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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

Hello Pretty Ladies,

I hope you had an excellent Valentine’s Day. We had a pretty low-key day. Our anniversary is also in February, and we would like to celebrate “our love story.” I went to lunch with a girlfriend and dropped off Valentines to our boys, wives, and girlfriends. Ben and I exchanged gifts and watched a movie. Pretty low-key! I didn’t even make the big Italian dinner I would make; I am saving it all for Sunday dinner with the family.  

It snowed Thursday night, a good portion on Friday, and into Saturday morning. This sparked my blog post today, How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40 By this time of year, I am ready for Spring, longer days, and warmer weather. A little self-care time helps cure the winter blues and adds a little pep in my step for the new week.

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

Shop my New Spanx Outfit below:

Spanx did it again. Their new spring drop is impressive, with new colors and several new styles.

Soft sculpt fabric These butter-soft pieces are perfect for yoga, Pilates, and even travel and are so comfortable you can wear them as loungewear! The leggings feel like butter-soft cotton, hold you in all the right places, and have a drawstring waist for a cute detail. I am in the smalls, and I adore the lilac heathered color. The matching top is a super buttery fabric with a draped back. It fits that I am in the small. The buttery soft Air Essentials cardigan is true to size.

Spanx Code-Save 10% off with my code Deardarcyxspanx 

Follow some of my self-care tips below:

I love these things for self-care, whether for a self-care day or daily use. I do like to wake up early and have my lemon detox drink. RECIPE HERE: Read my daily devotional and stretch as part of my morning routine. This could also be considered daily self-care or love that takes 15-30 minutes. You set the time that works in your schedule. 

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

Add Life’s simple pleasures. A few Amazon Finds 

Daily devotional: Refresh your heart each day as you encounter God’s Word beautifully and creatively. Are you a busy woman looking for a devotional that addresses real-life questions and issues? The Beautiful Word Devotional is a 365-day devotional that nurtures your spirit and encourages your heart as God’s Word washes over you with its promises.

–Pretty Details Little antique gold tray– Perfect for cucumbers for your eyes, jewelry, and votive candles. I am a sucker for pretty details, even for simple things to add a little touch.

-Cucumbers for eyes

–Towel warmer– Large Towel Warmer for Bathroom – Heated Towel Warmers Bucket, Wood Handle, Auto Shut Off, Fits Up to Two 40″X70″ Oversized Towels, Bathrobes, Blankets, Best Ideal for Mother’s Gifts

-Candles- A few of my favorites I’ve purchased lately: HERE HERE HERE

–Luxurious Bubble Bath-BEAUTIFULLY SCENTED BUBBLE BATH: Soft, chattering bubbles envelop your body in lush hydration. Lollia’s Wish Bubble Bath for Adults has delicate infusions of warm Vanilla Bean, Rice Flower, Jasmine Leaves, and crushed Sugar Cane for a subtle scent.

-Paint your Nails a pretty color- Opi Cajun Shrimp polish,|Opi quit my day job| Opi Charged up Cherry

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

Today’s How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40 Products By: Dime Clean Beauty

-Whipped exfoliating mask

– Detox mud mask

– TBT Supp

– Serum TBT

– TBT cream clean retinol ternative 

– Blue Facial oil

– Thirsty Face Mist

Save 25% off this weekend with code DARCY. Shop All Dime products here.

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

Dime President’s Weekend Sale

  • Orders $50+ (after discount) receive a free Roller Ball
  • Orders $75+ (after discount) receive a free Lip Balm (non-tinted)
  • Orders $100+ (after discount) receive a free full-size Super Firm Serum

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

7 Tips to incorporate a little love for yourself into your weekly routine

– Write in a journal: Write down a goal, a quote, or something you’re grateful for. Writing helps you manifest and is also a great way to reflect.

–Speak Kindly to Yourself: Replace self-criticism with affirmations celebrating your strengths.

–Take 15 minutes daily to move your body (stretch, light weights, wall sit) or walk around the block. Moving is essential not only for your health but also for clearing your mind.

–Honor Your Wins: No achievement is too small. Recognize your efforts and take pride in them.

–Enjoy your favorite warm drink:  in quiet for 10 minutes

–Smile… Smile at a stranger… You never know how that could change someone’s day.

– Create Space for YOU: Whether it’s five minutes of journaling, a favorite playlist, or a walk in nature, carve out time for yourself.

Self-love changes how you show up for your relationships, work, and dreams. 

How to Beat the Winter Time Blues….A Self-Care Saturday For Women Over 40

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Have a beautiful day, Pretty ladies, and remember your smile is your BEST accessory.

Thank you for stopping by.

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  1. Shelley Oaks says

    February 22, 2025 at 6:37 am

    Loving all the winter self care tips! Thanks for sharing!

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    • D'Arcy Vandenberg says

      February 23, 2025 at 8:27 am

      Thank you for stopping by. I hope you’ll try a couple of the tips. Thank you, D’Arcy

      Reply

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Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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Here’s 8 Affordable,Natural And Clean- Ordinary Products I use To look and feel great✔️

I replaced a lot of my Beauty Regimen with these Unexpected affordable products,
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I am 54 here are some of my Favorite Things …. St I am 54  here are some of my Favorite Things …. Still in stock 
💛Nordstrom Sale 💛

Tips for 
-Building a wardrobe
Wear now & transition into Fall
- think about items you can mix and match  and wear multiple ways 
- Shopping Online gives you better options for sizing- color options and in-stock items 

Comment “Shop”  and I’ll send you a dm with links and all the details✔️
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Nordstrom sale/ my picks/ style over 50/
7 Tops under $30 That you can wear Now and into FA 7 Tops under $30
That you can wear Now and into FALL

Styled with shorts but perfect with Jeans or trousers too✔️✔️

Great quality, pretty details all fit tts 

-All with a short sleeve perfect if you don’t like to show your arms 

A couple Peplum or baby doll style flatter those with tummy 

Light weight and super soft sweater and crochet detail

- a darling light weight butter yellow and heart short sleeve cardigan wear alone or as a layer 

White shorts- raw hem denim shorts
linen shorts - and trouser shorts 
Are all Spanx - 

⚠️Save 15% with my code Deardarcyxspanx 

Long denim Jorts/bermuda 
button fly raw hem 

Linked shoes- bags and jewelry that I could

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Style over 60- under $30 tops- affordable style- midlife style
The one that made me a mama… Happy Birthday to o The one that made me a mama… 

Happy Birthday to our oldest son🎉
Time flies by so fast… How could our little Huddy buddy be 30?
❤️❤️❤️ 

July 26th 1996 forever changed our life’s for the better and started our family… We’re so blessed God choose us to parent this smart, kind and loving soul. 

We’re so proud of then Man he has become, the husband he is to his beautiful wife, and the Partner & business man he is in our family business. 

He’s a strong leader, a kind and tender heart, with a mind that absorbs everything. We love being around family is everything to him. ❤️
. 
Happy birthday Hudson Alexander🤍  We love you🅾️❌

Boy mom| Oldest son | happy Birthday
Happy Hour Loading …. Perfect way to serve a fun Happy Hour Loading ….

Perfect way to serve a fun Charcuterie meal for your next Girlsnight, couples  date night, game night , family get together or party….

I don’t know about you but charcuterie is my favorite meal🍓🧀🍇🍒🥖🥒🥕🦐🧈🫒🫛🌶️🥭🍎

Happy hour/ charcuterie/ entertaining/ over the top/ girlsnight/ party time/ date night
Let’s make something outdated… ON TREND …. From yo Let’s make something outdated… ON TREND …. From your closet

With ✂️ Scissors ✂️✂️✂️✂️✂️

—Creating NEW from your Closet … is a great way to Use what you have and repurpose it, into Something NEW✔️

Joggers and skinny joggers are Outdated…. Make them current is ease with scissors… You can cut to any length  you want… from Trending Jorts to Bermuda length or even short 5 or 7 inch

✔️Follow for more restyling/creating and shopping your closet! 

Do you have something you have in your closet you need to recreate?

Camo pants| camo Joggers| over 50 style | use what you have| repurpose fashion| shorts jorts
Join in the discussion…. Tell me below if you agr Join in the discussion….

Tell me below if you agree or disagree?

Do you enjoy the sunrise walk on the beach or sleeping in on vacation?

Or maybe you like to enjoy coffee with the view? Or are you the up with exercise type of girl… while in vacation mode?

Like my outfit? 

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Coastal grandmother / coastal outfit/ American summer/ white jeans/ white and denim / midlifestyle / flag sweater/ Ralph Lauren/ hydrangeas/
Sailboats
—Spanx— Have you tried Spanx lately? It’s more th —Spanx—

Have you tried Spanx lately? It’s more then Shape-wear 

New Arrivals you’re going to want..

I am 54 and here’s my latest picks✔️

I have a 15% off code 
That will be with the links✔️

Comment “Shop” for links 
And I’ll send you all the details
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What’s in my box 📦 

-Crew neck sweatshirt in zest
-Air essentials cropped zip back sweatshirt
-black strapless one piece swim suit with removable camo straps 
-Sports dress with built in bra and shorts
- Stripped shirt dress with large bow belt
-Linen wide Leg pant 

❤️Wearing the fully lined linen tank dress
-linen 5 inch shorts
- 360 denim tank top 

Wardrobe builders you’ll grab on repeat
Nordstrom SALE —Beauty— I am 54 years old Things Nordstrom SALE —Beauty—

I am 54 years old
Things I am using & Loving, as well as a couple things my hubby loves

From lipstick combos,
Hair tools, eyelash serum and mascara that has made my eyelashes look amazingly long and thick, perfume, deodorant I’ve use for years, lotion for silky soft  hydrated skin,  hand cream and moisturizer my hubby uses daily. 

Comment “shop” for links 
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Nordstromsake/ Nordstrom beauty/ over 50 beauty
💛 Nordstrom Sale💛 The one item you will WANT and 💛 Nordstrom Sale💛

The one item you will WANT and wear on repeat all year long.

The notch blazer- 
A Knit blazer, that is comfortable, soft, fully lined  and a perfect 3rd piece to finish off a look.

From office wear- Casual with jeans and a tee- over a dress- worn with a skirt and really cute with shorts

Exclusive on the SALE $66 normally $100 and comes in 3 colors
Espresso brown/ jade/ Camel 

Fits tts I buy & wear the med and if I want to layer a sweater and a button up I like the large 

Love these blazer that I have 7 colors in the notch blazer 
And 6 colors in the double breasted blazer 

I have a code if you shop Gibsonlook on their web sight to save 15%with code DARCY
If you want to check out the other items I love.. 

⚠️Outfit details:
Wearing a linen dress by Spanx 
Save 15% off with my code 
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Wearing a med 

Shoes  suede gold studs 

All jewelry is Julie voz

💛lip combo sale set on the Nordstrom sale

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Nordstrom sale| blazer| Blazer Style | over 50 style | notch blazer
Everyday is a good day to get dressed up…. LOOK Go Everyday is a good day to get dressed up…. LOOK Good, FEEL Good..as the saying goes…

I hope you have day full of Gods love and blessings 🤍

“You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.”
Song of Solomon 4:7 ESV / 5 

Pearls/getting dressed/over 50 style/ Sunday blessing/ enjoy the day/ looking and feeling good.
The lip color everyone is gonna want 💛💛 A pretty The lip color everyone is gonna want 💛💛

A pretty duo in a  exclusive set on SALE pillow top lipstick and plumper gloss 

I grab this brands  exclusive lip sets every year .. this one has never been part of the sale and it makes a great gift too! 

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Midlife beauty| NSALE | lip combo| lip set| pillow talk
🤍Friday Favorites 🤍 20 Slides full of….⬇️ Things 🤍Friday Favorites 🤍

20 Slides full of….⬇️
Things I am ..
Eating-Creating-Wearing 
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Over 50 

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Outfit inspo- lifestyle- clean beauty- Flowers-recipes- garden- bags,  shoes and shorts
I am 54… What I Wore on a long weekend with my hub I am 54… What I Wore on a long weekend with my hubby in Park City⛰️

7 Travel outfits I created 
you’re going to love. 

From dinner & drinks. To walks & morning coffee, long lunches, relaxing pool days, cocktails & garden tours…

Easy and comfortable, travel well.
Creating Stylish & easy to wear outfits with great wardrobe staples.

Mixing classic pieces with a few on trend pieces is a great way to give your travel looks an updated feel.

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Outfits:
1. Fun with fringe skirt set
2. Workout dress built in bra & shorts
3. Catch of day & white jeans
4. Lace trim Tank & Faux leather Bermuda shorts
5. White linen top & Pants
6. Crochet Cover up 
7. Denim jorts & Button up

Midlife travel outfits | midlife style| chic style| style over 50| couple getaway|
Chic Amazon Finds .. For “It Girl” Style You won Chic Amazon Finds ..
For “It Girl” Style 

You won’t believe how affordable these finds are … you really won’t believe how great the quality is….

Great gift ideas too✔️

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below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK 
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Amazon | Amazon finds| chic finds | affordable finds
🚨Sale 🚨 Pottery Barn or Walmart? The prices say W 🚨Sale 🚨
Pottery Barn or Walmart?

The prices say Walmart but the design and quality say Pottery Barn..

The cutest pots & planters for your home and garden🏡🪏🪴🫜🧑‍🌾

I wanted all of them but only 1/2 came home with me… well maybe more than that 😉

Striped pots
Scalloped
Clay, wicker etc

Garden pots

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Midlife| gardening | Plant lover | | Walmart|  high quality affordable prices
I just want to have enough time to do the things I I just want to have enough time to do the things I need to do….

And enough time to do the things I want to do….

Who else???

I swear the older I get the faster time flys by!

Who else feels this way?🌸🥰

Home projects, gardening, cooking style, fashion, travel, vintage lover, antiquing, fashion segments, reader, beauty lover, mom, wife, love your life.

#midlifewoman #midlifeawakening #midlifestyle
Forget hot girl summer, it’s garden granny summer Forget hot girl summer, 
it’s garden granny summer…

Give me the simple life… Gardening, fresh flowers and homegrown tomatoes.. 

Who’s with me?

Granny summer/gardening/fresh tomatoes/ home grown flowers and vegetables /utah living/
🚨Complete details, including sizing, brands and al 🚨Complete details, including sizing, brands and all make-up colors etc. in the link… Comment “Shop” and I’ll send it to you in your dm

—Vlog—
Getting ready for a friends Anniversary Party…

Love the look of Tuckernuck but not the price? This great Amazon find has the look and feel! 
I am so impressed with the quality.. I have it in 3 colors✔️ fits tts in a small 

Accessories always finish off the look and feel…It’s the small details that matter

-Horse bit detail slides Amazon find-look expensive 

Quilted bag by Caroline Hill

- Julie Vos & French Kande Jewlery

FAST Manicure you can do in the car💅🏻

Gift idea- Roses Forever 🤍🌹

Great look for Party season, cocktails and  events
⚠️Perfect wedding guest dress NOT in white.. in the colored versions

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🚨View all slides➡️process Melanoma Cancer Journey 🚨View all slides➡️process

Melanoma Cancer Journey
—Part 7–

—3rd Laser surgery & Update— and STAGES

➡️Slide through  slides ➡️
To view process ⚠️SLIDE 6 is crazy

 12 weeks  after my First (Scar revision treatment) laser treatment round 3 CO2 doing Excel V Laser treatment.

🚨Scar revision 
C02 2 kinds of laser
Deep core - (first 2 treatments)
Or EXcel V - (3rd treatment)
*Excel V - redness & topical
*Deca- core & topical 

I was diagnosed in December, Surgery in January and my first laser in February.

I’ve been sharing this Journey in hopes to help encourage you to make a skin check up appointment. 

Melanoma Cancer is deadly and very different from Skin Cancer.

Melanoma cancer is deadly,  early detection is key, before it can spread to lymph nodes, organs, &  blood. 

If your new here or just seeing this post, I have 6 other parts with all the info and my Journey to date in Feed and stores saved to highlights with more info.

Thank you for all the kind messages, comments and prayers! I appreciate you being apart of my tribe.

Thank you and NOW make your Skin Appointment! 

I am happy to answer any questions in Dm

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