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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Creating a sweet and casual Valentine’s day outfit!

cashmere love sweater Victoria secrets

love sweater Victoria secrets

fresh blooms, kut from the kloth jeans, blush suede shoes

fresh blooms in pink and red

Flower's by Emie james

hot pink sweater, distressed jeans and fresh blooms

hot pink distressed sweater, love necklace, heart sunnies

Valentine’s day is tomorrow do you have big plans?  

My Hubby and I normally spend Valentine’s day with our kids. My family wake’s up to their St. Valentine treats and then we have an Italian dinner at home. Something about Italian food that always seems romantic. Don’t you think? 

Our anniversary is this month so we have “our Time” on the 25th. It will be 23 years for us this year! Man where does the time go?  I’ll be talking more about this next week. 

Because we really don’t go out for Valentine’s day, I like to look festive but not dressed up. I thought I would share a couple of cute casual and festive outfits you can easily wear for Valentine’s day. Perfect for helping at school parties or a surprise lunch with your hubby. (which by the way is what my hubby just came in and told me, he plans on taking me to a Valentine’s day,  lunch at our favorite restaurant Twig’s!) YAY….He normally doesn’t take a week day off so this was a nice surprise.  I love the idea of a Valentine’s Day lunch, restaurant won’t be as crowded as night and we can still have dinner with our family.  What’s your plans?

Ok, so lets get to the outfit details…. You all know by now that I love pink, pretty much any shade of it! So finding a couple of sweaters on sale in shades of pink really made me happy! Right now is a great time to grab a a sweater or two for a great deal…I found the cashmere LOVE sweater in pale pink at Victoria Secrets and the Hot pink distressed sweater at American Eagle. I knew both of these would be darling for the month of love.

Some of the items have sold out or are only available in store’s, so I am linking similar items for you to get a similar look!   Also you can find ALL the up to date outfits I wear by following me at Dress like me

1.Cashmere sweater- Victoria Secrets I bought the Love and the Tease (my hubby has called me that for 23 years!)

2.Hot pink distressed sweater –American Eagle 

3. Side Slit Denim-Kut from the Kloth Connie Jeans as shown here as well!

4. Distressed boy jean by Sts Sold out, Similar here

5. Ked tennis shoes by Kate spade Sold out, Similar Here

6. Blush lace up shoes Sold out Similar heel here and a flat here

7. Ring sold out Similar 

8. Hot pink Tassel earrings Tjmax similar Here

9. Heart sunglasses American eagle 

10. love necklace was by Color by amber  sold out similar here

11. Lip stick Snob by Mac

Flower Bouquet was done by Emie Jamies

photographer was Wren Parker

I hope you have a wonderful Valentine’s Day full of love. OX, D’Arcy

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2018 Active Wear Trends That’ll Take you from the Studio to the Street

active wear

Senita Agility long sleeve

active wear

Senita fierce workout pants

sportswear

Senita easy cardigan active wear

active wear

Senita High waisted Capris

active wear

Senita High waisted capris…. I love the pocket detail & large enough to hold your phone! Brilliant!

workout /activewear

Senita keyhole tee…Great movement for the studio, yet stylish for streetwear!

sportswear /activewear

Senita Space between top….perfect for your favorite class & cute enough to dress up with a lace bralette and leather jeans

Love your Melon
Beanie smoked speckled pom pom beanie

knit beanie

Love your Melon
                                                                       natural beanie

headband

Love your Melon
knit headband

Knit Headband

Love your Melon
knit headband

rose gold and black

Misfit Shine 2 Fitness & Sleep Monitor 

 Hello Beautiful’s, 

Activewear is still strong and making big trends in 2018.  I am loving this brand Sentia 

 With life being busy and many liking the minimalist trend it’s nice to get multiple uses out of items in our closet. That doesn’t stop in active wear, ONE of the big trends in active wear is having piece’s that will take you from the studio to the street with ease.

It’s all in the detail’s….Cute cutouts, great fabrics that fit well yet have special details.  Sentia is a company owned by sister’s and ran by all woman, they understand what woman want and the attention to detail in their sportswear line shows. 

Leggings with mesh details add style yet breathable and add that Fashionable detail you can wear with a cute sweater perfect for the street. You can wear sneakers or your Ugg boots.  Cute cut out tee’s and mixed fabrics make a work out shirt perfect to pair with jeans. I’ve been living in my easy cardigan, just enough to keep me warm after a workout and cute enough to layered over my favorite rocker tee’s for running errands or heading to the movies.

Love your Melon

Knit beanies have been all the rage for a couple of years NOW. Who doesn’t love a super soft beanie or headband to keep your head warm or wear on a bad hair day! What I love even more then super soft beanie is a product that gives back. Love Your Melon worked to develop a beanie that is soft enough for children battling cancer. Fifty percent (50%) of profit from the sale of all Love Your Melon products is given to Love Your Melon’s nonprofit partners in the fight against pediatric cancer. Their nonprofit partners work in the field of pediatric oncology, fund cancer research initiatives and provide immediate support for families of children battling cancer. All of their products are made in the United States of America. 

Now taking that beanie from working out to the street comes with ease, their too cute to wear just to work out it! I have been wearing mine all Winter from outside work outs to Casual date nights. So soft you’ll want several colors.

Misfit Shine 2

Automatically tracks steps, distance, calories, and light and restful sleep

Vibration alerts for call and text notifications, movement reminders, and alarms

Smart button enabled to control connected household devices

Swim proof, anodized aluminum disc with multicolor LED progress display and time

Non-charging, replaceable battery last up to 6 months

Reflective band option features a sleek, reflective accent that reflects light in even the dimmest conditions – so you can stay safe and in style at all times.

I have been using this awesome fitness tracker for a couple of months now. I love it! I love keeping track of my daily steps, it helps keep me motivated if I haven’t moved enough that day to get up and walk. It’s easy to wear, looks fashionable and I find it interesting to see how I really sleep, with the sleep tracker and best of all I don’t have to charge it. What no charging?  Has a battery like a regular watch… Brilliant! 

Want to Win a Misfit Shine 2

Enter to Win….Follow these 5 Easy Steps to Win

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  5. Comment below on my blog

That’s it All Finished… ALL 5 easy ways to enter done…Good Luck (Give away ends 2/2/18)

Did you catch our Segment on Fox13 The Place?

Here’s the Link incase you missed it.  Studio to Street

Have a great day! OX, D’Arcy

sportswear, studio to street

Fox13 The Place sportswear segment featuring, Senita, Misfit and love your melon

My model’s Katie Brown  & Britney Beus

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Happy New Year….Bringing in 2018 Outfit

thinking outside of your closet

New Years eve outfit using my hubby’s velvet tuxedo jacket!

Happy New Year!

Wishing you all the best in 2018 with many blessing’s and I  hope you can make ALL your dreams come true.

I wanted to share with you a fun little outfit I created for New year’s with my favorite item from my Hubby’s closet! He’s velvet tuxedo jacket (Jcrew)…Although it’s a little big it works! It adds balances with having tight bottoms. I paired it with a fun sequins tank top (old), black jeggings by Kut from the Kloth, metallic rose gold Clutch  similar here and New Years worthy shoes by Badgley Mischka similar here.

I love thinking outside the box when it comes to creating a outfit and who say’s everything has to be new! Go dig in your hubby’s closet & see what you could barrow to dress up. I also like to search through my closet and find pieces I haven’t worn in awhile and create an outfit from that piece. In this case I found this cute cream sequined tank top. It’s amazing what can get “LOST” in your closet! 

I don’t know about you but I really do like to stay home for New Year’s eve. (every once in awhile it’s fun to go to a party) Growing up it was Tradition to get into Pj’s, cousins came over to play games & watch movies and my mom made a appetizer dinner for snacking all night and we tried to stay up for the ball drop. Having this kind of night with my family is relaxing after all the hustle of the Holiday’s. What’s your New year’s tradition?

Make sure to check back tomorrow for a peek at one of my favorite Christmas gifts…Hint I had to wrap it myself! OX, D’Arcy

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Affordable Outfit Details & sharing a couple tip’s

pink strip ticking off the should shirt with bell sleeve, denim mini skirt, super affordable

pink strip ticking off the should shirt with bell sleeve, denim mini skirt, super affordable

pink strip ticking off the should shirt with bell sleeve, denim mini skirt, super affordable

pink strip ticking off the should shirt with bell sleeve, denim mini skirt, super affordable

pink strip ticking off the should shirt with bell sleeve, denim mini skirt, super affordable

Hello Beautiful’s! Today I wanted to share this fun little outfit I picked up for under $50 at Forever 21 while in Las Vegas with my mom! A Super cute pink stripe bell sleeve off the should top $17.99 and a black frayed hem mini skirt $28.99!  I got the top in a Medium and I really needed a small, unfortunately they were sold out! For $18.00 I really thought it’s so cheap, it’s ok is a little big! Bell sleeves and ticking stripes are a huge trend right now! Who doesn’t love a deal! I normally don’t go into Forever 21 because the sizing is all over the place and the quality is 1 to 2 washing’s and it’s done…this is where my first tip comes in…

Tip: I have said it before purchasing very trendy items at a affordable price is smart!  Trendy piece’s are normally just around for that season and then DONE! Why spend a lot of money on something that has very little closet time!    

Down side to affordable/Cheap clothing is the quality is sometimes poor and the fit can run really small or in this case really big! So make sure to try on…This isn’t the place to shop if you don’t like to try on!  

Tip: 2. I normally suggest wearing a affordable piece of clothing with a quality piece! BREAKING A RULE!  Here I am wearing two affordable pieces and it works because the denim skirt looks like quality denim! Now I haven’t washed either item yet…So i’ll let you know!   

Tip:3  While shopping affordable clothing shops look for items that the fabric feels good, seams are sewn well and buttons are secured with enough stitching.  Helps items to last longer and gives a better over all appearance!  I am not saying don’t purchase affordable clothing…I am just saying some are much better then other’s. Old saying is true “You do get what you pay for!’

Tip:4  My favorite place’s to get a Bargain but on designer brands are TG Max & Nordstrom Rack… Quality at a steel, WELL sometimes! 

Have A great week! OX,  D’Arcy

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Tuesday’s style Tip= It’s not always about the New! It’s about what you love!

Tuesday's style Tip= It's not always about the New It's about what you love!

Tuesday's style Tip= It's not always about the New It's about what you love!

Tuesday's style Tip= It's not always about the New It's about what you love!

Tuesday's style Tip= It's not always about the New It's about what you love!

Tuesday's style Tip= It's not always about the New It's about what you love!

Just fab statement heels

Just fab statement heels

Tuesday’s style Tip=

It’s not always about the New! It’s about what you love!

Happy Tuesday Beautiful’s! This Topic has been weighing on me for awhile now and I decided it’s time to share!  Social Media is ALL about the latest and greatest! Current trends and everyone always trying to sell you something! I don’t want you to feel like I am always try to sell you something, I want for you to think of me as a resource, A person you can trust and get advise from! Now…I get a lot of messages and text as to where I got something or what brand, So I will always list links to what I am sharing or maybe something like it to make it easier for you. If I am working with a company it is truly because I love it and am honored to collaborate with them!

As A girl that has always loved FASHION and yes making sure I was on TREND and current, I never felt you had to clear out your closet or Always buy NEW!  (Now I am not saying never clean out your closet!)I mean to start Fresh every season…. For most that just isn’t available with the budget!  I like to stress to my clients spend your money on classics and buy the affordable Trendy pieces! Classics are just that CLASSIC…classic pieces will last you forever and stay IN forever or come back IN…in a couple years! This White leather jacket to me is a classic staple piece. It’s a piece that you can have for years and bring it in and out of your wardrobe with nobody guessing it’s age! ( Mines 8 years old) Classic pieces are worth spending good money on when you divide it by the years of use it becomes pennies!  Expensive pieces fit better and really do wash and wear 10x better (one of the reasons they last so long!)  Purchasing new is fun and buying Trendy pieces for the season helps keep your Classic pieces looking NEW and on trend!

Breaking down how you can make your OLD pieces look new… Here I am Not wearing anything Newer then 9 months…. My distressed Jeans are 9 months old, my Shoes and necklace are 2 years old or older and my numbered tee is over 4 years old!  Nothing NEW… But this outfit still looks on Trend….Why, well if you break it down I am wearing a classic leather jacket, number and Vintage tee’s always look chic, A fun pair of embroidered heels dress up any outfit!  Now Embroidery is Hot hot hot this season….Let me tell you it comes and goes on the trend alert but I have some very beautiful and expensive embroidered pieces I’ll never get tired of, I love them and that is a key to buying… I might not wear for a couple of seasons but that embroidery always comes back around… Distressed jeans have been HOT for a couple of seasons Now, these keep the outfit on the Chic side! When I find A jean I like a do buy a couple pairs, you can normally tweak your jean collection to be on trend. A snip here or a hem here or fray the hem…etc!  My statement necklace… Statement necklaces aren’t a huge trend right Now.  (I really kept this because it matched the shoes perfectly!) but the big pop of color really works with this outfit and adds a fun element! 

 Happy when I can look in my closet and pull clothes together that can make a ON TREND outfit with not a lot of NEW! Trends come and go so make sure it’s something you love…You’ll get years of use out of it!

Did you have a question or need advise on how to wear something in your closet?  Leave a comment below and I’ll be happy to try and help!  OX, D’Arcy

Clothing list: Jacket=Kut from the Kloth, Jeans=Edyson, Tee=Victoria Secret, Shoes= Just Fab, Necklace= Chic Style

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Tuesday’s Tip=Shorter shorts after 40

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Kicking it up to a Shorter week! Hope you had a fabulous Holiday weekend. Head over to my Facebook page to see what I was up to! (Dear D’Arcy facebook) 

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

 

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

 

orange wedges, tassel fringe bracelets

Tip: Switching your shoes from a wedge to a flat give a totally different feel to the outfit! Went from Date night outfit to Lunch or shopping!

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

 

 

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday’s Tip= Wearing shorter shorts after 40! 

Let’s face it as we age our body and skin changes. Some people say you can’t wear shorter shorts after 40! I feel if you have great legs or work hard to stay fit go for it!  

I have some tips for wearing shorter shorts after 40 to stay classy and not like your trying to look 20! 

Use A great self Tanner, It helps hide flaws and Tan legs look great in shorts! Sorry and I know I’ll get flack for saying it but white legs are just a NO in your 40’s in shorter shorts! In your younger years you could get away with anything! Not now…Get a great self tanner! See my favorites in my prior blog post…self tanner’s 

Shorter shorts means a 5 inch inseam NOT a 3 inch cheek showing short!  I don’t care how great your body is leave the 3 inch booty shorts to the teenagers! 

To keep your outfit balance and too not look like your going clubbing don’t wear a sexy top with shorter short!  Yes.. I am wearing a off the shoulder top but its chambray and has a feel of day time. 

Wear a wedge it lengthens the leg and really does give the appearance of toner legs.

Pilates and the elliptical really do keep your legs in great shape! 

I am really lucky and never really had an issue with cellulite (stretch  marks yes!) I am not sure as to why not, I have read its a inherited trait but my tip would be I use coconut oil everyday in the shower after drying off! I also exfoliate my body with a sugar scrub every week!  

I hope your age doesn’t stop you from feeling like you can’t dress the way you want! You can be chic and fashionable at every age! OX, D’Arcy

Do you have a fashion question? If so comment below and I will try my hardest to help you out!

Outfit details: Chambray top sold out similar here, lace layered shorts here, pom pom sandals sold out, similar here , wedge sold out but Poshmark has several pairs  here

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How to Pattern mixing in 4 easy steps

 

pattern mixing

blush vest, stripe skirt, floral top mixing patterns with ease

blush vest, stripe skirt, floral top mixing patterns with ease

blush vest, stripe skirt, floral top mixing patterns with ease

lace up shoe nordstrom

Striped skirt (old) Floral tank (chic style) Blush shoes (Nordstrom sold out)  Earrings (jCrew)  

Have you ever wondered how to mix up patterns? I get asked this question a lot!  “How do you know what work’s?” Here is a couple easy way’s, I found that makes playing with pattern easy.

  1. Make sure to have a small print and a large! As shown above the floral is a large print and the stripe is a small. It works too…If the small was the floral and the large was a wide stripe. It gives balance.
  2. Make sure the patterns work in the same color pallet!  As shown above Blush always pairs well with grey! Like red goes with black:)
  3. Having a solid colored item like the blush vest, helps break it up! Think layers!
  4. Don’t think about it to hard…Clothing is suppose to be fun and a way to express yourself!  “PLAY” with your clothes, mix and match, you’ll get way more out of your wardrobe!

See…  4 easy tips  to help you Mix up patterns!  Happy Thursday! OX, D’Arcy

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Mother’s Day Gift Guide

Judy B swim wear

massage table

capri blue candles volcano

apple watch

fit bit

Athleta stripes Chaturang Capri

Judy b Swim wear

Dry bar

Minky blanket

designskin phone cases

Mother’s Day is Fast approaching! Here are some of my favorite things and some things I would love to have that make for great gift’s any Mom would love!

  1. Judy B swim wear = I love the quality, the fit and that this company is woman owned and made in the USA.  I adore the long sleeve one piece (Jet) for paddle boarding and water sports! Perfect gift for mom’s that love Summer & water!
  2. Massage= A 1 hour massage is just what a busy mom needs! Relaxing and time just for herself. If she has a favorite spa get her a gift certificate there. If she doesn’t have a favorite spa, google ones in your area and look up there ratings. My Favorite is New image.
  3. Candle= My personal favorite is Capri Blue, volcano scent! the scent is to die for and smells up your whole home. great price point $29.99-36.99 and burns for 80 hours!
  4. I Watch by Apple= I have been trying to decide if I want the Apple watch or to get a new fit bit! I have been trying hard to stay on top of my work outs and calorie intake! starts at $269 Would make a great gift for a work out mama! I like the rose gold! Mother’s day sale happening with link!
  5. Fit bit= Decisions Decisions…Starts at $129.95 (having a big Sale in the link provided)
  6. Athleta work out pants= Stripe Chaturang capri work out pant $64 What mom that works out doesn’t want new work out gear?  
  7. Tassel clutch= Tassel’s are all the rage and resort looking bags are a huge hit this Summer! This cutie is affordable and so fun $22.99 I have had my on a few and they’ve been over $150 ouch!
  8. Lipstick= I don’t know a lady that doesn’t love a fabulous lipstick! This one is pure luxury from its beautiful case and smooth buttery glide your mom will enjoy the splurge! $37 note color shown is Rouge Volupte shine #44  NOTE: Free engraving on this site!   How fun to give mom a lip stick that is engraved with a special saying or her monogram!
  9. Pinata Tassel earrings= one of the biggest trend this year! statement earrings and tassel’s $36
  10. Blow out= Give your mom a Blow out from her favorite hair dresser or Blow our bar! My personal Fav is Dry Bar! We don’t have one in Utah but I still ask for gift certificates to them because when I am in a town that has one, I run there!
  11. Minky Couture Blanket= This isn’t just any blanket! This is the BEST blanket and softest blanket you’ll ever own! Once you’ve had a Minky you’ll never want another blanket to touch your skin! Every member of my family has one! (yes…the boy’s too!) I love the monster size or adult $85-125  I have a 45% off code for you BESSTYET45….So hurry and go grab one!
  12. Designskin leather phone cases= I am in love with the quality and function of these great cell phone case! make a great gift $29-62 I have a 30% off code for you to use until 5/14/17 use code= DARCY030

How did you like my Top 12 pick’s for Mother’s day? Let me know by leaving a comment below! OX, D’Arcy

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Cinco de Mayo= Friday Bar cart

Cinco de Mayo barcart styling

Cinco de Mayo barcart styling

Cinco de Mayo barcart styling

Cinco de Mayo barcart styling

Cinco de Mayo barcart styling

Cinco de Mayo barcart styling

Cinco de Mayo barcart styling

Cinco de Mayo barcart styling

Cinco de Mayo barcart styling

colorful flags for  Mexican date night

Cinco de Mayo bar cart styling! 

I don’t know about you but this California girl loves Mexican food! By now you know I love styling my bar cart for parties and social hours!  So having Cinco de Mayo on a Friday was pretty exciting to me! (I know doesn’t take a lot to get me excited for a party!) 

I drew my Inspiration from this photo above while on a photo shoot a couple weeks ago! I loved the bright colors of the paper flags and knew I had to mimic for my Friday Cinco de Mayo bar cart! Bright colors Margaritas and chips & salsa….Well and Maybe a shot of tequila! Is whats on our cart for tonight!  We’ll be serving nachos and a taco bar as well and I am so hungry I can’t wait!

Have you tried Skinny Girl mixers? Yummy, pour or Ice add a shot and a twist of lime! Super easy and great on the calories! YAY!

If you have any questions on the above items or on How to style your Bar Cart comment below and I’ll be happy to help! Otherwise Look for next weeks Mother’s Day cart….

Have a wonderful weekend! Ox, D’Arcy

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Don’t be discouraged by closed doors!

 

Mikarose stripe jersey dress, vogue Sunglasses, red door outfit

Mikarose stripe jersey dress, vogue Sunglasses, red door outfit

Mikarose stripe jersey dress, vogue Sunglasses, red door outfit

Lila Dress  , shoe converse, sun glasses Nordstrom Sold out

Don’t be discouraged by closed doors!  

Today I am sharing with you some of my belief’s and little “pep talk’s” I give myself when a door closes or discouragement set in.

We all have goal’s and dreams and some times things just don’t go as we planned. Getting discouraged is really easy!  I have had many doors close on me in my life that I just wanted to Prior OPEN!!! As I have gotten older I have learned to trust God. YES FAITH!  “dare to BELIEVE” and the Right doors OPEN… The doors God has in store for you! Sometimes it’s not in our timing but in his!  When I learned to trust God and Pray, Pray a lot! I noticed I didn’t get discouraged or disappointed when a door closed or even SLAMMED into my face! I realized something better was coming. (Now don’t stop trying and working towards those goal it’s not going to just get handed to you!) I believe a closed door is God’s way of protecting you from taking the wrong path…A bigger and better door will OPEN!

Walt Disney was turned down by 300 banks before he got a loan to build Disneyland! Now…I don’t know if Walt believed in God but I do know he had FAITH in himself  and determination to Build his dream! He did not give up! He had many doors close but finally the one he needed OPENED!

God has BIG plans for you trust him to guide you through the right doors. Remember God puts people in your life or in your path to help you! It’s ok not to do everything yourself. Draw strength from each other. “When we come together in faith, Great things happen!” I have to tell this to myself all the time!  I am a control freak and want things done correct or My way….So I end up doing it ALL by myself to be assured it’s DONE and done correct!  Draw strength from each other it’s ok to let go sometimes!

When we come together in faith, great things happen! 

Sometimes the reminder of reaching your Highest Potential is Put God first and allow the people he puts in your path to help you to OPEN more doors! 

Trust in yourself, BELIEVE in yourself, work hard, follow your dreams and let God be your guide…Your doors will OPEN! 

Become who God created you to be….

May you have many doors OPEN! OX,  D’Arcy

 

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D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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Day 5 Road tripping 🚗🌵🌺☀️🌸🍋‍🟩🌶️🏜️ Desserts & Pool Day 5

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Desserts & Pool Trip
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Palm Springs, California 🌴🌴🌴

-Started day with a bike ride🚲
-Day at the Pool 🌊
-late lunch Early dinner at Norma’s (A must for Brunch-lunch or  dinner everything is always so good! There Cinnamon donuts and lemon curd & whipped cream is so good 🍋🍩
-You can’t go to Palm Springs and not go shopping 🛍️ The Gardens on El Paseo located in PALM Desert 🌴
-Best spicy Margarita on the trip so Far  on El Paseo @ 
-Ended the evening visiting my Bestie Danielle with a 4 hour chat at her potential new desert home🌴❤️

We’ve been going to Palm Springs for over 35 years, it’s one of our favorite places🌴 If you have any questions or need recommendations dm me. 

Stay tuned for tomorrows PS adventures 🌴

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Road Trip🚗 Day 4 Itinerary 🌴☀️🌺🌵🌸🌊 Driving to P Road Trip🚗

Day 4 Itinerary 
🌴☀️🌺🌵🌸🌊

Driving to Palm Springs, Ca. 
4 hours from Mesa, Az

—Walked the grounds 🌴🌺🌊
To stretch and move our body after drive. So beautiful and perfect weather.
(We left early in Am to enjoy a full day PS

-Headed for a full day at the Pool 🌴☀️

-Got ready and headed to one of our favorite “locals favorite”  Mexican restaurants @m  so yummy and of course I had to have a margarita 🪇🌶️

(I realized I forgot to get a photo of what I wore to dinner and to the street fair)  I am a horrible influencer 😉😂
I wore a strapless linen sundress and slide sandals✔️

-Palm Springs  downtown stree fair, takes up the whole historic down town, with handmade crafts, food trucks, locally grown items, music, art, clothing and entertainment . We’ve been going for years and  it’s a fun evening.
(Parking can be tough, uber or go early )

Ben searches out his favorite Gelato guy, every year.. he says he makes the BEST coffee gelato 🍦🍨

🌴Have you been to Palm Springs?
What one of your favorite things?

This weekend they are celebrating 100 years of Marilyn Monroe…. 

☀️🌸What I wore o  today and everything to date is linked on my Liketoknowit 

#palmspringslife #palmspringsstyle #roadtripping #couplegoals❤️ #midlifestyle
—Margarita Time— Ward off evil😂😂😂 Love that Salt —Margarita Time—

Ward off evil😂😂😂

Love that Salted rim🍸🌶️🍋‍🟩🌵🪇🌴

Do you love a good margarita? Are you a on the rocks  or blended girl ?

Fruity or Spicy girl?
Top shelf tequila or doesn’t matter?

Salted-Sugar or Taheen rim?

I am a top shelf, spicy margarita on the rocks with Salt girl… and I like jalapeño and blackberry’s as a garnish 🌶️🍋‍🟩

#spicymargarita #midlifestyle #mexicanfoodlover #cocktaillovers
Day 3 Road Tripping Itinerary 🚗🌵🌴☀️🏜️ Our Last d Day 3 Road Tripping  Itinerary 🚗🌵🌴☀️🏜️

Our Last day and evening in Mesa,Az before heading to Palm Springs, Ca.

We started out with grabbing a coffee & a little walk, then heading to the pool. Our goal this trip was relaxing in the sun ☀️ poolside☀️🌴While enjoying a little late afternoon early evening easy entertaining and good food…

Late afternoon we headed out to the golf course & then later to go on a garden walk and check out a couple local nurseries, before heading to dinner . 

I love to see what grows in that area and learn a little. Plus it’s always beautiful 🌵🌺🌸🌵Did you know a good size catus is $2,000-5,000 and a decent size Palm tree starts at $7,500 to $15,000 and that was the sale prices.

We had a yummy Italian dinner at @pizzicatausa over looks  the painted mountain golf course. 

 Then we went on an evening stroll at the golf course found a bench by the pond and had a cocktail to watch the sun set🌅🌵🍷
Perfect way to end the day ✔️

If you’re looking for an easy & Relaxing  day, this is a perfect itinerary 

Tomorrow morning we’re Off to Palm Springs, Ca. A 4 hour drive from Mesa.Az. 🌴🌺🚗☀️

Do you like a road trip to be leisurely or to pack in a tone of things to do?

#roadtripvibes #midlifejourney #couplevacation #couplegoals❤️
Travel Style over 50 Day 2 Road Trip Mesa, Az ~A Travel Style over 50

Day 2 Road Trip
Mesa, Az

~A much need Relaxing Day at the pool
🌵⛱️☀️🌊
~Then off For a late Lunch, Early Dinner
Found a historic Mexican Restaurant (ok, but not Fabulous) The architecture and grounds were cool🇲🇽🌮🪇🍸

~ Headed to Mesa’s Historic Main st for a little shopping, Mural & Architecture spotting, Local brewery, cool vintage shops, music, book stores, and a fun candy store. 

Stay tuned for another Day “3 “in Mesa…
Then off to Palm Springs,Ca.

Have you been to Mesa, Az? What’s one of the things you did or recommend?

#arizonaadventures #roadtripvibes #styleover50 #midlifestyle #couplevacation
Travel Style over 50 🚗Road Trip Day 1 Itinerary🗻🌲 Travel Style over 50

🚗Road Trip Day 1 Itinerary🗻🌲🏔️🌵🏜️

Hubby and I are on a 7 day Road Trip 3 states 4 states from mountains to desserts… chasing sun and pool time …

Follow along… for our shenanigans, stops and daily itinerary ➡️ Slide for 
Day one… 10 hour drive… with stops along the way for a total 14 hour scenic day.

Beautiful drive- Fun stops, sights and yummy early dinner in historic downtown, Flagstaff. 

Outfit comment “shop” comfortable and chic! Perfect for travel✔️

Do you like a road trip and look for scenic and fun places to stop eat and shop along the way?

#roadtripready #summervacay #couplegeteaway #over50women
Pattern play: over 50 Let’s style Gingham- Cow pr Pattern play: over 50

Let’s style Gingham- Cow print and a little horse shoes✔️✔️✔️

Affordable pieces you can have a little fun with✔️✔️✔️

Fashion over 40 doesn’t have to be boring or predictable! Play and have fun!

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—Memorial Day— 🇺🇸Freedom didn’t come Free, may we —Memorial Day—

🇺🇸Freedom didn’t come Free, may we remember those who paid the ultimate price🤍🙏🏻

Thank you to all 
That are serving this country and to those who have paid the ultimate sacrifices for our freedoms 🤍🙏🏻

Sharing 19 Red❤️ White🤍 and blue💙 outfit inspirations you could wear ALL SUMMER Long🤍🍒💙
🇺🇸American Summer🇺🇸

Patriotic colors don’t have to be just for Memorial Day, 4th of July and Patriotic Days. 

You can mix and match and wear for all of Summer Social Season🍒

BBQ’s, Picnics, fairs, farmers Markets, coffee & lunch dates, art festivals, beach board walks, dinner dates, parades, and concerts ✔️

See my Patriotic Outfit inspiration board with all the shopping details & sales ❤️

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—American Summer— ———Loading——— ❤️🇺🇸💙 The Kick of —American Summer—
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❤️🇺🇸💙
The Kick off to Summer
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Welcome to our home and a peek into the content I share ❤️

Lifestyle-Fashion—Recipes—Home—Garden—- Travel —-Life—Beauty

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New SPANX air essentials… If you know me, then yo New SPANX air essentials…

If you know me, then you know I LOVe Air essential pieces by SPANX’s.
Buttery soft fabric NObODY can compare… others try but it’s just not the same…
- pieces perfect for travel, easy to wear for lounging and running errands but chic enough to dress up a bit…

The New Button up and pull on shorts, come in 5 colors and although sold separately they make a great set. 

Wear with sandals or sneakers 

I took this Tan set and accessorized it to feel a little more Patriotic for Memorial Day without screaming red white and blue.💙❤️🇺🇸

I’ve got this packed for our Road trip 

Watch to the end to see how I style it up

Save 15% off with my code on Spanx non sale items code: Deardarcyxspanx 

Spanx is having a 30%  off select items SALE 

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#spanx #spanxsale #airessentials #midlifewomen
—Ralph Lauren — Inspired Summer If American coas —Ralph Lauren —
Inspired Summer 

If American coastal summer vibes is your vibe… let’s be friends

Mixing a few saves and splurges to create this look…. 

Can you believe these Tuckernuck vibe gingham ruffled hem pants are under $29

Ralph Lauren flag sweater

Denim chambray short sleeve button up

Miller red sandals - Straw tote- Straw hat
Gold hoops - Shell  necklace

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#ralphlaurensummer #americansummer #flagsweater #gingham
I am 54 and this is how I am styling Bermuda short I am 54 and this is how I am styling Bermuda shorts for Spring and Summer !

2 Basics but not basic looking….
Take your Short game up a notch with these couple easy tricks ✔️

Do you like wearing shorts or dresses in the summer? Tell me below ⬇️

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#midlifestyle #over50women #summershorts
Calling…. All “Coastal Grandmothers” The White la Calling….

All “Coastal Grandmothers”
The White lace dress you’ll wear ALL Summer  LONG🌊🐚🦞🌸

I am a 54 year old boy mom and COCO, who loves all things Nancy Meyers, Ralph Lauren, Ina Garten and Martha Stewart …

 Whether you love an American Summers🇺🇸, East coast Summers, Visiting Napa or Traveling Europe… You’ll love this White lace Dress with balloon sleeves, pockets and tied waste.

Perfect dressed  casual or dressed up. 

No matter your age… Coastal Grandmother is a “vibe”  is it yours?

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Creating 3 Outfits with Trending shoes for Spring Creating 3 Outfits with Trending shoes for Spring and. Summer 🌱

—-Easy Spirit—-
Is know for comfort and Cushioned shoes that you can wear all day for work or play..

Meet the NEW Girls that also Have Style and are trending this Season.

~ Rosario- is a Small flower detail in Raffia with a block heel, amazing cushion and comes in 3 on trend colors for Spring. Featured her is what I call Pastachio green (light green)

~ Hetty is a slingback pointed toe Dress pump with kitten heel and a horse bit detail in brown trim and raffia.

~VANA Slip on Raffia Slide with horsebit & Leather detail… 

3 pairs of shoes that will work with all of your Spring & Summer outfits from work to play✔️✔️✔️

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#easyspirit #trendingshoes #midlifestyle
-6 Looks you’ll Wear All Summer- Is an American S -6 Looks you’ll Wear All Summer-

Is an American Summer 🇺🇸❤️Calling you?

6 outfits just in time for Memorial Day 🇺🇸Inspo you’ll wear all Summer.

Wardrobe Basics, you can mix and match, Neutrals you can add a POP of color too and Red White and blue that give you a “classic” Ralph Lauren vibe that feels like an Old American Summer🇺🇸❤️

Make sure to slide ➡️ through all 8 photos for Tips, inspiration and styling you might not of though about🇺🇸❤️

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Melanoma Cancer Journey —Part 6— —2nd Laser surge Melanoma Cancer Journey
—Part 6—

—2nd Laser surgery &  Update—

➡️Slide through 6 slides ➡️
To view process

 6 weeks  after my First laser treatment round 2 co2  deep core laser treatment.

I was diagnosed in December, Surgery in January and my first laser in February.

I’ve been sharing this Journey in hopes to help encourage you to make a skin check up appointment. 

Melanoma Cancer is deadly and very different from Skin Cancer.

Melanoma cancer is deadly,  early detection is key, before it can spread to lymph nodes, organs, &  blood. 

If your new here or just seeing this post, I have 5 other parts with all the info and my Journey to date in Feed and stores saved to highlights with more info.

Thank you for all the kind messages, comments and prayers! I appreciate you being apart of my tribe.

Thank you and NOW make your Skin Appointment! 

May is Skin cancer awareness month and it’s so important to get your skin checked!

I am happy to answer any questions in Dm

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🚨Come back next week to view the update and see what the laser did 

#skincancerawareness #melanoma #melanomacancer #facialscar
The perfect Thing to do with the girls👠 Brunch an The perfect Thing to do with the girls👠

Brunch and then head to see Devil wears Prada 👠🍿🎬

A few mimosas might have been drank🍾🥂😉

What I wore:
-Gold button detail scuba blazer
-Pleated skorts 
-A fun high heel graphic tee by @madisonmaison 
-Rock stud pumps and clutch
-Bold Gold Jewelry

More details over on my LTk or message me.

I have to say.. Mother’s Day weekend was great… started the day out with Cammi @cammishappyplace to shop Vintage market days and end the night with Mexican food at one of our favorite places.

Saturday- off with the girls for brunch and a movie… ended the night at the garden shop (yes in 👠 heels) 

Sunday- Church and then Brunch with the family and then evening in the garden with my hubby🛍️🥂👠🍽️🎬🪏🪴🏡

 Couldn’t ask for a better way to spend it✔️

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#midlifestyle #devilwearsprada2 #girlsdayout💕
4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation 4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation that will make packing a breeze✔️

From Brunch to poolside, sightseeing to Dinner I’ve got you covered… along with easy packing ✈️🚗🚕🧳

As a 54 year old who loves a good matching set for travel, as it truly does make packing a breeze… You’ll love the quality,fit and style of these 4 sets…

Which one is your favorite 1-2-3-4?

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My Amazon Finds 9 Entertaining items I can’t thr My Amazon Finds 

9 Entertaining items I can’t throw a
party without

That make Entertaining Easy

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⚠️Slide. #10 is a MUST HAVE
And Slide #2 is a savior 

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#homeparties #homeentertaining #midlifestyle
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& gold flower clutch 

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