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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


Tuesday’s Tip=Shorter shorts after 40

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Kicking it up to a Shorter week! Hope you had a fabulous Holiday weekend. Head over to my Facebook page to see what I was up to! (Dear D’Arcy facebook) 

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

 

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

 

orange wedges, tassel fringe bracelets

Tip: Switching your shoes from a wedge to a flat give a totally different feel to the outfit! Went from Date night outfit to Lunch or shopping!

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

 

 

Tuesday's Tip shorter shorts after 40, off the shoulder bow top, orange lace shorts, tassel accessory's, Louise Vuitton clutch

Tuesday’s Tip= Wearing shorter shorts after 40! 

Let’s face it as we age our body and skin changes. Some people say you can’t wear shorter shorts after 40! I feel if you have great legs or work hard to stay fit go for it!  

I have some tips for wearing shorter shorts after 40 to stay classy and not like your trying to look 20! 

Use A great self Tanner, It helps hide flaws and Tan legs look great in shorts! Sorry and I know I’ll get flack for saying it but white legs are just a NO in your 40’s in shorter shorts! In your younger years you could get away with anything! Not now…Get a great self tanner! See my favorites in my prior blog post…self tanner’s 

Shorter shorts means a 5 inch inseam NOT a 3 inch cheek showing short!  I don’t care how great your body is leave the 3 inch booty shorts to the teenagers! 

To keep your outfit balance and too not look like your going clubbing don’t wear a sexy top with shorter short!  Yes.. I am wearing a off the shoulder top but its chambray and has a feel of day time. 

Wear a wedge it lengthens the leg and really does give the appearance of toner legs.

Pilates and the elliptical really do keep your legs in great shape! 

I am really lucky and never really had an issue with cellulite (stretch  marks yes!) I am not sure as to why not, I have read its a inherited trait but my tip would be I use coconut oil everyday in the shower after drying off! I also exfoliate my body with a sugar scrub every week!  

I hope your age doesn’t stop you from feeling like you can’t dress the way you want! You can be chic and fashionable at every age! OX, D’Arcy

Do you have a fashion question? If so comment below and I will try my hardest to help you out!

Outfit details: Chambray top sold out similar here, lace layered shorts here, pom pom sandals sold out, similar here , wedge sold out but Poshmark has several pairs  here

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Way to Wear Wednesday = 7 ways to wear a Denim Jacket

denim jacket and romper

Staying on The Right track....Life's track

Staying on The Right track....Life's track

Denim jacket and tulle

Denim jacket and skirt

Denim and cargo pants

denim jacket and maxi skirt

Denim and Floral

Way to Wear Wednesday = 7 ways to wear a Denim Jacket

Happy Wednesday Beautiful ladies!  Do you have a denim jacket? If not you really should. I feel it is one basic piece everyone should own. I personally have Multiple denim jackets in different washes. 

Here I am showing you 7 different way’s  you can wear your denim jacket besides the normal Tee shirt and Jeans or with basic shorts.

  1. Wear with a Lace or Floral Romper to dress it down or give it sass.
  2. It looks great with a tight jersey or form fitting dress.
  3. Paired with tulle, it dresses it down, as to not look as if your headed to a party.
  4. Wear with a pencil or tulip skirt. Darling with an Aline as well. I love denim with skirts, I think it gives it edge.
  5. Paring with Cargo skinny pants adds another texture to help define your outfit.
  6. Worn with a maxi skirt gives a more laid back casual look!
  7. One of my favorite ways to wear a denim jacket is with a floral or lace slip/cami dress and booties for a touch of country!                                                                                                                            Tip’s on purchasing a  Denim jacket, buy a good quality one so it will last for years. Make sure its fitted and not boxy! (this is important for wearing with dresses and skirts) find the weight you like. I have a spring weight which is light enough for Spring/summer and a heavier weight for fall/winter. If it your first denim jacket make sure you love the wash and it will work with a bunch of what you already own.  I like Lighter wash for All my Spring/Summer clothes and Medium wash for Fall/Winter.       (Kut form the Kloth Denim jackets are my personal favorite! They Fit amazing, wash up awesome and have a bunch of washes seasonally !)                                                                                                                                                                   I hope I inspired you to wear your denim jacket in a few new way’s and if you didn’t own one you now will want too! OX, D’Arcy                                                                                                       *Light wash Spring weight Denim jacket above is Kut from the Kloth 

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How to Pattern mixing in 4 easy steps

 

pattern mixing

blush vest, stripe skirt, floral top mixing patterns with ease

blush vest, stripe skirt, floral top mixing patterns with ease

blush vest, stripe skirt, floral top mixing patterns with ease

lace up shoe nordstrom

Striped skirt (old) Floral tank (chic style) Blush shoes (Nordstrom sold out)  Earrings (jCrew)  

Have you ever wondered how to mix up patterns? I get asked this question a lot!  “How do you know what work’s?” Here is a couple easy way’s, I found that makes playing with pattern easy.

  1. Make sure to have a small print and a large! As shown above the floral is a large print and the stripe is a small. It works too…If the small was the floral and the large was a wide stripe. It gives balance.
  2. Make sure the patterns work in the same color pallet!  As shown above Blush always pairs well with grey! Like red goes with black:)
  3. Having a solid colored item like the blush vest, helps break it up! Think layers!
  4. Don’t think about it to hard…Clothing is suppose to be fun and a way to express yourself!  “PLAY” with your clothes, mix and match, you’ll get way more out of your wardrobe!

See…  4 easy tips  to help you Mix up patterns!  Happy Thursday! OX, D’Arcy

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Tuesday Tip: Prepping outfit’s for your week…

prepping your clothes for the week

prepping your clothes for the week

prepping your clothes for the week

prepping your clothes for the week #flatlay

prepping your clothes for the week #flatlay

prepping your clothes for the week #flatlay

prepping your clothes for the week #flatlay

prepping your clothes for the week #flatlay

prepping your clothes for the week #flatlay

prepping your clothes for the week #flatlay

Happy Tuesday Tip Day!

Are you a busy mom or Career Girl or heck Both?

Today I wanted to Share with you one of MY time saving tricks. Just like Meal prep…It takes a little time but is a huge pay off when its done. Not to mention the amount of time saved… standing in your closet STARING at your clothes! BEEN there?

First= Look up the weather for the week… This allows you to organize the correct types of outfits for your week. Here in Utah you can go from Winter to Summer in A day! (I do my Outfit prep on Sunday)

Second= Look up your schedule for the week. This allows you to see if you need other outfits besides your normal work day outfits. (date night, bridal or baby shower, Special meeting, Church or event etc.)

Third= Have a space you can Hang them… A spot in Your closet, a garment hook, clothing rack or Garment rack. I have a clothing rack Shown above that holds about 8 organized outfits. You can Find RACK here. This rack is affordable and takes up very little space. It can even fit in most peoples walk in closet. I use these for my clients closets, perfect for a their weeks worth of outfits. 

Now for the fun part… Assembling your outfits! I like to put everything you need for the outfit on the Hanger. Top, Bottom and accessories. I then pick out what shoes and bags go with each outfit. ( If the bag is a clutch or small bag I hang that on hanger as well.) I then line all the outfits on rack according to the week, line up shoes underneath. (If I am doing this for a customer I take a picture of outfit all the pieces and clip to the hanger)  This process can take 1-2 hours depending on how fast you are at looking at your clothes and mixing it up.   I promise you it’s worth the time prepping your Clothes for the Week! If you haven’t done this before…You’ll be thanking me:)

Now….You’ll have all this extra time in your week! What will you do with it?  

I would love to know if you try this tip & comment below:)

Have a beautiful week! OX, D’Arcy

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Knowing your body type…and Dressing for it!

Knowing your body type...Shirt dress & Bauble bar Jewelry

Knowing your body type...Shirt dress & Bauble bar Jewelry

Knowing your body type...Shirt dress & Bauble bar Jewelry

Knowing your body type...Shirt dress & Bauble bar Jewelry

Denim Shirt dress sold out, similar here , wedge here, jewelry Bauble bar sold out this would work  here & here,  clutch with Tassel BCBG sold out, similar here or here

 

 

Hello Beautiful’s! 

Today I am chatting about knowing your body and what works on it!  All of our bodies have a strengths and weakness. For instance My strength is my long legs and my weakness is I am square, no waist and I hold any extra weight in my middle area. I am a Ruler= Straight up & down! With this type of a build I am going to play up my legs and draw attention away from my middle. This is why Shirt dresses work great for me (above) It flatters my figure. While Shirt/shift dresses work on Almost every figure, Its shorter style and no waist line make’s it’s my go to in a dress choice.  I don’t wear Dresses that draw attention to the waist, have a  belt at the waist or the Popular wrap dresses because it isn’t flattering on me.  Now for a person that has a little waist It’s a perfect.  (some would say wearing a belted dress gives my square shape a shape!!! It does not…it just make me look square) This is one of the reasons to know what works on YOUR body! You need to feel comfortable and confident!

When you know what works on your body it makes shopping easier and you know what styles you can eliminate.  Now this doesn’t mean you have to purchase the same styles time after time! It just means you have a better sense of the styles you are looking for. Boy does this help in the try on rooms!! 🙂

I have found with my body type I look better in pencil skirts verses A line skirts because A line skirts draw attention to waist and have flowy fabric around the leg area, where a pencil skirt draws attention to my legs and is structured for a more tailored look that suits my shape. 

Knowing what works helps you to look and feel your best everyday! Why try to wear something just because it’s in Fashion if it doesn’t look good on your body, you won’t feel Fabulous!  Dressing for your body type will change how you look and purchase clothes!  Most of all, You will Always feel great!  For more about dressing for YOUR body TYPE, I found a great article for you over at Who Whore What .

If you have any questions or want some tips from me on what I think would look great on you.  Please leave a comment below and I will have you send me some photo’s of you via email, and I’ll be happy to send YOU your personal styling tips:)

Thank you for reading Dear D’Arcy, OX D’Arcy

 

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Spring is in Bloom

flower print dress

flower print dress

flower print dress

 

flower print dress

flower print dress

 

 

Spring tulips

Daffodils photo of flowers

spring flowers

Hello Beautiful’s,  I hope you had a wonderful Easter and are enjoying the Spring blooms popping up. I love this time of year when flowers are are springing up, the trees have beautiful blooms and the smell of fresh cut grass fills the air.  I wanted to share with you the floral dress I wore for Easter that was under $40.00! A cute shirt dress with pockets and a puffy sleeve. I got so many compliments at church and it’s perfect for Spring! I paired it with my favorite wedge’s  and a cute statement earring . 

Do you love floral’s as much as I do?  I would love to know if you love wearing floral’s in the Spring!

Here’s a peek at the Spring blooms popping up around our neck of the woods…

I hope you have a lovely week & great weather. OX, D’Arcy

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Tuesday’s Tip…Items every closet should have!!

Keeping your clothes Fresh, spot & Wrinkle FREE FAST …Items every closet should have!!

keeping your clothes spotless, static & Wrinkle free

 

clothing steamer

clothing wrinkle release

static gaurd

lint roller

olay face wipes to remove stains,

Hello Ladies, for this Tuesday’s Tip…I wanted to share with you some must have closet HELPERS…To keeping your clothes Spot, static, lint and wrinkle FREE!   These little helpers don’t cost a lot and are super helpful for a FAST fix! I don’t know about you but I am Always needing Fast fixes…These Items help me to keep my clothes Wrinkle, spot and Static FREE!

Downy’s Wrinkle release is My Go to for Quick wrinkled item’s!  So easy you just spray on, hang item before you hop in shower and when you get out it’s wrinkle free….This DOES NOT work on deep folded in wrinkles! It great on items that got wrinkled hanging in closet, got left in dryer to long or items you wore but didn’t launder! Here to purchase

Mini Steamer…Now this is a great handy little item (I hate to IRON) so this little guy can handle the Deep folded in wrinkles the Spray above cannot. Also perfect for those hard to iron/delicate fabrics! Here to purchase

Lint brush…is a must to keep fabric clean that like to collect lint or hair …I even use on my fabric/velvet hangers! (great for getting animal hair off throw pillows too) Here to purchase

Static Guard...A must for living in a DRY climate! Spray on clothes and presto NO cling…I have even used on my brush before for my hair!! Here to purchase

Face wipes or Baby wipes… these are Magic for removing a little stain quickly! I keep in my closet, bag, car etc….Here to purchase

A couple items not pictured,

1. I really suggest every fashionista has in her closet. 1 is a  great little mending kit! ( You can pick up at dollar store or at a craft store!) Needles, mixed threads, mini scissors,and some buttons! This really helps to do small repairs to your clothes. (PLEASE learn how to sew a button on or fix a small snag!) Here to purchase

2. Cloth shaver for Fuzz pill ball lint remover! Removes all those nasty balls from your sweaters and fabric that balls up! most are battery operated and easy to use. Here to purchase

3. Tide stick, just in case you stain is do deep for a wipe! Here to purchase

I hope you found my Tuesday’s tips to be helpful! I would love for you to leave a comment or question below!  Have a great day! OX, D’Arcy

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Monday’s Muse

Street Style…

Outfit kut from the kloth leather jacket & jeans, gingham top

Outfit kut from the kloth leather jacket & jeans, gingham top

Outfit kut from the kloth leather jacket & jeans, gingham top

Outfit kut from the kloth leather jacket & jeans, gingham top

Outfit kut from the kloth leather jacket & jeans, gingham topOutfit kut from the kloth leather jacket & jeans, gingham top

Outfit kut from the kloth leather jacket & jeans, gingham top

Outfit kut from the kloth leather jacket & jeans, gingham top

Outfit =Kut from the kloth leather jacket & jeans, gingham top, Marc Fisher similar here wedge sandal, Necklace found on our Idaho trip similar here , Gingham top similar here and Sun glasses Chic StyleBox, Nail polish here

Marc Fisher wedge

Street Style… Whether you need Monday’s Muse or Friday’s Date night… I have a effortless, Comfortable and Chic outfit you can grab inspiration from! White jeans, edgy leather jacket and Country gingham paired with this seasons hottest wedge sandal and cool pendant necklace.

Have a question on a outfit inspiration? Just leave a comment and I’ll be happy to help!    Happy Monday Beautiful’s! OX, D’Arcy

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Spring Trend’s ( series 5) Pendant necklaces & Oversized Bag’s

Happy Saturday Pretty ladies!

I am Happy to share with you the last of my Spring Trend series!  (15 Top Spring Trend’s)  So today I bring you Pendant necklace’s and Oversize Bag’s….

I Love these two trends!

Pendant Necklaces are great because they elongate your neck and can be worn at any age. I love all the looks you can find in this style of necklace. From simple and plain to layers with tassel’s, crystal,s rocks and charms! You have a ton of options and it really dresses up a plain tee or tank. I have shown just a few of my favorite’s and in different price points for your budget. (Also worn through the pictures in my prior series.)

The Oversize Bag perfect for travel and even work! I love a large bag to tote ALL my work gear in… Ipad, organizer, wallet, make-up bag, notepad, lunch and….having a bag I can keep a little clutch in (to use when running in a shop or errand is handy) I feel like an oversize bag keeps my car organized as well! It’s my catch ALL!   This is another reason it’s great for Travel you can use for all of the above plus add magazines a small blanket scarf etc.  Oversize bag’s can get heavy so if using for a fashion statement or outfit accessory keep your content to a minimum! Here I showed some of my favorite’s for work, Travel and even the beach again in all price points for every budget. 

I hope you had a chance to read All of my Series on This Springs top 15 trends! If not Here is 1st  Here 2nd  Here 3rd  here is 4th 

Have a Beautiful weekend! OX D’Arcy

 

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  • Mahon Fichero Dusty Rose Tote Bag
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    LAPTOP TOTE
  • Style & Co Palm Tree Straw Beach Bag Tote,
    $36 MACYS.COM
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  • Black & White Wide Stripe Deluxe Oversize Beach Tote Bag
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    BEACH TOTE BAGS
  • Vera Bradley Straw Beach Wristlet
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  • Women's Love's Affect Elle Semiprecious Stone Tassel Necklace
    $68 NORDSTROM.COM
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  • Travel tassel long necklace
    $46 POPMAP.COM
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  • Stone Heart Necklace, Tiger Eye necklace Moonstone cats eye necklace long pendant necklace leather copper boho jewelry black brown neutral
    $15 ETSY.COM
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  • Kenneth Jay Lane Bead Tassel Necklace
    $115 VERYEXCLUSIVE.CO.UK
    LONG NECKLACES
     
  • Amber Necklace, Long Necklace, Yellow Honey Orange pendant necklace, Adjustable Chain, Brass Chain, Pendant Necklace, Fashion Jewelry
    $25 ETSY.COM
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  • White Agate Long Pendant Necklace (28 ct. t.w.) in Silver-Plated Rose Gold-Flash
    $22 MACYS.COM
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  • Crystal Pendant Necklace
    $9.90 YESSTYLE.COM
    CRYSTAL NECKLACE
  • Panacea Long Beaded Tasseled Wrap Necklace
    $42 LASTCALL.COM
    LONG NECKLACES
     
  • Tocca Jewelry Raw Amethyst Point Pendant Gold Necklace
    $33 CARNETDEMODE.COM
    AMETHYST NECKLACE
  • GUESS Woven Chain Choker with Long Y Necklace Tassel (Silver/Denim Blue) Necklace
    $28 ZAPPOS.COM
    TASSEL NECKLACE
  • Pre-owned Chanel CC Beach Tote & Towel
    $1,795 THEREALREAL.COM
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  • Mark & Graham Sunburst Beach Tote, White
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  • Indah long Necklace coin tassel necklace
    BOHEMIANDIESEL.COM
    Long Necklace with tassels
     

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Spring Transition pieces

This Thursday I thought I would share some of my Favorite pieces that Transition into Spring well! I love the pretty color’s, and the romantic look this pallet has. Spring is tricky in Utah…You bounce from Winter to Summer in the Same week, so it’s nice to have pieces that look lighter then Winter colors but can be layered up or worn alone. Most of these items can easily be used in the Summer as well.

Today it snowed! Last week was beautiful and in the high 60’s which get’s ALL of our hopes up for Summer!  With pretty layer’s like these you can dress in Summer colors but be warm for a day’s like today! 

I hope you enjoyed my quick little post! Check back tomorrow for My Spring Ski Trip backing, OX D’Arcy

 

$58 ABERCROMBIE.COM ABERCROMBIE & FITCH CARDIGANS

$58 ABERCROMBIE.COM ABERCROMBIE & FITCH CARDIGANS

$34 YESSTYLE.COM CARDIGANS

$59 CHICWISH.COM CHICWISH SWEATERS

$60 NORDSTROM.COM TOPSHOP BLOUSES

$125 NORDSTROM.COM CUPCAKES AND CASHMERE JACKETS»

$25 HOLLISTERCO.COM HOLLISTER CO. JEANS

$248 DONALDJPLINER.COM DONALD J PLINER ANKLE BOOTIES

$118 HEELS.COM STEVE MADDEN ANKLE BOOTIES 

 $85 ZAPPOS.COMATHENA ALEXANDER SANDALS 

$25 ZULILY.COMBAMBOO SHOES

$39 ACCESSORIZE.COMACCESSORIZE CLUTCHES

$300 LANECRAWFORD.COMMIGNONNE GAVIGAN EARRINGS 

$70 DOMINO.COM BING BANG RINGS

 $12 AVENUE.COMAVENUE SUNGLASSES

$16 THEHUT.COM OPI NAIL POLISH

MARIECLAIRE.CO.UK INSTYLE.COM

 CABIONLINE.COM

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D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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🚗Road Trip —Desserts and Pools—🌴🌊🌵🏜️🌺 Last leg of 🚗Road Trip
—Desserts and Pools—🌴🌊🌵🏜️🌺

Last leg of trip…2 days in Las Vegas

- A couple days poolside 
- A couple meals out
-Some shopping (just a little) 
- and yes, we had early nights in…

We’ve been to LV so many times, that we actually don’t enjoy it any more, it’s changed so much over the years, that we actually prefer to have pool time (eat at pool) stay close or at our hotel… Walking the strip is more scary then fun, and the restaurants aren’t what they used to be… people watching isn’t even fun anymore there:(

Lately, We just think of LV as a resting point before we drive the 6-7 long hours home. 

Over the years I’ve shared several amazing LV hotels, restaurants and shopping spots…. Some of those are still good, but several have gotten run down and aren’t the same.  I honestly don’t feel safe in LV and probably won’t have that be a resting point anymore. 

If you’re a gambler or like shows … then LV probably still has appeal, People don’t dress up anymore, the top quality restaurants & hotels aren’t what they used to be, and over priced for what you get. (Trust me we’ve stayed at almost all of the resort’s multiple times) 
I personally think there’s better places to visit. 

😉This is my observation and opinion over the last several times & years we’ve been to Lv. 

How do you feel about Las Vegas?
Have you been recently? 

Sorry, not sorry for my honest review!

#roadtripping #lasvegasnevada #honestreview #pooltimefun #midlife
Road Trip Day 6 —Palm Springs🌴— —Started the day Road Trip Day 6

—Palm Springs🌴—

—Started the day with grabbing a must have coffee or tea from koffie☕️ A must stop

— Pool time for a little bit before later Brunch (we’ll go back to pool after)

— Brunch at FARM🍋‍🟩🍴🍃 It’s a beautiful restaurant off 111 in Downtown Palm Springs with gorgeous outdoor patios, stunning English & French gardens and delicious food☕️🥗🥪🥑 
Great cocktails and a fun dining experience. 

— You can stroll downtown & shop, check out the sidewalk stars 

— we’re off to the pool🌊🌴

—Late afternoon & Early  Evening off to view  a fun garden spot and then a cocktail & light dinner a a fun a casual  Restaurant/Bar @boozehoundsps 

Come back tomorrow as we head to Las Vegas for our final destination before we head home🚗🌵🏜️🪇🌺🌴🌊

Deserts and pools road trip

Do you have a favorite stop in Palm Springs? Drop it below ⬇️ 

 
My outfits are linked over on my Liketoknowit or comment “Shop” and which outfit and I get you links. 

#palmspringsstyle #midlifestyle #roadtripping #coupletrip
Day 5 Road tripping 🚗🌵🌺☀️🌸🍋‍🟩🌶️🏜️ Desserts & Pool Day 5

Road tripping 🚗🌵🌺☀️🌸🍋‍🟩🌶️🏜️
Desserts & Pool Trip
4 States

Palm Springs, California 🌴🌴🌴

-Started day with a bike ride🚲
-Day at the Pool 🌊
-late lunch Early dinner at Norma’s (A must for Brunch-lunch or  dinner everything is always so good! There Cinnamon donuts and lemon curd & whipped cream is so good 🍋🍩
-You can’t go to Palm Springs and not go shopping 🛍️ The Gardens on El Paseo located in PALM Desert 🌴
-Best spicy Margarita on the trip so Far  on El Paseo @ 
-Ended the evening visiting my Bestie Danielle with a 4 hour chat at her potential new desert home🌴❤️

We’ve been going to Palm Springs for over 35 years, it’s one of our favorite places🌴 If you have any questions or need recommendations dm me. 

Stay tuned for tomorrows PS adventures 🌴

My outfits are linked over on Liketoknowit or comment shop and I’ll send you the links to shop🛍️

#palmspringsstyle #roadtopro #midlife #midlifestyle
Road Trip🚗 Day 4 Itinerary 🌴☀️🌺🌵🌸🌊 Driving to P Road Trip🚗

Day 4 Itinerary 
🌴☀️🌺🌵🌸🌊

Driving to Palm Springs, Ca. 
4 hours from Mesa, Az

—Walked the grounds 🌴🌺🌊
To stretch and move our body after drive. So beautiful and perfect weather.
(We left early in Am to enjoy a full day PS

-Headed for a full day at the Pool 🌴☀️

-Got ready and headed to one of our favorite “locals favorite”  Mexican restaurants @m  so yummy and of course I had to have a margarita 🪇🌶️

(I realized I forgot to get a photo of what I wore to dinner and to the street fair)  I am a horrible influencer 😉😂
I wore a strapless linen sundress and slide sandals✔️

-Palm Springs  downtown stree fair, takes up the whole historic down town, with handmade crafts, food trucks, locally grown items, music, art, clothing and entertainment . We’ve been going for years and  it’s a fun evening.
(Parking can be tough, uber or go early )

Ben searches out his favorite Gelato guy, every year.. he says he makes the BEST coffee gelato 🍦🍨

🌴Have you been to Palm Springs?
What one of your favorite things?

This weekend they are celebrating 100 years of Marilyn Monroe…. 

☀️🌸What I wore o  today and everything to date is linked on my Liketoknowit 

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—Margarita Time— Ward off evil😂😂😂 Love that Salt —Margarita Time—

Ward off evil😂😂😂

Love that Salted rim🍸🌶️🍋‍🟩🌵🪇🌴

Do you love a good margarita? Are you a on the rocks  or blended girl ?

Fruity or Spicy girl?
Top shelf tequila or doesn’t matter?

Salted-Sugar or Taheen rim?

I am a top shelf, spicy margarita on the rocks with Salt girl… and I like jalapeño and blackberry’s as a garnish 🌶️🍋‍🟩

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Day 3 Road Tripping Itinerary 🚗🌵🌴☀️🏜️ Our Last d Day 3 Road Tripping  Itinerary 🚗🌵🌴☀️🏜️

Our Last day and evening in Mesa,Az before heading to Palm Springs, Ca.

We started out with grabbing a coffee & a little walk, then heading to the pool. Our goal this trip was relaxing in the sun ☀️ poolside☀️🌴While enjoying a little late afternoon early evening easy entertaining and good food…

Late afternoon we headed out to the golf course & then later to go on a garden walk and check out a couple local nurseries, before heading to dinner . 

I love to see what grows in that area and learn a little. Plus it’s always beautiful 🌵🌺🌸🌵Did you know a good size catus is $2,000-5,000 and a decent size Palm tree starts at $7,500 to $15,000 and that was the sale prices.

We had a yummy Italian dinner at @pizzicatausa over looks  the painted mountain golf course. 

 Then we went on an evening stroll at the golf course found a bench by the pond and had a cocktail to watch the sun set🌅🌵🍷
Perfect way to end the day ✔️

If you’re looking for an easy & Relaxing  day, this is a perfect itinerary 

Tomorrow morning we’re Off to Palm Springs, Ca. A 4 hour drive from Mesa.Az. 🌴🌺🚗☀️

Do you like a road trip to be leisurely or to pack in a tone of things to do?

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Travel Style over 50 Day 2 Road Trip Mesa, Az ~A Travel Style over 50

Day 2 Road Trip
Mesa, Az

~A much need Relaxing Day at the pool
🌵⛱️☀️🌊
~Then off For a late Lunch, Early Dinner
Found a historic Mexican Restaurant (ok, but not Fabulous) The architecture and grounds were cool🇲🇽🌮🪇🍸

~ Headed to Mesa’s Historic Main st for a little shopping, Mural & Architecture spotting, Local brewery, cool vintage shops, music, book stores, and a fun candy store. 

Stay tuned for another Day “3 “in Mesa…
Then off to Palm Springs,Ca.

Have you been to Mesa, Az? What’s one of the things you did or recommend?

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Travel Style over 50 🚗Road Trip Day 1 Itinerary🗻🌲 Travel Style over 50

🚗Road Trip Day 1 Itinerary🗻🌲🏔️🌵🏜️

Hubby and I are on a 7 day Road Trip 3 states 4 states from mountains to desserts… chasing sun and pool time …

Follow along… for our shenanigans, stops and daily itinerary ➡️ Slide for 
Day one… 10 hour drive… with stops along the way for a total 14 hour scenic day.

Beautiful drive- Fun stops, sights and yummy early dinner in historic downtown, Flagstaff. 

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Pattern play: over 50 Let’s style Gingham- Cow pr Pattern play: over 50

Let’s style Gingham- Cow print and a little horse shoes✔️✔️✔️

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Fashion over 40 doesn’t have to be boring or predictable! Play and have fun!

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—Memorial Day— 🇺🇸Freedom didn’t come Free, may we —Memorial Day—

🇺🇸Freedom didn’t come Free, may we remember those who paid the ultimate price🤍🙏🏻

Thank you to all 
That are serving this country and to those who have paid the ultimate sacrifices for our freedoms 🤍🙏🏻

Sharing 19 Red❤️ White🤍 and blue💙 outfit inspirations you could wear ALL SUMMER Long🤍🍒💙
🇺🇸American Summer🇺🇸

Patriotic colors don’t have to be just for Memorial Day, 4th of July and Patriotic Days. 

You can mix and match and wear for all of Summer Social Season🍒

BBQ’s, Picnics, fairs, farmers Markets, coffee & lunch dates, art festivals, beach board walks, dinner dates, parades, and concerts ✔️

See my Patriotic Outfit inspiration board with all the shopping details & sales ❤️

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—American Summer— ———Loading——— ❤️🇺🇸💙 The Kick of —American Summer—
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The Kick off to Summer
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New SPANX air essentials… If you know me, then yo New SPANX air essentials…

If you know me, then you know I LOVe Air essential pieces by SPANX’s.
Buttery soft fabric NObODY can compare… others try but it’s just not the same…
- pieces perfect for travel, easy to wear for lounging and running errands but chic enough to dress up a bit…

The New Button up and pull on shorts, come in 5 colors and although sold separately they make a great set. 

Wear with sandals or sneakers 

I took this Tan set and accessorized it to feel a little more Patriotic for Memorial Day without screaming red white and blue.💙❤️🇺🇸

I’ve got this packed for our Road trip 

Watch to the end to see how I style it up

Save 15% off with my code on Spanx non sale items code: Deardarcyxspanx 

Spanx is having a 30%  off select items SALE 

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—Ralph Lauren — Inspired Summer If American coas —Ralph Lauren —
Inspired Summer 

If American coastal summer vibes is your vibe… let’s be friends

Mixing a few saves and splurges to create this look…. 

Can you believe these Tuckernuck vibe gingham ruffled hem pants are under $29

Ralph Lauren flag sweater

Denim chambray short sleeve button up

Miller red sandals - Straw tote- Straw hat
Gold hoops - Shell  necklace

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I am 54 and this is how I am styling Bermuda short I am 54 and this is how I am styling Bermuda shorts for Spring and Summer !

2 Basics but not basic looking….
Take your Short game up a notch with these couple easy tricks ✔️

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Calling…. All “Coastal Grandmothers” The White la Calling….

All “Coastal Grandmothers”
The White lace dress you’ll wear ALL Summer  LONG🌊🐚🦞🌸

I am a 54 year old boy mom and COCO, who loves all things Nancy Meyers, Ralph Lauren, Ina Garten and Martha Stewart …

 Whether you love an American Summers🇺🇸, East coast Summers, Visiting Napa or Traveling Europe… You’ll love this White lace Dress with balloon sleeves, pockets and tied waste.

Perfect dressed  casual or dressed up. 

No matter your age… Coastal Grandmother is a “vibe”  is it yours?

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Creating 3 Outfits with Trending shoes for Spring Creating 3 Outfits with Trending shoes for Spring and. Summer 🌱

—-Easy Spirit—-
Is know for comfort and Cushioned shoes that you can wear all day for work or play..

Meet the NEW Girls that also Have Style and are trending this Season.

~ Rosario- is a Small flower detail in Raffia with a block heel, amazing cushion and comes in 3 on trend colors for Spring. Featured her is what I call Pastachio green (light green)

~ Hetty is a slingback pointed toe Dress pump with kitten heel and a horse bit detail in brown trim and raffia.

~VANA Slip on Raffia Slide with horsebit & Leather detail… 

3 pairs of shoes that will work with all of your Spring & Summer outfits from work to play✔️✔️✔️

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-6 Looks you’ll Wear All Summer- Is an American S -6 Looks you’ll Wear All Summer-

Is an American Summer 🇺🇸❤️Calling you?

6 outfits just in time for Memorial Day 🇺🇸Inspo you’ll wear all Summer.

Wardrobe Basics, you can mix and match, Neutrals you can add a POP of color too and Red White and blue that give you a “classic” Ralph Lauren vibe that feels like an Old American Summer🇺🇸❤️

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Melanoma Cancer Journey —Part 6— —2nd Laser surge Melanoma Cancer Journey
—Part 6—

—2nd Laser surgery &  Update—

➡️Slide through 6 slides ➡️
To view process

 6 weeks  after my First laser treatment round 2 co2  deep core laser treatment.

I was diagnosed in December, Surgery in January and my first laser in February.

I’ve been sharing this Journey in hopes to help encourage you to make a skin check up appointment. 

Melanoma Cancer is deadly and very different from Skin Cancer.

Melanoma cancer is deadly,  early detection is key, before it can spread to lymph nodes, organs, &  blood. 

If your new here or just seeing this post, I have 5 other parts with all the info and my Journey to date in Feed and stores saved to highlights with more info.

Thank you for all the kind messages, comments and prayers! I appreciate you being apart of my tribe.

Thank you and NOW make your Skin Appointment! 

May is Skin cancer awareness month and it’s so important to get your skin checked!

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🚨Come back next week to view the update and see what the laser did 

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The perfect Thing to do with the girls👠 Brunch an The perfect Thing to do with the girls👠

Brunch and then head to see Devil wears Prada 👠🍿🎬

A few mimosas might have been drank🍾🥂😉

What I wore:
-Gold button detail scuba blazer
-Pleated skorts 
-A fun high heel graphic tee by @madisonmaison 
-Rock stud pumps and clutch
-Bold Gold Jewelry

More details over on my LTk or message me.

I have to say.. Mother’s Day weekend was great… started the day out with Cammi @cammishappyplace to shop Vintage market days and end the night with Mexican food at one of our favorite places.

Saturday- off with the girls for brunch and a movie… ended the night at the garden shop (yes in 👠 heels) 

Sunday- Church and then Brunch with the family and then evening in the garden with my hubby🛍️🥂👠🍽️🎬🪏🪴🏡

 Couldn’t ask for a better way to spend it✔️

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4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation 4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation that will make packing a breeze✔️

From Brunch to poolside, sightseeing to Dinner I’ve got you covered… along with easy packing ✈️🚗🚕🧳

As a 54 year old who loves a good matching set for travel, as it truly does make packing a breeze… You’ll love the quality,fit and style of these 4 sets…

Which one is your favorite 1-2-3-4?

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