

Veronica beard inspired by tennis shoes for $27

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And…just like ThAT🎁🎄 It’s the holiday season! Thr And…just like ThAT🎁🎄
It’s the holiday season!

Three Outfits from the NEW AVARA Holiday launch…

You can mix and match these pieces all season🎄🎁❤️

You’ll be seeing me restyle  these all season long❤️
From  casual to festive dress these piece up or down, wear the plaid top with jeans, the sweater with trousers, the sequins with a white button up and tennis shoes… you get the drift…

The pieces are going fast and you’ll be sad, you missed them, or one, 😉 if you don’t grab it now❤️🎄🎁

Comment “Shop” for  links and size details etc.⬇️

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Have a great evening pretty ladies🌸
“Perfect for the Holidays: Mozzarella Pesto Rolls “Perfect for the Holidays: Mozzarella Pesto Rolls by @cachevalleycreamery #AD

This recipe comes straight from the Free Cache Valley Creamery Holiday E-Cookbook!

These easy and delicious Mozzarella Pesto Rolls were a hit at our family get-together last week and are perfect for upcoming holiday gatherings. Made with simple ingredients, including Cache Valley Creamery cheese, and served with homemade or store-bought pesto and marinara sauces for dipping.

You can find the full recipe in the Free Holiday E-Cookbook. If you’re entertaining or headed to a party this holiday season, you’ll find plenty of quick and easy recipes that are sure to become family favorites!

And don’t forget, when you download the Free Holiday E-Cookbook from @cachevalleycreamery, you’ll also be entered into the Holiday Gift Basket Giveaway, closing November 11!”

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Great Gift Idea for the Tea/Honey lover🎁 This no Great Gift Idea for the Tea/Honey lover🎁

This no mess, beautiful glass honey or syrup dispenser. 

Easy pump, no drip dispenser, with glass holding base, pretty enough to set on your counter.

Great and affordable gift🎁

The glass syrup dispensers are great for your Tea/coffee/soda lovers (comes with several label flavors)
Great way to remove plastics out of your kitchen

-pretty glass cups for tea/ coffee /hot coco come with gold silverware 

Honey dispenser 
I am giving a few of these with a bottle of local Utah honey 🍯 

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A little Sunday inspiration… 8 quotes I’ve found A little Sunday inspiration…

8 quotes I’ve found really HIT 
In midlife❤️

➡️ slide through my 8 photos to read…I know a few of them or maybe all will resonate with you too✔️

Have a beautiful & blessed Sunday pretty ladies 🙏🌸

Styling suede over 50. 
This darling knot front detail suede dress and cropped wide leg suede pants, I think you’ll love as much as I do ❤️❤️❤️

Comment “Suede “ if you like my outfits and want the details and links.⬇️

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Melanoma Facial Cancer Journey On this journey… Melanoma Facial 
Cancer Journey 

On this journey… I have really researched and have found the importance of clean Beauty, Clean living and what we put into our bodies, is more important NOW than ever.

Here’s what I would Purchase from the Sephora Sale and also give as gifts🎁 

Comment “CLEAN” and I will send you the full details and links. ⬇️

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✔️Want to know more about my Journey, and other products I use, you can’t find at Sephora…
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✔️See highlights for more on my journey and healing as well as monthly posts in feed.

🚨 This is also your reminder to Make a skin check appointment.🚨🚨🚨

🧼🧽🧴 The song that’s always in my Head “Clean -up” “Clean-up” everybody do your share…

I am trying to share how important it is to “Clean-Up” your beauty, your home and what you put into & on your body. 

Let me know if you have any questions in the comments below⬇️

Have a beautiful Friday Pretty ladies🅾️❌ D’Arcy
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“Cranberry Cheddar Caramel Dip Recipe with @cachev “Cranberry Cheddar Caramel Dip Recipe with @cachevalleycreamery #AD

The holidays are almost here, and Cache Valley Creamery launched their Free Holiday E-Cookbook today, featuring several recipes perfect for holiday entertaining and gatherings.

Today, I’m making an easy Cranberry Cheddar Caramel Dip served with apples, pretzels, and shortbread. It’s perfect as an appetizer or dessert for your holiday party!

You can find the full recipe in the Free Holiday E-Cookbook, and when you sign up, you’ll automatically be entered into the Holiday Gift Basket Giveaway!

The gift basket includes:

Wine and cheese board

1 year of free cheese

Sustainable cheese wrap

Cheese knives and tools

Cheese grater

Cache Valley Creamery socks

Cache Valley Creamery apron

This giveaway is not sponsored, endorsed, administered by, or associated with Instagram, Facebook, or Meta.

For terms and conditions, see official rules.”

🧀 Comment “FREE” and I’ll send you the recipe E-book 🧀🧀🧀
HOME TIP, JUST in TIME for Holiday Hosting…. ❤️❤️❤ HOME TIP, JUST in TIME for Holiday Hosting….
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Easy way to clean your silver in 3 minutes….

And then put it to use❤️❤️❤️

❤️Follow for more home & Hosting tips✔️✔️

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I find the hidden gems, so you don’t have to. 🎁Gif I find the hidden gems, so you don’t have to. 🎁Gift Idea Edit

9 Affordable 
 “Vintage Inspired” Home finds
I tell me “Besties’s about”…

-Tea Strainer you’ll give as gifts
-Magnetic Brass measuring spoons
-Cutest drying rack
-Honey/Syrup dispenser 
-dish soap/handsoap/candle holder 
-Table lamps
-French sea salt
-Beautiful safe pans
-Mirror we all need over 40

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Attention Pj & Robe Lovers❤️ I’ve got 2 sets of 💯 Attention Pj & Robe Lovers❤️

I’ve got 2 sets of 💯 cotton pj’s and two plush cozy robes your going to love ❤️ 
priced from $42-46

🎁Great Gift Ideas
❤️Several Colors and prints to choose from
❤️ great Quality and fit

Comment “Pjs” and I’ll send you my links and details
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My Birthday Month was a good month for Outfit’s yo My Birthday Month was a good month for Outfit’s you loved✔️

I am Now 55 and these are the Top 18 outfit you loved❤️, that I shared✔️✔️✔️

-Slide ➡️ Through All 18 to see some of the things that made you like the outfit…

-What some of the outfits had on common
-Trends your loving
-What colors I shared you picked as favorites 
-Classic pieces you always love

I loved all of these “fits” but #3 was fun- #2 I got stopped several times to tell be I looked “ chic”#6 I could believe the sale … 16 is comfy and cute

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Strong Women Rise… Strong Women Win… She’s HER own Strong Women Rise… Strong Women Win… She’s HER own Force from within….

I love that❤️ 

I feel so many Women, don’t give themselves enough credit…

As Moms, Wives, business owners, hard workers and the “doers”
They’re doing it all and carrying the weight …most of the time with a smile, and hiding a worry, a weakness or guilt!

Remember you are STRONG.. you are a force … and it’s ok to not to give a dam what others think… 

And sometimes… it’s ok not to Give a  dam “what’s for dinner!”😉🥰
Or that the laundry didn’t get done, or that your Christmas Tree isn’t up after Halloween…

Sometimes the “give a dam” can turn back on tomorrow 😉❤️

Happy November pretty ladies, remember as we head into a “moms” busiest season… it’s important to take care of yourself, breathe and know when to turn on/off your “give a dam switch” 😉❤️🥰

On another note… How cute is this outfit for thanksgiving? 🦃🍂 
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Funny … not funny.. working moms… busiest time of the year
Thanksgiving Outfit Idea🍂🦃 PROOF Good Basics can Thanksgiving Outfit Idea🍂🦃

PROOF Good Basics can easily be “Elevated” with a Blazer for a “Chic Polished Look” 

Add some great accessories, which always “finish off the look” ✔️✔️✔️

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You can never go wrong with jeans and a blazer✔️

Tell me something you’re looking for… to help you this holiday season⬇️

-Thanksgiving outfits 
-Holiday outfits
-decorating inspo
-Recipes
-cocktail recipes
-Gift ideas (for who)
Custom-made luxury. Pre washed for Purity. @three Custom-made luxury.
Pre washed for Purity.

@threegirlscurtains  specializing in custom pre-washed curtains because they care deeply about the craftsmanship and sustainability & pieces that are ready to hang.

Not only are their curtains luxurious and beautiful they’re also clean, safe and gentle for your home and family.

I’ve partnered with Three Girls Curtains and couldn’t be more excited to finally share the Zaria double French pleat in green stripe with you. Their attention to detail and craftsmanship finished off our master bedroom remodel “like Jewlery for an outfit” The curtains are to your walls. 

It’s all in the details…
November 🍂🍁only means… We’re getting ready…. Some November 🍂🍁only means…
We’re getting ready….

Some changes are coming….

@kingofchristmas Tree has arrived✔️ and I’ve started decking the halls ….the Holidays will be hear before you know it…

Seriously, if November goes as fast as October did Christmas will be here in 3 days🤦🏼‍♀️

Are you in the market for a new Christmas tree this year?
Kinds of Christmas makes the most beautiful Trees, wreaths and garlands for all your holiday greenery needs! 

Comment “TREE” I’ll send you the links🎄🎄🎄

Yes, we’re adding yet another Tree this year:) stay tuned…🎄

When do you Start decorating?
I actually started my tree decorating clients tomorrow…

If you live in Utah and want your Tree-porch- A Tablescape or House decorated for the Holidays:) send me Dm🎄🎄🎄🎄

Don’t worry, I am not skipping Thanksgiving🍂🦃 I have a lot of fun content to share with you- outfits-recipes- Decor-tablescapes ….
🍂Happy Halloween 🎃 🍂 Come on a Fall walk with Lit 🍂Happy Halloween 🎃 🍂

Come on a Fall walk with Little Man & Coco … and see what we see🍂 
🎥Watch tell the end to see what “Coach” did for him…

This little guy loves trees, and is at peace outside, he’d be out here all day, everyday…

He loves walks to look at trees, loves to swing in the hammock to look at the trees, he loves to touch the leaves and explore 🍂

It’s the sweetest thing to watch, 
And I enjoy every moment and don’t rush any of them🍂🍂 I am happy to look at leaves for hours🍂

Being a grandma has changed me in the most beautiful way.
I don’t rush through moments anymore.
I don’t stress the little things like I used to.
Because now I know how fast it all goes. 🥰❤️

Incase your new here… I go by “COCO “and my hubby is “Coach”
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