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Dear D'Arcy

By D'Arcy Vandenberg


22nd Wedding anniversary outfit & date night!

February 24, 2018

Sara boo skirt, Chinese laundry heals, flowers by Emie James

Sara boo skirt, Chinese laundry heals, flowers by Emie James

Updo top knot bun and large statement earrings

Olive and wood Design wood heart

Olive and wood Design wood heart

Olive and wood Design wood heart

Our 22nd Anniversary is tomorrow February 25th.

I am so lucky to have been able to spend 25 year’s with my dream man. We dated for 3 years before we got married on that Winter storm day 22 years ago. The day that changed my life forever.  I got to marry MY dream man and spend forever with the person who “got me” who made me feel safe and supported my dreams and goals. Had the same morals and we fit, we’re better people for having each other. He’s my perfect lid as the saying goes…I truly believe everyone has a perfect lid for there pot…if you wait your’s will cross your path in Gods perfect timing.

People say Marriage is hard…..hmmm I would answer “depends on who you marry!” Marriage in my experience has been a wonderful, loving, joyful and caring endeavor.  Don’t get me wrong Life is hard… not marriage.  Life isn’t always roses and butterflies we all have hard issues that come up. Whether it’s your health, finances, children issues and even  families. There’s always things that take us on life’s roller coaster, it’s who’s on the ride with you that can make marriage easy or hard. When you find that perfect lid, getting through life’s hard times can make it easier.  I can honestly say we’re lucky…we don’t fight or bicker and rarely disagree. We seem to have always been on the same page and truly like each other. He’s my best friend and I enjoy spending time with him. I couldn’t imagine life without him. Still to this day he gives me butterflies when he walks through that door!

Hitting 22 years of marriage is a true blessing. In today’s age 50% of marriages won’t make it to 10. I really think being able to grow together as we age is one of the tickets. Taking time for our relationship along the journey helps you stay connected to each other. It’s hard to take time for yourself and your relationship when raising a family and both working full time. It’s something you must do. Going on dates, little getaway’s and even time alone at home is great for staying connected.  Remember to also take time out for yourself and allow him to do the same. This gives you both time, to do things you love that maybe your spouse doesn’t. Plus having friends is good for your soul. (yes… it’s ok to enjoy different activities!)  My Hubby lives, breathes and works in Ski boots! Yuck!!  I don’t love to ski…It hurts my feet! I can ski (not like my husband or our boys) but I ski…on pretty sunny Spring skiing day’s! I don’t love Winter and I really don’t like being cold.  Yes… We moved to Utah from California 11 years ago.  Going off on another subject..and I could go on and on about our big move and how it changed our lives in so many ways. Most for the best, but I’ll talk about that another time. Now back to Marriage…

I had a list in my head of the perfect man (do or did you?) Ben checked everything off on that list plus things I never could have thought of…. Except 1 thing he’s not romantic..hehehe  If you know me it’s a running little joke… he’s thoughtful and caring and sexy has hell, but not romantic!   I am not going to get flowers for no reason, great gifts just because, a warm bath drawn or beautiful written notes. But I do get a cup of hot tea in the morning and if it’s not ski season I get breakfast in bed on Sunday’s. He cooks, does laundry, is tidy and always removes ALL the snow to the cement! (Remember I don’t like Winter or ice on my drive way or walk way’s) He keeps my car detailed and would do anything I asked for help with…even if it’s to paint a bedroom for the 5th time. So some would say thats romantic! Well…..wait tell you find out he never asked me to marry him!!! Yup it’s true we’ve been married for 22 years and I was never purposed to!!! I was robbed..OX (that’s another story)  

So about that perfect day 22 year’s ago… It was the Biggest snowstorm in Big Bear had had in many year’s….Not so perfect to me, talk about stressed!  Wedding day’s are so stressful all that planning and preparing for the perfect fairy tail day. Having things go wrong that is out of your control. Choosing joy over stress and by seeing the positive in the negative is  how you find the joy…My perfect day or was it?             It’s all attitude

February 25th 1996

We looked so young! I was 25… Look at my hair it’s past my elbows!  I don’t think I could have gotten a bigger headpiece!!! 

22nd Anniversary

The most perfect day ever❤

  1. He cried when he saw me walking down the isle

2. He kissed me as soon as I got to him😘 “ Pastor Fred said”that’s later Ben!”

3. My mom stopped the wedding… because my 10ft train was standing in the hall😜 ( my sister didn’t snap in on correct💕) So we had a start over😜😜😜

4. It was the biggest snow storm in years! I was panicked all day, our photographer, cake and guest weren’t going to make it to the destination! They did… ( Well some of the guest got stuck😜)

5. My brother had to carry me on his back to the venue from the bridal suite… the snow was so deep❄

6. We got married by candlelight at 6:00pm❤  The flowers were stunning, my cousin sang, all my loved ones were there. It really was like a moment that stood in time💕

7. I danced with my grandpa to Unforgettable by Nat King Cole.

8. My aunt crash her car into another guests❄❄❄ just slide right down the hill!

9. My mom recorded the most beautiful & thoughtful speech ever! (she had to record it because she knew she’d cry saying it live!

10. I married my sole-mate and he still gives me butterflies 

11. The day couldn’t have been more perfect💕 Well… I should have change my vail! (But it was 1996!)

12. I hope you take away from this …. that while not everything IS perfect… We can make it perfect:) It’s just how we handle the situation and keep the right perspective

13. I got my perfect day I married my dream man❤💍 even though there was no romantic proposal!

14. All my husbands Dutch relatives surprised us from Holland!

15.Wait for it….Because I am a sport and I love this man….He skied fresh powder the next morning with all his buds! How could I let him miss 5 feet of fresh powder!!!

Happy 22nd Anniversary @skicoachben 🥂here’s to many more!

 

About Celebrating tomorrow….

We are headed to Salt Lake to enjoy a nice dinner and A night alone at the Hotel Monaco a Kimpton Hotel then Martinis at the Martini bar across the street. Monday we will have a full day at the spa so looking forward to that.

Outfit details

My Skirt is by Sara Boo, shoes- Chinese Laundry, clutch, earrings & turtleneck – Tjmax

Flowers – Emie James

Large heart- Olivewood designs

Pearl bracelets- Nordstrom

black jacket feather sleeve- Tj Max

Bow shoes- Just fab

Gucci belt 

I hope you find your lid! Ox, D’Arcy

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sara boo skirt, Chinese laundry heals

 

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Fuel your day with Jamba Juice

February 17, 2018

starting your day off right

starting your day off right

starting your day off right

juice bar

Happy Saturday beautiful’s!

I am lucky to partner with Jamba juice to share with you Jamba juices new “Fuel your day the Jamba way” Campaign! It’s so important to start your day off with eating something more important to start your day fueling your body with something healthy! Many of us are rushed and just don’t have time to make something at home. I was so excited to learn about Jamba Juices new “Fuel you day menu” Healthy options to start your day off right. Breakfast sandwiches, wraps and oatmeal.

I love a good oatmeal!  My way maybe not so healthy because I love Brown sugar, butter and milk!  Jamba Juice offers steel cut organic oatmeal with soy milk and you can customize with any 2 toppings which you can pick from….Blueberries, apples, strawberries, fresh bananas, nuts, brown sugar, shredded coconut and honey.  Mix any combination for a healthy boost of energy to start your day.  I choose Apples and brown sugar, Delicious!  (oatmeal with soy milk is 200 calories before adding toppings)

The breakfast sandwiches sounded delicious and I will go back and try a few. Here is what they added to the line up… A turkey sausage, roasted red pepper & Gouda breakfast sandwich, 2nd is a bacon, roasted tomato & spinach breakfast sandwich, 3rd is a Spinach and cheese wrap, 4th is a Turkey sausage and cheese wrap. All made with Whole food ingredients for “a whole lot of goodness!” All under 300 calories

Jamba juice also added cold brew coffee blend smoothies to their menu for those of you that needs that little jolt in the morning! Two choice for you coffee lovers…

The Lotta Horchata which is a cold brew coffee with cinnamon, chia seeds, honey, almond milk and non fat yogurt. A small has 210 calories. Sounds super yummy right?

The 2nd is called the La Vida Mocha which is also a cold brew coffee with chocolate moo’d nonfat frozen yogurt. A small is 290 calories. My hubby is a big coffee fan and he loved this drink!

Really running short on time? You can place your order online and have it ready for a quick pick up! www.Jambajuice.com

$2.00 off right now if you order a breakfast sandwich and smoothie. Coupon on website orders.

I hope you have a wonderful Saturday and that you get a chance to go try Jamba Juices new items! OX, D’Arcy

 

In Partnership with Jamba Juice. All opinions are my own.

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Creating a sweet and casual Valentine’s day outfit!

February 13, 2018

cashmere love sweater Victoria secrets

love sweater Victoria secrets

fresh blooms, kut from the kloth jeans, blush suede shoes

fresh blooms in pink and red

Flower's by Emie james

hot pink sweater, distressed jeans and fresh blooms

hot pink distressed sweater, love necklace, heart sunnies

Valentine’s day is tomorrow do you have big plans?  

My Hubby and I normally spend Valentine’s day with our kids. My family wake’s up to their St. Valentine treats and then we have an Italian dinner at home. Something about Italian food that always seems romantic. Don’t you think? 

Our anniversary is this month so we have “our Time” on the 25th. It will be 23 years for us this year! Man where does the time go?  I’ll be talking more about this next week. 

Because we really don’t go out for Valentine’s day, I like to look festive but not dressed up. I thought I would share a couple of cute casual and festive outfits you can easily wear for Valentine’s day. Perfect for helping at school parties or a surprise lunch with your hubby. (which by the way is what my hubby just came in and told me, he plans on taking me to a Valentine’s day,  lunch at our favorite restaurant Twig’s!) YAY….He normally doesn’t take a week day off so this was a nice surprise.  I love the idea of a Valentine’s Day lunch, restaurant won’t be as crowded as night and we can still have dinner with our family.  What’s your plans?

Ok, so lets get to the outfit details…. You all know by now that I love pink, pretty much any shade of it! So finding a couple of sweaters on sale in shades of pink really made me happy! Right now is a great time to grab a a sweater or two for a great deal…I found the cashmere LOVE sweater in pale pink at Victoria Secrets and the Hot pink distressed sweater at American Eagle. I knew both of these would be darling for the month of love.

Some of the items have sold out or are only available in store’s, so I am linking similar items for you to get a similar look!   Also you can find ALL the up to date outfits I wear by following me at Dress like me

1.Cashmere sweater- Victoria Secrets I bought the Love and the Tease (my hubby has called me that for 23 years!)

2.Hot pink distressed sweater –American Eagle 

3. Side Slit Denim-Kut from the Kloth Connie Jeans as shown here as well!

4. Distressed boy jean by Sts Sold out, Similar here

5. Ked tennis shoes by Kate spade Sold out, Similar Here

6. Blush lace up shoes Sold out Similar heel here and a flat here

7. Ring sold out Similar 

8. Hot pink Tassel earrings Tjmax similar Here

9. Heart sunglasses American eagle 

10. love necklace was by Color by amber  sold out similar here

11. Lip stick Snob by Mac

Flower Bouquet was done by Emie Jamies

photographer was Wren Parker

I hope you have a wonderful Valentine’s Day full of love. OX, D’Arcy

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Staying “Well” through Flu season!

February 9, 2018

flu season remedy

flu season remedy

flu season remedy

flu season remedy

flu season remedy

flu season remedy

flu season remedy

flu season remedy

Hello Beautiful’s!  

February… normally a cold and dark Winter month. This year Utah really hasn’t had a Winter! I heard the other day its been 70 years since Utah has had a winter with this little snow! But no snow doesn’t mean that the flu season would stay away too! Even though we all wish it would stay away! Yuck, Nobody wants to be sick and I haven’t been sick in over 8 years. I have found a way to keep that flu away….even in the full swing of flu season! I learned about Oscillococcinum by Boiron from a friend 8 years ago and it’s changed how my family and I get through flu season!  Oscillococcinum is a Homeopathic medicine that is safe for ages 2 -up. It reduces the duration and severity of flu symptoms and if you take it just as you are feeling worn down or have the start of a flu symptom you can avoid the flu all together, special if you take a Zinc and up your Vitamin C.

Oscilloccinum is a product you can get anywhere really. The market, Target, CVS, even Costcos has it. It is Quick dissolving pellets that taste like sugar. I swear by this product and tell everyone I know about this crazy named medicine! Note: It’s an expensive product but totally worth every penny! It say’s on box take every hour, I do not take every hour! I take 1 or 2 a day depending on how I am feeling. 

At the market or Drug store it’s $34-37 for a box of 30 I linked you to a deal for $24.23

Vitamin C is great for immune health and an essential nutrient that not only supports immune system but helps Cardiovascular and bone health.  I use the Spring Valley brand, 1000mg with rose hips. Because I can buy a huge jar of it a Costco. So really you can use what ever brand you like 

Costcos is $12-14  I linked you to a best selling brand on amazon $19.99

Zinc cold remedy is also a homeopathic product you take at the first sign of a cold. It melts in your mouth and you cannot drink anything for 15 min. I swear this product takes away a sore throat! You can purchase Zinc anywhere medicine is sold and I always buy the generic brand because its 1/2 the price!

You can find these at every price point so I linked you to a Best seller on Amazon.

I hope you can stay healthy this season and for many more. OX, D’Arcy

Please note: I am not a Doctor, this is just a tip I wanted to share with you on how my family and I stay healthy.

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Men’s gift guide for Valentine’s Day

February 6, 2018

1.Happy Socks 7 Pack Day Of The Week Gift Box 

HOUSEOFFRASER.CO.UK Happy Socks 7 Pack Day Of The Week Gift Box Dress socks.  who doesn’t want fun printed socks? Happy feet with Happy socks! Grabbing  this fun collection of socks for your man will make his week!

2. Ray-Ban Aviator ‘RB3025’ Unisex Gold Frame Light Brown Gradient Lens $134 OVERSTOCK.COM Treat a friend or partner with a stylish and useful gift with these unisex aviator sunglasses, sporting a timeless, old-fashioned look which doesn’t fail to win compliments. These glasses feature brown gradient lenses with 100 percent UV protection to provide strong protection.

3.  EAZO – Leather Laptop Bag   WOLFANDBADGER.COM

Crafted from the vintage-look leather, this highly functional laptop bag is designed to tote your laptop and some accessories. It is large enough for storing a laptop (up to 14”). And it has other interior pockets for storing things like your charger, a few books, and mobile phone. This

4. Mens Personalized Leather Bracelet, Custom Initial Tag, Gift for Man

$72 ETSY.COM 
Rugged and masculine, these beautiful, leather braided bracelets make the perfect gift for your guy on any occasion! The texture combined with our rustic, handmade, sterling silver pendant is fabulous! The dog tag pendant edges are rustic and textured, hand carved and can be personalized. Make a perfect gift for the man in your life.

5. Jack Black Power Trip Travel Set

$52 BELK.COM 
Jack Black Power Trip Travel Set. A well-rounded skin care travel set that includes our best-selling products to keep your looking and feeling his best for any itinerary. Everything you need for the face, beard, body, and lips. My men love this travel set and makes a great Valentine’s day gift for the men in your life.
 
6.Calvin Klein Euphoria, Eternity and Obsession Mens Fragrance Set

$40  SAKSOFF5TH.COM 
This set is the perfect gift to help your man smell amazing this Valentine’s day. Set includes: Euphoria men, 0.5 oz.; Eternity for men, 0.5 oz.; Eternity for men (aqua), 0.5 oz.; Obsession, 0.5 oz. Made by Calvin Klein.

7.Orange Teal & Black Oversize Fuzzy Blanket Scarf

$13 LUXURYDIVAS.COM
Words can simply not describe how amazingly soft and luxurious this blanket scarf really is. Made from fuzzy material, this scarf promises to become one of your winter favorites you will continually reach for again and again.. Plush and luxurious, stay warm without compromising on style with this fashionable blanket scarf.. The simple neutral color pattern makes this scarf easy to pair with all your outerwear. This scarf is ideal for both men and women, and presents itself as a wonder gift when received. Living in Utah my Hubby and boys do like a nice scarf, specially one that is soft & cozy.

8.Nature Lover Gift Oak Moss, Candle Oak moss Candle, Earthy Candle

$13 ETSY.COM 

Oak moss: Oak moss is a complex aromatic scent, for men and women alike. This scent has mild jasmine and rose, oak and patchouli, and a slight hint of musk. All a to z candles are made with high quality 100 non-genetically modified soy wax, cotton wicks, and premium fragrance oils. Their products are always cruelty-free and vegan. Wax will always be naturally colored, they don’t use added chemicals. Candle specs: size: 4oz 2 5/8′ h x 2 1/4′ d burn time: 30 hours single wick size: 9oz 3 1/2′ h x 2 3/4′ d burn time: 70 hours single wick size: 16oz 4 1/4′ h x 3 3/4′ d burn time: 100 hours double wick this fragrance is also available in: tin candles tea lights wax melts car fresheners reed diffusers room body sprays head over to their main shop page at atozcandles.etsy.com
Nothing is more romantic then a candle for Valentine’s day and  this masculine candle makes for a great gift.
 

9.Sawdust Is Man Glitter 11oz White Mug

$15 ETSY.COM 
These designs are high quality printed in the USA and won’t wear off like other printing methods can. Their mugs are microwave and dishwasher safe fda approved 11 and 15 ounces design printed on front and back made from the highest grade ceramic printed and sublimated in the united states. All of their mugs are made to order so give yourself enough time when ordering.

10.Personalized monogram gift sports water bottle

$22 ZAZZLE.COM
Personalized monogram gift sports water bottle. Black and white Stainless steel metallic color. Sporty gift idea for coach, players, team mates and sports fans. Modern typography design with custom name, funny quote, slogan or monogram. Create your own unique monogrammed drink bottle. Suitable for men women and kids / children. Cute Birthday party presents for dad, son, grandson, father, friend, mom, boy, girl, business partner, co worker etc. Available in different colors and size. 18oz or 24 oz drink ware for athletic team, basketball, soccer, tennis, volleyball, golf, baseball, softball, swimming, dancing etc. Who doesn’t need a great water bottle?

11.  24 pc. Signature Chocolate Truffles Gift Box | GODIVA

$52 GODIVA.COM 
Godiva Chef Chocolatiers used their creative expertise and the latest techniques along with the finest ingredients to create an intense flavor experience. Featuring the finest dark chocolate and milk chocolate , these chocolate truffles are bound to impress anyone. Pay special attention to the intricacies of each unique truffle in this gift box. For example, the Aztec Spice cocoa truffle features flavorful spices and is topped with red cocoa. This and other pieces make this one of the most delicious chocolate truffles gift boxes to give someone (or enjoy on your own).   My hubby and boys just love chocolate and this big box of truffles wouldn’t last long in our home!

12. Ghirardelli Double Chocolate Hot Cocoa MiX

  • Ghirardelli’s Sweet Ground Chocolate & Cocoa Mix offers a wonderfully rich and complex chocolate flavor
  • Serve as a hot or cold beverage, or use in your favorite recipes for a sweet, rich taste that’s unforgettable
  • The gold standard for making exceptional mochas and amazing baked goods. Made with real Ghirardelli chocolate, cocoa powder, sugar, and vanilla.
  • Hot coco is a perfect winter drink to cozy up with this Valentine’s day and makes a great gift to add to the above mug. You can never have to many cute mugs & hot coco.

I have a house of boys so finding fun Valentines gift’s that they will enjoy and be able to use throughout the year is a task. (except food items….those last about a day!) I created this list from items I have given them or plan on giving them. I know they’ll love whats on this list, I hope you do too!

I’ll be sharing more things to make your Valentine’s day special in the upcoming day’s make sure to check back. Is there anything you would like to see ? OX, D’Arcy

 

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5 Things to do for the perfect & easy girl’s weekend!

February 2, 2018

5 Things to do for the perfect & easy girl’s weekend!

fun things to do in Utah

Main street, Park City, Ut.

fun things to do in Utah

Sisters… Girlfriend’s weekend day in Park City for Sundance!

fun things to do in Utah

Girl’s weekend=Sundance, Park City, Ut. for a day of shopping, photoshoots, and yummy food!

Yummy food

Soft Pretzel, Beer cheese, and Blue moon beer

black and white stripe straw

I adore black and white stripes… A restaurant that serves a Black and white stripe straw is a winner in my book! Sometimes it really is just the small things!

Yummy meal in Park City

Chicken burger and fries at The Spur in Park city

facial skin care

Epic Hydrating mask

Last weekend we had an impromptu girl’s weekend at home! Not planned in any way, and I sometimes feel that’s the best kind! My sister Tiana was in town on business for Sundance, and we realized her Friday night and Saturday were free. So I called two of my other girlfriends and said, “come over for a simple dinner & drinks” they said they’d love to! (they happen to be kid-free!) YAY! No planning went into it at all. I used what I had at home, Quiche, soup, and some rolls. Super easy and no extra fuss. We even said, “wear something cozy and bring an overnight bag just in case!”  This led to a fun night of good talks, laughter, and even a few good tears staying up until 1 am, leading to a sleepover.

We woke up on Saturday to Sharon making scone’s a mix that she brought from her home served with yummy jam. Delicious! We stayed in our Pj’s being lazy ALL day on the couch… watching the Hallmark channel. I tried out some home beauty treatments (full treatment steps here), then we made a quick & easy dinner and planned our Sunday in Park City. Still in our Pj’s… 

Our Sunday plans really weren’t all that big…A little shopping, (Park city’s Tjmax has great finds) My sister said we should all buy these, (Which of course we’re going to take her beauty advice and all bought a set!) cafe’ sitting with people watching, a photoshoot, shopping the main street and finding a place we haven’t tried YET to eat!  (WINK) we love to head over to Park City a lot for a change of scenery. My Sister had appointments in the morning, so she had to meet us just a touch later. With no set schedule, we just rolled with how the day took shape. When you have a small group of 2-4, it’s easy to roll with the punches and not set a schedule.

The girlfriend bond is so important and really special when you can share your heart with no judgment. I am lucky to have a great group of girls that truly are a blessing in my life, and I love it when we can have lunch, a movie night, or even a quick drink on the deck. Having a whole weekend is rare, and I think really important for our girl bonding and that little break from family life. I think it helps us to be better moms and wives.

Here are my 5 Things to do for the easy perfect girl’s weekend!

  1. Don’t plan too much… It Makes for no stress and an easy weekend.
  2. Use food from your pantry, maybe have a girlfriend bring something she has on hand.
  3. Plan to stay in your pj’s and be lazy for 1 whole day.
  4. Drag out your masks, facial creams, and manicure stuff.
  5. Have an outing, a hike, a day trip, or a meal out.

Doing these 5 things will ensure you have a relaxing, well-rounded weekend with the girls.

A much-needed weekend with just the girls was just what I needed to relax, refocus and share stories to catch up—the perfect amount of laziness and girl time. 
If you haven’t had a day or weekend with just the girls, you really need to treat yourself. 

Need any other Girl’s weekend tips or ideas? Leave a comment below; I’d love to help!

*I wish I would have taken more photo’s over the weekend. (you would have liked our pj’s and face masks) I didn’t think I would write about it, and then I realized it’s a great topic. Who doesn’t want affordable idea’s to do something fun with the girlfriends?

 

You might also enjoy:

Weekend in Park City

3 Ways to Entertain with Ease

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Found… My New Favorite Jeans!

January 22, 2018

Side slit jeans

Vince Camuto booties and Kut from the Kloth Jeans

winter outfit ideas

Embroidered Jacket, Velvet top, Connie ankle jeans, Chanel Sunglasses similar and Studded booties

Fall/ winter outfit

Winter outfit, cozy cream sweater with side zip, leopard fur vest, cream Gianni Bini booties

jeans everyone should own

Connie Side Slit ankle skinny jeans by Kut from the Kloth

pop of Turquoise with wine

Grommet sleeve detail sweatshirt, Connie Skinny jeans by Kut from the Kloth, boots by Freebird, leopard clutch and turquoise jewelry

perfect fitting jeans

Grommet Detail sleeve sweatshirt, Connie Skinny jeans by Kut from the Kloth,  leopard clutch and Turquoise jewelry, lace up boots Freebird

leopard vest

Side zipper detail sweater paired with Connie dark skinny jeans and cream bootie

Winter outfit

Faux fur sweater, Cream sweater, Denim connie ankle jeans, cream suede booties Gianni Bini,Heart sun glasses, Giving key necklace

Found…My New Favorite Jeans!

Finding your new favorite jeans at an affordable price just got easier….

You know I love the brand Kut from the Kloth! I have made references prior.  Here is a detailed prior post… I love that Kut from the Kloth is a brand that Chic Style Clothing boutique carries and they make sure to carry ALL the new releases for each season along with the Boutique exclusives. Last season Kut made the Connie frayed Ankle skinny in a dark wash with modell in it! It feels like butter and fits like a glove. I fell in love and grabbed 2 pairs of the frayed bottom cuties….WELL….For Spring they designed this FAB jean with a cute side slit and unstructured hem, perfect paired with booties. This jean fits amazing and truly fits every body type from 0-14 petite or tall and looks great with anything you pair with it.  I love the way it fits, feels and that you can go from casual to dressy with its dark wash. Do yourself a favor and grab a pair or two! 

I really tried to show you several types of outfits you could wear with these fabulous jeans, hoping to show you how versatile they really are. Come Spring they’ll  look great with tees and tanks paired with your favorite wedges and kicks.

All of the Clothing Above is from Chic Style Clothing boutique in South Ogden.  You can shop local to grab your unique pieces or call the shop at 801-749-0664 and order over the phone as their website is always changing and has some of their best sellers.

Hoping you have a wonderful week! Have any question? Please leave a comment below and I’ll be happy to try to help! OX, D’Arcy

 

This is my personal opinion. In collaboration with Chic Style Clothing boutique.

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2018 Active Wear Trends That’ll Take you from the Studio to the Street

January 18, 2018

active wear

Senita Agility long sleeve

active wear

Senita fierce workout pants

sportswear

Senita easy cardigan active wear

active wear

Senita High waisted Capris

active wear

Senita High waisted capris…. I love the pocket detail & large enough to hold your phone! Brilliant!

workout /activewear

Senita keyhole tee…Great movement for the studio, yet stylish for streetwear!

sportswear /activewear

Senita Space between top….perfect for your favorite class & cute enough to dress up with a lace bralette and leather jeans

Love your Melon
Beanie smoked speckled pom pom beanie

knit beanie

Love your Melon
                                                                       natural beanie

headband

Love your Melon
knit headband

Knit Headband

Love your Melon
knit headband

rose gold and black

Misfit Shine 2 Fitness & Sleep Monitor 

 Hello Beautiful’s, 

Activewear is still strong and making big trends in 2018.  I am loving this brand Sentia 

 With life being busy and many liking the minimalist trend it’s nice to get multiple uses out of items in our closet. That doesn’t stop in active wear, ONE of the big trends in active wear is having piece’s that will take you from the studio to the street with ease.

It’s all in the detail’s….Cute cutouts, great fabrics that fit well yet have special details.  Sentia is a company owned by sister’s and ran by all woman, they understand what woman want and the attention to detail in their sportswear line shows. 

Leggings with mesh details add style yet breathable and add that Fashionable detail you can wear with a cute sweater perfect for the street. You can wear sneakers or your Ugg boots.  Cute cut out tee’s and mixed fabrics make a work out shirt perfect to pair with jeans. I’ve been living in my easy cardigan, just enough to keep me warm after a workout and cute enough to layered over my favorite rocker tee’s for running errands or heading to the movies.

Love your Melon

Knit beanies have been all the rage for a couple of years NOW. Who doesn’t love a super soft beanie or headband to keep your head warm or wear on a bad hair day! What I love even more then super soft beanie is a product that gives back. Love Your Melon worked to develop a beanie that is soft enough for children battling cancer. Fifty percent (50%) of profit from the sale of all Love Your Melon products is given to Love Your Melon’s nonprofit partners in the fight against pediatric cancer. Their nonprofit partners work in the field of pediatric oncology, fund cancer research initiatives and provide immediate support for families of children battling cancer. All of their products are made in the United States of America. 

Now taking that beanie from working out to the street comes with ease, their too cute to wear just to work out it! I have been wearing mine all Winter from outside work outs to Casual date nights. So soft you’ll want several colors.

Misfit Shine 2

Automatically tracks steps, distance, calories, and light and restful sleep

Vibration alerts for call and text notifications, movement reminders, and alarms

Smart button enabled to control connected household devices

Swim proof, anodized aluminum disc with multicolor LED progress display and time

Non-charging, replaceable battery last up to 6 months

Reflective band option features a sleek, reflective accent that reflects light in even the dimmest conditions – so you can stay safe and in style at all times.

I have been using this awesome fitness tracker for a couple of months now. I love it! I love keeping track of my daily steps, it helps keep me motivated if I haven’t moved enough that day to get up and walk. It’s easy to wear, looks fashionable and I find it interesting to see how I really sleep, with the sleep tracker and best of all I don’t have to charge it. What no charging?  Has a battery like a regular watch… Brilliant! 

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Did you catch our Segment on Fox13 The Place?

Here’s the Link incase you missed it.  Studio to Street

Have a great day! OX, D’Arcy

sportswear, studio to street

Fox13 The Place sportswear segment featuring, Senita, Misfit and love your melon

My model’s Katie Brown  & Britney Beus

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Top 10 Favorite Beauty & lifestyle products from 2017

January 17, 2018

weight loss tea

14 day Teatox, a Daytime Detox, and a bedtime cleanse for weight loss.

Skinny Pop sea salt popcorn in its own movie microwave box

Skincare

Md complete Anti aging, Retinol Vitamin C and 3 Day Booster pack

body care

Creek Baby, Coconut body cream

Cyantific skin care line, 3 piece skin care system

Boh Tea, A Gold blend of rich golden Cameron Highlands smooth flavor tea.

Good Virtues co. Hair products, Happy & Heavenly Clarifying shampoo, Helpful & Delightful Clarifying conditioner

Arawak Face powder, Handcrafted & Organic translucent powder

Fancy Feet foot petals

toothpaste

All natural Whitening Toothpaste perfect for everyday use

Hello Beautiful’s!

My Top 10 Favorite Beauty & lifestyle products from 2017.

I thought you would love a round up of some of my favorite products I was lucky to try, review or sample from 2017. I have been lucky to work with a lot of companies and brands that I have loved and some not so much over the last year. Please know I always give my honest review and truly share my thoughts and results. I really enjoyed a ton of products in 2017 and here’s my top 10 Favorite products that I am still using in 2018. 

All of these products really helped my skin, my feet and a little help controlling my weight. With one little self indulgent… Tea, as a tea lover I found a brand that has me trying different teas and I am so enjoying it.

  1.  BooTea = A 14 day Tea cleanse= This cleanse is great for a Holiday detox or a jump start for a new diet. I did this last year after Christmas and it helped get me back on my regular eating habits after the indulgences from the Holiday’s. I will be starting it again this year in the Next week. It’s simple, drink a cup every morning and 1 night tea every other night for 14 day’s. You’ll be less bloated and your cravings from the Holiday’s will be lessened. I know mine sure did….I even lost about 5 lbs. Here’s to a jump start!
  2. SkinnyPop
    “Skinny Pop believes in snacking without compromise. That means using the fewest, cleanest and simplest ingredients possible to bring you the best tasting popcorn. Whole grain popcorn, natural sunflower oil and the perfect amount of salt combine together to give you a delicious snack that you can feel great about eating everyday @ 39 calories per cup”  – That’s the Skinny!  I like the Sea Salt pop corn and it really is a great snack that helps keep me full.  If it’s a little to simple for you, you can sprinkle it with season salt. Seasonings a great alternative to using butter or oil. 
  3. Md Complete 
    • Simple 3-day regimen designed to replicate the benefits of professional peels
    • Helps to even skin tone, reduce the appearance of fine lines & wrinkles, smooth rough texture, and brighten complexion. 
    • If you’ve been following me for a while, then you’ll know I love face masks. I do one every Sunday! It’s important to take care of your skin at every age. As we age our skin needs different products and has different concerns it’s important to find products that work for your skin and it’s ok to try out different products or try a new mask weekly.
    • Retinol Vitamin C Concentrate
      • Unlike other serums this product is pure concentrate — it’s not diluted with water (which is often the first ingredient in other products).
      • Provides dermatologist levels of Retinol, as much as 5-10 times higher than other products.
      • Ideally suited for derma rolling, with naturally derived essential acids, Vitamin E, and Vitamin C.      
      • I have been reading when we age our Skin really needs Vitamin C and to help with winkles Retinol in your skin regimen is very important so a combination of both in 1 bottle made great sense. I have noticed a difference in my skin since I’ve been using, the glow and the texture is improving specially on my neck.  

4. Coconut Body cream .  Creek Baby Coconut Body Crème is 100% Pure Organic Coconut Oil has no smell, which is great for moisturizing and then you can use your favorite fragrance.  Tip: I use the coconut oil in the shower after I dry off and that helps keep me  moisturized in the dry Winter. I do use it year round for soft skin.

5. Cyantific  Skin care line- Each product not only helps to protect the skin from damage, but also hydrates to dramatically minimize the look of fine lines and wrinkles, and leaves skin looking clearer, more radiant, helping to preserve beauty at every age. I used this line All summer and I loved what it did for my skin. I knew my mom would love it too. I gave this to my mom for her birthday in October and she loves it. 

Something I have learned in my years is that its great to find skin care lines that you love and get great results with. Remember to change seasonally, I personally change brands and products with the season. It’s good not to use the same products for years. Step out of your comfort zone and try something new.

6. BOH Tea– It’s no secret I prefer tea over coffee. Having the chance to try a couple variety’s of BOH tea’s made me switch from good old Lipton and Tazo tea to the rich bold flavor of Boh’s cameron gold blend. 

7. Good Virtues– Clarifying Shampoo and Conditioner….I am a big Dry shampoo user and I was told it’s important to find a good Clarifying shampoo. It helps your scalp and hair from using hair products and dry shampoo. I have loved the smell and how it cleans my hair. This product is good to use 1-2 times a week.

8. Arawak Face powder– I have always used translucent powder and this organic powder works perfectly over your favorite foundation or without.  Has a great natural powder blends with almost any skin tone and is a powerful acne treatment. Better than mineral makeup! 

9. Fancy Feet– Give your favorite pair of shoes a comfortable makeover from the inside out. These cushions ease pressure on the ball of your foot and prevent your feet from sliding all over the place. Give your feet a “fancy” they’ll love you!

10. Whitening toothpaste– Whitening Fluoride Toothpaste lightens teeth without peroxide while preventing cavities and plaque formation. This gentle, vanilla mint formula freshens breath and provides a clean, just-brushed feeling that lasts all day. I have tried all kinds of whitening stripes, tablets, toothpastes and trays. All make your teeth super sensitive and cost a fortune. I’ve been using for 6 months now and keeps my teeth white with no sensitivity.  My whole family uses this toothpaste and has lightened my husbands teeth 1 full shade. It’s safe to use pregnant, everyday and for kids.  BUY IT NOW Here $20.00

I hope you enjoyed my recap of my favorite 10 products of 2017! Ox, D’Arcy

This is All my personal thoughts, feelings and personal opinion. 

 

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Day to Night Affordable Metallic outfit Idea

January 4, 2018

Seeing Stars and loving all this seasons’s metallic’s. Kut from the Kloth Jeans & Star sweater on SALE for $24, Tassel earrings Nordstrom ombre sold out so I linked the Solid colors.

I love that you can use this outfit day or night and that it really can be causal simply because it’s a Sweater & Jeans. Change out the Shoes and accessories to simple studded earrings and converse or bootie and you have a casual look. Looks that can change from day to night with just swapping out a couple of pieces makes going from work to dinner with ease.

  If you have been following me for awhile you know I am a big fan of Kut from the Kloth jeans. I love how they fit so when they come out with a new wash (this Metallic) or body style I am always up to grab a pair! The fabric is stretchy and the metallic gives them some glam.

Way’s you can try the metallic trend without breaking the bank…..

The metallic’s this season add a playfulness that any age can wear without being over the top. Really who doesn’t want a little sparkle! Not sure how you feel about metallic’s? Try it in a small dose! Like the sweater I am wearing. It’s on sale which makes it a reasonable way to try a trend. Want to make a bolder step? Try the jeans.. Kut from the Kloth is having a But one get one 50% off sale right NOW! If you haven’t tried Kut nows the time! 

Talking about sparkle look at these shoes! More details about them at the bottom of this post. You know I am a shoe girl and I love different shoes. I really feel the shoes can make or break the outfit. Buying different & unique shoes can take a regular pair of jeans and a plain tee or sweater into a statement outfit. If you notice I rarely have on a basic pair of shoes….Shoes can finish the outfit or Make your outfit pop! Next time you go shoe shopping… Pick the color over black or grab a print! Make a statement! Get the shoes girl!!!

More about HOW Shoes can Make an outfit!coming Next week

high heels

Crystal and Ice Open toed Badgley Mischka shoes (sold out) Similar shoe here

More details on my look….

Nail polish Opi Gel, bracelet Zenzii, Lip Stick-Lip crayon Marc Jacobs color Send nudes

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I hope my tips are helping you to look and feel fabulous! Have any questions simply leave a comment.

OX, D’Arcy

 

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D’Arcy

D'Arcy
Welcome to my blog, Where I share Fashion and lifestyle over 40. A Former Clothing Boutique owner, Interior designer by Trade! Boy mom, Sharing Tips, DIY’s, Recipes, Home inspiration, Ways to style what you own and create ways to look & feel stylish at any age! I love a good deal and I adore luxury! I share how I mix both. While sneaking in Chats about midlife issues. Midlife Now, isn’t what it was for our moms!
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The pants I wanted to HATE… Meet the slightly bar The pants I wanted to HATE…

Meet the slightly barrel leg linen trouser,
Flattering, comfortable, so cute and on SALE…

I have said it before …that I didn’t like barrel jeans on my shape, as I’ve tried several and they just weren’t flattering on my ruler shape body….

Until I found these… they’re just the right amount of extra fabric, with out adding bulk and aren’t to high of a waste, that there so flattering…
Now, I am 5’91/2 so they’re a touch to short, but look darling with and adds balance with an tall ankle strap square block heel  sandal 🖤

The cutest denim top with puff sleeves, that hits right at the hip bone for a flattering balance. 

Statement earrings that match my shoes to perfection are from Chicos (older) I found some very similar you’ll love🖤🖤🖤

Pants are on sale (ends tonight)

Top is also on sale ✔️

Do you like a barrel jean/pant?

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Prime Deals…. I am telling my besties about…. Yo Prime Deals…. 

I am telling my besties about….
You’ll thank me later😉

From Fashion, home, beauty these are items I own and would purchase again and again✔️🛒🛍️

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Target Deal Days are going on and up to 40% off until 6/26

Hundreds of items on sale daily.. from clothing, to home, electronics, kitchen, beauty etc.

Come shop items I am loving and what’s in my cart.
(Some items not on sale)

Have you been to Target Lately? 

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Summer sales/ summer fashion/ American summer/ target sale / target shopping/ midlife style/ Utah influencer
4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation 4 affordable short outfits for your next vacation that will make packing a breeze✔️

From Brunch to poolside, sightseeing to Dinner I’ve got you covered… along with easy packing ✈️🚗🚕🧳

As a 54 year old who loves a good matching set for travel, as it truly does make packing a breeze… You’ll love the quality,fit and style of these 4 sets…

Which one is your favorite 1-2-3-4?

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Happy Father’s Day Ben! Slide through these fun p Happy Father’s Day Ben!

Slide through these fun photos to learn more about the man I’ve built a life with….

Happy Father’s Day to all the men out there, that are hard works, protectors, love their family & god, are amazing role models, coaches and  supportive.

We’re lucky to have you in our lives!

💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙

Are you throwing a BBQ today or headed out to eat?

#dadslove❤️ #boydad #marriedlife💍
Hello D’Arcy here and I am 54… and I love a good s Hello D’Arcy here and I am 54… and I love a good short set for Summer…

These cute separates - pinstripe 5 inch inseam shorts and blazer are perfect to wear as a set or separately.. 

So many ways to style dressed up or down… today I am styling more casual for a girls lunch! 

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I am 54 Here’s 8 Affordable,Natural And Clean- Ord I am 54
Here’s 8 Affordable,Natural And Clean- Ordinary Products I use To look and feel great✔️

I replaced a lot of my Beauty Regimen with these Unexpected affordable products,
You might already have in your pantry or medicine cabinet. 

My skin and skins texture has never looked better✔️✔️✔️

Comment “Shop” for links and more tips on ways to use etc.⬇️⬇️⬇️

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Do you use any of these CLEAN beauty options?

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#over50women # cleanbeauty #nontoxicskincare
What a fun date night Ben and I had on Friday…. W What a fun date night Ben and I had on Friday….

We had paddle and pickle ball lessons at the New @utahcityracquetclub 

We were treated to the VIP pre-grand opening by @redhead_marketing_pr with lessons, great Dj music,snacks, yummy mocktails, fun photos and a great swag bag including a Pickle ball racket🏓🎾👟 

We enjoyed it so much, I think we were some of the last ones to leave✔️

Then we took the scenic drive home through Provo Canyon 🚘🏔️ 

If you’ve been want to learn Paddle or Pickle ball and or tennis 🎾 You’d love this experience..

If you’ve just want a fun datenight activity book a session today… Ben and I loved the Paddle ball, which is very popular in Europe. It’s like tennis and racket ball played outside ✔️

Do you play any of these fun Racket sports? 🎾🏓👟

Like my outfit I have a discount code in my link ⬇️

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#utahblogger #utahcityracquetclub #datenightideas #midlifejourney
You’ve ask for Dress & Shirts with sleeves for sum You’ve ask for Dress & Shirts with sleeves for summer.. ..

—Style over 50–

Here’s a dress I know you’ll love💙
From its darling perfect length sleeve and sweet elbow ruffle detail, to having pockets  and hitting at the knee. (I am tall 5’91/2) so longer depending on height .

The embroidered linen dress with embellishments in center of flowers is perfect for so many of Summers social seasons events✔️

Pair with 
White or nude sandals, wedges, heels or lace-up ankle espadrilles for cute summer looks

I love a statement earring with a dress that doesn’t need a necklace… wearing these cute shades of blue flower earrings. 

Do you love a dress with a pretty sleeve?

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Summer dresses/ dresses with sleeves/ over50 style/ utah influencer / summer style

#summerdresses👗 #over50style #utahinfluencer #summersocial
Celebrating America’s 250 years🇺🇸 Americas Nation Celebrating America’s 250 years🇺🇸

Americas National Potluck initiative 

Bringing people together through food

Individuals & Families are invited to gather and share a meal on 
Sunday July 5th 2026🍽️🇺🇸❤️

Or encouraged to plan community or neighborhood potlucks to celebrate America’s 🇺🇸 250 year Anniversary 

By bringing people together around the table we can celebrate our freedoms we share along with our strengths, and the Sense of belonging that holds us together.

What will you bring to the potluck?

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Thank you to @lees_marketplace  for providing a beautiful sample of dishes ideas and recipes you could bring🍽️🇺🇸 along with providing a n amazing event .
Along with a full reusable grocery bag of food, snacks and gift card🇺🇸❤️💙

Thank you to @americaspotluck @america250utah for the intuitive and to @missamericaut  @slchildrenschoir for amazing and beautiful voices for entertainment, to @cocacola for providing swag and exclusive America250 items and to our host @jbcookinghost 

🇺🇸Fun fact @cocacola  products are made locally in Utah and they created mini cans specially for America250 with unique designs for each US STATE
I’d love to see what each states looks like.. I’ll share Utahs design in my stories today. 🇺🇸❤️💙

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I don’t know about you but I love a full service S I don’t know about you but I love a full service Selfcare day✔️

I am 54 and feel like I could have them weekly🤣🤣 Wouldn’t that be a dream..

 A weekly blow out
- manicure 
-pedicure 
- Mini facial
A yummy drink and some shopping… sign me up!

Ok back to reality, I am happy to head to @nailed.boutique for my monthly Selfcare day and thrilled I can do it all in one stop✔️

You can too✔️ If  you live in Utah or come to visit✔️

You’ll love their  top notch services and friend staff… 

Not to mention NO drills or dust! They also have clean beauty nail polish options✔️

Make your appointment today… 
What’s your favorite selfcare service?

I’ll go first I love a great foot & leg rub❤️

#nailed #nailedboutique #saltlake #utahinfluencer
🌸I am 54 and these Affordable Summer Sets & Sunni 🌸I am 54 and these 
Affordable Summer Sets & Sunnies &
Sandals are a must this Summer..

Perfect for errands, travel and great for watching and running around with grand kids✔️

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The details:
This cute comfy bold strip set comes in several colors, is soft and easy to wear, fits tts 

Like the $900  version….
Sandals are so good and under $60 comes in a couple colors tts & comfortable 

The sunnies come in a two pack under $14

Vegan leather tote under $100
One of my most used bags for over 5 years

The hydrating lipstick balms are so good and going viral- wearing English Rose
Clean beauty

Bracelet stack Allie Bess- save 20% with code DARCY20

#summersets #midlifestyle #affordablefashion #utahinfluencer
Don’t like to show your arms? I’ve got the perfec Don’t like to show your arms?

I’ve got the perfect pretty white dress for you….

Summer outfit Inspiration- perfect for Brunch, a baby shower, friends Anniversary party, vacation dinner etc

-White dress
Eyelet tie waist white dress fully lined with pockets and I have A DISCOUNT CODE for YOU!  In link

-Think of all the ways you can style this cutie all season long and achieve different looks.  Dress down with a flat sandal, make it western with cowboy boots, take it on vacation with wedges or espadrilles and a straw bag…

Do you like to show your arms or prefer not to?

How I styled it… For church then brunch:

-Turquoise chunky statement necklace 
-Turquoise beaded hoops

-Hobo leather clutch in turquoise 
(I love the pop of color) 

-Inez nude cross knot detail kitten heal- so very comfortable and a perfect height - A go with everything shoe

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Drop it like it’s HOT…. Balancing Menopause and m Drop it like it’s HOT….

Balancing Menopause and midlife can be tricky✔️

From weight gain, mood swings, sleepless nights, dry skin and lady parts, hair loss, eyesight issues, bone loss to personal summers (hot flashes)….. 

Boy hitting 40-50-60’s sounds fun 😅🤣 Actually, it really isn’t that bad, and life is what you make of it, Plus  getting old is a privilege….

In today’s time, we’re lucky because menopause is a Topic WE TALK about NOW, and we have more information and resources to HELP us, unlike our mothers.

Not everyone has every symptom nor do they experience every symptom. 

This is a topic I’ve shared a lot about over on my blog and in future more on my substack (join for free in my bio) 

Below ⬇️ are a few things I’ve found very helpful from my journey over the last 10 years to now, starting at about 44 years old.

-A Homeopathic Hormone replacement specialist- I went at 44 when I gained 12-15 pounds for no reason, had hair loss and wasn’t feeling like myself and went on Bio- identical hormone replacement for about 4 years and the weight feel off and I started to feel like myself again. I stopped I. 2020 due to not being able to get to doctors.. 

-Start a good clean supplement program (not a Doctor) but here’s what helped me.
Magnesium- zinc- Vitamin D3- vitamin K 
-a good women’s multivitamin - 
B-12 shots- Collagen- Colostrum- bone marrow- probiotic, a cranberry supplement and - creatine - NAD- primrose (I have a few others I take as well) full list is on blog 

- Doubled my water intake - (140-160 oz a day) added Fiber- chia seeds- pinch of salt to it … (I do 1/2 teaspoon baking soda twice a week) 

-Daily walks and I added a weighted vest about 4 years ago 

-A cup of warm lemon water to start the day 

- I shoot  for 100 grams of protein daily (I don’t always get this) I just try to get close

-Scalp treatments - Rosemary oil and rosemary supplements 

- Coolnight pjs and cooling sheets  I don’t get or experience hot flashes, but sleeping cooler help me sleep better❤️

- cleansing oil & after Shower oil help with dry skin

-Red light therapy mask helps facial skin and neck

- Derma-planing face helps skin texture and for products to sink in
Melanoma Skin Cancer Journey Here’s a couple thi Melanoma Skin Cancer Journey 

Here’s a couple things I’ve learned on my Journey that I thought I’d share with you I found interesting and very helpful..
 ( now, I am not a doctor) these are things I’ve researched and though I’d share my findings, but you can do your own research :) 

I share in hopes to bring awareness and the importance of getting your skin checked at least once a year.

‼️ 2 things:

-The importance of taking zinc— zinc supplements helps your body give off a natural defense to the suns rays.

⚠️ Like anything I need to stress how important it is to read your labels and start using clean Supplements.  You want to get what you’re paying for and not “fillers” verses the actual minerals and herbs.

- A clean beauty mineral based 
Sunscreen with a high level of Zinc! READ your labels and the ingredientsll

MOST sunscreens have harmful ingredients and hormone disruptors in them! I have 5 brands I love that me and my family use  over on my Liketoknowit or you can comment “shop” and I’ll send them to you.

To know:

⚠️ I get my skin checked twice a year and since being diagnosed with melanoma, I now go every 3 months.

Since my surgeries, I’ve had 2 laser’s treatments to help with scaring (shown in slide 2 is my 2nd surgery) done 6 weeks ago.
I actually should have my 3rd laser done this week, but I moved it to July 1st. 

To be honest I really am not in the head space to deal with another treatment this week! 🙏🏻 I told you I’d be very honest with you in this journey, and it is a roller coaster of emotions… Laser treatments sometimes trigger that for me.

- Laser treatment can be done every 6 weeks

⚠️I have 6 parts of my journey up in my feed, 3 of them pinned to top the others you’ll have to scroll through feed and I have detailed highlights as well. 

I hope you find these helpful

Have any questions you can dm me or leave a comment ⬇️ below.

Happy Monday pretty Lady, and may you
Have a week full of sunshine and gods blessings.

Midlife health journey/ skin cancer journey/ facial skin cancer/ over 50/ facial scars/ sharing life over 50/ cancer warrior

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POV: The Turkey sandwiches I make All summer long POV:
The Turkey sandwiches I make All summer long my family loves🥪

Not your ordinary Turkey, Avocado, tomato sandwiche🥪🥑🍅

First off the Key to these delicious sandwiches is warm crusty bread straight from the oven yet soft on the inside..

My tip is a French baguette ran under water (a tip my Mother in law taught me 33 years ago) placed in the oven for 5-7 minutes- seriously, makes it like you made it fresh… 

-Boards head spicy pepper Turkey freshly sliced from the deli
- Farm Fresh Tomatoes salt & peppered 
-Micro greens (or sprouts) 
- Peppered jack cheese (or your favorite)
-My Smashed Avocado spread 

Full recipe on my blog

A perfect summer meal to serve alfresco🪴🍽️
 
Serve with your favorite sides 
I served with my :
-Basil corn salad 
- a small charcuterie board
- my easy Blue cheese stuffed grape on a walnut appetizer

 A long  with your choice of sun tea - cucumber mint water or  a sparking water 🥤🍃

All Recipes on my blog ✔️

#recipe/ summer recipes/ family favorites/ entertaining/ summer style/ midlife/ dining alfresco/ turkey sandwich
Summer Forecasts: Slowness & 90% chance of … Bike Summer Forecasts:
Slowness & 90% chance of …

Bike rides- BackYard Gardening- Brunching outdoors 🚲🪴🍽️

3 B’s I can get behind…
I also love beaches, Butter and Beautiful things… 

Follow along for All my favorite things I think you’ll love too❤️❤️❤️

Flowers-entertaining-Recipes-gardening 
-home decor- Tablescapes-Home dates- fashion and beauty….

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What I wore on our 7 day Road trip✔️ —Desserts and What I wore on our 7 day Road trip✔️
—Desserts and Pools—

I just found the best travel wardrobe from Amazon✔️

I used it to create 6 Outfits 

Styled with Amazon Set & Pieces for the Perfect Summer Capsule mix and match add in a few Favorites.
 
Accessories & nobody would ever#guess these looks were so affordable. 

I Love mixing affordable trending pieces with wardrobe staples for a put together and chic look.
 

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🚗Road Trip —Desserts and Pools—🌴🌊🌵🏜️🌺 Last leg of 🚗Road Trip
—Desserts and Pools—🌴🌊🌵🏜️🌺

Last leg of trip…2 days in Las Vegas

- A couple days poolside 
- A couple meals out
-Some shopping (just a little) 
- and yes, we had early nights in…

We’ve been to LV so many times, that we actually don’t enjoy it any more, it’s changed so much over the years, that we actually prefer to have pool time (eat at pool) stay close or at our hotel… Walking the strip is more scary then fun, and the restaurants aren’t what they used to be… people watching isn’t even fun anymore there:(

Lately, We just think of LV as a resting point before we drive the 6-7 long hours home. 

Over the years I’ve shared several amazing LV hotels, restaurants and shopping spots…. Some of those are still good, but several have gotten run down and aren’t the same.  I honestly don’t feel safe in LV and probably won’t have that be a resting point anymore. 

If you’re a gambler or like shows … then LV probably still has appeal, People don’t dress up anymore, the top quality restaurants & hotels aren’t what they used to be, and over priced for what you get. (Trust me we’ve stayed at almost all of the resort’s multiple times) 
I personally think there’s better places to visit. 

😉This is my observation and opinion over the last several times & years we’ve been to Lv. 

How do you feel about Las Vegas?
Have you been recently? 

Sorry, not sorry for my honest review!

#roadtripping #lasvegasnevada #honestreview #pooltimefun #midlife
Road Trip Day 6 —Palm Springs🌴— —Started the day Road Trip Day 6

—Palm Springs🌴—

—Started the day with grabbing a must have coffee or tea from koffie☕️ A must stop

— Pool time for a little bit before later Brunch (we’ll go back to pool after)

— Brunch at FARM🍋‍🟩🍴🍃 It’s a beautiful restaurant off 111 in Downtown Palm Springs with gorgeous outdoor patios, stunning English & French gardens and delicious food☕️🥗🥪🥑 
Great cocktails and a fun dining experience. 

— You can stroll downtown & shop, check out the sidewalk stars 

— we’re off to the pool🌊🌴

—Late afternoon & Early  Evening off to view  a fun garden spot and then a cocktail & light dinner a a fun a casual  Restaurant/Bar @boozehoundsps 

Come back tomorrow as we head to Las Vegas for our final destination before we head home🚗🌵🏜️🪇🌺🌴🌊

Deserts and pools road trip

Do you have a favorite stop in Palm Springs? Drop it below ⬇️ 

 
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