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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


5 Way’s to wear Camo pants

fur vest and camo pants

Fur vest and camo pants

Dressed up camo pants

pattern & texture mix

pattern mix outfit

Pattern mix Spring outfit

sorel boots

Casual look

casual look

Hello Beautiful’s,

Today I want to share a couple of fun tips with you!

Styling a pair of Camo pant’s 5 ways and different looks you can achieve with Camo pant’s, from casual to dressy. I love it when you can get different looks from one piece of clothing and I often tell my clients to think of more then one way to wear a piece of clothing before they purchase it. This really does help with over purchasing and finding piece you’ll get a lot of use out of.

Tips to camo….. First off you don’t have to stick to its Olive & black color theme.  In the first photo I did a playful outfit with a colorful fur vest! (that $8 deal I told you about in instastory!) The trick to this look is I anchored the bold vest with neutral black turtleneck and boots. The other tip is the vest had 2 of the colors in it as the camo, olive and black! This helps 2 patterns to play together. 

2nd outfit giving camo pants a dressier feel! Camo has a bit of a casual and weekend feel, but you can dress it up like I did here with pairing it with a chic black leather jacket, black turtle neck or sweater, and fun accessories and classic shoes.

3rd outfit is a great Winter weekend or casual outfit. Stripes with camo works when the stripe is bolder and has 1 color of the camo in it. In this case it’s a bold Black stripe. Paired with Winter accessories this gives a fun and playful vibe.

4th outfit is a fun way to add some Spring to your camo pants. I paired with a gingham off the shoulder top and an olive duster vest. The solid olive duster vest is what grounds the two patterns. Wearing the gingham and camo together only, you wouldn’t achieve the same look. Don’t have a olive duster? Think Olive jacket, vest or cardigan.

5th outfit is casual and piece’s everyone owns! Denim jacket, saying tee, Tennis shoes. Great look for a sports game, running kids around or shopping. This is a look that you can easily achieve and what makes it fun is the bold cuff bracelet.

A lot of these pieces are old and sold out but I am linking some similar pieces below along with some great sale items and SALES. Look in your closet and see what you have to try and copy one of the looks (or ALL)….Doesn’t have to be exact, Fashion is fun so play around with it. 

Do you have a question on styling or have an idea you would love to see in a post? Please leave a comment below and I would be happy to help.

I hope you have a wonderful week and be inspired to wear some camo! OX, D’Arcy

 

Shopping my looks:

Similar items: Muti colored vest 1 & vest 2 on sale, Camo jeggings, black turtle neck on Sale, Sorel boots, North face boots, olive duster vest or this  vest and this Darling Jacket, saying tee’s My Humble tee’s, Gingham shirt and some fun Spring pieces @BCBG and their having a huge 50% off Sale and Shopbop is having up to 70% off sale.

 

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22nd Wedding anniversary outfit & date night!

Sara boo skirt, Chinese laundry heals, flowers by Emie James

Sara boo skirt, Chinese laundry heals, flowers by Emie James

Updo top knot bun and large statement earrings

Olive and wood Design wood heart

Olive and wood Design wood heart

Olive and wood Design wood heart

Our 22nd Anniversary is tomorrow February 25th.

I am so lucky to have been able to spend 25 year’s with my dream man. We dated for 3 years before we got married on that Winter storm day 22 years ago. The day that changed my life forever.  I got to marry MY dream man and spend forever with the person who “got me” who made me feel safe and supported my dreams and goals. Had the same morals and we fit, we’re better people for having each other. He’s my perfect lid as the saying goes…I truly believe everyone has a perfect lid for there pot…if you wait your’s will cross your path in Gods perfect timing.

People say Marriage is hard…..hmmm I would answer “depends on who you marry!” Marriage in my experience has been a wonderful, loving, joyful and caring endeavor.  Don’t get me wrong Life is hard… not marriage.  Life isn’t always roses and butterflies we all have hard issues that come up. Whether it’s your health, finances, children issues and even  families. There’s always things that take us on life’s roller coaster, it’s who’s on the ride with you that can make marriage easy or hard. When you find that perfect lid, getting through life’s hard times can make it easier.  I can honestly say we’re lucky…we don’t fight or bicker and rarely disagree. We seem to have always been on the same page and truly like each other. He’s my best friend and I enjoy spending time with him. I couldn’t imagine life without him. Still to this day he gives me butterflies when he walks through that door!

Hitting 22 years of marriage is a true blessing. In today’s age 50% of marriages won’t make it to 10. I really think being able to grow together as we age is one of the tickets. Taking time for our relationship along the journey helps you stay connected to each other. It’s hard to take time for yourself and your relationship when raising a family and both working full time. It’s something you must do. Going on dates, little getaway’s and even time alone at home is great for staying connected.  Remember to also take time out for yourself and allow him to do the same. This gives you both time, to do things you love that maybe your spouse doesn’t. Plus having friends is good for your soul. (yes… it’s ok to enjoy different activities!)  My Hubby lives, breathes and works in Ski boots! Yuck!!  I don’t love to ski…It hurts my feet! I can ski (not like my husband or our boys) but I ski…on pretty sunny Spring skiing day’s! I don’t love Winter and I really don’t like being cold.  Yes… We moved to Utah from California 11 years ago.  Going off on another subject..and I could go on and on about our big move and how it changed our lives in so many ways. Most for the best, but I’ll talk about that another time. Now back to Marriage…

I had a list in my head of the perfect man (do or did you?) Ben checked everything off on that list plus things I never could have thought of…. Except 1 thing he’s not romantic..hehehe  If you know me it’s a running little joke… he’s thoughtful and caring and sexy has hell, but not romantic!   I am not going to get flowers for no reason, great gifts just because, a warm bath drawn or beautiful written notes. But I do get a cup of hot tea in the morning and if it’s not ski season I get breakfast in bed on Sunday’s. He cooks, does laundry, is tidy and always removes ALL the snow to the cement! (Remember I don’t like Winter or ice on my drive way or walk way’s) He keeps my car detailed and would do anything I asked for help with…even if it’s to paint a bedroom for the 5th time. So some would say thats romantic! Well…..wait tell you find out he never asked me to marry him!!! Yup it’s true we’ve been married for 22 years and I was never purposed to!!! I was robbed..OX (that’s another story)  

So about that perfect day 22 year’s ago… It was the Biggest snowstorm in Big Bear had had in many year’s….Not so perfect to me, talk about stressed!  Wedding day’s are so stressful all that planning and preparing for the perfect fairy tail day. Having things go wrong that is out of your control. Choosing joy over stress and by seeing the positive in the negative is  how you find the joy…My perfect day or was it?             It’s all attitude

February 25th 1996

We looked so young! I was 25… Look at my hair it’s past my elbows!  I don’t think I could have gotten a bigger headpiece!!! 

22nd Anniversary

The most perfect day ever❤

  1. He cried when he saw me walking down the isle

2. He kissed me as soon as I got to him😘 “ Pastor Fred said”that’s later Ben!”

3. My mom stopped the wedding… because my 10ft train was standing in the hall😜 ( my sister didn’t snap in on correct💕) So we had a start over😜😜😜

4. It was the biggest snow storm in years! I was panicked all day, our photographer, cake and guest weren’t going to make it to the destination! They did… ( Well some of the guest got stuck😜)

5. My brother had to carry me on his back to the venue from the bridal suite… the snow was so deep❄

6. We got married by candlelight at 6:00pm❤  The flowers were stunning, my cousin sang, all my loved ones were there. It really was like a moment that stood in time💕

7. I danced with my grandpa to Unforgettable by Nat King Cole.

8. My aunt crash her car into another guests❄❄❄ just slide right down the hill!

9. My mom recorded the most beautiful & thoughtful speech ever! (she had to record it because she knew she’d cry saying it live!

10. I married my sole-mate and he still gives me butterflies 

11. The day couldn’t have been more perfect💕 Well… I should have change my vail! (But it was 1996!)

12. I hope you take away from this …. that while not everything IS perfect… We can make it perfect:) It’s just how we handle the situation and keep the right perspective

13. I got my perfect day I married my dream man❤💍 even though there was no romantic proposal!

14. All my husbands Dutch relatives surprised us from Holland!

15.Wait for it….Because I am a sport and I love this man….He skied fresh powder the next morning with all his buds! How could I let him miss 5 feet of fresh powder!!!

Happy 22nd Anniversary @skicoachben 🥂here’s to many more!

 

About Celebrating tomorrow….

We are headed to Salt Lake to enjoy a nice dinner and A night alone at the Hotel Monaco a Kimpton Hotel then Martinis at the Martini bar across the street. Monday we will have a full day at the spa so looking forward to that.

Outfit details

My Skirt is by Sara Boo, shoes- Chinese Laundry, clutch, earrings & turtleneck – Tjmax

Flowers – Emie James

Large heart- Olivewood designs

Pearl bracelets- Nordstrom

black jacket feather sleeve- Tj Max

Bow shoes- Just fab

Gucci belt 

I hope you find your lid! Ox, D’Arcy

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sara boo skirt, Chinese laundry heals

 

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Found… My New Favorite Jeans!

Side slit jeans

Vince Camuto booties and Kut from the Kloth Jeans

winter outfit ideas

Embroidered Jacket, Velvet top, Connie ankle jeans, Chanel Sunglasses similar and Studded booties

Fall/ winter outfit

Winter outfit, cozy cream sweater with side zip, leopard fur vest, cream Gianni Bini booties

jeans everyone should own

Connie Side Slit ankle skinny jeans by Kut from the Kloth

pop of Turquoise with wine

Grommet sleeve detail sweatshirt, Connie Skinny jeans by Kut from the Kloth, boots by Freebird, leopard clutch and turquoise jewelry

perfect fitting jeans

Grommet Detail sleeve sweatshirt, Connie Skinny jeans by Kut from the Kloth,  leopard clutch and Turquoise jewelry, lace up boots Freebird

leopard vest

Side zipper detail sweater paired with Connie dark skinny jeans and cream bootie

Winter outfit

Faux fur sweater, Cream sweater, Denim connie ankle jeans, cream suede booties Gianni Bini,Heart sun glasses, Giving key necklace

Found…My New Favorite Jeans!

Finding your new favorite jeans at an affordable price just got easier….

You know I love the brand Kut from the Kloth! I have made references prior.  Here is a detailed prior post… I love that Kut from the Kloth is a brand that Chic Style Clothing boutique carries and they make sure to carry ALL the new releases for each season along with the Boutique exclusives. Last season Kut made the Connie frayed Ankle skinny in a dark wash with modell in it! It feels like butter and fits like a glove. I fell in love and grabbed 2 pairs of the frayed bottom cuties….WELL….For Spring they designed this FAB jean with a cute side slit and unstructured hem, perfect paired with booties. This jean fits amazing and truly fits every body type from 0-14 petite or tall and looks great with anything you pair with it.  I love the way it fits, feels and that you can go from casual to dressy with its dark wash. Do yourself a favor and grab a pair or two! 

I really tried to show you several types of outfits you could wear with these fabulous jeans, hoping to show you how versatile they really are. Come Spring they’ll  look great with tees and tanks paired with your favorite wedges and kicks.

All of the Clothing Above is from Chic Style Clothing boutique in South Ogden.  You can shop local to grab your unique pieces or call the shop at 801-749-0664 and order over the phone as their website is always changing and has some of their best sellers.

Hoping you have a wonderful week! Have any question? Please leave a comment below and I’ll be happy to try to help! OX, D’Arcy

 

This is my personal opinion. In collaboration with Chic Style Clothing boutique.

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Day to Night Affordable Metallic outfit Idea

Seeing Stars and loving all this seasons’s metallic’s. Kut from the Kloth Jeans & Star sweater on SALE for $24, Tassel earrings Nordstrom ombre sold out so I linked the Solid colors.

I love that you can use this outfit day or night and that it really can be causal simply because it’s a Sweater & Jeans. Change out the Shoes and accessories to simple studded earrings and converse or bootie and you have a casual look. Looks that can change from day to night with just swapping out a couple of pieces makes going from work to dinner with ease.

  If you have been following me for awhile you know I am a big fan of Kut from the Kloth jeans. I love how they fit so when they come out with a new wash (this Metallic) or body style I am always up to grab a pair! The fabric is stretchy and the metallic gives them some glam.

Way’s you can try the metallic trend without breaking the bank…..

The metallic’s this season add a playfulness that any age can wear without being over the top. Really who doesn’t want a little sparkle! Not sure how you feel about metallic’s? Try it in a small dose! Like the sweater I am wearing. It’s on sale which makes it a reasonable way to try a trend. Want to make a bolder step? Try the jeans.. Kut from the Kloth is having a But one get one 50% off sale right NOW! If you haven’t tried Kut nows the time! 

Talking about sparkle look at these shoes! More details about them at the bottom of this post. You know I am a shoe girl and I love different shoes. I really feel the shoes can make or break the outfit. Buying different & unique shoes can take a regular pair of jeans and a plain tee or sweater into a statement outfit. If you notice I rarely have on a basic pair of shoes….Shoes can finish the outfit or Make your outfit pop! Next time you go shoe shopping… Pick the color over black or grab a print! Make a statement! Get the shoes girl!!!

More about HOW Shoes can Make an outfit!coming Next week

high heels

Crystal and Ice Open toed Badgley Mischka shoes (sold out) Similar shoe here

More details on my look….

Nail polish Opi Gel, bracelet Zenzii, Lip Stick-Lip crayon Marc Jacobs color Send nudes

If you liked my post please share it with your friends or pin my photo’s to pintrest. (share icons on left side bar)

I hope my tips are helping you to look and feel fabulous! Have any questions simply leave a comment.

OX, D’Arcy

 

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Kicking off the New Year with Glitter booties

easy to wear outfit you can copy

Striped Sweater @chic Style Utah , distressed Jeans by Edyson and glitter boots by Gianni Bini

Kicking off the New year with New Glitter booties!

Of coarse you know I’d kick of the New Year with NEW shoes:)…..(One of my FAVORITE things!) When I spotted these glittery cuties I really couldn’t pass them up and on SALE! I texted hubby and asked him if he wanted to get me a pair for Christmas (excuse because I would have bought them anyway!)  Of coarse I had to wrap them and put them under the tree… Who else has to do that?  These cuties really can be paired with a lot of items in your closet. I love how the dress up a simple sweater and your go to jeans! 

About the look…This simple striped sweater is up to date with the flared sleeve Similar sweater and gives it a fun on trend detail. Paired with my favorite go to Distressed denim skinnies ( unfortunately this brand is no longer) I linked similar Jeans Here and Here. The glitter bootie by Gianni Bini Sold out Similar here gives it some glam and My favorite leopard clutch give the look a Pop! A dupe clutch Here

I hope you found some inspiration in this outfit and can copy the look with easy from your closet! I am looking forward to sharing more daily looks with you through 2018 as I am making my blog and social media a priority and have some really fun things to share.    Thank you for following along and helping my journey grow. Have you followed along on my Social media for different tips, daily thoughts, brand reviews and stories?  Here’s ways you can follow along Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest, Twitter, Bloglovin, youtube, 

Do you set resolutions? I really don’t set a list of Resolutions but I do set goals… I set Goals for every day, week, and month. I feel it’s a easier way to reach them without the pressure of sticking to something for a whole year! (the stress of failure!)  I can accomplish more looking at it as a daily goal (steps) working to the bigger. Then when the year comes to and end I can see all the ways I grew instead of failed! Maybe you could take the baby step way and set your daily goal, that helps you reach your main goal….Good luck! I think everybody loves a fresh start!

I wanted to share a couple of my goals for 2018 with you, I have a big list so I won’t bore you and list them all. I thought It would be fun to share my list throughout the month. 

#1 Share more content with you.

#2 Finish reading the Bible (last year I wanted to have read it cover to cover & I got over 1/2 way)

#3 De-clutter, purge, donate, give

#4 Size down our home

#5 growing my busines

#6 learn something NEW everyday.

Did you set goals or have a resolution? I would love to hear some of yours comment below. OX, D’Arcy

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Happy New Year….Bringing in 2018 Outfit

thinking outside of your closet

New Years eve outfit using my hubby’s velvet tuxedo jacket!

Happy New Year!

Wishing you all the best in 2018 with many blessing’s and I  hope you can make ALL your dreams come true.

I wanted to share with you a fun little outfit I created for New year’s with my favorite item from my Hubby’s closet! He’s velvet tuxedo jacket (Jcrew)…Although it’s a little big it works! It adds balances with having tight bottoms. I paired it with a fun sequins tank top (old), black jeggings by Kut from the Kloth, metallic rose gold Clutch  similar here and New Years worthy shoes by Badgley Mischka similar here.

I love thinking outside the box when it comes to creating a outfit and who say’s everything has to be new! Go dig in your hubby’s closet & see what you could barrow to dress up. I also like to search through my closet and find pieces I haven’t worn in awhile and create an outfit from that piece. In this case I found this cute cream sequined tank top. It’s amazing what can get “LOST” in your closet! 

I don’t know about you but I really do like to stay home for New Year’s eve. (every once in awhile it’s fun to go to a party) Growing up it was Tradition to get into Pj’s, cousins came over to play games & watch movies and my mom made a appetizer dinner for snacking all night and we tried to stay up for the ball drop. Having this kind of night with my family is relaxing after all the hustle of the Holiday’s. What’s your New year’s tradition?

Make sure to check back tomorrow for a peek at one of my favorite Christmas gifts…Hint I had to wrap it myself! OX, D’Arcy

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Fall textile trends you’ll love…Styling for Fox13 The Place today!

So excited to share the textile trend this Fall with you. This Fall you will be seeing a lot of Chunky knits, embroidery and Velvets. This will be on clothing, shoes and bags. I love that we’re seeing a lot of texture and that some old favorites are making a come back. As for you feet…booties are bigger than ever! 

I hope you can catch my Fashion segment today at 1:00 on Fox13 The place, I be talking more about these trends and share some fun ways to style them. 

Incase you missed today’s style segment you can view it here

Thank you to Kjirstin Mich’l and Shanelle Russel for being my models!  

If you have any styling needs or questions, please leave a comment below and I will try to help you. Have a beautiful day! OX, D’Arcy

 

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Tuesday’s style Tip= It’s not always about the New! It’s about what you love!

Tuesday's style Tip= It's not always about the New It's about what you love!

Tuesday's style Tip= It's not always about the New It's about what you love!

Tuesday's style Tip= It's not always about the New It's about what you love!

Tuesday's style Tip= It's not always about the New It's about what you love!

Tuesday's style Tip= It's not always about the New It's about what you love!

Just fab statement heels

Just fab statement heels

Tuesday’s style Tip=

It’s not always about the New! It’s about what you love!

Happy Tuesday Beautiful’s! This Topic has been weighing on me for awhile now and I decided it’s time to share!  Social Media is ALL about the latest and greatest! Current trends and everyone always trying to sell you something! I don’t want you to feel like I am always try to sell you something, I want for you to think of me as a resource, A person you can trust and get advise from! Now…I get a lot of messages and text as to where I got something or what brand, So I will always list links to what I am sharing or maybe something like it to make it easier for you. If I am working with a company it is truly because I love it and am honored to collaborate with them!

As A girl that has always loved FASHION and yes making sure I was on TREND and current, I never felt you had to clear out your closet or Always buy NEW!  (Now I am not saying never clean out your closet!)I mean to start Fresh every season…. For most that just isn’t available with the budget!  I like to stress to my clients spend your money on classics and buy the affordable Trendy pieces! Classics are just that CLASSIC…classic pieces will last you forever and stay IN forever or come back IN…in a couple years! This White leather jacket to me is a classic staple piece. It’s a piece that you can have for years and bring it in and out of your wardrobe with nobody guessing it’s age! ( Mines 8 years old) Classic pieces are worth spending good money on when you divide it by the years of use it becomes pennies!  Expensive pieces fit better and really do wash and wear 10x better (one of the reasons they last so long!)  Purchasing new is fun and buying Trendy pieces for the season helps keep your Classic pieces looking NEW and on trend!

Breaking down how you can make your OLD pieces look new… Here I am Not wearing anything Newer then 9 months…. My distressed Jeans are 9 months old, my Shoes and necklace are 2 years old or older and my numbered tee is over 4 years old!  Nothing NEW… But this outfit still looks on Trend….Why, well if you break it down I am wearing a classic leather jacket, number and Vintage tee’s always look chic, A fun pair of embroidered heels dress up any outfit!  Now Embroidery is Hot hot hot this season….Let me tell you it comes and goes on the trend alert but I have some very beautiful and expensive embroidered pieces I’ll never get tired of, I love them and that is a key to buying… I might not wear for a couple of seasons but that embroidery always comes back around… Distressed jeans have been HOT for a couple of seasons Now, these keep the outfit on the Chic side! When I find A jean I like a do buy a couple pairs, you can normally tweak your jean collection to be on trend. A snip here or a hem here or fray the hem…etc!  My statement necklace… Statement necklaces aren’t a huge trend right Now.  (I really kept this because it matched the shoes perfectly!) but the big pop of color really works with this outfit and adds a fun element! 

 Happy when I can look in my closet and pull clothes together that can make a ON TREND outfit with not a lot of NEW! Trends come and go so make sure it’s something you love…You’ll get years of use out of it!

Did you have a question or need advise on how to wear something in your closet?  Leave a comment below and I’ll be happy to try and help!  OX, D’Arcy

Clothing list: Jacket=Kut from the Kloth, Jeans=Edyson, Tee=Victoria Secret, Shoes= Just Fab, Necklace= Chic Style

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Tuesday’s Tip=Shorter shorts after 40

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Kicking it up to a Shorter week! Hope you had a fabulous Holiday weekend. Head over to my Facebook page to see what I was up to! (Dear D’Arcy facebook) 

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

 

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

 

orange wedges, tassel fringe bracelets

Tip: Switching your shoes from a wedge to a flat give a totally different feel to the outfit! Went from Date night outfit to Lunch or shopping!

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

 

 

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday’s Tip= Wearing shorter shorts after 40! 

Let’s face it as we age our body and skin changes. Some people say you can’t wear shorter shorts after 40! I feel if you have great legs or work hard to stay fit go for it!  

I have some tips for wearing shorter shorts after 40 to stay classy and not like your trying to look 20! 

Use A great self Tanner, It helps hide flaws and Tan legs look great in shorts! Sorry and I know I’ll get flack for saying it but white legs are just a NO in your 40’s in shorter shorts! In your younger years you could get away with anything! Not now…Get a great self tanner! See my favorites in my prior blog post…self tanner’s 

Shorter shorts means a 5 inch inseam NOT a 3 inch cheek showing short!  I don’t care how great your body is leave the 3 inch booty shorts to the teenagers! 

To keep your outfit balance and too not look like your going clubbing don’t wear a sexy top with shorter short!  Yes.. I am wearing a off the shoulder top but its chambray and has a feel of day time. 

Wear a wedge it lengthens the leg and really does give the appearance of toner legs.

Pilates and the elliptical really do keep your legs in great shape! 

I am really lucky and never really had an issue with cellulite (stretch  marks yes!) I am not sure as to why not, I have read its a inherited trait but my tip would be I use coconut oil everyday in the shower after drying off! I also exfoliate my body with a sugar scrub every week!  

I hope your age doesn’t stop you from feeling like you can’t dress the way you want! You can be chic and fashionable at every age! OX, D’Arcy

Do you have a fashion question? If so comment below and I will try my hardest to help you out!

Outfit details: Chambray top sold out similar here, lace layered shorts here, pom pom sandals sold out, similar here , wedge sold out but Poshmark has several pairs  here

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Way to Wear Wednesday = 7 ways to wear a Denim Jacket

denim jacket and romper

Staying on The Right track....Life's track

Staying on The Right track....Life's track

Denim jacket and tulle

Denim jacket and skirt

Denim and cargo pants

denim jacket and maxi skirt

Denim and Floral

Way to Wear Wednesday = 7 ways to wear a Denim Jacket

Happy Wednesday Beautiful ladies!  Do you have a denim jacket? If not you really should. I feel it is one basic piece everyone should own. I personally have Multiple denim jackets in different washes. 

Here I am showing you 7 different way’s  you can wear your denim jacket besides the normal Tee shirt and Jeans or with basic shorts.

  1. Wear with a Lace or Floral Romper to dress it down or give it sass.
  2. It looks great with a tight jersey or form fitting dress.
  3. Paired with tulle, it dresses it down, as to not look as if your headed to a party.
  4. Wear with a pencil or tulip skirt. Darling with an Aline as well. I love denim with skirts, I think it gives it edge.
  5. Paring with Cargo skinny pants adds another texture to help define your outfit.
  6. Worn with a maxi skirt gives a more laid back casual look!
  7. One of my favorite ways to wear a denim jacket is with a floral or lace slip/cami dress and booties for a touch of country!                                                                                                                            Tip’s on purchasing a  Denim jacket, buy a good quality one so it will last for years. Make sure its fitted and not boxy! (this is important for wearing with dresses and skirts) find the weight you like. I have a spring weight which is light enough for Spring/summer and a heavier weight for fall/winter. If it your first denim jacket make sure you love the wash and it will work with a bunch of what you already own.  I like Lighter wash for All my Spring/Summer clothes and Medium wash for Fall/Winter.       (Kut form the Kloth Denim jackets are my personal favorite! They Fit amazing, wash up awesome and have a bunch of washes seasonally !)                                                                                                                                                                   I hope I inspired you to wear your denim jacket in a few new way’s and if you didn’t own one you now will want too! OX, D’Arcy                                                                                                       *Light wash Spring weight Denim jacket above is Kut from the Kloth 

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D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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Entertaining, Home projects, Tablescapes, Cooking, Gardening, Antiquing, and a love of Fashion, Family and Faith….

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~Cook like Ina 
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Spring Wardrobe Basics By NYDJ youll wear on repe Spring Wardrobe Basics 
By NYDJ youll wear on repeat 

Outfit inspo

Red blouse with pleated  shoulder & back details 

Pinstriped chambray blue and white strip wide leg light weight pants.
So comfortable you’ll wear on repeat.
Pair with any color✔️✔️

Cashmere sweater by cotes of London ( I linked similar from quince ) 

Cap toe chambray ballet flats is a go to Spring shoe on trend

Lester bag by Paris 64 
One of my favorite little bags 

Red stretch belt with gold buckle (best seller) 2 pack so affordable

Allie & Bess bracelets stack 
Save 20% off with code: DARCY20

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Come SHOP Ulta with me… Over 50 on a clean beauty Come SHOP Ulta with me…

Over 50 on a clean beauty mission while on a melanoma cancer journey✔️

 A few products I love, a couple I wanted to try, While searching for new items to replace “unhealthy products”

From Tanning drops, Cleansing oil, eye cream to a mini glow skin care set, sunscreen and hair care products!

Ulta makes it easy to shop with their Clean beauty Displays and clear signage, to find products that fit your needs.

From: Vegan, sulfate free, Clean Ingredients
Cruelty Free & 
Sustainable Packaging, 
Give Back brands

Come SHOP Ulta with me…

Over 50 on a clean beauty mission while on a melanoma cancer journey✔️

 A few products I love, a couple I wanted to try, While searching for new items to replace “unhealthy products”

From Tanning drops, Cleansing oil, eye cream to a mini glow skin care set, sunscreen and hair care products!

Ulta makes it easy to shop with their Clean beauty Displays and clear signage, to find products that fit your needs.

From vegan, cruelty free, sulfate 

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#cleanbeautyproducts #midlifewomen #midlifebeauty #midlifestyle #cancerjourney
What I am actually wearing this Spring…. Living in What I am actually wearing this Spring…. Living in Utah as a over 50 Wife, Mom, COCO and content Creator💋

Utah Weather in the Spring 🌱
Calls for layers….

Spring weather here can be “Schizophrenic” from a blizzard  To sunny and 60 in a day!

Although we’ve had an unusually strange winter this year, Spring still calls for layers.

Bundling up for the morning, and being able to take pieces off throughout the day, makes a great tip for Utah Springs.

I like classic pieces, in light colors and weights, yet work when layered to keep you warm.

Pieces you can mix and match, great wardrobe builders and add some texture.

- lighter weight & color long Wool coat , looks chic over shoulders, yet not to hot when on (I have a rain coat too) 

-Classic trousers are still trending and a great option to look more polished, shades of cream, tan and camel are great for Spring (works well with pastels too)

- Light weight, thinner ribbed mock neck turtleneck. I love the feel and fit of these. Affordable too.

- Vest are a great Spring layer, and the large Plaid/check in neutral shades keeps in classic and add interest. Yet, light enough for spring for layering and not sweat to death 😂
(I love linen vests too) 

- Adding texture with a fluffy & light fur on one shoulder (well still be seeing fur details for Spring)  Draped on one shoulder does add heat, like wearing around your neck does.

- Classic jewelry in gold & silver mix… and yes, I layered and stacked it on… classic pieces & yet layered gives your look a little edge. 

- Western suede pointed toe booties, elongate the leg, add more texture and keep your feet warmer but not too warm. 

Do you need layers in the Spring where you live?

❤️Follow for more Spring layer Outfits…. I have several style, color and on trend. While classic looks coming your way….

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Over50 style/ classic wardrobe builders/ while staying & looking current at any age.

#springstyles #whatiamreallywearing #utahinfluencer #midlifewomen
—Sunday in the kitchen with D’Arcy— —Farm to Tab —Sunday in the kitchen 
with D’Arcy—

—Farm to Table—
Roasted  Spring  Vegetables 
—Easy Sheet pan Recipe—

🥕🍅🧅Garden or Farmers Market vegetables preferred…

 -Cup garden cherry tomatoes 🍅 

-Cup small baby potatoes 🥔 

-Cup sliced peppers 🫑 

-Tips of on bushel of thin asparagus 

1 cup baby carrots🥕

On a olive oiled sheet pan
Place vegetables 

1/2 cup diced onion 🧅 

Garlic chili peppers and spice mix ( I like Bella italia) 

Fresh rosemary and chives from the garden 🪏 🪴🫜

Top with:
Salt & pepper (I like sea salt & fresh ground pepper) 

Top with a generous amount of oilve oil

And the red onion, fresh herbs  and seasoning

Place in oven at 400
For about  30 mins , tossing ever so often

The perfect Spring side dish with a toasted chicken or Bbq

Did you know I have a BLOG? Full of recipes,  entertaining, tablescape’s , Home decor and fashion?

I’d love for you to follow me over there:) link is in bio⬆️

#sundaydinner🍴 #roastedveggies #farmtotablefood #fromthegarden  #utahinfluencer
Vacation mode: Headed somewhere warm✔️ I have the Vacation mode:
Headed somewhere warm✔️

I have the perfect cover-up,
Sun hat, beach/travel bag and the cutest bow flat sandals…

Affordable-crochet Cover up 
Fits tts and comes in other colors really affordable 

Bougee - raffia/straw tote/beach bag 

 best selling sun hat year after year 

Leather bow flat sandals -  comfy and so cute

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#springtravel #midlifejourney #over50andfabulous
4 Spring Jackets Under $36 -Light weight -Stylis 4 Spring Jackets 
Under $36

-Light weight -Stylish- and easy layers you’ll wear all season long.

❤️The leopard one is on SALE $19.99

Do you like a little spring layer?
I adore a 3rd piece, to style my outfits…and (I am always cold) 

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#styleover50 #affordablefinds #midlifestyle #utahinfluencer
30 years of Marriage💍 I prayed for this man, and 30 years of Marriage💍

I prayed for this man, and there’s no one I’d rather do life with🤍🙏🏻

Here’s 16 words of advice we’ve stuck with🤍🤍🤍

Which slide is your favorite?

Share with me what is a piece of advice you live by in your marriage?

Not Married, which one are you going to want to follow?

#happyanniversarymylove #couplegoals❤️ #30years #growold
This Chapter…. My Melanoma Cancer Journey Shari This Chapter…. 
My Melanoma Cancer Journey 

Sharing my journey this far…Today, is 3 week post surgery.
 
Being told you have cancer is a roller coaster of emotions…
This is a journey none of us think you’re going to head down.

You can choose so many different paths to let your brain and emotions go…

I choose to give it to God, and to ask for your prayers, along with following my heart.

I knew I needed to stay positive and trust the process.
(Did I have scary thoughts and some tears, YES, Yes I did) 
But, honesty it wasn’t long. 

Once I gave it over, and trusted him and the process, along with asking for your prayers. 

I was at complete peace. Thank you for all my prayer warriors, I know I got the results I did because of you and your prayers. 

I’ve been told, I am strong, a warrior and so brave for sharing my journey. 
Honestly, I truly don’t feel that way at all, I fell like it’s a process to share, to help others and to help it not feel as scary! 

I didn’t know what to expect,  didn’t know what having my face cut up, or knowing what any of the processes or procedures were (I would have loved to have known…)

If I was going through this and these emotions, so were others. 

My hope in sharing  the journey, would help others to know the importance of getting your skin checked. 
In knowing the processes, and knowing we can do scary things, and we can get through them.

They say it takes a village to raise kids, but it also takes a village & prayers to get through life.🙏🏻

Thank you for all your support, love, prayers, DMs and messages of support.
I couldn’t have done it without all of you🙏🏻

Tomorrow is my first laser🙏🏻💪🏻
I’ll share who that goes in stories tomorrow 😉

⚠️Please note Melanoma is a very aggressive Skin cancer and is very different than other “skin cancers” I explained more about this in my prior lives.

⚠️Share this post, if you know someone going through melanoma ⚠️

🚨make a skin check appointment 

🚨Go get your skin checked

Blog post with all the details coming…..

#melanomacancer #skincancer #skincancerawareness #cancerjourney
3 Things I’m GOOD at…. ~Decorating ~Spending Mone 3 Things I’m GOOD at….

~Decorating
~Spending Money
~Spending Money on Decorating

A little humor… All jokes aside…

What’s 3 things you’re GOOD at?

Hope you’re having a day full of Blessings and love🙏🏻

#womenempowerwomen #midlifestyle #midlifejourney #cozyhomes
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dism “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” – Isaiah 41:10

19 WAYS to bring peace and joy in your life…
In these unsettling times🙏🏻 

➡️Slide through the 20 photos 
For my Easy and mostly free 19 ways to encourage you to gave PEACE & JOY 🤍🤍🤍🤍

⚠️Tell me which ones you want to try and practice or already incorporate 🙏🏻😉 Or share an idea that might help others⬇️

Practice peace-Which brings Joy🙏🏻

May you have a day full of Love and Gods Blessings🙏🏻🤍

#practicepeace #practicejoy #midlifewellness #midlifejourney
A JOY in Midlife….is getting to spend time with yo A JOY in Midlife….is getting to spend time with your mom.

A nail day is always a treat.
Come with us to @nailed.boutique for a manicure & pedicure.

A relaxing experience & time to catch up, while enjoying a yummy beverage and great atmosphere.

Nailed hand files (no drills or harmful chemicals ) and a wonderful & friendly staff to chat with. 

I chose Opi Cajun Shrimp and Mom did Candy Apple Red and a sparkle tip.

Looking for a unique gift or want to add a blow out or maybe you’d like a facial? 
Nailed has a full service salon and darling clothing & gifts in their boutique.

Book your next Mom and daughter day or girls night at Nailed SLC.

#nailsalonluxe #momtime  #girltimefun #midlifejourney #utahinfluencer
📦 Largest Haul📦 Part 3 Amazon Finds You’d never 📦 Largest Haul📦 Part 3

Amazon Finds 
You’d never guess✔️

Great quality and so good❤️

Styling several of the pieces you watched me unbox…Slide to see 19 looks and over 25 pieces ✔️✔️✔️

You’ll have to come back for part 4… to see the rest of the pieces 📦📦📦

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#amazonhaul #amazonfinds #midlifestyle #amazonstyle
“It’s not what you spend but how you wear it that “It’s not what you spend but how you wear it that counts. The key is often to dress up inexpensive basics with accessories. Something like a beautiful designer bag, beautiful shoe  or belt can make everything else look richer and more luxurious. “

Come shopping with me…

—Nordstrom—
Bags & Shoes

Which is your favorite? 

I know what’s on my list…

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Amazon Home Finds I tell my Besties about… As a 5 Amazon Home Finds
I tell my Besties about…

As a 54  year old 
Wife, Mom, COCO
And Homebody

Details on the Photos side for my picks➡️

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#amazonhomefinds #amazonmusthave #homebodylife #midlifestyle
—Amazon Haul— 📦📦📦 PART 2 The largest Amazon Haul —Amazon Haul— 📦📦📦
PART 2

 The largest Amazon Haul I’ve ever Had…

So many cute things and the quality and fit is so good!

Affordable finds you’ll love..

📦Want to see it all styled?
Look at my February Amazon collection✔️

Tops 
Sweaters
Blazers
Men’s wear
Bras 

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#amazonhaul #amazonhaul #midlifewomen #afforɗablefashion
I am 54 Wife, Mom, Coco and content creator✔️ Wh I am 54 
Wife, Mom, Coco and content creator✔️

What I am wearing to look Chic, Put together while staying updated and in trend…

Building a classic wardrobe, while mixing in a few affordable trending items✔️ To update your look with out spending to much✔️✔️✔️

If this is your VIBE too… Follow and like❤️ this post✔️✔️

➡️Make sure to slide photos, for close ups and styling tips➡️
Details⬇️

Blazer and sold separately Trouser pants
Both fit tts 
⚠️I have a Discount code with my link.
❤️Plus Buy more save more Sale❤️

-Affordable find & trending, yet classic- suede peplum Top
-Suede pointed mule with gold buckle 
-Wide suede belt with large Gold buckle 
-Large gold chain necklace- earrings & ring 

Piece you can mix and match

Classic pieces with a few tending styles to create a great outfit and add a statement to your wardrobe 

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Love and Blessings❤️💋🩷🎀 Have a Beautiful Valentin Love and Blessings❤️💋🩷🎀

Have a Beautiful Valentine’s Day❤️💋

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#midlifewomen #valentinesoutfit #loveisintheair❤️
Trending Peplum Tops Let’s Style one Over 50✔️ - Trending Peplum Tops

Let’s Style one Over 50✔️

-Outfit inspiration 
A mix of Splurge and save

-SAVE-This $32 ….Trending -Peplum tops and this one with dramatic stripe cuff detail is so fun
A soft knit top & Great quality.

-Save- French saying burtlap tote under $20 perfect for farmers market, travel or beach 

 - Chambray elastic waist wide leg trouser with pockets  under $80
 
-Splurge- Madison Masion two tone loafers with gold chain 

-Splurge- layers assortment of pearls, real pearls, French Kande CC necklace and stone strands, Zenzie large rhinestone necklace 
And bee rhinestone necklace 
( sorry, this is a collection of vintages, real and not linkable pieces) 
I linked items you could get a very similar look with and several “savings” pieces

-SAVE-Earring pear and rhinestone  under $12 

-Splurge—Ring and bracelets Julie voz 

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I had the pleasure of attending A Night of fun w I had the pleasure of attending 

A Night of fun with 
@cachevalleycreamery 

What could be better then creating cocktails while enjoying small bites…

- Building a lasagna with an assortment of Cache valley cheeses. 
I did a vodka sauce and a little Alfredo with 5 cheese and fresh herbs. 

Perfect for a take and bake meal for later in the week✔️

-Then off to the decorate your own sugar cookies, for that perfect dessert 🩷

-Creating a Charcuterie Board with @curedandcut inspired by Valentines Day (these boards have legs to stand and hold 4 wine glasses as well as a full board) perfect for hosting ✔️

-Get creative with @capture.haus photography creating food flat lays 

-Trying a few new dishes with friends @luxcateringandevents 

This truly was a fun night out and great inspiration for your next party or girls night in✔️

Thank you Cache Valley Creamery and @ellemarketingandevents 

#cachevalleycreamery #apaletteofpossibilities #utahinfluencer #utahfoodie #girlsnightout❤️
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