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By D'Arcy Vandenberg


How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

Hello Pretty Ladies,

I hope you had an excellent Valentine’s Day. We had a pretty low-key day. Our anniversary is also in February, and we would like to celebrate “our love story.” I went to lunch with a girlfriend and dropped off Valentines to our boys, wives, and girlfriends. Ben and I exchanged gifts and watched a movie. Pretty low-key! I didn’t even make the big Italian dinner I would make; I am saving it all for Sunday dinner with the family.  

It snowed Thursday night, a good portion on Friday, and into Saturday morning. This sparked my blog post today, How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40 By this time of year, I am ready for Spring, longer days, and warmer weather. A little self-care time helps cure the winter blues and adds a little pep in my step for the new week.

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

Shop my New Spanx Outfit below:

Spanx did it again. Their new spring drop is impressive, with new colors and several new styles.

Soft sculpt fabric These butter-soft pieces are perfect for yoga, Pilates, and even travel and are so comfortable you can wear them as loungewear! The leggings feel like butter-soft cotton, hold you in all the right places, and have a drawstring waist for a cute detail. I am in the smalls, and I adore the lilac heathered color. The matching top is a super buttery fabric with a draped back. It fits that I am in the small. The buttery soft Air Essentials cardigan is true to size.

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Follow some of my self-care tips below:

I love these things for self-care, whether for a self-care day or daily use. I do like to wake up early and have my lemon detox drink. RECIPE HERE: Read my daily devotional and stretch as part of my morning routine. This could also be considered daily self-care or love that takes 15-30 minutes. You set the time that works in your schedule. 

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

Add Life’s simple pleasures. A few Amazon Finds 

Daily devotional: Refresh your heart each day as you encounter God’s Word beautifully and creatively. Are you a busy woman looking for a devotional that addresses real-life questions and issues? The Beautiful Word Devotional is a 365-day devotional that nurtures your spirit and encourages your heart as God’s Word washes over you with its promises.

–Pretty Details Little antique gold tray– Perfect for cucumbers for your eyes, jewelry, and votive candles. I am a sucker for pretty details, even for simple things to add a little touch.

-Cucumbers for eyes

–Towel warmer– Large Towel Warmer for Bathroom – Heated Towel Warmers Bucket, Wood Handle, Auto Shut Off, Fits Up to Two 40″X70″ Oversized Towels, Bathrobes, Blankets, Best Ideal for Mother’s Gifts

-Candles- A few of my favorites I’ve purchased lately: HERE HERE HERE

–Luxurious Bubble Bath-BEAUTIFULLY SCENTED BUBBLE BATH: Soft, chattering bubbles envelop your body in lush hydration. Lollia’s Wish Bubble Bath for Adults has delicate infusions of warm Vanilla Bean, Rice Flower, Jasmine Leaves, and crushed Sugar Cane for a subtle scent.

-Paint your Nails a pretty color- Opi Cajun Shrimp polish,|Opi quit my day job| Opi Charged up Cherry

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

Today’s How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40 Products By: Dime Clean Beauty

-Whipped exfoliating mask

– Detox mud mask

– TBT Supp

– Serum TBT

– TBT cream clean retinol ternative 

– Blue Facial oil

– Thirsty Face Mist

Save 25% off this weekend with code DARCY. Shop All Dime products here.

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

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  • Orders $50+ (after discount) receive a free Roller Ball
  • Orders $75+ (after discount) receive a free Lip Balm (non-tinted)
  • Orders $100+ (after discount) receive a free full-size Super Firm Serum

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

7 Tips to incorporate a little love for yourself into your weekly routine

– Write in a journal: Write down a goal, a quote, or something you’re grateful for. Writing helps you manifest and is also a great way to reflect.

–Speak Kindly to Yourself: Replace self-criticism with affirmations celebrating your strengths.

–Take 15 minutes daily to move your body (stretch, light weights, wall sit) or walk around the block. Moving is essential not only for your health but also for clearing your mind.

–Honor Your Wins: No achievement is too small. Recognize your efforts and take pride in them.

–Enjoy your favorite warm drink:  in quiet for 10 minutes

–Smile… Smile at a stranger… You never know how that could change someone’s day.

– Create Space for YOU: Whether it’s five minutes of journaling, a favorite playlist, or a walk in nature, carve out time for yourself.

Self-love changes how you show up for your relationships, work, and dreams. 

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

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Have a beautiful day, Pretty ladies, and remember your smile is your BEST accessory.

Thank you for stopping by.

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  1. Shelley Oaks says

    February 22, 2025 at 6:37 am

    Loving all the winter self care tips! Thanks for sharing!

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    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      February 23, 2025 at 8:27 am

      Thank you for stopping by. I hope you’ll try a couple of the tips. Thank you, D’Arcy

      Reply

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Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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For those that maybe needed to hear this today 🤍🙏🏻

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” – Proverbs 4:23

 CORINTHIANS 15:33
“Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” – 1 Corinthians 15:33

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18

“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” – Colossians 3:13-14

“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes.” – Psalm 37:7

Bible verses that bring peace!
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Friday I’m in LOVE…. Spring outfit inspo … A litt Friday I’m in LOVE….

Spring outfit inspo … A little bit Preppy, A Pop of Pink & Perfect for lunch with a friend!

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It was so educational, inspiring and full of boss ladies! 

We were treated to a beautiful lunch, product testing, fun photo opportunity and some great swag!

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In my 50’s 5 Beauty & Health Non-Negotiable 5 In my 50’s 

5 Beauty & Health Non-Negotiable 

5 things I’ve been doing weekly
For several years…
That I won’t stop doing, because I have noticed the difference.

-Dermaplaning 
-Scalp Treatment 
-Micro needling 
-Fresh Flowers
-B-12 & Peptide Shot

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And discounts 
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#midlifebeauty #beautytricks #beautytools
You’re going to want in Every color Pumiey square You’re going to want in Every color

Pumiey square neck tank tops

Double lined fabric for a great smoothing  effect, & no back bulge, with 4 way stretch it feels like a glove , the wide strap hides a bra strap 

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Making them $14.99

Hurry and grab a few✔️

These would make a great Easter Basket stuffer for the girls in your life.

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#pumiey #pumieytanks #midlifeblogger #springfashıon
You’ll never believe how affordable is outfit is… You’ll never believe how affordable is outfit is…

Preppy Spring Sweater outfit 

2 clothing finds under $35
-Green, pink and orange stripe sweater perfect for Spring  fits tts 

-Pink gingham button up with ruffle collar and cuffs fits true to size, comes in several colors 

Affordable accessory finds 
-Green risen large bracelet 
-green alligator bag

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Two pink Allie & Bess bracelet save 20% with code DARCY20

Under $100 denim- that feels like premium denim- itty bitty bootie flare, sliming and elongates legs… 

Affordable Pink and green tennis shoes 

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#springstyles #preppyfashion #springcolors #midlifestyle #utahblogger
—Pinch Me— 3 Beauty Product Every Midlife needs✔ —Pinch Me—

3 Beauty Product
 Every Midlife needs✔️✔️✔️

~Invisible dry Shampoo for the perfect refresh on those no wash hair days…. Makes a great texturing spray too. 

~Vitamin C serum for Bright & Glowing skin ! Now, who doesn’t want that?

~Lip Volumizer treatment, because let’s face it as we age our lips loose collagen & plumpness. 

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What I Wore… On our 30th Wedding Anniversary🤍🤍🤍 A What I Wore…
On our 30th Wedding Anniversary🤍🤍🤍

As a 54 year old Happily Married Lady🤍

One of the Outfits I Wore on Our Anniversary weekend. 

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#weddinganniversary❤️ #whatiworeistrending #midlifewomen #utahinfluencer
This is your sign to… Get dressed up… And grab a This is your sign to…

Get dressed up…

And grab a coffee☕️

Because you deserve it

It’s the little things
In life… that can make
A BIG difference!

*When you get dressed,
Your mood gets lifted, you feel better… and when you take a little time for yourself, like grabbing your favorite drink at your favorite little shop, that 30 min for yourself,  helps you do better✔️

When you take time for YOU, YOU can do more for others.

Fill your cup….
Don’t drain your cup❤️❤️❤️

*Lessons we learn in aging
midlife is good✔️

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Entertaining, Home projects, Tablescapes, Cooking, Gardening, Antiquing, and a love of Fashion, Family and Faith….

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Spring Wardrobe Basics By NYDJ youll wear on repe Spring Wardrobe Basics 
By NYDJ youll wear on repeat 

Outfit inspo

Red blouse with pleated  shoulder & back details 

Pinstriped chambray blue and white strip wide leg light weight pants.
So comfortable you’ll wear on repeat.
Pair with any color✔️✔️

Cashmere sweater by cotes of London ( I linked similar from quince ) 

Cap toe chambray ballet flats is a go to Spring shoe on trend

Lester bag by Paris 64 
One of my favorite little bags 

Red stretch belt with gold buckle (best seller) 2 pack so affordable

Allie & Bess bracelets stack 
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Come SHOP Ulta with me… Over 50 on a clean beauty Come SHOP Ulta with me…

Over 50 on a clean beauty mission while on a melanoma cancer journey✔️

 A few products I love, a couple I wanted to try, While searching for new items to replace “unhealthy products”

From Tanning drops, Cleansing oil, eye cream to a mini glow skin care set, sunscreen and hair care products!

Ulta makes it easy to shop with their Clean beauty Displays and clear signage, to find products that fit your needs.

From: Vegan, sulfate free, Clean Ingredients
Cruelty Free & 
Sustainable Packaging, 
Give Back brands

Come SHOP Ulta with me…

Over 50 on a clean beauty mission while on a melanoma cancer journey✔️

 A few products I love, a couple I wanted to try, While searching for new items to replace “unhealthy products”

From Tanning drops, Cleansing oil, eye cream to a mini glow skin care set, sunscreen and hair care products!

Ulta makes it easy to shop with their Clean beauty Displays and clear signage, to find products that fit your needs.

From vegan, cruelty free, sulfate 

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#cleanbeautyproducts #midlifewomen #midlifebeauty #midlifestyle #cancerjourney
What I am actually wearing this Spring…. Living in What I am actually wearing this Spring…. Living in Utah as a over 50 Wife, Mom, COCO and content Creator💋

Utah Weather in the Spring 🌱
Calls for layers….

Spring weather here can be “Schizophrenic” from a blizzard  To sunny and 60 in a day!

Although we’ve had an unusually strange winter this year, Spring still calls for layers.

Bundling up for the morning, and being able to take pieces off throughout the day, makes a great tip for Utah Springs.

I like classic pieces, in light colors and weights, yet work when layered to keep you warm.

Pieces you can mix and match, great wardrobe builders and add some texture.

- lighter weight & color long Wool coat , looks chic over shoulders, yet not to hot when on (I have a rain coat too) 

-Classic trousers are still trending and a great option to look more polished, shades of cream, tan and camel are great for Spring (works well with pastels too)

- Light weight, thinner ribbed mock neck turtleneck. I love the feel and fit of these. Affordable too.

- Vest are a great Spring layer, and the large Plaid/check in neutral shades keeps in classic and add interest. Yet, light enough for spring for layering and not sweat to death 😂
(I love linen vests too) 

- Adding texture with a fluffy & light fur on one shoulder (well still be seeing fur details for Spring)  Draped on one shoulder does add heat, like wearing around your neck does.

- Classic jewelry in gold & silver mix… and yes, I layered and stacked it on… classic pieces & yet layered gives your look a little edge. 

- Western suede pointed toe booties, elongate the leg, add more texture and keep your feet warmer but not too warm. 

Do you need layers in the Spring where you live?

❤️Follow for more Spring layer Outfits…. I have several style, color and on trend. While classic looks coming your way….

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Over50 style/ classic wardrobe builders/ while staying & looking current at any age.

#springstyles #whatiamreallywearing #utahinfluencer #midlifewomen
—Sunday in the kitchen with D’Arcy— —Farm to Tab —Sunday in the kitchen 
with D’Arcy—

—Farm to Table—
Roasted  Spring  Vegetables 
—Easy Sheet pan Recipe—

🥕🍅🧅Garden or Farmers Market vegetables preferred…

 -Cup garden cherry tomatoes 🍅 

-Cup small baby potatoes 🥔 

-Cup sliced peppers 🫑 

-Tips of on bushel of thin asparagus 

1 cup baby carrots🥕

On a olive oiled sheet pan
Place vegetables 

1/2 cup diced onion 🧅 

Garlic chili peppers and spice mix ( I like Bella italia) 

Fresh rosemary and chives from the garden 🪏 🪴🫜

Top with:
Salt & pepper (I like sea salt & fresh ground pepper) 

Top with a generous amount of oilve oil

And the red onion, fresh herbs  and seasoning

Place in oven at 400
For about  30 mins , tossing ever so often

The perfect Spring side dish with a toasted chicken or Bbq

Did you know I have a BLOG? Full of recipes,  entertaining, tablescape’s , Home decor and fashion?

I’d love for you to follow me over there:) link is in bio⬆️

#sundaydinner🍴 #roastedveggies #farmtotablefood #fromthegarden  #utahinfluencer
Vacation mode: Headed somewhere warm✔️ I have the Vacation mode:
Headed somewhere warm✔️

I have the perfect cover-up,
Sun hat, beach/travel bag and the cutest bow flat sandals…

Affordable-crochet Cover up 
Fits tts and comes in other colors really affordable 

Bougee - raffia/straw tote/beach bag 

 best selling sun hat year after year 

Leather bow flat sandals -  comfy and so cute

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#springtravel #midlifejourney #over50andfabulous
4 Spring Jackets Under $36 -Light weight -Stylis 4 Spring Jackets 
Under $36

-Light weight -Stylish- and easy layers you’ll wear all season long.

❤️The leopard one is on SALE $19.99

Do you like a little spring layer?
I adore a 3rd piece, to style my outfits…and (I am always cold) 

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#styleover50 #affordablefinds #midlifestyle #utahinfluencer
30 years of Marriage💍 I prayed for this man, and 30 years of Marriage💍

I prayed for this man, and there’s no one I’d rather do life with🤍🙏🏻

Here’s 16 words of advice we’ve stuck with🤍🤍🤍

Which slide is your favorite?

Share with me what is a piece of advice you live by in your marriage?

Not Married, which one are you going to want to follow?

#happyanniversarymylove #couplegoals❤️ #30years #growold
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