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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Walking into Monday with #girlboss Attitude!

#Girlboss Attitude! Got work to do and gonna get it done kinda of attitude!! My Monday’s are normally jammed packed with to do list for the work week and TODAY this Dress is gonna help me start the week off Right!

Loving this Dress you can work and play in…The Bella pencil dress is affordable at $43.99! I love you can dress it up here like I did for Work or like shown below for play!  Layering with a my Favorite denim jacket in the perfect spring weight gives it a touch of edge. I love a great denim jacket it’s a must have closet staple you’ll wear over and over!

 Enjoy Your Monday Babe’s and hope you all work it like a Girlboss! OX D’Arcy

Make this dress for Play, add shirt around waist, converse and a fun necklace!

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Saturday Style (series 2) Spring Trends

Happy Saturday!  

Good morning! Today I am sharing with you Series 2 of my 15 Spring Trends! If your just starting to read, Last week I introduced 15 top Spring trends and I am breaking them down every Saturday in the Month of March.  Today I am featuring the Floral/Romantic prints, a touch of the Boyfriend jean and the Off the shoulder top! 

Here we have My personal Favorite brand of jeans Kut from the Kloths Catherine boyfriend which has been a Big spring trend for a couple of years and I love it! Easy to wear, goes with every shoe from flip flops, sneakers,and high heel’s!  Talking about shoe’s these cuties Are by Just Fab and hit the floral trend Perfect! (Similar ones here just fab  )

The Off the shoulder Trend is one of my favorite trends and I am always happy when it makes its way back into the scene! The bow detail of the chambray cutie just makes this top!    Booties by Steve Madden, Bag by Louis Vuitton, Jeans, Top at Chic Style, Glasses 

 

Touching again on the floral/Romantic print… This sheer top is perfect for Spring with its pretty pattern, fun colors and romantic details it works great with skinny jeans! I feel it’s good balance to have tight jeans with a loose fitting top! You can get a look similar to  this look  here pants  here for top, Bag! 

I hope you have a wonderful weekend! OX D’Arcy

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Hair wand Tips

Do YOU have stick straight hair that does NOT HOLD a curl? ME too! My hair is silky straight and as a kid the only way I could have curly hair was to sleep in sponge roller’s! (remember those?) I even tried a perm and….that didn’t even take!  So you can imagine how excited I was when I learned about Nume’ wands. Professional curling wands made of 100% tourmaline ceramic and heats up to 410 degrees. The high heat adds a curl that last ALL day and even into the next day without damaging my hair. ( I do only use 1-2 times a week)  These wands are expensive but are worth it for the results they give. The Price range is from $139-169 but I found a code for you to use to SAVE 35% FALL35 off everything online www.numeusa.com (in NO way is this sponsored)   I own 3 wands and these are the results below from each wand… I use the 25 mm the most! Each wand come with a glove and a tip sheet and you can pick you color.

25mm Curling wand by Nume’

 

 

32mm Classic Wand by Nume’

Pearl curling wand by Nume’

This Pearl wand is great for a super curly pony tail & up do!

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Giveaway is from 2/27/17 to 3/20/17, Has NO cash value, must follow ALL of the above rules (we will be checking) Is no way sponsored by NUME’. Winner will be chosen by random and announced Here on 3/21/17    GOOD LUCK

Hope you enjoyed Tuesday Tip Day and Enter My giveaway!

OX D’Arcy

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Let the Party Begin

This Past weekend we celebrated our 21st Wedding anniversary. We celebrated over the weekend with a little mini getaway. Friday night dinner at our Favorite restaurant Twigs and a night in a Hotel with Saturday brunch followed by a Full spa day 5 1/2 hours of pure pampering it was delightful!  Saturday night We had A Las Vegas themed Party to attend so it was a full weekend of DRESS Up! I thought I would share with you the two dress up outfits I wore. Hoping you get inspired for the next time you have a fun cocktail party or Special occasion.

Look 1 was for the Las Vegas Party! I went with a look perfect for a cocktail party.  I love how the Sparkle neckline folds under the flowy front drape.  Dress by, Adrianna Papeli (Nordstrom) Shoes Badgley Mischka (Nordstrom)

My Accessories for outfit 1 A black sequin bag (old)  Earrings (Nordstrom) ring and Rhinestone bracelet (chic Style boutique) Mixed pearls and hematite bracelet ( by Zenzii jewelry)

Outfit 2 = Dinner and drinks with my man! I went with a sexy and chic little black dress by Norma Kamali (Nordstrom) I love that you can dress this up even more or even wear it as a tunic!  Boots (Colin Stuart) Pairing this with gold accessories gives it a CHIC feel instead of wearing bling, which would give it a dressier feel!

Gold accessories= Love ( Color by Amber) Gold bangle & lion bracelet (Zenzii)  Amber & gold stone bracelet ( C.Wonder) Gold hoops (Chic Style) Gold Ring ( Cartier) Bag Louis Vuitton

 

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D’Arcy

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Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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Day 5 Road tripping 🚗🌵🌺☀️🌸🍋‍🟩🌶️🏜️ Desserts & Pool Day 5

Road tripping 🚗🌵🌺☀️🌸🍋‍🟩🌶️🏜️
Desserts & Pool Trip
4 States

Palm Springs, California 🌴🌴🌴

-Started day with a bike ride🚲
-Day at the Pool 🌊
-late lunch Early dinner at Norma’s (A must for Brunch-lunch or  dinner everything is always so good! There Cinnamon donuts and lemon curd & whipped cream is so good 🍋🍩
-You can’t go to Palm Springs and not go shopping 🛍️ The Gardens on El Paseo located in PALM Desert 🌴
-Best spicy Margarita on the trip so Far  on El Paseo @ 
-Ended the evening visiting my Bestie Danielle with a 4 hour chat at her potential new desert home🌴❤️

We’ve been going to Palm Springs for over 35 years, it’s one of our favorite places🌴 If you have any questions or need recommendations dm me. 

Stay tuned for tomorrows PS adventures 🌴

My outfits are linked over on Liketoknowit or comment shop and I’ll send you the links to shop🛍️

#palmspringsstyle #roadtopro #midlife #midlifestyle
Road Trip🚗 Day 4 Itinerary 🌴☀️🌺🌵🌸🌊 Driving to P Road Trip🚗

Day 4 Itinerary 
🌴☀️🌺🌵🌸🌊

Driving to Palm Springs, Ca. 
4 hours from Mesa, Az

—Walked the grounds 🌴🌺🌊
To stretch and move our body after drive. So beautiful and perfect weather.
(We left early in Am to enjoy a full day PS

-Headed for a full day at the Pool 🌴☀️

-Got ready and headed to one of our favorite “locals favorite”  Mexican restaurants @m  so yummy and of course I had to have a margarita 🪇🌶️

(I realized I forgot to get a photo of what I wore to dinner and to the street fair)  I am a horrible influencer 😉😂
I wore a strapless linen sundress and slide sandals✔️

-Palm Springs  downtown stree fair, takes up the whole historic down town, with handmade crafts, food trucks, locally grown items, music, art, clothing and entertainment . We’ve been going for years and  it’s a fun evening.
(Parking can be tough, uber or go early )

Ben searches out his favorite Gelato guy, every year.. he says he makes the BEST coffee gelato 🍦🍨

🌴Have you been to Palm Springs?
What one of your favorite things?

This weekend they are celebrating 100 years of Marilyn Monroe…. 

☀️🌸What I wore o  today and everything to date is linked on my Liketoknowit 

#palmspringslife #palmspringsstyle #roadtripping #couplegoals❤️ #midlifestyle
—Margarita Time— Ward off evil😂😂😂 Love that Salt —Margarita Time—

Ward off evil😂😂😂

Love that Salted rim🍸🌶️🍋‍🟩🌵🪇🌴

Do you love a good margarita? Are you a on the rocks  or blended girl ?

Fruity or Spicy girl?
Top shelf tequila or doesn’t matter?

Salted-Sugar or Taheen rim?

I am a top shelf, spicy margarita on the rocks with Salt girl… and I like jalapeño and blackberry’s as a garnish 🌶️🍋‍🟩

#spicymargarita #midlifestyle #mexicanfoodlover #cocktaillovers
Day 3 Road Tripping Itinerary 🚗🌵🌴☀️🏜️ Our Last d Day 3 Road Tripping  Itinerary 🚗🌵🌴☀️🏜️

Our Last day and evening in Mesa,Az before heading to Palm Springs, Ca.

We started out with grabbing a coffee & a little walk, then heading to the pool. Our goal this trip was relaxing in the sun ☀️ poolside☀️🌴While enjoying a little late afternoon early evening easy entertaining and good food…

Late afternoon we headed out to the golf course & then later to go on a garden walk and check out a couple local nurseries, before heading to dinner . 

I love to see what grows in that area and learn a little. Plus it’s always beautiful 🌵🌺🌸🌵Did you know a good size catus is $2,000-5,000 and a decent size Palm tree starts at $7,500 to $15,000 and that was the sale prices.

We had a yummy Italian dinner at @pizzicatausa over looks  the painted mountain golf course. 

 Then we went on an evening stroll at the golf course found a bench by the pond and had a cocktail to watch the sun set🌅🌵🍷
Perfect way to end the day ✔️

If you’re looking for an easy & Relaxing  day, this is a perfect itinerary 

Tomorrow morning we’re Off to Palm Springs, Ca. A 4 hour drive from Mesa.Az. 🌴🌺🚗☀️

Do you like a road trip to be leisurely or to pack in a tone of things to do?

#roadtripvibes #midlifejourney #couplevacation #couplegoals❤️
Travel Style over 50 Day 2 Road Trip Mesa, Az ~A Travel Style over 50

Day 2 Road Trip
Mesa, Az

~A much need Relaxing Day at the pool
🌵⛱️☀️🌊
~Then off For a late Lunch, Early Dinner
Found a historic Mexican Restaurant (ok, but not Fabulous) The architecture and grounds were cool🇲🇽🌮🪇🍸

~ Headed to Mesa’s Historic Main st for a little shopping, Mural & Architecture spotting, Local brewery, cool vintage shops, music, book stores, and a fun candy store. 

Stay tuned for another Day “3 “in Mesa…
Then off to Palm Springs,Ca.

Have you been to Mesa, Az? What’s one of the things you did or recommend?

#arizonaadventures #roadtripvibes #styleover50 #midlifestyle #couplevacation
Travel Style over 50 🚗Road Trip Day 1 Itinerary🗻🌲 Travel Style over 50

🚗Road Trip Day 1 Itinerary🗻🌲🏔️🌵🏜️

Hubby and I are on a 7 day Road Trip 3 states 4 states from mountains to desserts… chasing sun and pool time …

Follow along… for our shenanigans, stops and daily itinerary ➡️ Slide for 
Day one… 10 hour drive… with stops along the way for a total 14 hour scenic day.

Beautiful drive- Fun stops, sights and yummy early dinner in historic downtown, Flagstaff. 

Outfit comment “shop” comfortable and chic! Perfect for travel✔️

Do you like a road trip and look for scenic and fun places to stop eat and shop along the way?

#roadtripready #summervacay #couplegeteaway #over50women
Pattern play: over 50 Let’s style Gingham- Cow pr Pattern play: over 50

Let’s style Gingham- Cow print and a little horse shoes✔️✔️✔️

Affordable pieces you can have a little fun with✔️✔️✔️

Fashion over 40 doesn’t have to be boring or predictable! Play and have fun!

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#gingham #fashionover50 #patternplanetme
—Memorial Day— 🇺🇸Freedom didn’t come Free, may we —Memorial Day—

🇺🇸Freedom didn’t come Free, may we remember those who paid the ultimate price🤍🙏🏻

Thank you to all 
That are serving this country and to those who have paid the ultimate sacrifices for our freedoms 🤍🙏🏻

Sharing 19 Red❤️ White🤍 and blue💙 outfit inspirations you could wear ALL SUMMER Long🤍🍒💙
🇺🇸American Summer🇺🇸

Patriotic colors don’t have to be just for Memorial Day, 4th of July and Patriotic Days. 

You can mix and match and wear for all of Summer Social Season🍒

BBQ’s, Picnics, fairs, farmers Markets, coffee & lunch dates, art festivals, beach board walks, dinner dates, parades, and concerts ✔️

See my Patriotic Outfit inspiration board with all the shopping details & sales ❤️

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—American Summer— ———Loading——— ❤️🇺🇸💙 The Kick of —American Summer—
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❤️🇺🇸💙
The Kick off to Summer
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Welcome to our home and a peek into the content I share ❤️

Lifestyle-Fashion—Recipes—Home—Garden—- Travel —-Life—Beauty

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#americansummer #midlifestyle #lifestyleinfluencer #midlifewomen
New SPANX air essentials… If you know me, then yo New SPANX air essentials…

If you know me, then you know I LOVe Air essential pieces by SPANX’s.
Buttery soft fabric NObODY can compare… others try but it’s just not the same…
- pieces perfect for travel, easy to wear for lounging and running errands but chic enough to dress up a bit…

The New Button up and pull on shorts, come in 5 colors and although sold separately they make a great set. 

Wear with sandals or sneakers 

I took this Tan set and accessorized it to feel a little more Patriotic for Memorial Day without screaming red white and blue.💙❤️🇺🇸

I’ve got this packed for our Road trip 

Watch to the end to see how I style it up

Save 15% off with my code on Spanx non sale items code: Deardarcyxspanx 

Spanx is having a 30%  off select items SALE 

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#spanx #spanxsale #airessentials #midlifewomen
—Ralph Lauren — Inspired Summer If American coas —Ralph Lauren —
Inspired Summer 

If American coastal summer vibes is your vibe… let’s be friends

Mixing a few saves and splurges to create this look…. 

Can you believe these Tuckernuck vibe gingham ruffled hem pants are under $29

Ralph Lauren flag sweater

Denim chambray short sleeve button up

Miller red sandals - Straw tote- Straw hat
Gold hoops - Shell  necklace

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I am 54 and this is how I am styling Bermuda short I am 54 and this is how I am styling Bermuda shorts for Spring and Summer !

2 Basics but not basic looking….
Take your Short game up a notch with these couple easy tricks ✔️

Do you like wearing shorts or dresses in the summer? Tell me below ⬇️

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Calling…. All “Coastal Grandmothers” The White la Calling….

All “Coastal Grandmothers”
The White lace dress you’ll wear ALL Summer  LONG🌊🐚🦞🌸

I am a 54 year old boy mom and COCO, who loves all things Nancy Meyers, Ralph Lauren, Ina Garten and Martha Stewart …

 Whether you love an American Summers🇺🇸, East coast Summers, Visiting Napa or Traveling Europe… You’ll love this White lace Dress with balloon sleeves, pockets and tied waste.

Perfect dressed  casual or dressed up. 

No matter your age… Coastal Grandmother is a “vibe”  is it yours?

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Creating 3 Outfits with Trending shoes for Spring Creating 3 Outfits with Trending shoes for Spring and. Summer 🌱

—-Easy Spirit—-
Is know for comfort and Cushioned shoes that you can wear all day for work or play..

Meet the NEW Girls that also Have Style and are trending this Season.

~ Rosario- is a Small flower detail in Raffia with a block heel, amazing cushion and comes in 3 on trend colors for Spring. Featured her is what I call Pastachio green (light green)

~ Hetty is a slingback pointed toe Dress pump with kitten heel and a horse bit detail in brown trim and raffia.

~VANA Slip on Raffia Slide with horsebit & Leather detail… 

3 pairs of shoes that will work with all of your Spring & Summer outfits from work to play✔️✔️✔️

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#easyspirit #trendingshoes #midlifestyle
-6 Looks you’ll Wear All Summer- Is an American S -6 Looks you’ll Wear All Summer-

Is an American Summer 🇺🇸❤️Calling you?

6 outfits just in time for Memorial Day 🇺🇸Inspo you’ll wear all Summer.

Wardrobe Basics, you can mix and match, Neutrals you can add a POP of color too and Red White and blue that give you a “classic” Ralph Lauren vibe that feels like an Old American Summer🇺🇸❤️

Make sure to slide ➡️ through all 8 photos for Tips, inspiration and styling you might not of though about🇺🇸❤️

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Melanoma Cancer Journey —Part 6— —2nd Laser surge Melanoma Cancer Journey
—Part 6—

—2nd Laser surgery &  Update—

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To view process

 6 weeks  after my First laser treatment round 2 co2  deep core laser treatment.

I was diagnosed in December, Surgery in January and my first laser in February.

I’ve been sharing this Journey in hopes to help encourage you to make a skin check up appointment. 

Melanoma Cancer is deadly and very different from Skin Cancer.

Melanoma cancer is deadly,  early detection is key, before it can spread to lymph nodes, organs, &  blood. 

If your new here or just seeing this post, I have 5 other parts with all the info and my Journey to date in Feed and stores saved to highlights with more info.

Thank you for all the kind messages, comments and prayers! I appreciate you being apart of my tribe.

Thank you and NOW make your Skin Appointment! 

May is Skin cancer awareness month and it’s so important to get your skin checked!

I am happy to answer any questions in Dm

⚠️ Share with someone you care about✔️

🚨Come back next week to view the update and see what the laser did 

#skincancerawareness #melanoma #melanomacancer #facialscar
The perfect Thing to do with the girls👠 Brunch an The perfect Thing to do with the girls👠

Brunch and then head to see Devil wears Prada 👠🍿🎬

A few mimosas might have been drank🍾🥂😉

What I wore:
-Gold button detail scuba blazer
-Pleated skorts 
-A fun high heel graphic tee by @madisonmaison 
-Rock stud pumps and clutch
-Bold Gold Jewelry

More details over on my LTk or message me.

I have to say.. Mother’s Day weekend was great… started the day out with Cammi @cammishappyplace to shop Vintage market days and end the night with Mexican food at one of our favorite places.

Saturday- off with the girls for brunch and a movie… ended the night at the garden shop (yes in 👠 heels) 

Sunday- Church and then Brunch with the family and then evening in the garden with my hubby🛍️🥂👠🍽️🎬🪏🪴🏡

 Couldn’t ask for a better way to spend it✔️

Have you seen Devil Wears Prada?👠🎬Did you enjoy it? Tell me below⬇️ 

#midlifestyle #devilwearsprada2 #girlsdayout💕
4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation 4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation that will make packing a breeze✔️

From Brunch to poolside, sightseeing to Dinner I’ve got you covered… along with easy packing ✈️🚗🚕🧳

As a 54 year old who loves a good matching set for travel, as it truly does make packing a breeze… You’ll love the quality,fit and style of these 4 sets…

Which one is your favorite 1-2-3-4?

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My Amazon Finds 9 Entertaining items I can’t thr My Amazon Finds 

9 Entertaining items I can’t throw a
party without

That make Entertaining Easy

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⚠️Slide. #10 is a MUST HAVE
And Slide #2 is a savior 

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