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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


5 Things to do for the perfect & easy girl’s weekend!

5 Things to do for the perfect & easy girl’s weekend!

fun things to do in Utah

Main street, Park City, Ut.

fun things to do in Utah

Sisters… Girlfriend’s weekend day in Park City for Sundance!

fun things to do in Utah

Girl’s weekend=Sundance, Park City, Ut. for a day of shopping, photoshoots, and yummy food!

Yummy food

Soft Pretzel, Beer cheese, and Blue moon beer

black and white stripe straw

I adore black and white stripes… A restaurant that serves a Black and white stripe straw is a winner in my book! Sometimes it really is just the small things!

Yummy meal in Park City

Chicken burger and fries at The Spur in Park city

facial skin care

Epic Hydrating mask

Last weekend we had an impromptu girl’s weekend at home! Not planned in any way, and I sometimes feel that’s the best kind! My sister Tiana was in town on business for Sundance, and we realized her Friday night and Saturday were free. So I called two of my other girlfriends and said, “come over for a simple dinner & drinks” they said they’d love to! (they happen to be kid-free!) YAY! No planning went into it at all. I used what I had at home, Quiche, soup, and some rolls. Super easy and no extra fuss. We even said, “wear something cozy and bring an overnight bag just in case!”  This led to a fun night of good talks, laughter, and even a few good tears staying up until 1 am, leading to a sleepover.

We woke up on Saturday to Sharon making scone’s a mix that she brought from her home served with yummy jam. Delicious! We stayed in our Pj’s being lazy ALL day on the couch… watching the Hallmark channel. I tried out some home beauty treatments (full treatment steps here), then we made a quick & easy dinner and planned our Sunday in Park City. Still in our Pj’s… 

Our Sunday plans really weren’t all that big…A little shopping, (Park city’s Tjmax has great finds) My sister said we should all buy these, (Which of course we’re going to take her beauty advice and all bought a set!) cafe’ sitting with people watching, a photoshoot, shopping the main street and finding a place we haven’t tried YET to eat!  (WINK) we love to head over to Park City a lot for a change of scenery. My Sister had appointments in the morning, so she had to meet us just a touch later. With no set schedule, we just rolled with how the day took shape. When you have a small group of 2-4, it’s easy to roll with the punches and not set a schedule.

The girlfriend bond is so important and really special when you can share your heart with no judgment. I am lucky to have a great group of girls that truly are a blessing in my life, and I love it when we can have lunch, a movie night, or even a quick drink on the deck. Having a whole weekend is rare, and I think really important for our girl bonding and that little break from family life. I think it helps us to be better moms and wives.

Here are my 5 Things to do for the easy perfect girl’s weekend!

  1. Don’t plan too much… It Makes for no stress and an easy weekend.
  2. Use food from your pantry, maybe have a girlfriend bring something she has on hand.
  3. Plan to stay in your pj’s and be lazy for 1 whole day.
  4. Drag out your masks, facial creams, and manicure stuff.
  5. Have an outing, a hike, a day trip, or a meal out.

Doing these 5 things will ensure you have a relaxing, well-rounded weekend with the girls.

A much-needed weekend with just the girls was just what I needed to relax, refocus and share stories to catch up—the perfect amount of laziness and girl time. 
If you haven’t had a day or weekend with just the girls, you really need to treat yourself. 

Need any other Girl’s weekend tips or ideas? Leave a comment below; I’d love to help!

*I wish I would have taken more photo’s over the weekend. (you would have liked our pj’s and face masks) I didn’t think I would write about it, and then I realized it’s a great topic. Who doesn’t want affordable idea’s to do something fun with the girlfriends?

 

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Found… My New Favorite Jeans!

Side slit jeans

Vince Camuto booties and Kut from the Kloth Jeans

winter outfit ideas

Embroidered Jacket, Velvet top, Connie ankle jeans, Chanel Sunglasses similar and Studded booties

Fall/ winter outfit

Winter outfit, cozy cream sweater with side zip, leopard fur vest, cream Gianni Bini booties

jeans everyone should own

Connie Side Slit ankle skinny jeans by Kut from the Kloth

pop of Turquoise with wine

Grommet sleeve detail sweatshirt, Connie Skinny jeans by Kut from the Kloth, boots by Freebird, leopard clutch and turquoise jewelry

perfect fitting jeans

Grommet Detail sleeve sweatshirt, Connie Skinny jeans by Kut from the Kloth,  leopard clutch and Turquoise jewelry, lace up boots Freebird

leopard vest

Side zipper detail sweater paired with Connie dark skinny jeans and cream bootie

Winter outfit

Faux fur sweater, Cream sweater, Denim connie ankle jeans, cream suede booties Gianni Bini,Heart sun glasses, Giving key necklace

Found…My New Favorite Jeans!

Finding your new favorite jeans at an affordable price just got easier….

You know I love the brand Kut from the Kloth! I have made references prior.  Here is a detailed prior post… I love that Kut from the Kloth is a brand that Chic Style Clothing boutique carries and they make sure to carry ALL the new releases for each season along with the Boutique exclusives. Last season Kut made the Connie frayed Ankle skinny in a dark wash with modell in it! It feels like butter and fits like a glove. I fell in love and grabbed 2 pairs of the frayed bottom cuties….WELL….For Spring they designed this FAB jean with a cute side slit and unstructured hem, perfect paired with booties. This jean fits amazing and truly fits every body type from 0-14 petite or tall and looks great with anything you pair with it.  I love the way it fits, feels and that you can go from casual to dressy with its dark wash. Do yourself a favor and grab a pair or two! 

I really tried to show you several types of outfits you could wear with these fabulous jeans, hoping to show you how versatile they really are. Come Spring they’ll  look great with tees and tanks paired with your favorite wedges and kicks.

All of the Clothing Above is from Chic Style Clothing boutique in South Ogden.  You can shop local to grab your unique pieces or call the shop at 801-749-0664 and order over the phone as their website is always changing and has some of their best sellers.

Hoping you have a wonderful week! Have any question? Please leave a comment below and I’ll be happy to try to help! OX, D’Arcy

 

This is my personal opinion. In collaboration with Chic Style Clothing boutique.

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2018 Active Wear Trends That’ll Take you from the Studio to the Street

active wear

Senita Agility long sleeve

active wear

Senita fierce workout pants

sportswear

Senita easy cardigan active wear

active wear

Senita High waisted Capris

active wear

Senita High waisted capris…. I love the pocket detail & large enough to hold your phone! Brilliant!

workout /activewear

Senita keyhole tee…Great movement for the studio, yet stylish for streetwear!

sportswear /activewear

Senita Space between top….perfect for your favorite class & cute enough to dress up with a lace bralette and leather jeans

Love your Melon
Beanie smoked speckled pom pom beanie

knit beanie

Love your Melon
                                                                       natural beanie

headband

Love your Melon
knit headband

Knit Headband

Love your Melon
knit headband

rose gold and black

Misfit Shine 2 Fitness & Sleep Monitor 

 Hello Beautiful’s, 

Activewear is still strong and making big trends in 2018.  I am loving this brand Sentia 

 With life being busy and many liking the minimalist trend it’s nice to get multiple uses out of items in our closet. That doesn’t stop in active wear, ONE of the big trends in active wear is having piece’s that will take you from the studio to the street with ease.

It’s all in the detail’s….Cute cutouts, great fabrics that fit well yet have special details.  Sentia is a company owned by sister’s and ran by all woman, they understand what woman want and the attention to detail in their sportswear line shows. 

Leggings with mesh details add style yet breathable and add that Fashionable detail you can wear with a cute sweater perfect for the street. You can wear sneakers or your Ugg boots.  Cute cut out tee’s and mixed fabrics make a work out shirt perfect to pair with jeans. I’ve been living in my easy cardigan, just enough to keep me warm after a workout and cute enough to layered over my favorite rocker tee’s for running errands or heading to the movies.

Love your Melon

Knit beanies have been all the rage for a couple of years NOW. Who doesn’t love a super soft beanie or headband to keep your head warm or wear on a bad hair day! What I love even more then super soft beanie is a product that gives back. Love Your Melon worked to develop a beanie that is soft enough for children battling cancer. Fifty percent (50%) of profit from the sale of all Love Your Melon products is given to Love Your Melon’s nonprofit partners in the fight against pediatric cancer. Their nonprofit partners work in the field of pediatric oncology, fund cancer research initiatives and provide immediate support for families of children battling cancer. All of their products are made in the United States of America. 

Now taking that beanie from working out to the street comes with ease, their too cute to wear just to work out it! I have been wearing mine all Winter from outside work outs to Casual date nights. So soft you’ll want several colors.

Misfit Shine 2

Automatically tracks steps, distance, calories, and light and restful sleep

Vibration alerts for call and text notifications, movement reminders, and alarms

Smart button enabled to control connected household devices

Swim proof, anodized aluminum disc with multicolor LED progress display and time

Non-charging, replaceable battery last up to 6 months

Reflective band option features a sleek, reflective accent that reflects light in even the dimmest conditions – so you can stay safe and in style at all times.

I have been using this awesome fitness tracker for a couple of months now. I love it! I love keeping track of my daily steps, it helps keep me motivated if I haven’t moved enough that day to get up and walk. It’s easy to wear, looks fashionable and I find it interesting to see how I really sleep, with the sleep tracker and best of all I don’t have to charge it. What no charging?  Has a battery like a regular watch… Brilliant! 

Want to Win a Misfit Shine 2

Enter to Win….Follow these 5 Easy Steps to Win

  1. Sign up for my blog Here
  2. Follow my Instagram Here
  3. Follow Fox13 The Place Here
  4. Follow Misfit Here
  5. Comment below on my blog

That’s it All Finished… ALL 5 easy ways to enter done…Good Luck (Give away ends 2/2/18)

Did you catch our Segment on Fox13 The Place?

Here’s the Link incase you missed it.  Studio to Street

Have a great day! OX, D’Arcy

sportswear, studio to street

Fox13 The Place sportswear segment featuring, Senita, Misfit and love your melon

My model’s Katie Brown  & Britney Beus

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Top 10 Favorite Beauty & lifestyle products from 2017

weight loss tea

14 day Teatox, a Daytime Detox, and a bedtime cleanse for weight loss.

Skinny Pop sea salt popcorn in its own movie microwave box

Skincare

Md complete Anti aging, Retinol Vitamin C and 3 Day Booster pack

body care

Creek Baby, Coconut body cream

Cyantific skin care line, 3 piece skin care system

Boh Tea, A Gold blend of rich golden Cameron Highlands smooth flavor tea.

Good Virtues co. Hair products, Happy & Heavenly Clarifying shampoo, Helpful & Delightful Clarifying conditioner

Arawak Face powder, Handcrafted & Organic translucent powder

Fancy Feet foot petals

toothpaste

All natural Whitening Toothpaste perfect for everyday use

Hello Beautiful’s!

My Top 10 Favorite Beauty & lifestyle products from 2017.

I thought you would love a round up of some of my favorite products I was lucky to try, review or sample from 2017. I have been lucky to work with a lot of companies and brands that I have loved and some not so much over the last year. Please know I always give my honest review and truly share my thoughts and results. I really enjoyed a ton of products in 2017 and here’s my top 10 Favorite products that I am still using in 2018. 

All of these products really helped my skin, my feet and a little help controlling my weight. With one little self indulgent… Tea, as a tea lover I found a brand that has me trying different teas and I am so enjoying it.

  1.  BooTea = A 14 day Tea cleanse= This cleanse is great for a Holiday detox or a jump start for a new diet. I did this last year after Christmas and it helped get me back on my regular eating habits after the indulgences from the Holiday’s. I will be starting it again this year in the Next week. It’s simple, drink a cup every morning and 1 night tea every other night for 14 day’s. You’ll be less bloated and your cravings from the Holiday’s will be lessened. I know mine sure did….I even lost about 5 lbs. Here’s to a jump start!
  2. SkinnyPop
    “Skinny Pop believes in snacking without compromise. That means using the fewest, cleanest and simplest ingredients possible to bring you the best tasting popcorn. Whole grain popcorn, natural sunflower oil and the perfect amount of salt combine together to give you a delicious snack that you can feel great about eating everyday @ 39 calories per cup”  – That’s the Skinny!  I like the Sea Salt pop corn and it really is a great snack that helps keep me full.  If it’s a little to simple for you, you can sprinkle it with season salt. Seasonings a great alternative to using butter or oil. 
  3. Md Complete 
    • Simple 3-day regimen designed to replicate the benefits of professional peels
    • Helps to even skin tone, reduce the appearance of fine lines & wrinkles, smooth rough texture, and brighten complexion. 
    • If you’ve been following me for a while, then you’ll know I love face masks. I do one every Sunday! It’s important to take care of your skin at every age. As we age our skin needs different products and has different concerns it’s important to find products that work for your skin and it’s ok to try out different products or try a new mask weekly.
    • Retinol Vitamin C Concentrate
      • Unlike other serums this product is pure concentrate — it’s not diluted with water (which is often the first ingredient in other products).
      • Provides dermatologist levels of Retinol, as much as 5-10 times higher than other products.
      • Ideally suited for derma rolling, with naturally derived essential acids, Vitamin E, and Vitamin C.      
      • I have been reading when we age our Skin really needs Vitamin C and to help with winkles Retinol in your skin regimen is very important so a combination of both in 1 bottle made great sense. I have noticed a difference in my skin since I’ve been using, the glow and the texture is improving specially on my neck.  

4. Coconut Body cream .  Creek Baby Coconut Body Crème is 100% Pure Organic Coconut Oil has no smell, which is great for moisturizing and then you can use your favorite fragrance.  Tip: I use the coconut oil in the shower after I dry off and that helps keep me  moisturized in the dry Winter. I do use it year round for soft skin.

5. Cyantific  Skin care line- Each product not only helps to protect the skin from damage, but also hydrates to dramatically minimize the look of fine lines and wrinkles, and leaves skin looking clearer, more radiant, helping to preserve beauty at every age. I used this line All summer and I loved what it did for my skin. I knew my mom would love it too. I gave this to my mom for her birthday in October and she loves it. 

Something I have learned in my years is that its great to find skin care lines that you love and get great results with. Remember to change seasonally, I personally change brands and products with the season. It’s good not to use the same products for years. Step out of your comfort zone and try something new.

6. BOH Tea– It’s no secret I prefer tea over coffee. Having the chance to try a couple variety’s of BOH tea’s made me switch from good old Lipton and Tazo tea to the rich bold flavor of Boh’s cameron gold blend. 

7. Good Virtues– Clarifying Shampoo and Conditioner….I am a big Dry shampoo user and I was told it’s important to find a good Clarifying shampoo. It helps your scalp and hair from using hair products and dry shampoo. I have loved the smell and how it cleans my hair. This product is good to use 1-2 times a week.

8. Arawak Face powder– I have always used translucent powder and this organic powder works perfectly over your favorite foundation or without.  Has a great natural powder blends with almost any skin tone and is a powerful acne treatment. Better than mineral makeup! 

9. Fancy Feet– Give your favorite pair of shoes a comfortable makeover from the inside out. These cushions ease pressure on the ball of your foot and prevent your feet from sliding all over the place. Give your feet a “fancy” they’ll love you!

10. Whitening toothpaste– Whitening Fluoride Toothpaste lightens teeth without peroxide while preventing cavities and plaque formation. This gentle, vanilla mint formula freshens breath and provides a clean, just-brushed feeling that lasts all day. I have tried all kinds of whitening stripes, tablets, toothpastes and trays. All make your teeth super sensitive and cost a fortune. I’ve been using for 6 months now and keeps my teeth white with no sensitivity.  My whole family uses this toothpaste and has lightened my husbands teeth 1 full shade. It’s safe to use pregnant, everyday and for kids.  BUY IT NOW Here $20.00

I hope you enjoyed my recap of my favorite 10 products of 2017! Ox, D’Arcy

This is All my personal thoughts, feelings and personal opinion. 

 

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Day to Night Affordable Metallic outfit Idea

Seeing Stars and loving all this seasons’s metallic’s. Kut from the Kloth Jeans & Star sweater on SALE for $24, Tassel earrings Nordstrom ombre sold out so I linked the Solid colors.

I love that you can use this outfit day or night and that it really can be causal simply because it’s a Sweater & Jeans. Change out the Shoes and accessories to simple studded earrings and converse or bootie and you have a casual look. Looks that can change from day to night with just swapping out a couple of pieces makes going from work to dinner with ease.

  If you have been following me for awhile you know I am a big fan of Kut from the Kloth jeans. I love how they fit so when they come out with a new wash (this Metallic) or body style I am always up to grab a pair! The fabric is stretchy and the metallic gives them some glam.

Way’s you can try the metallic trend without breaking the bank…..

The metallic’s this season add a playfulness that any age can wear without being over the top. Really who doesn’t want a little sparkle! Not sure how you feel about metallic’s? Try it in a small dose! Like the sweater I am wearing. It’s on sale which makes it a reasonable way to try a trend. Want to make a bolder step? Try the jeans.. Kut from the Kloth is having a But one get one 50% off sale right NOW! If you haven’t tried Kut nows the time! 

Talking about sparkle look at these shoes! More details about them at the bottom of this post. You know I am a shoe girl and I love different shoes. I really feel the shoes can make or break the outfit. Buying different & unique shoes can take a regular pair of jeans and a plain tee or sweater into a statement outfit. If you notice I rarely have on a basic pair of shoes….Shoes can finish the outfit or Make your outfit pop! Next time you go shoe shopping… Pick the color over black or grab a print! Make a statement! Get the shoes girl!!!

More about HOW Shoes can Make an outfit!coming Next week

high heels

Crystal and Ice Open toed Badgley Mischka shoes (sold out) Similar shoe here

More details on my look….

Nail polish Opi Gel, bracelet Zenzii, Lip Stick-Lip crayon Marc Jacobs color Send nudes

If you liked my post please share it with your friends or pin my photo’s to pintrest. (share icons on left side bar)

I hope my tips are helping you to look and feel fabulous! Have any questions simply leave a comment.

OX, D’Arcy

 

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Holiday Outfits Fox 13 Fashion segment

Holiday Outfits, Fox13 The Place, Fashion segment

Casual to dressy, A couple of festive Holiday looks I styled for The Place using clothes from Chic Style

fashion segment

Holiday fashion

My Holiday look, Pants and leather Jacket by Kut from the Kloth, Sweater from Target on SALE $24.99, clutch TjMax and pom pom heel by Gianni Bini

Happy Holiday’s!

I wanted to Share with you my Fashion segment I did on Fox 13 The Place last Friday, on Holiday looks you can create from casual to dressy at affordable pricing. Here’s the link to watch the show Fashion segment on The Place 

I have been lucky enough to have had a monthly fashion segment on Fox 13 The place, once a month for the last year and half. It’s been really fun to share affordable & on trend fashion and easy to create looks for every age especially us moms. To see past shows visit my blog post here…. October 2016 fashion Segment, November 2016, December 2016 Fashion segment, fashion Segment, January 2017 fashion Segment, February 2017 fashion Segment, March 2017 fashion Segment, April 2017 fashion Segment, May 2017 fashion Segment, June 2017 fashion Segment, July 2017 fashion Segment, August 2017 fashion Segment, September 2017 fashion Segment, October 2017 fashion Segment, November 2017 fashion Segment (working on creating a Fox 13 tab for easy viewing)

I am looking forward to 2018 as I will be working with other brands and small boutiques to bring you great segments with great styling and affordable fashion for every age. Mark your calendar January 12th I have a segment on work out wear trends for 2018. Plus I have the pleasure of dressing the Gift of Glam Winner who will be featured that day as well. 

I hope you will watch a show or 2 and if you have any questions leave a comment and I would be happy answer any question. OX, D’Arcy

 

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How to do Holiday make up like a Pro

How to Do Holiday Make-Up Like a Pro….

I am so happy to have a Guest Feature, Hollywood Make up Artist (and my Sister) Tiana Holiday

www.tianaraeartistry.com

Tiana Holiday
www.tianaraeartistry.com

Holiday looks by Tiana Holiday

Make up artist at work

The excitement for the Holidays can put your makeup routine on the back burner or least zap your energy when it comes to getting ready for that dreaded company Christmas party or neighbors fancy block party. But with some festive and easy ideas you will be ready to show off your Good ‘Ole  Saint Nick Ho Ho Ho vibes.

This festive season pairs great with a perfect red lip. My favorite cult go to for the Holidays is M.A.C Cosmetic’s very first retro matte lipstick that is still a worldwide favorite, Ruby Woo. A True red lip that will stay all night especially if you make sure not to skip the lipliner. Using a lipliner will make your lipstick look neat, not sloppy, and it will help keep it where we want it to stay. The easiest way to achieve this is by lining the whole lip line with Cherry Lipliner from M.A.C Cosmetics than fill in the whole lip with the pencil. This is an easy way to make your lips a little fuller by going just a tad over the natural lip line. Lip liners are also a great way to make the lip even on both sides, makeup is great for optical illusions. Any true red lipstick and lip liner combo can work, I just like to use my tried and tested favs.

To add more spice to this bold lip you can add a red, gold or silver glitter on top, just pat the glitter into the freshly applied lipstick, than blot a little with a kleenex. Just dab a small amount at first and remember that glitter is the gift that keeps on giving. If the glitter gets on your skin, you can use some scotch tape to remove the little unwanted glitter flecks. For an even bolder lip use a darker lipliner such as burgundy, dark purple or black. but only outline the natural lip line than apply the lipstick and finally use a lip brush to blend the lipliner into the red lipstick. We call this an ombre lip and please have fun with different combos of colors. Makeup is suppose to be fun and to show off your confidence. Rock that bold lip at your Holiday Party!

When I do a red lip on myself or my clients, I like to finish the look off with pretty skin and to get that try Fenty Beauty Pro Filt’r Soft Matte Longwear Foundation, a little contour try Hoola Bronzer by Benefit or Sculpt Contour Powder by M.A.C Cosmetics, a pretty highlight try Hourglass highlights or Wet & Wild Highlights at your nearest drugstore, a peachy tone blush like Milani Baked Blush in Luminoso sold at Drugstores, a well groomed brow try using Anastasia Brow Powder Duo, a black eyeliner on top try Blacktrack or Boot Black Liquid eyeliner both by M.A.C Cosmetics or bottom eyeliner try Revlon Colorstay pencil in black and complete with a pretty set of lashes I love M.A.C Cosmetics lashes in #48, #36 and #35 or try House of Lashes.

If a bold lip is not in the cards for you or you want to put more focus on your eyes, than go for a dark emerald green smokey eye. I love this look all over the lid and blended up into the crease. I use a soft brown matte eyeshadow to blend it out, than add a touch of a light shimmery eyeshadow just under the brow bone and inner corner of eye. I use a black eyeliner on lower lash line and than blend that out with the dark green eyeshadow. Add lashes to increase the dramatic effect or lots of mascara. A fun way to draw attention to the eye is to embrace metallic in your eyeshadow. This isn’t as messy as using glitter. Bronze, gold, and silver are a great option for a metallic eye.

Adding volume to your Holiday cheer this season with a ruby red lip, glitter, smokey sexy eyes and a lush lash will put you in a jolly mood. You want to stand out for having an ultra-chic look not a messy over the top one. When you focus on one feature on your face and keep the others polished, you will have winning Holiday look.

Written by, Tiana Holiday 

Holiday look with Red lip

Holiday look

Holiday look bold lip

Holiday look ,smoky eye nude lip

I hope you enjoyed my little guest feature and learned some helpful tips for the Holiday’s, OX D’Arcy

Please make sure to go check out Tiana’s instagram Tianaraeartistry and follow her for amazing tips and Beauty products you must have!  To Book an Appointment or Private Class Check out her website www.tianaraeartistry.com 

Tiana is happy to answer questions or share her favorite must have product, just leave a comment on her instagram post! 

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How to look Chic in that Ugly Christmas Sweater

 

How to look Chic in That Ugly Sweater!

Cheers! To a fun Party

Ugly Christmas Sweater Party

How to look Chic in that Ugly Christmas sweater……

I don’t know about you but I never really wanted to look UGLY or dorky! (I always wanted to be something pretty or cute for Halloween!) Really …..Wait for it… I really never loved Halloween! I love getting dressed up Pretty for a party, dance or Black tie event….But costumes No! 

The Ugly Christmas Sweater Party has become more and more popular and like “Halloween” for Christmas! At least at my Girlfriend Kjirstin’s Annual Sweater party! Don’t get me wrong it’s a hoot of a party! we’ve had the Griswolds, Whoville’s and some crazy ugly sweaters! It’s a great night and really fun to see what people come up with!  As for me…. I’ll take the Chic route:)

Easy way to “CHIC” up that Christmas sweater…is A ..pick a cute one, Wink! Snowman sweater was Nordstrom last year… A cute choice here  B wear you festive pants= red jeans or like shown above Silver Kut from the Kloth jeans or Black Leather pants!  C wearing a fun pump or a stylish bootie  D Statement earring!

I hope you liked my tips on How to look Chic for a Ugly Christmas Sweater party, OX D’Arcy 

I would love to help you with any Styling questions… Just leave a comment!

 

 

 

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Scents of the Season: Frasier Fur by Thymes

Frasier Fur candle by Thymes

Frasier Fur candle by Thyme

 

 

 

Hello Beautiful’s

Don’t you just love the smell of Christmas?

I love all the different smells of Christmas, Holiday baking, Smells of cider and cinnamon but my Favorite is the smell of a fresh cut Christmas tree! We’ve always had a fresh tree in our living room and this is the first years we have a fake Tree…. I was really missing the smell…Until my Cute Friend gave me this Candle by Thymes called Frasier fur It really is the perfect Pine tree scent. I purchased more at a cute Local gift shop called Treasure Basket in South Ogden, Utah.    

This Candle comes in every size and a bunch of cute options to match your Holiday look! Burns clean (meaning if you burn it long enough it doesn’t leave wax along the sides!)  TIP: Always make sure you have enough time to burn a candle, lighting for a short amount of time will ruin the burn flow and leaves the wax building up on the sides! Makes a great Gift!

I Wish you a lovely day full of the scents of the season, OX D’Arcy

The lidded Gold Frasier Fur candle shown above

My Favorite Dish soap

 

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Giving back….How YOU can plan a Homeless giving bag night!

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Giving back… Service project-Homeless giving bags. Goal for 2017 was 300 bags! We went over goal 310!

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Setting up the product for a successful assembly night

 

 

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giving back, homeless bags, community, service project

Items included in each of the bags.

giving back, homeless bags, community, service project

This Years bags …Hope Community health service donated these fabulous back packs

giving back, homeless bags, community, service project

In years past we use the xxlg zip lock bags (I’ve purchase at Target)

giving bag service project

Community that come together for a good cause

I thought I would share with you one of my favorite nights of the year….. Our Annual Service project for the Homeless “giving bags” I started organizing this event 3 years ago with the idea if a family could make 5 to 10 bags a family “what could a community come together and do?”    “Well it Takes A Village”

Is a true statement!  My first year I set a goal of 100 bags and made a list of items I felt would be helpful to people in need, created a Facebook event with my idea and the list of items and a start date for collecting items and a Assembly date . Letting them know I would provide Refreshments and treated it like a Holiday party!

Here is A sample of what I sent out on a Facebook event for this Year with a goal of 300 bags!

It’s our 3rd annual Homeless Giving bag service project assembling Night… We did 220 bags last year and I would love to do 300 this year!

For those of you that helped, donated and assembled … We deliver a large portion to the streets of salt lake and Ogden & then families take 5/6 bags and Handed out to Homeless in need ALL year! It was a great way to give back and help people in need on the Street!

Donations can be dropped off at my home…. NEED BY NOVEMBER 27th…..Here’s or list of Items were looking for….(Any amount is perfect you don’t have to get all 300 of an item)  Please just comment what your getting and how many so we can keep track of what’s needed❤️      Assembly night will be December 3rd ( A Donation of time is wonderful too for assembly night!)

Xxlg zip bag 300 (Vandenberg’s provide)

Waters. 300  

Granola bars 600

Fruit snacks 600

Cup of noodle 300

Vit c 300

Tooth brushes 300

Tooth paste 300

Beanies 300

Socks 300

Gloves 300

Hand sanitizer 300

Cheese crackers 600

Mints roll 300

Hand warms 300

Comb 300

Soap 300

Any donation’s is wonderful to make this “give back” event wonderful!

As the items start arriving I keep track and keep adjusting our needs on the event page. As we get to the last week of donation deadline I put out a need on a regular Facebook post and other social media….. I feel blessed people always come through. People really do want to help and do care to help a good cause. We’re lucky to live in a great community of wonderful people who want to give back.

We started a family tradition with handing out our giving bags….We have a couple of other families go with us to Salt lake. We enjoy dinner at Cheesecake Factory, See the lights at Temple square and hand out bags with our families at a couple of shelters. It’s always an emotional night 1. there is so many in need you feel heartbroken 2. It really helps you count your blessings 3. It warms your heart to see peoples face when you give them a bag 4. Your children (any age) really love being apart of something so special.  

temple square , utah, giving back

Family photo from 2016 viewing the lights in Salt lake city

           You too can start a” Giving bag” service project start small 50 bags and ask your family, friends, neighbors and community members! You’ll be shocked how fast your bag items add up!    

I am happy to answer any question you may have, just leave a comment below. OX, D’Arcy                           

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Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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When your hubby asks you if you want to go for a drive in the convertible….

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Create mini Charcuterie Boards .. no need for a Big elaborate spread..

The perfect way to have a little appetizer, without a lot of work and NO over eating…
so they’ll eat there dinner…

And a little peek at out Fall Table… More of that later….

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I am 54 and this is what I am wearing in real life I am 54 and this is what I am wearing in real life✔️🍂

17 outfits I’ve worn lately 
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I think you’ll love these easy everyday outfits.

Mixing affordable finds with a few splurges✔️✔️✔️

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Fall just gets me so excited✔️

I can’t wait to share my full porch, window boxes and a fun projects I’ve been working on…

Stay tuned for some fun Fall content🍂🍂🍂

How cute is this cute outfit?

Bandana Print is huge this fall season and these slightly barrel jeans are a keeper✔️

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For more info on this Journey, I have 8 parts in feed and in highlights. 

Please note I am not a doctor and these are just items and products I have researched and have helped me on my journey.

My hope is that it will help others going through melanoma or facial scars as well as bring more awareness to go get your skin checked!

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Small moments can be big ones..
Enjoying the little things…

And the Moment you REALIZE….

It’s Ok to FILL your CUP☕️🥤

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Unstoppable… A day in my life…. Just my Saturday Unstoppable…

A day in my life….
Just my Saturday 
TODO list✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️

No rest for the wicked….
I’ve always got more to do then hours in the day… How about you?

A little peek at what’s going on around at the Vandenberg’s ..

Come back for more “LiFE” and project …. You never know what you’re going to catch us doing
Hello my name is D’Arcy and I am a 54 year old , s Hello my name is D’Arcy and I am a 54 year old , styling Gingham & mixing Carmel and orange for a Fall transition look….while sharing a little advice✔️😉

What makes you happy?
A smile…
A good cup of Coffee…
A cute outfit…
Exercise….

Slide through my photos … to see my thoughts…

❤️🍂Number 3 is really important and 8 is the TRUTH

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I’ve always been an old soul… 🖼️I started collect I’ve always been an old soul…

🖼️I started collecting antiques when I was 16… I didn’t want a car, I fell in love with an Antique dresser and mirror and asked for that as my Birthday present.

🪏I started gardening and baking along side my mom, probably in a high chair❤️

🍎Which lead to winning my elementary schools pie baking contest when I was in the 2nd grade..🍏Apple pie) with applies from our yard.

📚In the 3rd grade I won a hot air balloon ride for 📚reading the most books in elementary school that year.

🎨In the 5th grade I started a handmade card club at school to drop off a senior centers 

🍽️my love of entertaining, started in elementary school, For fun I would plan dinners(my mom and I would shop for them & I would cook for my family as well as set the tables pretty, have ready when my family came home. 

I had a mom who taught and shared her love of hospitality, creativity and “grandma hobbies” way before I could fall in love with Martha Stewart as a young teenager in the 80’s..

Not only did I want 17 magazine & vogue, I wanted Martha steward living, better homes and garden, Ina Gardens cook books, and anything made by Ralph Lauren .

I got my real first job at 15 (so I could buy (RL) at the cutest home decor and interiors shop, owned by the most creative and talented lady (Susie), who gave me my love of wallpaper, and playing with pretty things… I was doing her window displays at both her shops by 16… 

🌸So, I guess you could say … yes, I Skipped the midlife crisis, and  I’ve been doing “Grandma Hobbies”  my whole life!

Now… if I could just get someone to teach me Mahjong … I Really need a reason to buy these tortoiseshell scallop tile holders, pretty tiles and set a gorgeous table😉🤣

Fun fact -I grew geraniums in clay pots in my bedroom in high school… 
- I’ve had weekly fresh flowers in my home since I was 19 , even if i had to go pick wild flowers.  I’ve just lifts your mood, brings cheer to a space and makes me happy.

Tell me something you enjoy doing?

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Over 50- Utah living- lover of my family
I find the hidden gems, so you don’t have to. 9 I find the hidden gems, so you don’t have to. 

9 Affordable 
 “Vintage Inspired” Home finds
I tell me “Besties’s about”…

-Tea Strainer you’ll give as gifts
-Magnetic Brass measuring spoons
-Cutest drying rack
-Honey/Syrup dispenser 
-dish soap/handsoap/candle holder 
-Table lamps
-French sea salt
-Beautiful safe pans
-Mirror we all need over 40

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Midlife awakening…. So many good things happen wh Midlife awakening….

So many good things happen when you get older…..❤️❤️❤️

-You’re wiser!
-You  don’t care what people think
-You dress for yourself not others
-You love time at home
- You’ll drop everything for your grandbabies 

Best thing…YOU DON’T have to put up with anything you don’t like!❤️❤️❤️

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🍂A little affordable Western outfit
- Suede dress you’d think was Anthro and yet is so affordable and flattering
- The best under $70 tall western boots 
-turquoise necklace ring & bracelets 
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I am 54 Styling not your basic white button up & S I am 54
Styling not your basic white button up & Snakeskin jeans

One Base Outfit 3 looks …

Slide ➡️to see 3 outfit inspos … all the details of these NOT so Basic basics and fun accessories, perfect for Fall transition outfits …

You’ll wear these pieces on repeat all season long.

-No Iron White button up with Bow sleeve details
-Metallic snake skin Girlfriend dark denim jeans 
-light weight boxy knit sweater with 3/4 sleeves perfect to wear alone or layered. (I love who it shows off the bow sleeve details on the button up) 
-metallic gold quilted loafers
-metallic gold belt
-Metallic custome made leather bucket bag 
-Gold Horse necklace 
-Gold earrings 

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—PotteryBarn or Target?— The quality says Pottery —PotteryBarn or Target?—

The quality says PotteryBarn but the prices say Target…

Whether your looking for a little 🍂 Fall refresh 🍁 Some items for you Holiday entertaining, or crave a home like Ralph Lauren or Nancy Meyers?

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